brightside--2020-08-26--If You Can’t Fall in Love, Check to See If You Are a Victim of Counter-Dependency

As it turns out , 20 % of single people have never actually fallen in love .
It may not sound like a lot , but if you know 5 single people , you most likely know at least one such person .
Some people “ really don ’ t need romance , ” just as they claim .
But for others , this reasoning may stem deeper than just not having someone who ’ s good enough around .
Here at Bright Side , we learned about a very common but not so widely known condition that stops people @ @ @ @ @ @ @ relationships .
And that ’ s what we want to tell you about today .
Why some people can ’ t fall in love Psychologists name various reasons for this .
For example , you might have low self-esteem .
In this case , you don ’ t believe that someone could ever love you , and it blocks you from loving someone as well .
Another reason for this could be perfectionism .
You might have an ideal picture in your head of what your partner should look like , and don @ @ @ @ @ @ @ because they don ’ t fit this image .
Your high expectations prevent you from falling in love with those who “ aren ’ t good enough.
” But there ’ s something else you might suffer from without even realizing it .
You might have a fear of intimacy , which is often referred to as “ counter-dependency.
” Counter-dependent people are generally those who escape intimacy and attachment .
Such people are very reserved : they require a lot of personal space and don ’ t like anyone invading it because @ @ @ @ @ @ @ or weakness .
However , on the outside , they usually look “ normal.
” They appear to be confident , successful , and independent , and they try hard to look this way .
They show that they don ’ t need anyone , even though this isn ’ t exactly true .
On the inside , they ’ re very insecure , needy , and unsuccessful in their relationships .
They never learned how to experience intimacy .
Like most psychological problems , it all goes back to their childhood .
@ @ @ @ @ @ @ the past but were ignored or even made fun of .
As a result , children learn that they should only appear strong and independent .
The most common cause of counter-dependent behavior is a loss of emotional attachment to one ’ s parents or abuse toward a child ( physical or emotional ) .
Therefore , children learn to associate closeness with rejection and pain .
Their trauma teaches them that it ’ s not safe to trust anyone .
Growing up , they were afraid to get close to people and @ @ @ @ @ @ @ intimacy , so counter-dependent people avoid it by blocking themselves from falling in love and pushing away people who try to get too close .
But it ’ s possible to change .
Some people feel fine the way they are and don ’ t need relationships , deciding to focus on their career or other aspects of their life .
However , there are other people who seek out close relationships yet can ’ t do anything about their denial .
Here are some things that can help you overcome this problem @ @ @ @ @ @ @ books , psychology articles , ask questions , and reflect on your memories and feelings .
The first step is understanding and accepting the problem , then later , you can work on it .
Join a support group .
You can try to overcome this problem on your own .
Try to actually talk about your feelings and open up to other people .
It ’ ll be easier to do this amongst people who have similar problems .
You might also want to take a class that can help you learn @ @ @ @ @ @ @ boundaries .
Ask for professional help .
If you find it hard to do yourself , you can work with a specialist .
Tell them about your problem and they ’ ll help you find the core of the issue , move through the feelings you ’ re repressing , and open up .

As it turns out, 20% of single people have never actually fallen in love. It may not sound like a lot, but if you know 5 single people, you most likely know at least one such person. Some people “really don’t need romance,” just as they claim. But for others, this reasoning may stem deeper than just not having someone who’s good enough around.
Here at Bright Side, we learned about a very common but not so widely known condition that stops people from falling in love and building intimate relationships. And that’s what we want to tell you about today.
Why some people can’t fall in love
Psychologists name various reasons for this. For example, you might have low self-esteem. In this case, you don’t believe that someone could ever love you, and it blocks you from loving someone as well.
Another reason for this could be perfectionism. You might have an ideal picture in your head of what your partner should look like, and don’t give a person the chance because they don’t fit this image. Your high expectations prevent you from falling in love with those who “aren’t good enough.”
But there’s something else you might suffer from without even realizing it. You might have a fear of intimacy, which is often referred to as “counter-dependency.”
Some signs of counter-dependency include: Having trouble getting close to people
Pushing away people who try to get too close
Getting anxious/escaping intimate relationships
Constantly feeling afraid to make a mistake
Trying hard to be perfect
Refraining from asking for help from others
Always keeping busy and not being able to do anything
Counter-dependent people are generally those who escape intimacy and attachment.
Such people are very reserved: they require a lot of personal space and don’t like anyone invading it because they’re afraid to show vulnerability or weakness. However, on the outside, they usually look “normal.” They appear to be confident, successful, and independent, and they try hard to look this way. They show that they don’t need anyone, even though this isn’t exactly true. On the inside, they’re very insecure, needy, and unsuccessful in their relationships.
They never learned how to experience intimacy.
Like most psychological problems, it all goes back to their childhood. They may have revealed their weaknesses in the past but were ignored or even made fun of. As a result, children learn that they should only appear strong and independent. The most common cause of counter-dependent behavior is a loss of emotional attachment to one’s parents or abuse toward a child (physical or emotional).
Therefore, children learn to associate closeness with rejection and pain. Their trauma teaches them that it’s not safe to trust anyone. Growing up, they were afraid to get close to people and open up. Romantic relationships are about intimacy, so counter-dependent people avoid it by blocking themselves from falling in love and pushing away people who try to get too close.
But it’s possible to change.
Some people feel fine the way they are and don’t need relationships, deciding to focus on their career or other aspects of their life. However, there are other people who seek out close relationships yet can’t do anything about their denial. Here are some things that can help you overcome this problem. Learn more about yourself. Read books, psychology articles, ask questions, and reflect on your memories and feelings. The first step is understanding and accepting the problem, then later, you can work on it. Join a support group. You can try to overcome this problem on your own. Try to actually talk about your feelings and open up to other people. It’ll be easier to do this amongst people who have similar problems. You might also want to take a class that can help you learn to be more secure and test your boundaries. Ask for professional help. If you find it hard to do yourself, you can work with a specialist. Tell them about your problem and they’ll help you find the core of the issue, move through the feelings you’re repressing, and open up.


brightside--2020-08-25--A Psychologist Analyzes 8 Popular Characters, and It Turns Out We Didn’t Know Them at All

One of the reasons we love watching different TV series or films so much is the presence of certain characters , who really appeal to us and whose stories make us care .
But sometimes the scriptwriters bestow them with some really deep meaning and features that are not very obvious at first sight .
Throughout the series Daenerys appears in various guises .
She grew up in a pretty unhealthy family , where she was constantly abused .
The psychologist explains that her childhood traumas and fears made her go through a cycle consisting of 3 roles : a @ @ @ @ @ @ @ Aggressor .
She saved people because no one saved her and she wanted to have power , because for a long time she wasn ’ t able to control her own life .
Thus her experience showed that a person ’ s tough past can make her stronger , but at the same time destroy her life and many other ’ s lives at the same time .
This character , as the psychologist analyzes , is infantile : she is over 30 , but is still waiting for her prince and can @ @ @ @ @ @ @ All her thoughts and actions are about finding love , but she isn ’ t interested in firm , simple , or straightforward relationships — she thinks they lack real love .
However , it seems that she may be unconsciously avoiding a real relationship and marriage .
The proof of this is that she only chooses men who are incapable of and not interested in long-lasting relationships or who don ’ t have feelings for her .
And all of this makes her really unhappy : if she realized that she was @ @ @ @ @ @ @ chase illusions and her life would be better .
Characters like this , who are very self-confident , highly intellectual , always break the rules , and can ’ t get along with people , are very appealing and considered to be sociopaths .
However , as the psychologist suggests , if we take a closer look , we will see that this is an incorrect depiction .
Real sociopaths are not capable of empathy at all , things like love and friendship don ’ t exist for them .
But in the @ @ @ @ @ @ @ that he is full of it , even though he prefers to hide it .
He always notices when his friends , colleagues , and even patients feel bad , and tries , sometimes in his own really rude manner , to help and take care of them .
This powerful woman is ready to get everything she wants , she manipulates everyone and seems to be absolutely ruthless .
It is very important for her to always feel superior over others , and all this , as the psychologist points out , @ @ @ @ @ @ @ Moreover , these people are not able to truly love someone .
And even though her children are the only thing that Сersei is not indifferent to , it raises a question : Is it real love or does she just see her own reflection in them ?
It may sound really surprising , but we have another narcissist here .
You may have never thought of cute little Monica in this way , but actually there are some traits in her that , according to the psychologist , make her narcissistic .
@ @ @ @ @ @ @ in the shadow of her big brother , and it left a certain traumatic mark on her that she wanted to overcome as an adult .
She became a perfectionist , and she loves discipline and control .
Moreover , she has a permanent desire to win and be the first one to do something .
This is actually a healthy manifestation of narcissism that gives a person positive energy and self-confidence .
Samantha is indeed a very independent woman , who knows what she wants and doesn ’ t care much for @ @ @ @ @ @ @ to many “ accepted ” social norms and chooses to not have a family and children .
And she never depends on her partners and she loves herself more than anyone else .
However , it ’ s here that our psychologist questions her ability to be in a close relationship .
She always keeps a distance and doesn ’ t emotionally dive into a relationship , she would rather be the person who doesn ’ t need anyone .
And this makes her a female version of Mr. Big in the movie @ @ @ @ @ @ @ believes , another character with the psychology of a victim .
These people avoid solving their own problems : we see that Susan is in need of permanent care — her men and , even her daughter , handle many things for her , that she should actually be doing herself .
Moreover , it seems that from many other options , she chooses to suffer and she does very little to make her life better .
This is caused by an unstable relationship with her mother .
Susan just never had a @ @ @ @ @ @ @ always expects the worst .
However , she is an example of a victim that tries to escape from her circumstances : we see her attempts to find more reliable men and even get a stable job .
She is a boss-perfectionist , who is never pleased , never accepts other ’ s opinions , and indeed is a high-level professional .
Everyone is afraid of her , but at the same time her employees admire her and never quit their jobs .
This , as the psychologist suggests , looks like your @ @ @ @ @ @ @ the boss is , the better everyone does their job .
However , this character is hiding something else .
She is very successful , respected , and independent , but she doesn ’ t look happy at all .
So in the movie , she ’ s not an ideal role model , but rather a warning character .
She gave too much to her career and now has nothing to live for except that .

One of the reasons we love watching different TV series or films so much is the presence of certain characters, who really appeal to us and whose stories make us care. But sometimes the scriptwriters bestow them with some really deep meaning and features that are not very obvious at first sight.
We at Bright Side thought it would be really interesting to present you with a detailed personality analysis of our beloved characters from a psychologist who specializes in art.
1. Daenerys Targaryen, Game of Thrones
Throughout the series Daenerys appears in various guises. She grew up in a pretty unhealthy family, where she was constantly abused. The psychologist explains that her childhood traumas and fears made her go through a cycle consisting of 3 roles: a Victim, a Savior, and an Aggressor. She saved people because no one saved her and she wanted to have power, because for a long time she wasn’t able to control her own life. Thus her experience showed that a person’s tough past can make her stronger, but at the same time destroy her life and many other’s lives at the same time.
2. Carrie Bradshaw, Sex and the City
This character, as the psychologist analyzes, is infantile: she is over 30, but is still waiting for her prince and can’t handle her own finances. All her thoughts and actions are about finding love, but she isn’t interested in firm, simple, or straightforward relationships — she thinks they lack real love. However, it seems that she may be unconsciously avoiding a real relationship and marriage. The proof of this is that she only chooses men who are incapable of and not interested in long-lasting relationships or who don’t have feelings for her. And all of this makes her really unhappy: if she realized that she was a loner, she wouldn’t chase illusions and her life would be better.
3. Gregory House, House M.D.
Characters like this, who are very self-confident, highly intellectual, always break the rules, and can’t get along with people, are very appealing and considered to be sociopaths. However, as the psychologist suggests, if we take a closer look, we will see that this is an incorrect depiction. Real sociopaths are not capable of empathy at all, things like love and friendship don’t exist for them. But in the case of Gregory House, we see that he is full of it, even though he prefers to hide it. He always notices when his friends, colleagues, and even patients feel bad, and tries, sometimes in his own really rude manner, to help and take care of them.
4. Cersei Lannister, Game of Thrones
This powerful woman is ready to get everything she wants, she manipulates everyone and seems to be absolutely ruthless. It is very important for her to always feel superior over others, and all this, as the psychologist points out, is very typical of a narcissist. Moreover, these people are not able to truly love someone. And even though her children are the only thing that Сersei is not indifferent to, it raises a question: Is it real love or does she just see her own reflection in them?
5. Monica Geller, Friends
It may sound really surprising, but we have another narcissist here. You may have never thought of cute little Monica in this way, but actually there are some traits in her that, according to the psychologist, make her narcissistic. During her childhood, she had been in the shadow of her big brother, and it left a certain traumatic mark on her that she wanted to overcome as an adult. She became a perfectionist, and she loves discipline and control. Moreover, she has a permanent desire to win and be the first one to do something. This is actually a healthy manifestation of narcissism that gives a person positive energy and self-confidence.
6. Samantha Jones, Sex and the City
Samantha is indeed a very independent woman, who knows what she wants and doesn’t care much for others’ opinions. She opposes herself to many “accepted” social norms and chooses to not have a family and children. And she never depends on her partners and she loves herself more than anyone else. However, it’s here that our psychologist questions her ability to be in a close relationship. She always keeps a distance and doesn’t emotionally dive into a relationship, she would rather be the person who doesn’t need anyone. And this makes her a female version of Mr. Big in the movie.
7. Susan Delfino, Desperate Housewives
This is, as our psychologist believes, another character with the psychology of a victim. These people avoid solving their own problems: we see that Susan is in need of permanent care — her men and, even her daughter, handle many things for her, that she should actually be doing herself. Moreover, it seems that from many other options, she chooses to suffer and she does very little to make her life better. This is caused by an unstable relationship with her mother. Susan just never had a chance to gain some confidence and she always expects the worst. However, she is an example of a victim that tries to escape from her circumstances: we see her attempts to find more reliable men and even get a stable job.
8. Miranda Priestley, The Devil Wears Prada
She is a boss-perfectionist, who is never pleased, never accepts other’s opinions, and indeed is a high-level professional. Everyone is afraid of her, but at the same time her employees admire her and never quit their jobs. This, as the psychologist suggests, looks like your typical Stockholm syndrome: the more strict the boss is, the better everyone does their job. However, this character is hiding something else. She is very successful, respected, and independent, but she doesn’t look happy at all. So in the movie, she’s not an ideal role model, but rather a warning character. She gave too much to her career and now has nothing to live for except that.


brightside--2020-08-25--Look How 17 Naughty Cats Show Their Humans Who’s the Boss in the House

Share on Facebook Share on Twitter Share on Pinterest No matter how hard you try to make your cat believe that you ’ re the boss of the house , chances are , you ’ ll fail .
These fluffy creatures look pretty innocent on the outside , but they can be real tyrants when it comes to wanting attention .
Leaving the house a mess , fighting with other pets , and even sitting on your face — a true cat will always find a way to be in the limelight .
Here at Bright Side , we love @ @ @ @ @ @ @ their quirks make us admire them even more .
Here are 17 Reddit users who seem to agree with us , and they never miss the chance to take a pic of the “ kings and queens ” of their homes .
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“ If you don ’ t nap with Sammy , you don ’ t nap at all.
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“ I accidentally woke him up by rearranging my legs.
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“ Countless places to nap outside in the shade and this is where my cat chooses @ @ @ @ @ @ @ “ Because who needs personal space ... or the ability to breathe ?
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“ Want to do this puzzle , human ?
Not today.
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“ Wanted a photo with the kittens — this is what I got.
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“ The shower curtain was like this already !
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“ Yes , this is a good place to sit.
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“ My black and white tabby sits on my calico until she gives up their fave spot on my desk.
” 16 @ @ @ @ @ @ @ teeth is overrated anyway.
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“ Every time I try to leave the house ... ” Do you have a cat ?
Did you recognize your feline in any of these pics ?
Leave photos of your cats ’ quirks in the comments !

No matter how hard you try to make your cat believe that you’re the boss of the house, chances are, you’ll fail. These fluffy creatures look pretty innocent on the outside, but they can be real tyrants when it comes to wanting attention. Leaving the house a mess, fighting with other pets, and even sitting on your face — a true cat will always find a way to be in the limelight.
Here at Bright Side, we love our cats no matter what, and their quirks make us admire them even more. Here are 17 Reddit users who seem to agree with us, and they never miss the chance to take a pic of the “kings and queens” of their homes.
1. “If you don’t nap with Sammy, you don’t nap at all.”
2. “I accidentally woke him up by rearranging my legs.”
3. “When she demands attention”
4. “Countless places to nap outside in the shade and this is where my cat chooses to get comfortable...”
5. “It’s my turn to play, human.”
6. “They were both sleeping 3 minutes ago.”
7. “Because who needs personal space...or the ability to breathe?”
8. “This ‘no-spill bowl’ was a challenge apparently.”
9. “Want to do this puzzle, human? Not today.”
10. “Wanted a photo with the kittens — this is what I got.”
11. “The shower curtain was like this already!”
12. “Yes, this is a good place to sit.”
13. “Come on, pick me up!”
14. “She judges from above.”
15. “My black and white tabby sits on my calico until she gives up their fave spot on my desk.”
16. “Oh well, brushing your teeth is overrated anyway.”
17. “Every time I try to leave the house...”


brightside--2020-08-25--A Girl Transforms Outdated Clothes Into Fashionable Pieces That We Want to Wear Right Now

If you ’ ve ever had a hard time throwing away old clothes , that you know neither look good @ @ @ @ @ ask Michelle Macia for advice .
With her talent and boundless imagination , Michelle turns @ @ @ @ @ stylish garments .
And she ’ s doing it while being mindful of the environment @ @ @ @ @ at Bright Side believe that everything around us deserves to have a second chance .
@ @ @ @ @ a look at the new life Michelle gives to old clothes .
Do you upcycle @ @ @ @ @ If you have a photo of something that you ’ ve given a second life @ @ @ @ @ the comments .

If you’ve ever had a hard time throwing away old clothes, that you know neither look good nor fit you, just ask Michelle Macia for advice. With her talent and boundless imagination, Michelle turns unappealing pieces of fabric into stylish garments. And she’s doing it while being mindful of the environment and conscious consumption!
We at Bright Side believe that everything around us deserves to have a second chance. We invite you to have a look at the new life Michelle gives to old clothes.
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brightside--2020-08-25--15 Cool Sculptures That Were Created by True Masters

When hearing the word “ sculpture , ” many of us tend to imagine figurines made of white marble .
But this is not actually correct , because antique statues were actually colorful .
Scientists managed to reveal this surprising fact thanks to something called “ raking light ” technology .
It helps them look at art objects with UV light and see the tiniest pigments of paint in order to understand what a certain sculpture used to look like before .
Turns out , the works of the old masters were as diverse as they are today .
We @ @ @ @ @ @ @ new sculptures and today ’ s compilation is all about them .
A sculpture of kids swinging from a tree that is no longer there A stunning forest sculpture of a huntress made entirely from willow branches There is an 18-foot underwater statue in the Bahamas .
This girl is made of wood .
A 190 ft tall statue of the God of War in China A herd of elephants on the move , Vietnam Have you ever come across any impressive statues ?
Can you show us their photos , please ?

When hearing the word “sculpture,” many of us tend to imagine figurines made of white marble. But this is not actually correct, because antique statues were actually colorful. Scientists managed to reveal this surprising fact thanks to something called “raking light” technology. It helps them look at art objects with UV light and see the tiniest pigments of paint in order to understand what a certain sculpture used to look like before. Turns out, the works of the old masters were as diverse as they are today.
We at Bright Side like to find cool new sculptures and today’s compilation is all about them.
Cat snuggled up on a statue
A sculpture of kids swinging from a tree that is no longer there
Made of sand
Bull sculpture made from recycled tires
Brickwork sculpture
Mori Kono working with wood
A stunning forest sculpture of a huntress made entirely from willow branches
There is an 18-foot underwater statue in the Bahamas.
This girl is made of wood.
A stone poem
A 190 ft tall statue of the God of War in China
A large statue of Kannon, a Bodhisattva goddess in Japan
Wooden sculpture
It’s as if it’s alive.
A herd of elephants on the move, Vietnam


brightside--2020-08-25--19 People Lady Luck Has Turned Her Back On

At Bright Side , we believe that the best weapon against any and all misfortunes is sympathy and a bit of laughter .
Just take a look at these photos from the people whose luck went out for a walk one day , and remember that you are not alone and everything will soon return to normal .
“ The cat really needed to let off some steam , so she decided that ruining my 1,000 piece puzzle would be a good way to do it.
” “ With the remaining 3 % battery on my phone , I post @ @ @ @ @ @ @ believe in evil spells , but I do believe in clumsiness.
” “ I ’ d just moved in and the water had been standing still unused for so long , that I now had the pleasure of a few thousand gallons of dirty water before it became clean again.
” “ I rode my motorcycle over 1,000 miles so I could finally see the Golden Gate Bridge in person.
” “ My wife came back to a nasty surprise when trying to get coffee this morning.
” “ I decided to upgrade @ @ @ @ @ @ @ a detail I remembered as it burst into flames on the gas stove.
” “ My mom is a beekeeper , and she accidentally spilled 20 pounds of honey to the floor.
” “ When your battery swells up into a comfy lithium pillow of death.
” “ I couldn ’ t move my old mattress down a flight of stairs .
My dad suggested taking it apart .
I asked if this is what he meant ...
He said he was joking ... Now I have a room full of springs.
” @ @ @ @ @ @ @ room with a window instead of an internal room ... ” “ I ordered 2 pieces of protective glasses just in case .
When they arrived they were both broken.
” “ Get a Roomba so you don ’ t have to clean up anymore , they said.
” What “ bad luck ” is and how to fight it : My mom is extremely unlucky ( as well as all of her children ) .
Once I went to visit her and brought sushi .
We were sitting there talking , she @ @ @ @ @ @ @ I began to say that she needed to find something to soften the blow in advance , because we all knew that if something bad could happen it would definitely happen to our family .
That ’ s why I always think through all negative outcomes in order to minimize my bad luck .
At this moment , my mom bit the roll and began to pull something out of her mouth .
I thought it was a fish bone .
We ’ ve all been there .
But it turned out it @ @ @ @ @ @ @ , “ How can I soften a blow in advance ?
” © UlaTequila / Pikabu “ Someone threw out a tin of paint with their garbage .
The garbage collector started the press without closing the back curtain .
We managed to wash the paint off with vegetable oil , but it took us until noon.
” “ A few days ago , I stumbled into a store , hit the corner of a glass case , and passed out .
My friend then took a selfie against this backdrop .
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It just so happens that fate seems to test our resistance and strength and fills our day with all sorts of minor hiccups. And we look at them and think: “Today, Lady Luck is clearly not smiling at me.”
At Bright Side, we believe that the best weapon against any and all misfortunes is sympathy and a bit of laughter. Just take a look at these photos from the people whose luck went out for a walk one day, and remember that you are not alone and everything will soon return to normal.
“The cat really needed to let off some steam, so she decided that ruining my 1,000 piece puzzle would be a good way to do it.”
“With the remaining 3% battery on my phone, I post this.”
“I don’t believe in evil spells, but I do believe in clumsiness.”
I took part in a training that lasted all day from morning to night. Around 3 pm, we were so hungry we asked for a break. With my hands shaking, I rushed with my food to the microwave and... dropped it on the floor. I wanted to lie down next to the drumstick and cry. © Enny15 / Pikabu
“I’d just moved in and the water had been standing still unused for so long, that I now had the pleasure of a few thousand gallons of dirty water before it became clean again.”
“I rode my motorcycle over 1,000 miles so I could finally see the Golden Gate Bridge in person.”
“My girlfriend opened her jewelry making box upside down.”
“My wife came back to a nasty surprise when trying to get coffee this morning.”
“I decided to upgrade to an electric kettle this week, a detail I remembered as it burst into flames on the gas stove.”
“My mom is a beekeeper, and she accidentally spilled 20 pounds of honey to the floor.”
“When your battery swells up into a comfy lithium pillow of death.”
“I couldn’t move my old mattress down a flight of stairs. My dad suggested taking it apart. I asked if this is what he meant... He said he was joking... Now I have a room full of springs.”
“I paid extra for a hotel room with a window instead of an internal room...”
“I ordered 2 pieces of protective glasses just in case. When they arrived they were both broken.”
“Get a Roomba so you don’t have to clean up anymore, they said.”
“I ordered a floor length mirror online and it arrived today.”
What “bad luck” is and how to fight it:
My mom is extremely unlucky (as well as all of her children). Once I went to visit her and brought sushi. We were sitting there talking, she was telling me about another failure. I began to say that she needed to find something to soften the blow in advance, because we all knew that if something bad could happen it would definitely happen to our family. That’s why I always think through all negative outcomes in order to minimize my bad luck. At this moment, my mom bit the roll and began to pull something out of her mouth. I thought it was a fish bone. We’ve all been there. But it turned out it was a needle. Then she said, “How can I soften a blow in advance?” © UlaTequila / Pikabu
“Someone threw out a tin of paint with their garbage. The garbage collector started the press without closing the back curtain. We managed to wash the paint off with vegetable oil, but it took us until noon.”
“A few days ago, I stumbled into a store, hit the corner of a glass case, and passed out. My friend then took a selfie against this backdrop.”
“A rough start to the day”


brightside--2020-08-25--18 Shots That Are So Perfect, You’d Swear They Were Photoshopped

Share on Facebook Share on Twitter Share on Pinterest Our world is full of beautiful , eye-catching views .
But sometimes you can accidentally discover masterpieces , even at home .
Many of them can be considered perfect because it seems that fate itself has directed the perfect shot .
Even a weed can be perfect .
“ Grace blends in perfectly with her new bed.
” “ The color of my kitten ’ s foot is split down the middle.
” The way this tree ’ s roots grew around these sidewalk squares is simply perfect .
It seems @ @ @ @ @ @ @ but no less charming one .
“ The nickels fit in perfectly at the register at my work and automatically stack themselves just from being shaken naturally.
” “ My watermelon I opened up this morning is a masterpiece.
” “ I used to live in a small basement without kitchen storage , so I got creative .
I always found it satisfying to look at.
” “ My local grocery store arranges the vegetables like this and I really appreciate it.
” “ I just made what I believe to be the @ @ @ @ @ @ @ made in my life.
” “ I opened my washer to find that my towel had made a perfect circle on top of my clothes.
” “ My girlfriend caught the perfect moment on my phone before she jumped toward us.
” “ We found an anthill at work that formed a perfect 9.
” “ After coming back to my sink in the morning , I found that there was a perfect outline of my spoon made of crumbs floating on the top.
” “ The way the Oreo landed in my @ @ @ @ @ @ @ hole .
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Our world is full of beautiful, eye-catching views. But sometimes you can accidentally discover masterpieces, even at home. Many of them can be considered perfect because it seems that fate itself has directed the perfect shot.
At Bright Side, we’re fond of “occasional perfectionism,” and we hope these photos will resonate with you.
Even a weed can be perfect.
“My inner perfectionist is jubilant.”
“My cycads curl a bit.”
“Grace blends in perfectly with her new bed.”
“I roasted the perfect marshmallow.”
“The color of my kitten’s foot is split down the middle.”
The way this tree’s roots grew around these sidewalk squares is simply perfect.
It seems that this Welsh corgi controls the smaller but no less charming one.
“The nickels fit in perfectly at the register at my work and automatically stack themselves just from being shaken naturally.”
“My watermelon I opened up this morning is a masterpiece.”
“I used to live in a small basement without kitchen storage, so I got creative. I always found it satisfying to look at.”
“My local grocery store arranges the vegetables like this and I really appreciate it.”
“I just made what I believe to be the most perfect pancake I’ve ever made in my life.”
“I opened my washer to find that my towel had made a perfect circle on top of my clothes.”
“My girlfriend caught the perfect moment on my phone before she jumped toward us.”
“We found an anthill at work that formed a perfect 9.”
“After coming back to my sink in the morning, I found that there was a perfect outline of my spoon made of crumbs floating on the top.”
“The way the Oreo landed in my cup made it look like a black hole.”


brightside--2020-08-25--Test: Guess the Disney Movie Using Emojis Only

Share on Facebook Share on Twitter Share on Pinterest When we were kids , we used to watch Disney animated @ @ @ @ @ Many of us danced and sang along with our favorite characters , so it ’ @ @ @ @ @ to figure out the title of the movie we ’ re referring to with emojis @ @ @ @ @ a true fan and solve these 15 emoji-riddles if you can !
Bright Side wants @ @ @ @ @ classic Disney movies with this fun quiz .
Do you think you can figure out @ @ @ @ @ behind these emojis ?
Remember , you can always tap on the image to find @ @ @ @ @ luck !
Can you think of any other Disney movie that could be represented with @ @ @ @ @ in the comments !
Also , let us know how many you got right and @ @ @ @ @ who ’ s better !

When we were kids, we used to watch Disney animated movies all the time. Many of us danced and sang along with our favorite characters, so it’s probably not too hard to figure out the title of the movie we’re referring to with emojis. Prove you’re a true fan and solve these 15 emoji-riddles if you can!
Bright Side wants to test your knowledge of classic Disney movies with this fun quiz. Do you think you can figure out all of the movies hidden behind these emojis? Remember, you can always tap on the image to find out the answer. Good luck!
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brightside--2020-08-25--16 Stars That Have Changed a Lot Since Their First Time on the Red Carpet

All of us change over time and our clothes also change under the influence of fashion and our own preferences .
The appearance of celebrities doesn ’ t stay the same either and sometimes the transformations are so stunning that it can be pretty hard to recognize some famous people in photos from 5-10 years ago .
We at Bright Side have a hard time believing that these 16 celebrities looked like this at the start of their careers .
Just look at the clothes they wore during their first appearances at red carpet events .
This actress became famous @ @ @ @ @ @ @ Girl from 2007 to 2012 .
But even before that , Blake was in several projects and was on the red carpet in 2005 wearing very trendy clothes for the time .
Robbie was born in Australia and became famous there .
Obviously , she wore more bold and revealing dresses for different events .
After she moved to the US in 2011 , she became a world-famous star and changed her style .
This actor started his career in 1998 at the age of 18 , having been discovered at 17 , @ @ @ @ @ @ @ and invited to star in movies .
His first big success was the film Green Street in 2005 .
At the time , he didn ’ t have a beard , so it ’ s hard to recognize him .
Emma Stone started her career acting in TV series and her first film , Superbad , was released in 2007 .
Stone wore this cute dress to the premiere .
Over the years , her style has become more elegant , but her poses are still the same .
Scarlett Johansson first appeared @ @ @ @ @ @ @ child , but her 2003 role in Lost in Translation was a turning point in her career .
This is when big changes happened to her style and her clothes became more feminine .
This singer started her career on Broadway in the musical 13 .
She went on to find work in television as an actress on Nickelodeon , and in 2010 , she got a part in Victorious .
It wasn ’ t until 2 years later that she recorded her first track and in 2013 , she released her first @ @ @ @ @ @ @ to change her style .
Ryan became an actor in his childhood when he appeared on The Mickey Mouse Club .
Since then , he has been climbing the career ladder , but his breakthrough moment was in 2004 when he got a part in The Notebook .
He ’ s changed quite a bit since then .
The singer moved to the US at the age of 16 , and in 2005 she released her first album that was hugely successful .
At the time , she didn ’ t look very @ @ @ @ @ @ @ , she showed the world her original style .
In 2014 , Gigi already had some experience in the modeling world and even appeared in shows during Fashion Week .
At the time , 18-year-old Bella was making her first career steps and it ’ s kind of hard to recognize her in the photo .
The most scandalous singer of the last decade released her first album in 2008 .
And in 2009 , she was already popular around the entire world .
Today Lady Gaga is still edgy , but also @ @ @ @ @ @ @ Wolverine in 2000 , he became famous around the world .
After many years , it seems that he hasn ’ t aged much at all .
It ’ s just that his suits and shirts have become a lot more elegant .
This model started appearing on red carpets when she was a child , together with her famous family .
But her independent career started in 2010 when 14-year-old Kendall signed her first contract .
Her appearance hasn ’ t changed much , but her style is different now and she @ @ @ @ @ @ @ the camera .
Miley was born into a celebrity family and she took part in different TV projects when she was a child .
She became successful at the age of 14 ( in 2006 ) when Hannah Montana appeared on TV screens everywhere .
At the time , she wore clothes that were appropriate for her age , but at the age of 20 , she started to dress in a very edgy way .
Now , it seems as if she ’ s calming down .

All of us change over time and our clothes also change under the influence of fashion and our own preferences. The appearance of celebrities doesn’t stay the same either and sometimes the transformations are so stunning that it can be pretty hard to recognize some famous people in photos from 5-10 years ago.
We at Bright Side have a hard time believing that these 16 celebrities looked like this at the start of their careers. Just look at the clothes they wore during their first appearances at red carpet events.
1. Blake Lively
This actress became famous after she participated in the series Gossip Girl from 2007 to 2012. But even before that, Blake was in several projects and was on the red carpet in 2005 wearing very trendy clothes for the time.
2. Margot Robbie
Robbie was born in Australia and became famous there. Obviously, she wore more bold and revealing dresses for different events. After she moved to the US in 2011, she became a world-famous star and changed her style.
3. Charlie Hunnam
This actor started his career in 1998 at the age of 18, having been discovered at 17, when he was seen in a shop and invited to star in movies. His first big success was the film Green Street in 2005. At the time, he didn’t have a beard, so it’s hard to recognize him.
4. Emma Stone
Emma Stone started her career acting in TV series and her first film, Superbad, was released in 2007. Stone wore this cute dress to the premiere. Over the years, her style has become more elegant, but her poses are still the same.
5. Scarlett Johansson
Scarlett Johansson first appeared in a film when she was a child, but her 2003 role in Lost in Translation was a turning point in her career. This is when big changes happened to her style and her clothes became more feminine.
6. Ariana Grande
This singer started her career on Broadway in the musical 13. She went on to find work in television as an actress on Nickelodeon, and in 2010, she got a part in Victorious. It wasn’t until 2 years later that she recorded her first track and in 2013, she released her first album. This is when she started to change her style.
7. Ryan Gosling
Ryan became an actor in his childhood when he appeared on The Mickey Mouse Club. Since then, he has been climbing the career ladder, but his breakthrough moment was in 2004 when he got a part in The Notebook. He’s changed quite a bit since then.
8. Emily Blunt
Emily became popular after she played the assistant in The Devil Wears Prada in 2006 and since then, she has appeared at hundreds of celebrity events and has changed her style a lot.
9. Rihanna
The singer moved to the US at the age of 16, and in 2005 she released her first album that was hugely successful. At the time, she didn’t look very flashy, but in the following years, she showed the world her original style.
10. Gigi and Bella Hadid
In 2014, Gigi already had some experience in the modeling world and even appeared in shows during Fashion Week. At the time, 18-year-old Bella was making her first career steps and it’s kind of hard to recognize her in the photo.
11. Lady Gaga
The most scandalous singer of the last decade released her first album in 2008. And in 2009, she was already popular around the entire world. Today Lady Gaga is still edgy, but also more elegant.
12. Hugh Jackman
When he first portrayed Wolverine in 2000, he became famous around the world. After many years, it seems that he hasn’t aged much at all. It’s just that his suits and shirts have become a lot more elegant.
13. Kendall Jenner
This model started appearing on red carpets when she was a child, together with her famous family. But her independent career started in 2010 when 14-year-old Kendall signed her first contract. Her appearance hasn’t changed much, but her style is different now and she feels way more confident in front of the camera.
14. Miley Cyrus
Miley was born into a celebrity family and she took part in different TV projects when she was a child. She became successful at the age of 14 (in 2006) when Hannah Montana appeared on TV screens everywhere. At the time, she wore clothes that were appropriate for her age, but at the age of 20, she started to dress in a very edgy way. Now, it seems as if she’s calming down.
15. Lindsay Lohan
Lindsay became a model at the age of 3 and at 12, she started to appear in movies. In 2002-2003 she was incredibly popular. She is regularly seen at red carpet events.
16. Kim Kardashian
Kim Kardashian used to work as Paris Hilton’s assistant, accompanying her to different events. At the time, in 2006, she didn’t look like a fashion icon. But in 2007, Keeping Up with the Kardashians started and Kim started to create her own unique style in clothes.


brightside--2020-08-28--15 Couples Who Got Hit With Cupid’s Arrow, Which Also Grazed Us on Its Way There

There are some couples that seem like they ’ re a match made in heaven .
But they aren ’ t the only ones who got lucky to have found each other .
It ’ s also the people around them who get to share their radiating love , be happy for them , and dream of finding a perfect match for themselves .
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“ Met this sweet man at Outback .
He saw us dressed up for prom and showed us a picture of him and his wife at prom in 1949.
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“ My @ @ @ @ @ @ @ for her birthday.
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“ My 93-year-old parents , married 68 years , both have Alzheimer ’ s , but are still very much in love.
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“ She ’ s from Delhi , I ’ m from Wyoming .
This September it will be 7 years of Cowboys and Indians.
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“ My grandparents have been married for around 60 years and recently got WhatsApp !
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“ It ’ s my parents 21st anniversary today .
They managed to buy the exact same @ @ @ @ @ @ @ “ We lived thousands of miles apart , and due to visa complications we were forced to separate , but we finally tied the knot , and it was all worth it.
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“ My girlfriend dressed up as me from an old high school football photo and she looks infinitely tougher than I did.
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“ Came across this gem — I took a picture of my parents napping together.
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“ After losing my job and finding it hard to get outta bed , I @ @ @ @ @ @ @ in the morning.
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“ My wife waited for me while I did 3 overseas tours .
Together since 2012 and got married this year .
I am blessed.
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“ It ’ s taken me until 27 years old to feel strong enough to show affection to another man in public ...
It ’ s been a journey , but I ’ m glad I ’ m here.
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“ My adorable grandparents make me smile .
They ’ ve been married over 60 years and @ @ @ @ @ @ @ “ I think my girlfriend is clingy .
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There are some couples that seem like they’re a match made in heaven. But they aren’t the only ones who got lucky to have found each other. It’s also the people around them who get to share their radiating love, be happy for them, and dream of finding a perfect match for themselves.
We at Bright Side couldn’t help but be a little bit jealous, in a healthy way, about some couples and their love.
1. “Met this sweet man at Outback. He saw us dressed up for prom and showed us a picture of him and his wife at prom in 1949.”
2. “My dad got my mom an extendable fork for her birthday.”
3. “My 93-year-old parents, married 68 years, both have Alzheimer’s, but are still very much in love.”
4. “She’s from Delhi, I’m from Wyoming. This September it will be 7 years of Cowboys and Indians.”
5. “My grandparents have been married for around 60 years and recently got WhatsApp!”
6. Couple goals
7. “It’s my parents 21st anniversary today. They managed to buy the exact same card from different stores.”
8. “We lived thousands of miles apart, and due to visa complications we were forced to separate, but we finally tied the knot, and it was all worth it.”
9. “My girlfriend dressed up as me from an old high school football photo and she looks infinitely tougher than I did.”
10. “Came across this gem — I took a picture of my parents napping together.”
11. “After losing my job and finding it hard to get outta bed, I wake up to this on the mirror in the morning.”
12. “My wife waited for me while I did 3 overseas tours. Together since 2012 and got married this year. I am blessed.”
13. “It’s taken me until 27 years old to feel strong enough to show affection to another man in public... It’s been a journey, but I’m glad I’m here.”
14. “My adorable grandparents make me smile. They’ve been married over 60 years and are still giddy!”
15. “I think my girlfriend is clingy.”


brightside--2020-08-28--20 Things We Should Not Keep in Our Homes Anymore

Bright Side wants to make sure that our readers homes are as cozy as they can be .
That ’ s why we have created this checklist that you can use in order to declutter your home .
We hope that it will help you turn it into a true fortress of comfort !
As technology progresses , we tend to own more gadgets , and more cords together with them .
The problem is that as time passes , we usually don ’ t get rid of the cords , because we hope that they will be useful in @ @ @ @ @ @ @ moment never comes and these old cables just keep accumulating in drawers .
It ’ s better to organize them , leaving the necessary ones , and recycling the rest .
Indispensable during the summer , tubes with sunscreen sometimes get forgotten during other seasons .
It ’ s important to make sure that the cream hasn ’ t expired , otherwise it will no longer be effective .
Normally sunscreens can last for up to 3 years .
If you can ’ t find the expiration date on the bottle , you @ @ @ @ @ @ @ on the bottle yourself .
All these unnecessary paper products only clutter our homes , making them dusty , and taking up space .
Unless it ’ s an important receipt that you might need for a tax refund , or an exclusive magazine issue , it ’ s better to recycle the rest .
Also , check to see if old instruction manuals are of any use to you : most of them are now available online and even have video tutorials .
Other unnecessary items that continue to accrue in our @ @ @ @ @ @ @ their match .
We might even have a special basket for them , hoping that one day we will find the second one so we can wear them again .
You can put them to use by getting creative and turning them into interesting decorations or toys for kids and pets .
Pens , markers , rulers , sticky notes , tape , calculators : we might receive them as a present or as an addition to our purchases , and then come home and put them in drawers , hoping we might @ @ @ @ @ @ @ have things like this that you realize you haven ’ t touched for more than a year , it ’ s better to donate unpacked office supplies to a charity organization .
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Old bras and other underwear If your bras or underwear have become too small for you , or have lost their shape and elasticity , you shouldn ’ t hold onto them .
The same goes for the uncomfortable models , even if they are beautiful .
They don ’ t provide you with the proper support , which @ @ @ @ @ @ @ , reduce deep creases around the chest , or just prevent health problems .
Spices even have an expiration date , which is around 2-3 years .
So , cleaning out your spice drawer is totally a must !
You can take this opportunity to organize your spices in nice jars , by writing the names and purchase dates on each of them .
As for the old items , you can reuse them by adding them to your own home-made soap or make sachets that will spread a nice aroma .
Mugs @ @ @ @ @ @ @ over time we might realize that we have a lot of them .
In fact , so many that we don ’ t even use most of them .
This kind of “ collection ” can take up too much space — space that could be used for something more necessary , so it ’ s better to gift these mugs to children or to just donate them .
Time management is a necessary thing in the modern world , and various agendas help us to keep track of it .
But sometimes @ @ @ @ @ @ @ and we buy another beautiful looking notebook and never write anything in it .
Instead of letting it lie in the drawer of your bedside table , you can use it as a gift for someone who loves journaling or doodling .
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Candles and too many souvenirs Properly placed accents can add a special look to your room , making it extra cozy or classy .
Too much variety or too many random knick-knacks will only clutter everything .
If some of the things have a sentimental value to you , @ @ @ @ @ @ @ a sideboard for them , keeping everything in one place .
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Condiments that ’ ve been forgotten in the fridge A jar of mustard that is too hot or a ketchup that you don ’ t like will sometimes be left on the shelf of the fridge door , waiting for a better moment .
After a while , they tend to be forgotten or unnoticed , while still taking up lots of space in there .
Before their expiration date , you can give away these sauces to your friends @ @ @ @ @ @ @ .
Shoes that are uncomfortable or deformed can torture your feet , instead of comforting them .
They won ’ t give them the necessary support and can cause the foot to move around too much , which can cause chafing , blisters , or even cause them to bleed .
Uncomfortable shoes that are still in good condition can be sold , while really old ones can be recycled .
No matter how beautiful or precious a plate is , it ’ s better to not eat from it if it ’ @ @ @ @ @ @ @ you wash it , water can get into the cracks and lead to the growth of bacteria .
Moreover , the crack will only get bigger over time .
You can make some creative decorations using these pieces instead .
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Toiletries you brought home from your vacation We might want to bring the freebies home from the different hotels we stay at during our vacations .
It ’ s not a bad idea if you intend on using them later .
If you keep accumulating them and placing them all around @ @ @ @ @ @ @ to remember that they also have an expiration date and need to be used .
Board games are fun when you want to spend time bonding with your family or friends .
But once you realize you don ’ t need them anymore , there is no use in holding onto them .
Those that might have a special meaning for you can be kept for good memories , but the rest can be donated to children .
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Formal clothes that you only wore once

Clutter in our homes can actually make us feel stressed out and helpless. Excess knick-knacks on the shelves, postcards, lots of mugs, old clothes, and even tubes with cosmetics can fill our minds with too many stimuli. This forces our visual, tactile, and other senses to be constantly working, never letting us rest.
Bright Side wants to make sure that our readers homes are as cozy as they can be. That’s why we have created this checklist that you can use in order to declutter your home. We hope that it will help you turn it into a true fortress of comfort!
1. Old cables
As technology progresses, we tend to own more gadgets, and more cords together with them. The problem is that as time passes, we usually don’t get rid of the cords, because we hope that they will be useful in some other way. Usually, this moment never comes and these old cables just keep accumulating in drawers. It’s better to organize them, leaving the necessary ones, and recycling the rest.
2. Last year’s sunscreen
Indispensable during the summer, tubes with sunscreen sometimes get forgotten during other seasons. It’s important to make sure that the cream hasn’t expired, otherwise it will no longer be effective. Normally sunscreens can last for up to 3 years. If you can’t find the expiration date on the bottle, you can at least write the purchase date on the bottle yourself.
3. Old magazines, expired coupons, and instruction manuals
All these unnecessary paper products only clutter our homes, making them dusty, and taking up space. Unless it’s an important receipt that you might need for a tax refund, or an exclusive magazine issue, it’s better to recycle the rest. Also, check to see if old instruction manuals are of any use to you: most of them are now available online and even have video tutorials.
4. Unmatched socks
Other unnecessary items that continue to accrue in our homes are socks that’ve lost their match. We might even have a special basket for them, hoping that one day we will find the second one so we can wear them again. You can put them to use by getting creative and turning them into interesting decorations or toys for kids and pets.
5. Stationery and office supplies
Pens, markers, rulers, sticky notes, tape, calculators: we might receive them as a present or as an addition to our purchases, and then come home and put them in drawers, hoping we might use them one day. If you have things like this that you realize you haven’t touched for more than a year, it’s better to donate unpacked office supplies to a charity organization.
6. Old bras and other underwear
If your bras or underwear have become too small for you, or have lost their shape and elasticity, you shouldn’t hold onto them. The same goes for the uncomfortable models, even if they are beautiful. They don’t provide you with the proper support, which is important to prevent premature breast sagging, reduce deep creases around the chest, or just prevent health problems.
If you see that your lingerie is still good, but just feels uncomfortable for you, instead of throwing it away, you can donate it to breast cancer survivors or women in less fortunate communities.
7. Spices that expired a long time ago
Spices even have an expiration date, which is around 2-3 years. So, cleaning out your spice drawer is totally a must! You can take this opportunity to organize your spices in nice jars, by writing the names and purchase dates on each of them. As for the old items, you can reuse them by adding them to your own home-made soap or make sachets that will spread a nice aroma.
8. Too many mugs
Mugs are a rather popular gift, so over time we might realize that we have a lot of them. In fact, so many that we don’t even use most of them. This kind of “collection” can take up too much space — space that could be used for something more necessary, so it’s better to gift these mugs to children or to just donate them.
9. Unused planners, journals, or notebooks
Time management is a necessary thing in the modern world, and various agendas help us to keep track of it. But sometimes we just can’t help ourselves and we buy another beautiful looking notebook and never write anything in it. Instead of letting it lie in the drawer of your bedside table, you can use it as a gift for someone who loves journaling or doodling.
10. Candles and too many souvenirs
Properly placed accents can add a special look to your room, making it extra cozy or classy. Too much variety or too many random knick-knacks will only clutter everything. If some of the things have a sentimental value to you, you can organize a special shelf or a sideboard for them, keeping everything in one place.
11. Condiments that’ve been forgotten in the fridge
A jar of mustard that is too hot or a ketchup that you don’t like will sometimes be left on the shelf of the fridge door, waiting for a better moment. After a while, they tend to be forgotten or unnoticed, while still taking up lots of space in there. Before their expiration date, you can give away these sauces to your friends or relatives if they find them tasty.
12. Worn-out or painful shoes
Shoes that are uncomfortable or deformed can torture your feet, instead of comforting them. They won’t give them the necessary support and can cause the foot to move around too much, which can cause chafing, blisters, or even cause them to bleed. Uncomfortable shoes that are still in good condition can be sold, while really old ones can be recycled.
13. Chipped dishes
No matter how beautiful or precious a plate is, it’s better to not eat from it if it’s chipped or has cracks. As you wash it, water can get into the cracks and lead to the growth of bacteria. Moreover, the crack will only get bigger over time. You can make some creative decorations using these pieces instead.
14. Toiletries you brought home from your vacation
We might want to bring the freebies home from the different hotels we stay at during our vacations. It’s not a bad idea if you intend on using them later. If you keep accumulating them and placing them all around the bathroom, it’s better to remember that they also have an expiration date and need to be used.
15. Plastic bags
We often bring these home from the grocery store, creating a huge pile over time. You should gather them all together and recycle them, creating more space in your home. Also, to contribute to the environment, you can switch to reusable grocery totes. Ones made from fabric, for example.
16. Loofah
Using a loofah can be risky, especially if it’s an old one. Dead skin cells can accrue there and it can also collect moisture, which makes it a perfect place for bacteria growth. If you want to exfoliate your skin, you can use different body scrubs and silicone loofah alternatives.
17. Old board games you don’t play
Board games are fun when you want to spend time bonding with your family or friends. But once you realize you don’t need them anymore, there is no use in holding onto them. Those that might have a special meaning for you can be kept for good memories, but the rest can be donated to children.
18. Old greeting cards
Birthdays, Christmas, Easter, Thanksgiving Day, or any other special occasion can mean you have a chance to receive cards from others. Some of them can be really cute, but in reality, not many of us look at them very often. You can easily recycle them, instead of keeping them.
19. Tapes and DVDs
Old videotapes and DVDs can contain a lot of memories about our childhood or youth. As technology gets better, players for these mediums become less popular. To preserve your memories, you can digitize your old video moments and store them on a flash drive. This way you will always have access to them and it will be easier to preserve this information.
20. Formal clothes that you only wore once
If there was one very special occasion that required a suit, it might happen that this suit never gets worn again. It might continue hanging in your closet, taking up space, and being perfect for gathering dust. It would be better sell it to get some money instead, or donate it to those who are in need.


brightside--2020-08-28--6 Game-Changing Inventions by Thomas Edison That Made People Call Him a Wizard

Thomas Edison was way ahead of his time with his ingenious creations .
Some of his works were his own inventions , while others seriously improved the devices developed by other researchers .
From batteries for electric cars to a mysterious “ spirit phone , ” each of Edison ’ s devices stirred the public ’ s imagination and brought science and technology one big step closer to progress .
No matter what Thomas Edison created , he always tried to solve practical problems and make our lives more comfortable and enjoyable .
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The phonograph that recorded sounds @ @ @ @ @ @ @ a research laboratory in Menlo Park , New Jersey .
A year later , in 1877 , he invented something that was so unexpected that it made people call him “ The Wizard of Menlo Park ” and it made Edison a real celebrity .
This invention was the phonograph that was meant to record sounds on tinfoil around a cylinder , as shown in the picture above .
Even though the quality of the sounds recorded by the phonograph was rather poor and you could listen to these recordings only a few @ @ @ @ @ @ @ sensation back in those days and helped Edison strengthen his reputation as a genius inventor .
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The “ spirit phone ” that could let the living talk to those who ’ ve left this earth The personality of Thomas Edison had enough room for both faith and science , and the so-called “ spirit phone ” he worked on can illustrate it better than any words .
The inventor believed that living beings are made of “ myriads and myriads of infinitesimally small individuals , each in itself a unit of @ @ @ @ @ @ @ units were eternal and they “ kept ” the personality of the person after death .
The spirit phone never saw the light of day , but if it did , in Edison ’ s imagination this machine would find the personalities of the diseased people in their new environment and help them exchange messages with the world of the alive .
“ If the apparatus I am now constructing should provide a channel for the inflow of knowledge from the unknown world—a form of existence different from that of this life—we may @ @ @ @ @ @ @ fountainhead of all knowledge , nearer the intelligence which directs it all , ” Edison believed .
Edison started his work on finding ways to get electrical illumination in 1878 .
Even though Edison did not invent the light bulb , he tried to improve the existing models and make their light last longer .
In 1879 , he filed for a patent for an electric lamp that used “ a carbon filament or strip coiled and connected to platina contact wires.
” In 1878 , Edison organized the Edison Electric Light Company @ @ @ @ @ @ @ with different kinds of materials for his light bulb , Edison finally chose bamboo which made the light bulb more durable .
The inventor was determined to make electricity available and cheap , and he said : “ We will make electricity so cheap that only the rich will burn candles.
” Edison ’ s light bulb was first commercially used to lighten the steamship Columbia that belonged to the Oregon Railroad and Navigation Company .
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The automatic telegraph that improved the previous telegraph version The first version of the telegraph @ @ @ @ @ @ @ 1840s by Samuel Morse and other inventors , created a revolution because it allowed people to exchange information through long distances .
With the original telegraph , the operator listened to the messages in Morse code and translated the message .
Thomas Edison improved the telegraph by introducing a chemical recording system , and this device could record up to 1,000 words per minute , which considerably increased the speed of the original telegraph version that could record 25-40 words per minute .
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A Kinetograph and a Kinetoscope that allowed the @ @ @ @ @ @ @ revolutionary device invented by Edison ’ s company was a motion picture camera called a Kinetograph .
Edison worked on this camera together with William Kennedy Dickson , who got almost all the credit for this invention .
In 1891 , Edison built a peep-hole viewer called a Kinetoscope , which allowed people watch short films ( and must have looked like magic for the audience of those days ) , and soon this device conquered Europe .
Edison ’ s film studio produced nearly 1,200 films , the majority of which were @ @ @ @ @ @ @ scenarios , and other different life situations .
Some of the titles produced by Edison ’ s studio include The Kiss ( 1896 ) , The Great Train Robbery ( 1903 ) , Alice ’ s Adventures in Wonderland ( 1910 ) , and the first Frankenstein film from 1910 .
6 .
Rechargeable batteries that were used in electric cars The end of the 19th century was an era when electric cars were popular , and back in the 1890s Edison was working hard to improve existing rechargeable batteries to make them @ @ @ @ @ @ @ Edison patented his nickel-iron battery and opened the Edison Storage Battery Company that manufactured batteries for electric cars .
Edison did not stop there and he kept improving the battery until in 1910 , when he introduced a highly efficient and durable nickel-iron battery to the market that used lye as an electrolyte .
When internal combustion engines and cheap petrol took the stage , electric cars started to lose their popularity , but this and other inventions by Thomas Edison were a great contribution to the progress of science and technology .
@ @ @ @ @ @ @ ideal of applied research — making what ’ s really necessary and fulfilling the needs of humanity .

Thomas Edison was way ahead of his time with his ingenious creations. Some of his works were his own inventions, while others seriously improved the devices developed by other researchers. From batteries for electric cars to a mysterious “spirit phone,” each of Edison’s devices stirred the public’s imagination and brought science and technology one big step closer to progress. No matter what Thomas Edison created, he always tried to solve practical problems and make our lives more comfortable and enjoyable.
Here at Bright Side, we can’t stop admiring Thomas Edison’s creative thinking, and we want to tell you more about 6 of his ingenious inventions.
1. The phonograph that recorded sounds on tinfoil
Thomas Edison with his phonograph
In 1876, Edison built a research laboratory in Menlo Park, New Jersey. A year later, in 1877, he invented something that was so unexpected that it made people call him “The Wizard of Menlo Park” and it made Edison a real celebrity. This invention was the phonograph that was meant to record sounds on tinfoil around a cylinder, as shown in the picture above. Even though the quality of the sounds recorded by the phonograph was rather poor and you could listen to these recordings only a few times, this device was a real sensation back in those days and helped Edison strengthen his reputation as a genius inventor.
2. The “spirit phone” that could let the living talk to those who’ve left this earth
The personality of Thomas Edison had enough room for both faith and science, and the so-called “spirit phone” he worked on can illustrate it better than any words. The inventor believed that living beings are made of “myriads and myriads of infinitesimally small individuals, each in itself a unit of life,” and that these small units were eternal and they “kept” the personality of the person after death. The spirit phone never saw the light of day, but if it did, in Edison’s imagination this machine would find the personalities of the diseased people in their new environment and help them exchange messages with the world of the alive. “If the apparatus I am now constructing should provide a channel for the inflow of knowledge from the unknown world—a form of existence different from that of this life—we may be brought an important step nearer the fountainhead of all knowledge, nearer the intelligence which directs it all,” Edison believed.
3. The improved light bulb and electric light system
Thomas Edison holding a light bulb
Edison started his work on finding ways to get electrical illumination in 1878. Even though Edison did not invent the light bulb, he tried to improve the existing models and make their light last longer. In 1879, he filed for a patent for an electric lamp that used “a carbon filament or strip coiled and connected to platina contact wires.” In 1878, Edison organized the Edison Electric Light Company in New York City. After experimenting with different kinds of materials for his light bulb, Edison finally chose bamboo which made the light bulb more durable. The inventor was determined to make electricity available and cheap, and he said: “We will make electricity so cheap that only the rich will burn candles.” Edison’s light bulb was first commercially used to lighten the steamship Columbia that belonged to the Oregon Railroad and Navigation Company.
4. The automatic telegraph that improved the previous telegraph version
The first version of the telegraph that was developed in the 1830s and 1840s by Samuel Morse and other inventors, created a revolution because it allowed people to exchange information through long distances. With the original telegraph, the operator listened to the messages in Morse code and translated the message. Thomas Edison improved the telegraph by introducing a chemical recording system, and this device could record up to 1,000 words per minute, which considerably increased the speed of the original telegraph version that could record 25-40 words per minute.
5. A Kinetograph and a Kinetoscope that allowed the recording and showing of motion pictures
A Kinetograph camera
Another revolutionary device invented by Edison’s company was a motion picture camera called a Kinetograph. Edison worked on this camera together with William Kennedy Dickson, who got almost all the credit for this invention. In 1891, Edison built a peep-hole viewer called a Kinetoscope, which allowed people watch short films (and must have looked like magic for the audience of those days), and soon this device conquered Europe. Edison’s film studio produced nearly 1,200 films, the majority of which were short films that showed acrobats, firefighting scenarios, and other different life situations. Some of the titles produced by Edison’s studio include The Kiss (1896), The Great Train Robbery (1903), Alice’s Adventures in Wonderland (1910), and the first Frankenstein film from 1910.
6. Rechargeable batteries that were used in electric cars
Thomas Edison with an electric car
The end of the 19th century was an era when electric cars were popular, and back in the 1890s Edison was working hard to improve existing rechargeable batteries to make them lighter and more efficient. In 1901 Edison patented his nickel-iron battery and opened the Edison Storage Battery Company that manufactured batteries for electric cars. Edison did not stop there and he kept improving the battery until in 1910, when he introduced a highly efficient and durable nickel-iron battery to the market that used lye as an electrolyte. When internal combustion engines and cheap petrol took the stage, electric cars started to lose their popularity, but this and other inventions by Thomas Edison were a great contribution to the progress of science and technology. This great thinker and inventor embodied the ideal of applied research — making what’s really necessary and fulfilling the needs of humanity.


brightside--2020-08-28--15 Things From the Past That Made Us Go, “What on Earth Is This?”

Old things can often look both primitive and genius at the same time .
Without the technology of today , people used to make things that we don ’ t even understand how to use now .
Some users found these things and shared their pictures online .
“ Picked this up at a local antique shop .
The left side is copper-lined , the right side is not , and the center divider is concave.
” “ What kind of pie was this aluminum pan used for ?
It was found in a house built in 1910 in rural @ @ @ @ @ @ @ from a pawn shop .
They have no clue what it is .
Any help ?
The middle is rough yarn , similar to the kind on cat scratchers.
” “ Ok , I know it ’ s a chair , but what ’ s with the extended arms ?
” “ Found this hidden in the ceiling of my basement with a bunch of others.
” “ Lethal , metal , ornamental comb-type thing bought in a market many years ago .
I ’ ve never found out what it is , @ @ @ @ @ @ @ ” “ My mother-in-law has had this thing for years and no one in the family can figure out what it is.
” “ 1 through 300 metal tags found in an old box .
The copper wires are there just to hold the whole stack together.
” “ This house on my running route is partially sunken into the ground.
” “ Found this washed up on a beach in Massachusetts .
It ’ s wooden and looks handcrafted.
” “ My mom bought this from a pawn shop thinking it looked @ @ @ @ @ @ @ , but she doesn ’ t know what it is.
” “ Found it in a river , have no clue what it is.
” “ Strange clogs with a hoop .
Can ’ t imagine how they could be properly worn.
” “ What are these wooden structures I stumbled upon in a state forest ?
” “ A silver utensil .
When you press the button on one end the grips open.
” Bonus : The stone on this Italian castle is completely worn down by 700 years of rainfall dripping @ @ @ @ @ @ @ spot .

Old things can often look both primitive and genius at the same time. Without the technology of today, people used to make things that we don’t even understand how to use now. Some users found these things and shared their pictures online.
We at Bright Side had absolutely no idea what these things were before more knowledgeable people explained what they were in the comments. And in the bonus, you will see a demonstration of what time can do.
“Picked this up at a local antique shop. The left side is copper-lined, the right side is not, and the center divider is concave.”
“It looks something like an old ‘smokers table.’ The copper could be an ashtray and the curved area could be for bottles as well.” © JasnahKolin / reddit
“What kind of pie was this aluminum pan used for? It was found in a house built in 1910 in rural Utah.”
“It’s a nut dish used for cracking open nuts. It’s missing a matching hammer.” © darkcactusflowers / reddit
“My friend got this from a pawn shop. They have no clue what it is. Any help? The middle is rough yarn, similar to the kind on cat scratchers.”
“Ok, I know it’s a chair, but what’s with the extended arms?”
“It looks like a plantation/planters chair. You’d put your sore swollen legs up on the arms after sitting on a horse all day.” © Chester*** / reddit
“Found this hidden in the ceiling of my basement with a bunch of others.”
“Lethal, metal, ornamental comb-type thing bought in a market many years ago. I’ve never found out what it is, so any help would be appreciated!”
It’s called a miao comb that most likely originated in Indonesia or China. It’s meant to be worn in a horizontal fashion. © Pewper / reddit
“My mother-in-law has had this thing for years and no one in the family can figure out what it is.”
“1 through 300 metal tags found in an old box. The copper wires are there just to hold the whole stack together.”
“They look like locker numbers.” © phraca / reddit
“This house on my running route is partially sunken into the ground.”
“Just a guess, but maybe it was built during the ’70s energy crisis. A home near where I grew up was built with a berm around most of it to save on heating and cooling.” © Imnotarobot12764 / reddit
“Found this washed up on a beach in Massachusetts. It’s wooden and looks handcrafted.”
“Wow! It looks like a Davis Quadrant or a Backstaff, a navigational instrument that was the predecessor to the sextant.” © hopscentric/ reddit
“My mom bought this from a pawn shop thinking it looked cool and hung it on the wall, but she doesn’t know what it is.”
“It’s a horse racing game!! Played with a deck of cards and dice. All based on dice roll probability.” © Coldside_bestside / reddit
“Found it in a river, have no clue what it is.”
“Strange clogs with a hoop. Can’t imagine how they could be properly worn.”
“What are these wooden structures I stumbled upon in a state forest?”
“It’s a blast wall. They’re generally full of large rocks and packed dirt.” © Wanderer_67 / reddit
“A silver utensil. When you press the button on one end the grips open.”
“It’s a sugar cube holder. For tea parties with scones. Or coffee and cake.” © cheesysnipsnap / reddit
Bonus: The stone on this Italian castle is completely worn down by 700 years of rainfall dripping off the roof onto the exact same spot.


brightside--2020-08-28--12 Secrets We Didn’t Know About From the Lost City of Petra (a City Carved Into Rocks in the Middle

12 Secrets We Didn’t Know About From the Lost City of Petra (a City Carved Into Rocks in the Middle of the Desert)

Who built this city and when ?
Petra has been abandoned for hundreds of years , but thousands of years ago , it was a fully functioning city .
It was a huge trade center located right on the intersection of paths .
Silk , spices , and herbs were transported from India to Arabia , Africa , Egypt , and back .
It allowed local people to become very rich .
It ’ s not entirely clear when this city was built , but we know that Petra was the capital of the Nabataean Kingdom .
According to some @ @ @ @ @ @ @ around 20,000 people lived in Petra .
How is it even possible to carve a city into rock ?
The façades of the buildings were carved right into the walls of a canyon and they are mind-blowing .
The elegant carving shows the high level of development of this civilization and the craftsmanship of the builders .
The main entrance is called Al-Khazneh ( The Treasury ) .
It was named this by the local Bedouins who believed that all the riches were inside .
The gate is carved out of rose stone @ @ @ @ @ @ @ Rose City .
Did the rocks protect the city from enemies ?
Other people were jealous of the treasures of Petra and the city had to defend itself against the Greeks .
Petra won that battle , but when the Roman conquerors arrived , the city had to give up .
Petra still thrived for many years , but it asunder the rule of the Roman Empire .
In the 4th century , an earthquake destroyed most of the town and the Romans decided to leave the city .
Later , it was @ @ @ @ @ @ @ Why is Petra a lost city and where did all the people go ?
With the development of technology , maritime trade started developing and Petra lost its strategic purpose .
At this point it was abandoned and hidden in the sands .
This is how it became the lost city .
But Petra was only lost when it came to people from the western civilizations , the locals knew about this gem in the desert .
The Bedouin tribe , B ’ doul , lived in the caves of the city .
@ @ @ @ @ @ @ Nabataeans and they didn ’ t want anyone else to know about Petra because they were worried that people would come there looking for treasure and destroy what remained of the city .
This is why they kept the location of the city a secret for many years .
How did people from Europe find out about Petra ?
It was discovered on August 12 , 1812 .
Johann Ludwig Burckhardt , a young Swiss man , heard the legend about this mysterious city when he was traveling to Cairo .
And even @ @ @ @ @ @ @ as someone of Arab descent during his journey and had to lie to his guide that he wanted to make an offering at the tomb to enter the City directly .
Using the alias , Sheikh Ibrahim Ibn Abdallah , Johann couldn ’ t spend a lot of time in Petra because he wasn ’ t a local .
He couldn ’ t even say it was the city that he was looking for because there was no proof of that .
But this is how people in Europe found out about Petra @ @ @ @ @ @ @ footsteps .
They made a lot of drawings , but the first archaeological research didn ’ t start there until 1929 .
Why did they have a treasury ?
How did people survive in the desert and among the rocks without water ?
The people of Petra were experts in terms of the technology connected to water .
They built cisterns , dams , tunnels , and reservoirs , and the city was an oasis for tired travelers .
These amazing technologies allowed the locals to remain in the city , even during @ @ @ @ @ @ @ were times of ample water , so the locals built dams and aqueducts that changed the direction of the rainwater into the city so that people could live in comfort .
How did they live in the rocks ?
And did they live inside ?
Petra was a big religious center , and it was probably a gathering place for clergy , sculptors , merchants , and other people .
In Petra , there are more than 1,000 tombs , many of which were for families and even entire tribes .
Many of @ @ @ @ @ @ @ funeral business .
It is hard to answer the question regarding whether all of the 20,000 ( or maybe even 30,000 ) residents of the city lived inside of Petra .
It is very likely that some of the people lived in tents outside the walls .
Who is buried in the Petra tombs ?
Researchers have no ideas about this .
It is definitely known that the tombs were made in different historical periods because they look very different .
The people of Petra didn ’ t make any inscriptions on the @ @ @ @ @ @ @ understand who is buried there .
But they believed that the dead could eat and spend time in the other world , because they left food and different objects with their bodies .
Interestingly , in the beginning , Petra was believed to be one giant necropolis , because of the huge number of tombs .
Only later did scientists find out that it was a very well-developed city .
What else is there in Petra , aside from the beautiful gate in all of the photos ?
There are huge cubes outside @ @ @ @ @ @ @ they for ?
Will we ever be able to solve all the mysteries of Petra ?

Petra is an ancient city, carved into rocks. It is located in the country of Jordan — most of which is covered in deserts. Getting to this unique object is no easy task — it is only possible to do through a narrow canyon. But this doesn’t stop tourists.
We at Bright Side are fascinated by the secrets of cities that are deeply hidden in space and time. And when it comes to Petra, there are way more questions than there are answers.
Who built this city and when?
Petra has been abandoned for hundreds of years, but thousands of years ago, it was a fully functioning city. It was a huge trade center located right on the intersection of paths. Silk, spices, and herbs were transported from India to Arabia, Africa, Egypt, and back. It allowed local people to become very rich. It’s not entirely clear when this city was built, but we know that Petra was the capital of the Nabataean Kingdom. According to some estimations, in its best years, around 20,000 people lived in Petra.
How is it even possible to carve a city into rock?
The façades of the buildings were carved right into the walls of a canyon and they are mind-blowing. The elegant carving shows the high level of development of this civilization and the craftsmanship of the builders. The main entrance is called Al-Khazneh (The Treasury). It was named this by the local Bedouins who believed that all the riches were inside. The gate is carved out of rose stone which is why Petra is also called Rose City.
It was obviously a very hard job for the builders. In order to build something like this, they had to be very skilled. These builders managed to create something that was on par with Greek and Roman buildings.
Experts believe builders had to create giant steps in order to safely create this building. There were no trees around to be used to build scaffolding. Scientists think that the construction started from the top: people somehow stood on the rock, and gradually moved down. And, by using hammers and chisels, they achieved amazing results.
Did the rocks protect the city from enemies?
Other people were jealous of the treasures of Petra and the city had to defend itself against the Greeks. Petra won that battle, but when the Roman conquerors arrived, the city had to give up. Petra still thrived for many years, but it asunder the rule of the Roman Empire. In the 4th century, an earthquake destroyed most of the town and the Romans decided to leave the city. Later, it was taken over by the Byzantine Empire.
Why is Petra a lost city and where did all the people go?
With the development of technology, maritime trade started developing and Petra lost its strategic purpose. At this point it was abandoned and hidden in the sands. This is how it became the lost city. But Petra was only lost when it came to people from the western civilizations, the locals knew about this gem in the desert. The Bedouin tribe, B’doul, lived in the caves of the city. They called themselves the descendants of the Nabataeans and they didn’t want anyone else to know about Petra because they were worried that people would come there looking for treasure and destroy what remained of the city. This is why they kept the location of the city a secret for many years.
How did people from Europe find out about Petra?
It was discovered on August 12, 1812. Johann Ludwig Burckhardt, a young Swiss man, heard the legend about this mysterious city when he was traveling to Cairo. And even then, he had to disguise himself as someone of Arab descent during his journey and had to lie to his guide that he wanted to make an offering at the tomb to enter the City directly. Using the alias, Sheikh Ibrahim Ibn Abdallah, Johann couldn’t spend a lot of time in Petra because he wasn’t a local. He couldn’t even say it was the city that he was looking for because there was no proof of that. But this is how people in Europe found out about Petra, and other researchers followed in his footsteps. They made a lot of drawings, but the first archaeological research didn’t start there until 1929.
Why did they have a treasury?
Archaeologists don’t really know why The Treasury was made. Some people think it’s the tomb of a Nabataean king, and others believe it was for keeping documents or maybe used as some sort of a temple. All that we can surely say is that The Treasury was built later, when the city was already established and rich.
How did people survive in the desert and among the rocks without water?
The people of Petra were experts in terms of the technology connected to water. They built cisterns, dams, tunnels, and reservoirs, and the city was an oasis for tired travelers. These amazing technologies allowed the locals to remain in the city, even during droughts. During certain periods, there were times of ample water, so the locals built dams and aqueducts that changed the direction of the rainwater into the city so that people could live in comfort.
How did they live in the rocks? And did they live inside?
Petra was a big religious center, and it was probably a gathering place for clergy, sculptors, merchants, and other people. In Petra, there are more than 1,000 tombs, many of which were for families and even entire tribes. Many of the people there were probably in the funeral business. It is hard to answer the question regarding whether all of the 20,000 (or maybe even 30,000) residents of the city lived inside of Petra. It is very likely that some of the people lived in tents outside the walls.
Who is buried in the Petra tombs?
Researchers have no ideas about this. It is definitely known that the tombs were made in different historical periods because they look very different. The people of Petra didn’t make any inscriptions on the tombs that would’ve helped us understand who is buried there. But they believed that the dead could eat and spend time in the other world, because they left food and different objects with their bodies. Interestingly, in the beginning, Petra was believed to be one giant necropolis, because of the huge number of tombs. Only later did scientists find out that it was a very well-developed city.
What else is there in Petra, aside from the beautiful gate in all of the photos?
One of the most impressive buildings in Petra is the theater. It is almost right in the middle of the city and up to 8,500 people could’ve been seated there at the same time. Among other amazing objects is the Street of the Façades that has many tombs, and the Ad Deir monastery. It is a monumental building whose purpose is still a mystery.
In 1985, Petra made it on the UNESCO list, and in 2007, it became one of the New 7 Wonders of the World. Now, the Bedouins live in a special settlement built for them that is not far from the city and tourism is their main business.
There are huge cubes outside the gate of Petra. What are they for?
Many things in Petra remain a mystery. For example, there are giant rocks — in the form of square-shaped monuments scattered outside the city walls. Nobody knows why they are there and what their purpose is. There’s a legend that says there are genies inside that protect the ancient capital.
Will we ever be able to solve all the mysteries of Petra?
We are still making discoveries in Petra. In 2016, archaeologists found a huge unknown structure that probably had a ceremonial function. And experts are still trying to understand exactly what it is. In 1993, scrolls were found dating back to the Byzantine period, this information that is inside them is still a secret. Archaeologists believe that right now, we only know about 15% of the city and the other 85% is still underground and hasn’t been found yet. So, we’ve still got a lot to find out about this lost treasure.
The Middle East is not very popular among tourists. But still, in 2019, more than 1 million people visited Petra. It is one of the most visited archaeological sites in the world. Indiana Jones & The Last Crusade was filmed there, iconic photoshoots have taken place there, and people from all around the world come to see this amazing place regularly.
Sometimes, tourists are allowed in Petra at night and the path to the entrance is decorated with lanterns and candles.
If you can’t visit the ancient city of Petra at the moment, you can at least use Google with an audio guide.
Would you like to go to Petra? Maybe you’ve already been there and you want to tell us about the impression this city made on you?


brightside--2020-08-28--Why Your Cats Are Addicted to Small Spaces and Boxes

If you ’ ve ever bought your cat a fancy cat bed or an expensive cat tower , you ’ ve probably found your cat chilling in the Amazon box that came with the bed or tower instead .
Kitties simply can ’ t seem to resist squeezing into narrow places or boxes so much so that there ’ s a “ If I fits , I sits ” meme .
There are actually a few possible reasons for why they just adore these little nooks , according to experts .
We at Bright Side are curious as to the @ @ @ @ @ @ @ ( but adorable ! )
behavior , and we ’ re sure you are too .
The most comfortable temperature for domestic cats is 86°F-100°F , which is about 20 degrees higher than a human .
At this range , they won ’ t have to generate extra heat to keep warm .
Being in a tiny space helps them to preserve their body heat , especially in places that are good at containing heat like cardboard boxes .
Since most homes are around 72°F , which is so much lower than their @ @ @ @ @ @ @ very cold for cats .
It is no wonder that they prefer laying on the wall under the hot sun to sprawling out on the floor inside the house .
In a tight space , cats feel more secure , said Nicholas Dodman , a professor who specializes in animal studies .
This is because it ’ s quieter and it ’ s not as dangerous as a wider , open space .
Choosing to be in a narrow box can be said to be a cat ’ s way of controlling the @ @ @ @ @ @ @ in a tiny space on the wall , in the corner of a cabinet , or even on top of a narrow door , may look uncomfortable and make them prone to falling , but these places actually allow cats to observe the things around them without being seen .
If they have a target in sight , they could pounce when their prey least expects it .
They can also stay more alert if there are predators nearby .
Being in small space calms them .
A study found that boxes actually @ @ @ @ @ @ @ .
Shelter cats that were given boxes adapted better to their new environment than those that were not .
With boxes , their stress levels reduced in just 3 days , compared to 3 weeks for those without boxes .
It feels like being hugged .
Tight spaces impart a certain pressure around their bodies that can be rewarding , claims Dr. Karen van Haaften .
Nicholas Dodman seems to agree with this , saying that since they are used to snuggling with their mothers , cats find comfort in having close contact @ @ @ @ @ @ @ He believes that it releases endorphins , which gives pleasure and helps reduce stress .
Sometimes they just want to sleep undisturbed .
Kitties can spend 18 hours a day sleeping , said trained zoologist Luis Villazon .
So to clock in their beauty sleep , they find places where people aren ’ t likely to find them .
This way they avoid those unwanted pets from humans and unwelcome attention from other animals .
They could literally be hiding from their problems .
According to the book The Domestic Cat : The @ @ @ @ @ @ @ so terrible at solving problems that they ’ d rather avoid them altogether .
By being in tiny spaces that can only fit one cat , they get to hide alone and not have to face their problems .
Cats are , in a way , just like children .
They ’ re curious about new things and like to explore , said Dr. Karen van Haaften .
Boxes and new things can appear mysterious and hence appealing enough for them to want to get inside .

If you’ve ever bought your cat a fancy cat bed or an expensive cat tower, you’ve probably found your cat chilling in the Amazon box that came with the bed or tower instead. Kitties simply can’t seem to resist squeezing into narrow places or boxes so much so that there’s a “If I fits, I sits” meme. There are actually a few possible reasons for why they just adore these little nooks, according to experts.
We at Bright Side are curious as to the reasons behind our feline friends’ weird (but adorable!) behavior, and we’re sure you are too.
They’re avoiding the cold floor.
The most comfortable temperature for domestic cats is 86°F-100°F, which is about 20 degrees higher than a human. At this range, they won’t have to generate extra heat to keep warm. Being in a tiny space helps them to preserve their body heat, especially in places that are good at containing heat like cardboard boxes.
Since most homes are around 72°F, which is so much lower than their comfortable temperature, the floor could be very cold for cats. It is no wonder that they prefer laying on the wall under the hot sun to sprawling out on the floor inside the house.
The box is a safe hiding place.
In a tight space, cats feel more secure, said Nicholas Dodman, a professor who specializes in animal studies. This is because it’s quieter and it’s not as dangerous as a wider, open space. Choosing to be in a narrow box can be said to be a cat’s way of controlling the environment they’re in.
They can develop a misplaced sense of security with taped-in squares or drawn-out circles. But these are not as good as actual narrow vessels like shoe boxes.
Small but high places give them a vantage point.
Sitting in a tiny space on the wall, in the corner of a cabinet, or even on top of a narrow door, may look uncomfortable and make them prone to falling, but these places actually allow cats to observe the things around them without being seen. If they have a target in sight, they could pounce when their prey least expects it. They can also stay more alert if there are predators nearby.
Being in small space calms them.
A study found that boxes actually help cats to reduce their stress levels. Shelter cats that were given boxes adapted better to their new environment than those that were not. With boxes, their stress levels reduced in just 3 days, compared to 3 weeks for those without boxes.
It feels like being hugged.
Tight spaces impart a certain pressure around their bodies that can be rewarding, claims Dr. Karen van Haaften. Nicholas Dodman seems to agree with this, saying that since they are used to snuggling with their mothers, cats find comfort in having close contact with the interior of small boxes. He believes that it releases endorphins, which gives pleasure and helps reduce stress.
Sometimes they just want to sleep undisturbed.
Kitties can spend 18 hours a day sleeping, said trained zoologist Luis Villazon. So to clock in their beauty sleep, they find places where people aren’t likely to find them. This way they avoid those unwanted pets from humans and unwelcome attention from other animals.
They could literally be hiding from their problems.
According to the book The Domestic Cat: The Biology of Its Behavior, cats are so terrible at solving problems that they’d rather avoid them altogether. By being in tiny spaces that can only fit one cat, they get to hide alone and not have to face their problems.
They are naturally curious.
Cats are, in a way, just like children. They’re curious about new things and like to explore, said Dr. Karen van Haaften. Boxes and new things can appear mysterious and hence appealing enough for them to want to get inside.