thoughtcatalog--2020-11-17--30 Toxic Phrases That Are Huge Red Flags

1 .
“ Look what you made me do.
” Shifting blame for their own actions onto others is a serious red-flag .
2 .
“ I ’ m sorry that you feel that way.
” They shift blame to you and never apologize for what they did .
3 .
“ If you don ’ t do X , then I ’ m breaking up with you.
” There is a clear difference between using this phrase to manipulate and using this phrase because you don ’ t want to tolerate toxic behavior .
4 .
“ No one @ @ @ @ @ @ @ I do.
” I know it ’ s kind of obvious to anyone with half a brain but the only two people who have ever said this to me were both malignant narcissists .
Run !
5 .
“ You ’ re overreacting.
” I feel like this is often a manipulation technique , to make your feelings feel unreasonable and to make you doubt yourself .
Most of the time that means , “ I ’ m going to be a dickhole.
” It ’ s almost a surefire way to figure @ @ @ @ @ @ @ a problem in the future , and it ’ s an especially bad sign when someone you ’ re dating says it to you .
7 .
“ I ’ m a good person.
” Typically , when a person has to repeatedly assert that they are a certain way , they usually are the opposite .
8 .
“ You ’ re so mature for your age.
” Especially if speaking in reference to minors .
Major red flags .
In a job description , it means : “ You ’ re @ @ @ @ @ @ @ targets and will be pressured to join a company sports team.
” And from a person , it means : “ I ’ m a workaholic who will put my FOMO issues ahead of your feelings.
” 10 .
“ All of my exes are crazy.
” 11 .
“ If you can ’ t handle me at my worst then you don ’ t deserve me at my best.
” 12 .
“ It ’ s all on you , it has nothing to do with me ” as they pressure you @ @ @ @ @ @ @ as it suits them .
13 .
“ I can ’ t live without you.
” If it ’ s not in a joking manner , my first thought is that they are either very clingy or manipulative .
14 .
“ I don ’ t get along with other girls.
” Be wary of anyone who defines themselves by the people they don ’ t get along with .
16 .
“ I ’ m a nice guy , why do degrading slur for women always pick bad guys ?
” Sure @ @ @ @ @ @ @ I am ex-emperor of The Roman Empire and stabbee , Julius Caesar .
17 .
“ I don ’ t get angry easily , but when I do get angry , I do X and Y.
” People bragging about a violent streak is so weird to me .
I ’ ve never responded to anything with violence .
Ever .
I assuming that this is because I ’ m a well-adjusted person .
18 .
“ You ’ re too sensitive.
” I will NEVER trust a person who says that to @ @ @ @ @ @ @ sensitive , but I own that shit , and other people don ’ t get to decide I ’ m “ too much ” of this or “ too little ” of that .
That ’ s not up to them .
19 .
“ I want to be spoiled.
” I ’ ve always seen that as give me everything I want without any reciprocation or even thanks .
22 .
“ I don ’ t like drama.
” If you hear that , or a variation of that , walk away @ @ @ @ @ @ @ about that shit .
23 .
“ I do trust you .
It ’ s other boys that I don ’ t trust.
” 24 .
“ I ’ m a very sarcastic person.
” 100 % of the people who think that sarcasm is a personality trait are in fact just rude .
25 .
“ Do your research.
” It usually means the person bought into some crazy conspiracy theory and wants you to do your research , but only the research that agrees with them .
26 .
“ You @ @ @ @ @ @ @ 27 .
“ If you loved me you would… ” Hasn ’ t happened to me but my sister ’ s boyfriend tried to pressure her into a threesome with that line .
28 .
“ I ‘ m a nice guy , I never get the girl.
” 29 .
Ruuuuun when the girl says : “ I ’ m high maintenance.
” 30 .
“ I ’ m fine .
Just tired.
” When one of my friends says this .
I immediately know something is wrong .

Ask Reddit wants you to look out for these massive red flags.
1. “Look what you made me do.” Shifting blame for their own actions onto others is a serious red-flag.
2. “I’m sorry that you feel that way.” They shift blame to you and never apologize for what they did.
3. “If you don’t do X, then I’m breaking up with you.” There is a clear difference between using this phrase to manipulate and using this phrase because you don’t want to tolerate toxic behavior.
4. “No one will ever love you as much as I do.” I know it’s kind of obvious to anyone with half a brain but the only two people who have ever said this to me were both malignant narcissists. Run!
5. “You’re overreacting.” I feel like this is often a manipulation technique, to make your feelings feel unreasonable and to make you doubt yourself.
6. “Look man, I’m just brutally honest.”
Most of the time that means, “I’m going to be a dickhole.” It’s almost a surefire way to figure out if someone is going to be a problem in the future, and it’s an especially bad sign when someone you’re dating says it to you.
7. “I’m a good person.” Typically, when a person has to repeatedly assert that they are a certain way, they usually are the opposite.
8. “You’re so mature for your age.” Especially if speaking in reference to minors. Major red flags.
9. “Work hard play hard.”
In a job description, it means: “You’re going to be expected to meet inhuman targets and will be pressured to join a company sports team.”
And from a person, it means: “I’m a workaholic who will put my FOMO issues ahead of your feelings.”
10. “All of my exes are crazy.”
11. “If you can’t handle me at my worst then you don’t deserve me at my best.”
12. “It’s all on you, it has nothing to do with me” as they pressure you and insist you give them attention/support/free time as it suits them.
13. “I can’t live without you.” If it’s not in a joking manner, my first thought is that they are either very clingy or manipulative.
14. “I don’t get along with other girls.” Be wary of anyone who defines themselves by the people they don’t get along with.
15. “What? Don’t you trust me?”
16. “I’m a nice guy, why do degrading slur for women always pick bad guys?”
Sure you are a nice guy, and I am ex-emperor of The Roman Empire and stabbee, Julius Caesar.
17. “I don’t get angry easily, but when I do get angry, I do X and Y.” People bragging about a violent streak is so weird to me. I’ve never responded to anything with violence. Ever. I assuming that this is because I’m a well-adjusted person.
18. “You’re too sensitive.” I will NEVER trust a person who says that to me. Like yeah, I am sensitive, but I own that shit, and other people don’t get to decide I’m “too much” of this or “too little” of that. That’s not up to them.
19. “I want to be spoiled.” I’ve always seen that as give me everything I want without any reciprocation or even thanks.
20.“We’re more than coworkers/employees. We’re family!”
21. “I’m not racist but…”
22. “I don’t like drama.” If you hear that, or a variation of that, walk away. Trust me, they are all about that shit.
23. “I do trust you. It’s other boys that I don’t trust.”
24. “I’m a very sarcastic person.” 100% of the people who think that sarcasm is a personality trait are in fact just rude.
25. “Do your research.” It usually means the person bought into some crazy conspiracy theory and wants you to do your research, but only the research that agrees with them.
26. “You’re not like other girls.”
27. “If you loved me you would…” Hasn’t happened to me but my sister’s boyfriend tried to pressure her into a threesome with that line.
28. “I‘m a nice guy, I never get the girl.”
29. Ruuuuun when the girl says: “I’m high maintenance.”
30. “I’m fine. Just tired.” When one of my friends says this. I immediately know something is wrong.


thoughtcatalog--2020-11-17--Here’s Why Everyone On TikTok Is Obsessed With ‘Megan Is Missing’

Megan is Missing is a 2011 American horror movie told through the lens of found footage .
We meet two high school best friends , Megan Stewart and Amy Herman , who often communicate over webcam .
Their lives are typical for high school students .
They discuss their friends , parents , and boys at school .
It becomes clear Megan ’ s home life leaves something to be desired and what she most wants is for someone to love her .
Soon , Megan meets someone online who claims to be a 17-year-old named Josh with a broken @ @ @ @ @ @ @ know what he looks like and can ’ t confirm his age ) .
They eventually decide to meet in the parking lot behind a diner .
Security footage shows Megan being abducted from the lot .
Distraught , Amy searches for her best friend .
She reports “ Josh ” to the police .
While alone in the woods visiting a spot she used to hang out with Megan , Amy is also abducted .
So why is the movie experiencing a resurgence ?
The last 15 minutes of this horror movie @ @ @ @ @ @ @ brain with images of real horror as the “ found footage ” reveals the fate of these two poor girls .
In raw , terrifying photos and video , we see that they were sexually abused , tortured , and eventually killed and placed in blue 50 gallon barrels to be disposed of .
This footage is extremely graphic and I ’ m not sure I would ever recommend someone else watch this movie .
The reason this is going viral on Tiktok is that users are posting their organic reactions to the @ @ @ @ @ @ @ is so shocking , everyone who watches it tends to have a big reaction to it .
Because of this , we also crave seeing the way other people react , because we want to relive the moment of shock and horror for ourselves .
The trend has gotten so big that the director of Megan is Missing , Michael Goi , has even posted this warning on Tiktok to people wanting to see the film for the first time : He warns viewers that there is no “ real ” footage in @ @ @ @ @ @ @ with forensic investigators to make accurate recreations of what has been found in real child abduction cases .
He says he wanted the film to be horrifying in order for people to understand the risks of meeting strangers online .
If you want to see for yourself , Megan is Missing is streaming on Amazon and YouTube .

Megan is Missing is a 2011 American horror movie told through the lens of found footage. We meet two high school best friends, Megan Stewart and Amy Herman, who often communicate over webcam. Their lives are typical for high school students. They discuss their friends, parents, and boys at school. It becomes clear Megan’s home life leaves something to be desired and what she most wants is for someone to love her.
Soon, Megan meets someone online who claims to be a 17-year-old named Josh with a broken webcam (so she doesn’t know what he looks like and can’t confirm his age). They eventually decide to meet in the parking lot behind a diner. Security footage shows Megan being abducted from the lot.
Distraught, Amy searches for her best friend. She reports “Josh” to the police. While alone in the woods visiting a spot she used to hang out with Megan, Amy is also abducted.
Here’s the trailer:
So why is the movie experiencing a resurgence?
The last 15 minutes of this horror movie are unforgettable. They will stain your brain with images of real horror as the “found footage” reveals the fate of these two poor girls. In raw, terrifying photos and video, we see that they were sexually abused, tortured, and eventually killed and placed in blue 50 gallon barrels to be disposed of.
This footage is extremely graphic and I’m not sure I would ever recommend someone else watch this movie.
The reason this is going viral on Tiktok is that users are posting their organic reactions to the horror of this movie. The film is so shocking, everyone who watches it tends to have a big reaction to it. Because of this, we also crave seeing the way other people react, because we want to relive the moment of shock and horror for ourselves.
The trend has gotten so big that the director of Megan is Missing, Michael Goi, has even posted this warning on Tiktok to people wanting to see the film for the first time:
He warns viewers that there is no “real” footage in the movie. Goi says he worked with forensic investigators to make accurate recreations of what has been found in real child abduction cases. He says he wanted the film to be horrifying in order for people to understand the risks of meeting strangers online.
If you want to see for yourself, Megan is Missing is streaming on Amazon and YouTube.


thoughtcatalog--2020-11-17--The Emotion Each Zodiac Sign Struggles With Expressing

You struggle to express sadness .
You act like nothing bothers you .
You pretend everything rolls right off your back .
You struggle to express annoyance .
You don ’ t want to make anyone else feel bad , even when they ’ re driving you insane , so you keep your nasty opinions to yourself .
You struggle to express happiness .
You ’ ve grown so used to being miserable that positive emotions make you uncomfortable .
You ’ re worried they ’ re not going to last .
You struggle to express anger .
You have @ @ @ @ @ @ @ and putting people in their place when they hurt you .
You struggle to express fear .
You pretend nothing shakes you .
You pretend you ’ re confident , even when you ’ re absolutely terrified .
You struggle to express loneliness .
You pretend you don ’ t need anyone .
You pretend you ’ re perfectly fine on your own .
You struggle to express discomfort .
You don ’ t want to make anyone else uncomfortable so you pretend everything is okay , even when you ’ re dying @ @ @ @ @ @ @ .
You joke around all the time .
Serious emotions are hard for you to process and explore .
You struggle to express excitement .
You don ’ t want to embarrass yourself if things don ’ t work out the way you planned .
You struggle to express jealousy .
You don ’ t want to admit you care about someone enough to be jealous of them .
You pretend you don ’ t need anyone .
You struggle to express attraction .
You hide your feelings — even from yourself .
@ @ @ @ @ @ @ You ’ re too humble .
You never brag about your accomplishments and everything you ’ ve achieved .

Aries
You struggle to express sadness. You act like nothing bothers you. You pretend everything rolls right off your back.
Taurus
You struggle to express annoyance. You don’t want to make anyone else feel bad, even when they’re driving you insane, so you keep your nasty opinions to yourself.
Gemini
You struggle to express happiness. You’ve grown so used to being miserable that positive emotions make you uncomfortable. You’re worried they’re not going to last.
Cancer
You struggle to express anger. You have a hard time sticking up for yourself and putting people in their place when they hurt you.
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Leo
You struggle to express fear. You pretend nothing shakes you. You pretend you’re confident, even when you’re absolutely terrified.
Virgo
You struggle to express loneliness. You pretend you don’t need anyone. You pretend you’re perfectly fine on your own.
Libra
You struggle to express discomfort. You don’t want to make anyone else uncomfortable so you pretend everything is okay, even when you’re dying inside.
Scorpio
You struggle to express love. You joke around all the time. Serious emotions are hard for you to process and explore.
Sagittarius
You struggle to express excitement. You don’t want to embarrass yourself if things don’t work out the way you planned.
Capricorn
You struggle to express jealousy. You don’t want to admit you care about someone enough to be jealous of them. You pretend you don’t need anyone.
Aquarius
You struggle to express attraction. You hide your feelings — even from yourself.
Pisces
You struggle to express your pride. You’re too humble. You never brag about your accomplishments and everything you’ve achieved.


thoughtcatalog--2020-11-17--Love Is About Feeling Comfortable In The Little Moments

Love isn ’ t always about butterflies and skipped heartbeats .
It isn ’ t always about feeling nervous and sweaty and desperate to impress .
Love isn ’ t always an adrenaline rush , a roller coaster ride , a series of rises and falls that make you feel desperately human , intoxicatingly alive .
Most of the time , love is comfortable , especially when you ’ ve been together for a while , when you know each other inside and out , when you become best friends and life partners .
Love is comfortable once you realize @ @ @ @ @ @ @ yourself , the parts you usually keep smothered and hidden from the rest of the universe , the parts you reserve for the people who have earned a permanent home in your heart .
Love is about feeling comfortable in silence .
You should feel comfortable during those moments when you ’ re sitting on opposite ends of the couch , reading or scrolling through your phone or playing video games .
You should feel comfortable when you ’ ve both had long days and are too exhausted to talk and are sitting @ @ @ @ @ @ @ meal .
You should feel comfortable when you ’ re snuggled up in bed with your bodies pressed close together and your breathing starts to sync .
You should feel comfortable when this other person is beside you , holding your hand or squeezing your thigh or simply existing in your peripherals .
You should be comfortable knowing they are there for you and aren ’ t going anywhere , no matter what the world brings .
Love is about feeling comfortable in conversations .
You should feel comfortable talking about the mundane @ @ @ @ @ @ @ it might be boring to anyone else , even though you might feel silly for caring so much over matters so small .
You should feel comfortable discussing topics that you avoid with anyone else , about your hopes and fears and sex and the future .
You should feel comfortable getting into playful debates about your favorite music and novels and artwork and cinema .
You should feel comfortable showing this person your true , authentic self without hiding the bits and pieces you consider undesirable .
You should be comfortable opening @ @ @ @ @ @ @ because they aren ’ t going to judge .
Love is about feeling comfortable with another human being , connected to another soul .
It ’ s about knowing your heart is in good hands and will be treated with delicacy .
It ’ s about knowing you can relax , let your hair down , and stop worrying about being abandoned out of the blue because your person is forever tethered to you .
Love is about having a constant , having a supporter in your corner , having no doubt in @ @ @ @ @ @ @ alone and never will be again .
Love can feel wild and untamed at times .
It can make your chest ache and your stomach flutter .
However , it can also be comfortable .
It can give you a sense of peace and belonging .
It can steady your heartbeats and relax your shoulders .
It can make you feel like you ’ ve finally found home .

Love isn’t always about butterflies and skipped heartbeats. It isn’t always about feeling nervous and sweaty and desperate to impress. Love isn’t always an adrenaline rush, a roller coaster ride, a series of rises and falls that make you feel desperately human, intoxicatingly alive.
Most of the time, love is comfortable, especially when you’ve been together for a while, when you know each other inside and out, when you become best friends and life partners.
Love is comfortable once you realize this person admires the deepest parts of yourself, the parts you usually keep smothered and hidden from the rest of the universe, the parts you reserve for the people who have earned a permanent home in your heart.
Love is about feeling comfortable in silence. You should feel comfortable during those moments when you’re sitting on opposite ends of the couch, reading or scrolling through your phone or playing video games. You should feel comfortable when you’ve both had long days and are too exhausted to talk and are sitting at the dinner table sharing a warm meal.
You should feel comfortable when you’re snuggled up in bed with your bodies pressed close together and your breathing starts to sync. You should feel comfortable when this other person is beside you, holding your hand or squeezing your thigh or simply existing in your peripherals. You should be comfortable knowing they are there for you and aren’t going anywhere, no matter what the world brings.
Love is about feeling comfortable in conversations. You should feel comfortable talking about the mundane details of your day, even though it might be boring to anyone else, even though you might feel silly for caring so much over matters so small. You should feel comfortable discussing topics that you avoid with anyone else, about your hopes and fears and sex and the future. You should feel comfortable getting into playful debates about your favorite music and novels and artwork and cinema.
You should feel comfortable showing this person your true, authentic self without hiding the bits and pieces you consider undesirable. You should be comfortable opening up to them about anything and everything because they aren’t going to judge.
Love is about feeling comfortable with another human being, connected to another soul. It’s about knowing your heart is in good hands and will be treated with delicacy. It’s about knowing you can relax, let your hair down, and stop worrying about being abandoned out of the blue because your person is forever tethered to you.
Love is about having a constant, having a supporter in your corner, having no doubt in your mind that you aren’t alone and never will be again.
Love can feel wild and untamed at times. It can make your chest ache and your stomach flutter. However, it can also be comfortable. It can give you a sense of peace and belonging. It can steady your heartbeats and relax your shoulders. It can make you feel like you’ve finally found home.


thoughtcatalog--2020-11-18--The Creepy Horror Movie Everyone On TikTok Is Obsessed With


thoughtcatalog--2020-11-18--30 Hilarious Compliments That Are Weird Enough To Be Flattering

1 .
“ You know the definition of the word wholesome ?
You are my new definition for that.
” Something along those lines , kind of weird , but man did it feel good to get it .
I couldn ’ t stop smiling .
2 .
That I ’ m like a piece of furniture .
I don ’ t do much but people notice when I ’ m not there .
Not as in I looked relaxed .
She meant I looked comfortable to rest , lean , or lay on .
At first , I asked @ @ @ @ @ @ @ fat .
She explained that I had a look about me of being someone who would comfortable to cuddle with and not hog space or covers .
4 .
My friends and I were talking about what kind of potatoes we ’ d be .
One of my best friends told me , “ You ’ d be a loaded baked potato .
People pay extra for that good shit !
” 5 .
My 4-year-old son told me I smelled like music .
When I asked what kind of music , he @ @ @ @ @ @ @ ” Still the best compliment I have received to date !
6 .
From a teacher : “ You ’ re like a barb-wired fence , maybe something gets past you , but it leaves tattered pieces behind.
” ( I ’ m not very attentive , but somehow I manage to pick up the info I need and use it appropriately . )
7 .
I work retail and was told this by a customer : “ You ’ re so nice , you must have been bullied in high school.
” @ @ @ @ @ @ @ ” by one of my great Nan ’ s friends .
She had meant happy but it made me laugh so hard I choked on my drink .
Thought she had excellent gaydar , turns out she just thought I looked happy .
9 .
I ’ m petite so there was one time somebody told me that I must be “ easy to maneuver.
” Not sure if that is a compliment… ?
10 .
An old lady once told me she wishes she was 60 years younger , then she would @ @ @ @ @ @ @ was the most unsettling , funniest , and somehow most charming compliment I ’ ve ever received .
11 .
A teacher in high school told me several times that I had a perfectly shaped head .
12 .
The piecer who pierced my ears back in August told me my ears were perfect and to call her if anyone said otherwise and she would fight them for me .
13 .
Every time I see her , my gynecologist always says , “ You have such a CUTE little cervix !
” @ @ @ @ @ @ @ liked talking to me because I made them use their whole brain .
I dunno .
It ’ s weird , but it was nice to hear .
15 .
I ’ ve been told that I have exceptionally smooth balls .
Like two hard-boiled eggs in a balloon full of downy fabric softener… 17 .
“ Your penis is harder than old chicken.
” 18 .
“ You finally look like a human being.
” It happens every time I get a haircut .
19 .
I went to my 25th high @ @ @ @ @ @ @ then didn ’ t recognize me .
When I told her my name she said , “ Oh my gosh !
You ’ re so handsome now !
” 20 .
Random stranger while I was on a run : “ NICE NECK.
” I ’ m not saying I believe in vampires , but I made sure my windows were all locked that night .
21 .
“ It took me a couple of decades to realize guys like you are the best.
” 22 .
When I went to the doctor @ @ @ @ @ @ @ ?
They were about to draw my blood and the older one poked at my veins .
She said I had nice “ bouncy ” veins , so they ’ re easy to see and draw blood from .
23 .
In 7th grade , I wore a fanny pack to school to hold stuff like Yu-Gi-Oh cards , which I played with at lunch .
Once while walking down the hallway an 8th grader I never met before was like , “ Duuude I like your fanny pack , ” gave me @ @ @ @ @ @ @ .
I never saw him again , and miraculously nobody ever picked on me about it ( to my face at least ) .
24 .
I had pink eye and the nurse was looking into the noninfected eye .
“ You have beautiful retinas.
” Thank you… ?
25 .
“ You look like you ’ re good with your elbows.
” Said by a 50+ year old man biking by .
He then swung back around telling me I should try out for the local roller derby team .
26 .
@ @ @ @ @ @ @ ’ d make a really good looking girl.
” I ’ m a guy by the way .
27 .
During an internal ultrasound I once got told I have beautiful Fallopian tubes .
I ’ ve been riding that high for years .
28 .
“ Wow , you ’ re stronger than my dad ” — my girlfriend , the first time I picked her up .
29 .
“ Your freckles are so sexy .
They remind me of my sister .
”

People from Ask Reddit have gotten some pretty unique compliments.
1. “You know the definition of the word wholesome? You are my new definition for that.”
Something along those lines, kind of weird, but man did it feel good to get it. I couldn’t stop smiling.
2. That I’m like a piece of furniture. I don’t do much but people notice when I’m not there.
3. “You look comfortable.”
Not as in I looked relaxed. She meant I looked comfortable to rest, lean, or lay on. At first, I asked if she was politely saying I was fat. She explained that I had a look about me of being someone who would comfortable to cuddle with and not hog space or covers.
4. My friends and I were talking about what kind of potatoes we’d be. One of my best friends told me, “You’d be a loaded baked potato. People pay extra for that good shit!”
5. My 4-year-old son told me I smelled like music. When I asked what kind of music, he said, “Music you dance to.” Still the best compliment I have received to date!
6. From a teacher: “You’re like a barb-wired fence, maybe something gets past you, but it leaves tattered pieces behind.” (I’m not very attentive, but somehow I manage to pick up the info I need and use it appropriately.)
7. I work retail and was told this by a customer: “You’re so nice, you must have been bullied in high school.”
8. “You look gay today” by one of my great Nan’s friends. She had meant happy but it made me laugh so hard I choked on my drink. Thought she had excellent gaydar, turns out she just thought I looked happy.
9. I’m petite so there was one time somebody told me that I must be “easy to maneuver.” Not sure if that is a compliment…?
10. An old lady once told me she wishes she was 60 years younger, then she would “give me some confidence.” It was the most unsettling, funniest, and somehow most charming compliment I’ve ever received.
11. A teacher in high school told me several times that I had a perfectly shaped head.
12. The piecer who pierced my ears back in August told me my ears were perfect and to call her if anyone said otherwise and she would fight them for me.
13. Every time I see her, my gynecologist always says, “You have such a CUTE little cervix!”
14. Someone told me that they liked talking to me because I made them use their whole brain. I dunno. It’s weird, but it was nice to hear.
15. I’ve been told that I have exceptionally smooth balls. Like two hard-boiled eggs in a balloon full of downy fabric softener…
16. “Your leg hair looks sexy.”
17. “Your penis is harder than old chicken.”
18. “You finally look like a human being.” It happens every time I get a haircut.
19. I went to my 25th high school reunion and a woman I knew then didn’t recognize me. When I told her my name she said, “Oh my gosh! You’re so handsome now!”
20. Random stranger while I was on a run: “NICE NECK.” I’m not saying I believe in vampires, but I made sure my windows were all locked that night.
21. “It took me a couple of decades to realize guys like you are the best.”
22. When I went to the doctor I guess they were training a nurse? They were about to draw my blood and the older one poked at my veins. She said I had nice “bouncy” veins, so they’re easy to see and draw blood from.
23. In 7th grade, I wore a fanny pack to school to hold stuff like Yu-Gi-Oh cards, which I played with at lunch. Once while walking down the hallway an 8th grader I never met before was like, “Duuude I like your fanny pack,” gave me a high five, and kept walking. I never saw him again, and miraculously nobody ever picked on me about it (to my face at least).
24. I had pink eye and the nurse was looking into the noninfected eye. “You have beautiful retinas.” Thank you…?
25. “You look like you’re good with your elbows.” Said by a 50+ year old man biking by. He then swung back around telling me I should try out for the local roller derby team.
26. “With the right makeup, you’d make a really good looking girl.” I’m a guy by the way.
27. During an internal ultrasound I once got told I have beautiful Fallopian tubes. I’ve been riding that high for years.
28. “Wow, you’re stronger than my dad” — my girlfriend, the first time I picked her up.
29. “Your freckles are so sexy. They remind me of my sister.”
30. “You remind me of a swan.”


thoughtcatalog--2020-11-18--Unpopular Opinion: The VVitch Was Not A Good Horror Movie

I ’ ll start by saying I like slow movies .
I loved It Comes At Night which is one of the slowest and most anti-climactic horror movies ever .
But I did not like The VVitch .
It was too slow , the ending didn ’ t hit for me .
I didn ’ t get it .
I didn ’ t feel enough about Thomasin rising into power at the end .
For the uninitiated , The VVitch ( 2015 ) is a supernatural horror film about a family of protestant settlers , William and Katherine and their @ @ @ @ @ @ @ Jonas and Samuel .
who have been excommunicated from their colony .
On their own in a secluded clearing the family deals with the disappearance of baby Samuel , lack of resources , and paranoia about witches in the nearby woods .
Here ’ s the trailer : I ’ m starting to think there are two kinds of horror fans : Blumhouse and A24 .
Despite my deep and abiding love for Midsommar , I fall into the Blumhouse camp .
I like jump scares .
I like murder mysteries .
Give @ @ @ @ @ @ @ a group of hot twenty somethings in a remote location .
I don ’ t even mind found footage .
I like to be scared and I need things to happen to advance the plot and hold my interest .
It could also just be an Ari Aster vs. Robert Eggers thing .
I loved Aster ’ s Hereditary and Midsommar and loathed Egger ’ s The VVitch and The Lighthouse .
I really , really hated The Lighthouse .
Even as a Robert Pattinson fan I felt it was basically unwatchable and @ @ @ @ @ @ @ ’ s because it ’ s a period piece .
Or because the last thing I want to watch about at the end of an exhausting day living through a pandemic and seemingly insane men yelling at the sky in a way that negatively affects my life ( I ’ m talking about politics here ) is an angry religious man yelling at people who have no choice but to continue to follow and serve him .
That was probably meant to contribute to the general sense of horror and claustrophobia of immersing @ @ @ @ @ @ @ it was less frightening than it was annoying .
In my opinion , the horror cannon should be : Lugosi , Hitchcock , Kubrick , Carpenter , Craven and some modern entries like Ti West , Ari Aster , and the Austrian duo Veronika Franz and Severin Fiala .
When I get myself into a story for an hour or two , I want a payoff .
Even a crappy M. Night Shyamalan twist ending is satisfying for me , because at least it makes the plot exciting .
Everyone talks about The @ @ @ @ @ @ @ and it ’ s just hard for me to see how it deserves this placement .
There ’ s no joy in it .
No thrill .
Just dread .

I’ll start by saying I like slow movies. I loved It Comes At Night which is one of the slowest and most anti-climactic horror movies ever. But I did not like The VVitch. It was too slow, the ending didn’t hit for me. I didn’t get it. I didn’t feel enough about Thomasin rising into power at the end.
For the uninitiated, The VVitch (2015) is a supernatural horror film about a family of protestant settlers, William and Katherine and their children Thomasin, Caleb, Mercy, Jonas and Samuel. who have been excommunicated from their colony. On their own in a secluded clearing the family deals with the disappearance of baby Samuel, lack of resources, and paranoia about witches in the nearby woods. Here’s the trailer:
I’m starting to think there are two kinds of horror fans: Blumhouse and A24. Despite my deep and abiding love for Midsommar, I fall into the Blumhouse camp. I like jump scares. I like murder mysteries. Give me a killer on the loose and a group of hot twenty somethings in a remote location. I don’t even mind found footage. I like to be scared and I need things to happen to advance the plot and hold my interest.
It could also just be an Ari Aster vs. Robert Eggers thing. I loved Aster’s Hereditary and Midsommar and loathed Egger’s The VVitch and The Lighthouse. I really, really hated The Lighthouse. Even as a Robert Pattinson fan I felt it was basically unwatchable and not scary at all.
Maybe it’s because it’s a period piece. Or because the last thing I want to watch about at the end of an exhausting day living through a pandemic and seemingly insane men yelling at the sky in a way that negatively affects my life (I’m talking about politics here) is an angry religious man yelling at people who have no choice but to continue to follow and serve him. That was probably meant to contribute to the general sense of horror and claustrophobia of immersing myself into this families story, but it was less frightening than it was annoying.
In my opinion, the horror cannon should be: Lugosi, Hitchcock, Kubrick, Carpenter, Craven and some modern entries like Ti West, Ari Aster, and the Austrian duo Veronika Franz and Severin Fiala. When I get myself into a story for an hour or two, I want a payoff. Even a crappy M. Night Shyamalan twist ending is satisfying for me, because at least it makes the plot exciting. Everyone talks about The VVitch being in their top horror movies and it’s just hard for me to see how it deserves this placement. There’s no joy in it. No thrill. Just dread.


thoughtcatalog--2020-11-18--Why Each Zodiac Sign Is Scared To Leave Their Relationship

You don ’ t want to act impulsively .
You don ’ t want to make a mistake you regret .
You ’ re comfortable in your relationship .
You don ’ t want to venture out into the unknown and be constantly on edge .
You have been together for so long you can ’ t remember what it ’ s like living without them .
You can ’ t remember what it ’ s like to survive on your own .
You don ’ t want to hurt your partner .
You don ’ t want to break @ @ @ @ @ @ @ want your family and friends to judge your failed relationship .
You don ’ t want to feel like everyone is looking down on you .
You don ’ t want to start back at square one again .
You don ’ t want to be back in the dating game .
You hate being single .
You hate feeling like you ’ re alone and unwanted .
You don ’ t want to live alone .
You don ’ t want to struggle to support yourself .
You don ’ t want @ @ @ @ @ @ @ don ’ t want to be mean .
You don ’ t want to let go of someone who means a lot to you .
You don ’ t want to lose them .
You don ’ t want to be alone during the holidays .
You don ’ t want to celebrate by yourself .
You don ’ t want to cause any drama .
You don ’ t want to get into an argument .

Aries
You don’t want to act impulsively. You don’t want to make a mistake you regret.
Taurus
You’re comfortable in your relationship. You don’t want to venture out into the unknown and be constantly on edge.
Gemini
You have been together for so long you can’t remember what it’s like living without them. You can’t remember what it’s like to survive on your own.
Cancer
You don’t want to hurt your partner. You don’t want to break their heart.
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Leo
You don’t want your family and friends to judge your failed relationship. You don’t want to feel like everyone is looking down on you.
Virgo
You don’t want to start back at square one again. You don’t want to be back in the dating game.
Libra
You hate being single. You hate feeling like you’re alone and unwanted.
Scorpio
You don’t want to live alone. You don’t want to struggle to support yourself.
Sagittarius
You don’t want to look like an asshole. You don’t want to be mean.
Capricorn
You don’t want to let go of someone who means a lot to you. You don’t want to lose them.
Aquarius
You don’t want to be alone during the holidays. You don’t want to celebrate by yourself.
Pisces
You don’t want to cause any drama. You don’t want to get into an argument.


thoughtcatalog--2020-11-18--250+ “Have a Great Day” Messages to Send Your Friends and Family [2020]

A positive attitude can take you far in life .
That ’ s why you should send daily encouragement to your friends , family , and partners .
It doesn ’ t matter whether you ’ re texting them to check in on them out of the blue or are already having a conversation with them and want to work in a few encouraging words before you say goodbye .
Either way , you should seriously consider sending a good day message to your friends and family : Good wishes to send to your friends : 1 .
Today is @ @ @ @ @ @ @ chance to make your dreams come true .
2 .
Live today to the fullest because no one knows what tomorrow will bring .
3 .
Life is beautiful .
Don ’ t forget to stop and smell the roses on this wonderful day .
4 .
Today is the perfect day .
The sun is shining .
The birds are chirping .
And anything is possible .
5 .
We haven ’ t talked in a while , so I wanted to check in on you .
I hope you have an @ @ @ @ @ @ @ s no room for negative thoughts today .
Practice the power of positive thinking !
7 .
On this beautiful day , I just wanted to remind you you ’ re my best friend .
I miss you , pal .
8 .
Forget about yesterday .
Today is a new day and you ’ re going to have so much fun !
9 .
Don ’ t forget to show gratitude today .
We ’ re so lucky to be alive right now .
10 .
The right attitude will make or @ @ @ @ @ @ @ .
11 .
No matter what life throws at you today , remember you have what it takes to succeed .
12 .
The most important thing to do is make each day memorable .
Then you ’ ll live without regrets .
13 .
Good morning .
I hope today is filled with love and happiness .
14 .
I just wanted you to know I ’ ve been thinking of you .
Have a great day !
15 .
Stay positive .
Today is going to be a lovely day .
@ @ @ @ @ @ @ happiness in the world on this beautiful , sunshiny day .
17 .
If you ’ re having a bad day , just remember , I ’ m always in your corner .
18 .
I hope you have a blessed day .
You ’ ve been in my prayers .
20 .
Have a good day and face life with courage !
21 .
Here ’ s a positive thought : You ’ ll never be this young again , so enjoy it while it lasts !
22 .
You ’ re @ @ @ @ @ @ @ a beautiful day .
23 .
There are so many ways to make today special .
You better not let the moment pass you by !
24 .
Every day brings about new opportunities .
Never forget that , kid .
25 .
Remember , you can ’ t control other people ’ s behaviors or the outcomes of certain situations — but you can control your own attitude .
26 .
Don ’ t let the world see you frown .
Keep smiling throughout your hardships .
27 .
I ’ m @ @ @ @ @ @ @ can do this , buddy .
28 .
It ’ s a good thing we ’ re friends .
I don ’ t know how you would get through the day without me !
29 .
Today is going to be a great day for you .
I can feel it in my bones .
30 .
I hope you do something new and exciting today .
Make the most of your 24 hours !
31 .
Every single day is a blessing .
You should be thankful for every moment you receive @ @ @ @ @ @ @ a way to release your negative energy and learn to think positively .
33 .
Today is going to be filled with so many beautiful moments .
Don ’ t miss out on them .
34 .
The right attitude can change your whole day .
Try to look on the bright side , man .
35 .
Enjoy your day .
Don ’ t rush through it .
Savor every second .
36 .
May today be better than yesterday .
May your smile be wider than it once was .
37 @ @ @ @ @ @ @ It ’ s going to be a fun one !
38 .
A new day is here .
It ’ s beautiful , don ’ t you think ?
39 .
Remember , the difference between an okay day and a great day is your mindset .
40 .
Today is the perfect day to reach for the stars .
You ’ ve got this !
Good day messages to send to your family : 41 .
I hope you have a nice day .
You deserve the chance to relax for a @ @ @ @ @ @ @ will make a big difference , so turn that frown upside down !
43 .
Good evening !
You ’ re on my mind today and every other day !
44 .
I just wanted to remind you that you ’ re an inspiration to me .
I hope the day treats you as well as you treat me .
45 .
The sun has risen .
It ’ s time to face the day with a smile on your face and hope in your heart .
46 .
A bright new day @ @ @ @ @ @ @ the most of it .
I know I will !
47 .
There ’ s no sense in dwelling on yesterday when today is so wonderful .
Look ahead , not behind .
48 .
Remember what you taught me .
Bad days teach us important life lessons , so don ’ t be too upset if today doesn ’ t go as planned .
49 .
Try to achieve all your goals today .
I ’ ll be cheering you on from afar .
50 .
I wanted to send you a @ @ @ @ @ @ @ miss you !
Have a great day .
51 .
You ’ re the strongest person in this family .
You can overcome any obstacle today brings .
52 .
Today is not the end .
It ’ s only the beginning .
So don ’ t give up hope .
53 .
Have a fun day .
Send me some pictures soon !
54 .
I ’ m sorry it ’ s been a while since we ’ ve talked .
Just know that I ’ m always thinking of you .
@ @ @ @ @ @ @ lots of love and hugs on this lovely day .
56 .
Stop worrying about tomorrow .
Focus on your blessings today .
57 .
Every single day is like a blank canvas .
You can paint it however you wish .
58 .
I hope you have a special day because you have a special place in my heart .
59 .
Great things happen to people who go out there and look for them , so don ’ t stop searching !
60 .
I love you .
I hope you @ @ @ @ @ @ @ I ’ m not there with you to experience it .
61 .
I ’ m making the most of every single day .
I hope you can say the same .
62 .
Every morning is a fresh start .
It ’ s a chance to become the person you always wanted to be .
63 .
Have a nice day .
May you receive everything your heart desires .
64 .
Good luck at work .
You deserve credit for how much effort you put in each and every day .
@ @ @ @ @ @ @ it .
You get to decide whether it ’ s a good day or a bad day .
66 .
Don ’ t regret what you did yesterday .
Start planning what you ’ ll do tomorrow .
67 .
All of my best days are days spent alongside you .
68 .
Have a pleasant day .
Live each hour to its fullest .
69 .
Every single day , I ’ m so thankful you ’ re in my life .
70 .
Today is either going to bring you happiness @ @ @ @ @ @ @ Either way , you ’ ve won .
71 .
Wake up smiling — and go to bed the same way .
72 .
I hope you have an amazing day .
You ’ ve earned it after everything you ’ ve done .
73 .
I can ’ t be with you today , but I ’ ll be with you soon .
I miss you and our entire family .
74 .
You ’ re in control of today .
You get to decide how you spend every second of it @ @ @ @ @ @ @ I have you in my corner .
Thank you for always being there and have a wonderful day .
76 .
You deserve a day filled with sunshine and roses .
Never settle for less than that .
77 .
Today isn ’ t over yet so make sure you make the most of the hours you have left .
78 .
I miss you today .
I missed you yesterday .
And I ’ ll miss you tomorrow .
79 .
Today is going to be amazing .
Grab it by the @ @ @ @ @ @ @ .
Have a great day .
Don ’ t let anything get you down .
Good day messages to send to your partner : 81 .
Hey , baby .
I just wanted to say hello .
I hope you have a nice day at work .
82 .
Good morning , cutie .
Today is a beautiful day — but not as beautiful as you .
84 .
I ’ m on my lunch break and don ’ t have much time to talk , but I just wanted to let you @ @ @ @ @ @ @ , baby .
85 .
Morning , sunshine .
I hope you have an amazing day .
I love you !
86 .
I hope you have a wonderful day because there ’ s nothing I love more than seeing you smile .
87 .
Your love inspires me .
Thank you for making all my days easier .
88 .
You ’ re the greatest thing in my life and I hope you have a great day .
89 .
I ’ ve never loved someone as strongly as I love you @ @ @ @ @ @ @ .
90 .
My day isn ’ t complete without you in it .
I hope to see you soon .
91 .
Have a nice day .
Don ’ t miss me too much !
92 .
I ’ m glad the sun rose so early because that means we have extra time to spend together .
93 .
Today ’ s possibilities are endless .
What do you think the world has in store for us ?
94 .
Every single day is a step closer to our wedding day .
@ @ @ @ @ @ @ happiness — because you bring me happiness .
96 .
No matter what this day brings , one thing will never change .
You will always have me .
97 .
Today is your day !
You ’ re going to kick ass .
98 .
There ’ s nothing you can ’ t accomplish .
Don ’ t doubt yourself today .
99 .
Today is a wonderful day — especially since I get to spend it with you .
100 .
No matter what today brings , I ’ m going @ @ @ @ @ @ @ .
101 .
Today is a new day and our love is even stronger than before .
102 .
You have a great day ahead .
Trust me , sweetie .
103 .
Be confident today .
You deserve the world .
104 .
I hope you get everything you want today .
I already have everything I want because I have you .
105 .
Face the day with courage because you can do anything .
I believe in you , baby .
106 .
Today is better than yesterday because we @ @ @ @ @ @ @ a nice time today , babe .
You deserve to relax and unwind .
108 .
Have a good day .
But not too good without me there with you .
109 .
The morning sun reminds me of your beauty .
Have a great day , darling .
110 .
Today is a new day , but I ’ m not going anywhere .
I will be there for all of your tomorrows .
111 .
You shouldn ’ t go through life with your eyes closed .
Make sure you stop @ @ @ @ @ @ @ .
I ’ m wishing you luck today .
I know you have what it takes to succeed .
113 .
Every single day is beautiful .
Just like you .
114 .
I ’ m thankful to wake up every single morning because it means I ’ ve been blessed with another day alongside you .
115 .
Today is going to be amazing .
There ’ s no doubt in my mind .
116 .
Today is a chance to do everything you ’ ve ever dreamed .
You don ’ @ @ @ @ @ @ @ 117 .
Today , you made my dreams come true .
Of course , you do that every other day as well .
118 .
Have a nice day , cutie .
I ’ ll be thinking of you every single second we ’ re apart .
119 .
Every single day brings me more opportunities — and I ’ m not going to miss out on the opportunity to say I love you .
120 .
I hope you have a good day because , with you , I ’ m going @ @ @ @ @ @ @ great day quotes to send to anyone you love : 121 .
“ You ’ re off to great places , today is your day .
Your mountain is waiting , so get on your way.
” — Dr. Seuss 122 .
“ In every day , there are 1,440 minutes .
That means we have 1,440 daily opportunities to make a positive impact.
” — Les Brown 123 .
“ Every day may not be good… but there ’ s something good in every day.
” — Alice Morse Earle 124 .
@ @ @ @ @ @ @ to be alive , whether the sun ’ s shining or not.
” — Marty Robbins 127 .
“ Every day is a good day .
There is something to learn , care , and celebrate.
” — Amit Ray 128 .
“ No matter how bad things are , you can at least be happy that you woke up this morning.
” — D. L. Hughley 129 .
“ Today is a happy day because I say it is.
” — Jonathan Lockwood Huie 130 .
“ Some days are just bad @ @ @ @ @ @ @ You have to experience sadness to know happiness , and I remind myself that not every day is going to be a good day , that ’ s just the way it is !
” — Dita Von Teese Read 131 .
“ We know nothing of tomorrow ; our business is to be good and happy today.
” — Sydney Smith 132 .
“ Give every day the chance to become the most beautiful day of your life.
” — Mark Twain 133 .
“ This is a wonderful day , I @ @ @ @ @ @ @ — Maya Angelou 134 .
“ Every single day is a good day no matter how bright or dark it is , because it always brings an opportunity to start a positive beginning in your life.
” — Edmond Mbiaka 135 .
“ Every day is a good day , some are just a little better than others.
” — Jeff Garthwaite 136 .
“ How many slams in an old screen door ?
Depends how loud you shut it .
How many slices in a bread ?
Depends how thin you cut @ @ @ @ @ @ @ day ?
Depends how good you live ’ em .
How much love inside a friend ?
Depends how much you give ’ em.
” — Shel Silverstein 137 .
“ Waking up this morning , I smile .
24 brand new hours are before me .
I vow to live fully in each moment.
” — Thich Nhat Hanh 138 .
“ Now that your eyes are open , make the sun jealous with your burning passion to start the day .
Make the sun jealous or stay in bed.
” — @ @ @ @ @ @ @ is an important time of day , because how you spend your morning can often tell you what kind of day you are going to have.
” — Lemony Snicket 140 .
“ Even the worst days have an ending , and the best days have a beginning.
” — Jennifer Coletta Silly good day messages to send to anyone at all : 142 .
Good morning .
We live in a cruel world but at least we have each other .
143 .
Today is going to suck but at least we @ @ @ @ @ @ @ later .
144 .
We ’ re far from the weekend , but today is still going to be a good day .
I hope… 145 .
Wake up thankful because you have me in your life .
You couldn ’ t be luckier .
147 .
Another day , another horror .
I hope you have a decent day , my friend .
148 .
I hate pretty much everything about this world , but at least we have dogs .
149 .
This week has sucked , but at least it @ @ @ @ @ @ @ 150 .
Bring me alcohol .
Help me get through today in one piece .
151 .
I always start the day grumpy .
But then I see you and everything feels okay .
152 .
The birds are out .
The sun is shining .
And I ’ m going back to bed .
I ’ ll talk to you later .
153 .
It ’ s not a good day until I have my coffee and some bacon .
155 .
I woke up smiling .
Then I remembered today is @ @ @ @ @ @ @ morning to the person who makes Mondays feel almost tolerable .
157 .
Today might not be as horrible as we think .
Keep an open mind .
One of us has to .
158 .
I hope you have an exciting ( short ! )
Monday .
159 .
Good morning .
I hope you wake up happy to have the privilege of knowing me .
160 .
I wanted to wish you well today but I ’ m too tired to form a coherent sentence .
161 .
Today will be @ @ @ @ @ @ @ we have each other .
And coffee .
Plenty of coffee .
162 .
Smile .
This could be the best part of your day .
It could be all downhill from here .
163 .
I ’ m wishing you luck today !
You ’ re going to need it .
164 .
When you ’ re feeling down , remember , you might be having a bad day , but I ’ m having a worse day .
165 .
Each day is a blessing .
Or maybe a curse .
@ @ @ @ @ @ @ anymore .
166 .
Have a nice day .
Don ’ t let reality get you too depressed .
168 .
You ’ re going to have a great day .
I can tell — and I ’ m beyond jealous .
169 .
Today is a great day to face your fears .
And to lend me cash .
170 .
Have an amazing day .
You deserve it , even though you annoy the hell out of me .
Good day messages to send any day of the week : 171 @ @ @ @ @ @ @ being the greatest day of your life .
172 .
You have no idea what today is going to bring , so there ’ s no reason to worry .
Think positive thoughts and ignore the negative ones .
173 .
Your world can completely change in an instant , so be prepared .
This could be the first day of the rest of your life .
174 .
Today has so much potential .
There are so many risks you could take and adventures you could embark on if you ’ re @ @ @ @ @ @ @ A good day starts with a good mindset , so don ’ t let your doubts get the best of you .
176 .
The most amazing days of your life are the ones you don ’ t see coming .
Who knows ?
Today could be one of those days .
177 .
Have a good day .
Remember you are loved and admired and respected by so many .
Whatever insecurities you have are only in your head .
179 .
Your bad days will make your good days feel even @ @ @ @ @ @ @ enjoy the good moments while they last .
180 .
Today , you are going to surprise yourself .
You are going to prove you are capable of anything you put your mind to .
181 .
The best days start out as perfectly normal days .
Never forget that fact .
182 .
Every single day is a chance to become someone new , someone better , someone you are proud of being .
183 .
Today is the start of something new , so there ’ s no reason to worry @ @ @ @ @ @ @ the moment .
Focus on the present .
184 .
You aren ’ t going to have a good day if you have a bad attitude .
Make sure you ’ re giving yourself a chance to have some fun .
185 .
The next 24 hours could change your life .
It depends on how you spend those hours .
It ’ s completely up to you .
186 .
You ’ re in charge of the direction of your day .
You can ’ t control the people around you , @ @ @ @ @ @ @ .
Today is a beautiful day and you ’ re a beautiful person .
I know these things to be true .
188 .
Opportunity is knocking , so don ’ t ignore it .
Make today amazing .
189 .
Make the most of today .
Don ’ t hold back .
Don ’ t sell yourself short .
190 .
You deserve every ounce of happiness that today brings .
191 .
This day has so much potential .
You have so much potential .
192 .
I ’ m wishing @ @ @ @ @ @ @ , laughter , and love .
193 .
Every single day is a journey .
Make sure you choose the right path .
194 .
Start the day off with a smile .
Don ’ t settle for frowns .
195 .
Have a great day !
And tell me all about it later .
I want to know the juicy details .
196 .
You deserve to have an amazing day that fills you with hope for the future .
197 .
I know times are rough right now , but a @ @ @ @ @ @ @ corner .
You have to keep the faith .
198 .
My days are always brighter when they ’ re spent with you .
Can we see each other soon ?
199 .
This day is beautiful .
It makes me feel like anything is possible .
200 .
I hope you have a great day because the thought of seeing you sad makes my heart physically hurt .
201 .
If you have a bad day , I ’ m here to wipe away your tears .
202 .
The best days @ @ @ @ @ @ @ I wish you were here with me right now .
203 .
Today , the world feels like such a magical place .
I hope you can feel it , too .
204 .
The sun is shining down on my shoulders and the wind is whipping my hair .
It makes me feel so lucky to be alive .
205 .
The day ahead of you might not be easy , but you are going to get through it regardless .
You ’ re too strong to back down .
206 .
@ @ @ @ @ @ @ you .
Look around on this gorgeous day .
Don ’ t keep your nose stuck in your phone .
207 .
Today , you are going to accomplish something great .
I believe in you even more than I believe in myself .
208 .
Have a nice day .
Treat yourself .
You deserve to be spoiled .
209 .
This magical day won ’ t be complete until I see you .
I hope you stop by soon .
210 .
I ’ m wishing you the most wonderous day @ @ @ @ @ @ @ of everything you deserve .
211 .
Never lose faith in yourself .
Even if today knocks you down , you can get back up again .
There ’ s no doubt about it .
212 .
My favorite days are the ones that start with your name on my phone .
I hope you feel the same way about me .
213 .
Today has the potential to turn out perfect .
However , you have to put in the effort .
214 .
Everything about today is beautiful .
The sun @ @ @ @ @ @ @ 215 .
Every single day is a chance to explore the world and learn more about yourself .
216 .
Today is waiting for you .
Show it what you ’ re capable of accomplishing .
217 .
The power of positive thinking will power you through today .
Remember to search for that silver lining .
218 .
Today is special .
Just like every other day .
219 .
Make the most of your time on this planet .
Don ’ t waste today because tomorrow is never guaranteed .
220 @ @ @ @ @ @ @ move forward and stop worrying so much about the past .
221 .
Focus on your mood and your attitude , because they can make a wonderful day miserable and a miserable day wonderful .
222 .
Today is full of surprises .
Wait until you find out what ’ s in store .
223 .
The more you appreciate today , the happier you ’ ll be tomorrow .
224 .
You ’ re lucky to be alive right now .
Make sure you count your blessings as often as your problems @ @ @ @ @ @ @ behind us — but there ’ s another beautiful day right in front of us .
226 .
Have an amazing day .
Take risks .
Take chances .
Make yourself proud .
227 .
I hope your day is filled with excitement .
I hope you explore everything this world has to offer .
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Today might look dreary and gray — but looks can be deceiving .
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You have no idea what today has in store .
The world might surprise you .
You might even surprise yourself @ @ @ @ @ @ @ will impact you tomorrow , so make your choices wisely .
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Time is such a precious gift .
You don ’ t want to waste it .
You want to make the most of every second you ’ re given today .
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Have a great day .
Don ’ t let the rain ruin your mood because a rainbow will be out soon .
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I hope your day goes exactly the way you planned .
I hope your only surprises are positive ones !
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Today @ @ @ @ @ @ @ too .
Never forget that statement is true .
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Today , like every other day , there are a million choices for you to make .
Listen to your heart and you can ’ t go wrong .
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Have an amazing day .
Remember you are worthy of every ounce of happiness that comes your way .
237 .
Have a nice , productive day .
Believe in yourself and you ’ ll accomplish anything and everything .
238 .
Have a great day .
Have a great week @ @ @ @ @ @ @ .
What you learn today is going to prepare you for tomorrow , so listen closely .
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I hope you have the loveliest day of your life .
241 .
Today could bring us closer together .
It could be the best day of our lives .
242 .
You can ’ t face the day with a frown .
You need to smile your widest and expect great things to happen .
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Today is a great day to go on an adventure , spread your wings , and @ @ @ @ @ @ @ text finds you well .
I hope you ’ re having a wonderful week .
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Live life to the fullest .
Don ’ t let your insecurities get in the way of having a great time .
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Have a nice day !
Actually , I take that back .
Have a wonderful day !
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Today , nothing is impossible as long as you believe in yourself .
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Every day is better with a smile .
And a warm cup of coffee .
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Today @ @ @ @ @ @ @ It reminds me of how wonderful and beautiful you are .
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I love you today , tomorrow , and every other day .
Never forget that !

A positive attitude can take you far in life. That’s why you should send daily encouragement to your friends, family, and partners. It doesn’t matter whether you’re texting them to check in on them out of the blue or are already having a conversation with them and want to work in a few encouraging words before you say goodbye. Either way, you should seriously consider sending a good day message to your friends and family:
Good wishes to send to your friends:
1. Today is a new day — and a new chance to make your dreams come true.
2. Live today to the fullest because no one knows what tomorrow will bring.
3. Life is beautiful. Don’t forget to stop and smell the roses on this wonderful day.
4. Today is the perfect day. The sun is shining. The birds are chirping. And anything is possible.
5. We haven’t talked in a while, so I wanted to check in on you. I hope you have an awesome day.
6. There’s no room for negative thoughts today. Practice the power of positive thinking!
7. On this beautiful day, I just wanted to remind you you’re my best friend. I miss you, pal.
8. Forget about yesterday. Today is a new day and you’re going to have so much fun!
9. Don’t forget to show gratitude today. We’re so lucky to be alive right now.
10. The right attitude will make or break your day, so keep smiling.
11. No matter what life throws at you today, remember you have what it takes to succeed.
12. The most important thing to do is make each day memorable. Then you’ll live without regrets.
13. Good morning. I hope today is filled with love and happiness.
14. I just wanted you to know I’ve been thinking of you. Have a great day!
15. Stay positive. Today is going to be a lovely day.
16. I wish you all the happiness in the world on this beautiful, sunshiny day.
17. If you’re having a bad day, just remember, I’m always in your corner.
18. I hope you have a blessed day. You’ve been in my prayers.
19. Good afternoon to my favorite person.
20. Have a good day and face life with courage!
21. Here’s a positive thought: You’ll never be this young again, so enjoy it while it lasts!
22. You’re a beautiful person and deserve to have a beautiful day.
23. There are so many ways to make today special. You better not let the moment pass you by!
24. Every day brings about new opportunities. Never forget that, kid.
25. Remember, you can’t control other people’s behaviors or the outcomes of certain situations — but you can control your own attitude.
26. Don’t let the world see you frown. Keep smiling throughout your hardships.
27. I’m sending positive thoughts your way. You can do this, buddy.
28. It’s a good thing we’re friends. I don’t know how you would get through the day without me!
29. Today is going to be a great day for you. I can feel it in my bones.
30. I hope you do something new and exciting today. Make the most of your 24 hours!
31. Every single day is a blessing. You should be thankful for every moment you receive.
32. I hope you find a way to release your negative energy and learn to think positively.
33. Today is going to be filled with so many beautiful moments. Don’t miss out on them.
34. The right attitude can change your whole day. Try to look on the bright side, man.
35. Enjoy your day. Don’t rush through it. Savor every second.
36. May today be better than yesterday. May your smile be wider than it once was.
37. Another day, another adventure. It’s going to be a fun one!
38. A new day is here. It’s beautiful, don’t you think?
39. Remember, the difference between an okay day and a great day is your mindset.
40. Today is the perfect day to reach for the stars. You’ve got this!
Good day messages to send to your family:
41. I hope you have a nice day. You deserve the chance to relax for a change.
42. The right mood will make a big difference, so turn that frown upside down!
43. Good evening! You’re on my mind today and every other day!
44. I just wanted to remind you that you’re an inspiration to me. I hope the day treats you as well as you treat me.
45. The sun has risen. It’s time to face the day with a smile on your face and hope in your heart.
46. A bright new day is here. I hope you make the most of it. I know I will!
47. There’s no sense in dwelling on yesterday when today is so wonderful. Look ahead, not behind.
48. Remember what you taught me. Bad days teach us important life lessons, so don’t be too upset if today doesn’t go as planned.
49. Try to achieve all your goals today. I’ll be cheering you on from afar.
50. I wanted to send you a quick greeting to say I love and miss you! Have a great day.
51. You’re the strongest person in this family. You can overcome any obstacle today brings.
52. Today is not the end. It’s only the beginning. So don’t give up hope.
53. Have a fun day. Send me some pictures soon!
54. I’m sorry it’s been a while since we’ve talked. Just know that I’m always thinking of you.
55. I’m sending you lots of love and hugs on this lovely day.
56. Stop worrying about tomorrow. Focus on your blessings today.
57. Every single day is like a blank canvas. You can paint it however you wish.
58. I hope you have a special day because you have a special place in my heart.
59. Great things happen to people who go out there and look for them, so don’t stop searching!
60. I love you. I hope you have a great day, even though I’m not there with you to experience it.
61. I’m making the most of every single day. I hope you can say the same.
62. Every morning is a fresh start. It’s a chance to become the person you always wanted to be.
63. Have a nice day. May you receive everything your heart desires.
64. Good luck at work. You deserve credit for how much effort you put in each and every day.
65. Today is whatever you make it. You get to decide whether it’s a good day or a bad day.
66. Don’t regret what you did yesterday. Start planning what you’ll do tomorrow.
67. All of my best days are days spent alongside you.
68. Have a pleasant day. Live each hour to its fullest.
69. Every single day, I’m so thankful you’re in my life.
70. Today is either going to bring you happiness or teach you an important lesson. Either way, you’ve won.
71. Wake up smiling — and go to bed the same way.
72. I hope you have an amazing day. You’ve earned it after everything you’ve done.
73. I can’t be with you today, but I’ll be with you soon. I miss you and our entire family.
74. You’re in control of today. You get to decide how you spend every second of it.
75. Life is easier knowing I have you in my corner. Thank you for always being there and have a wonderful day.
76. You deserve a day filled with sunshine and roses. Never settle for less than that.
77. Today isn’t over yet so make sure you make the most of the hours you have left.
78. I miss you today. I missed you yesterday. And I’ll miss you tomorrow.
79. Today is going to be amazing. Grab it by the horns!
80. I love you. Have a great day. Don’t let anything get you down.
Good day messages to send to your partner:
81. Hey, baby. I just wanted to say hello. I hope you have a nice day at work.
82. Good morning, cutie. Today is a beautiful day — but not as beautiful as you.
83. Have a great day, darling. Don’t forget to smile.
84. I’m on my lunch break and don’t have much time to talk, but I just wanted to let you know you’re on my mind, baby.
85. Morning, sunshine. I hope you have an amazing day. I love you!
86. I hope you have a wonderful day because there’s nothing I love more than seeing you smile.
87. Your love inspires me. Thank you for making all my days easier.
88. You’re the greatest thing in my life and I hope you have a great day.
89. I’ve never loved someone as strongly as I love you. Have an amazing day, sunshine.
90. My day isn’t complete without you in it. I hope to see you soon.
91. Have a nice day. Don’t miss me too much!
92. I’m glad the sun rose so early because that means we have extra time to spend together.
93. Today’s possibilities are endless. What do you think the world has in store for us?
94. Every single day is a step closer to our wedding day.
95. I hope today brings you happiness — because you bring me happiness.
96. No matter what this day brings, one thing will never change. You will always have me.
97. Today is your day! You’re going to kick ass.
98. There’s nothing you can’t accomplish. Don’t doubt yourself today.
99. Today is a wonderful day — especially since I get to spend it with you.
100. No matter what today brings, I’m going to be there for you, baby.
101. Today is a new day and our love is even stronger than before.
102. You have a great day ahead. Trust me, sweetie.
103. Be confident today. You deserve the world.
104. I hope you get everything you want today. I already have everything I want because I have you.
105. Face the day with courage because you can do anything. I believe in you, baby.
106. Today is better than yesterday because we have each other.
107. Have a nice time today, babe. You deserve to relax and unwind.
108. Have a good day. But not too good without me there with you.
109. The morning sun reminds me of your beauty. Have a great day, darling.
110. Today is a new day, but I’m not going anywhere. I will be there for all of your tomorrows.
111. You shouldn’t go through life with your eyes closed. Make sure you stop and look around, baby.
112. I’m wishing you luck today. I know you have what it takes to succeed.
113. Every single day is beautiful. Just like you.
114. I’m thankful to wake up every single morning because it means I’ve been blessed with another day alongside you.
115. Today is going to be amazing. There’s no doubt in my mind.
116. Today is a chance to do everything you’ve ever dreamed. You don’t have to wait until tomorrow.
117. Today, you made my dreams come true. Of course, you do that every other day as well.
118. Have a nice day, cutie. I’ll be thinking of you every single second we’re apart.
119. Every single day brings me more opportunities — and I’m not going to miss out on the opportunity to say I love you.
120. I hope you have a good day because, with you, I’m going to have a good life.
Famous great day quotes to send to anyone you love:
121. “You’re off to great places, today is your day. Your mountain is waiting, so get on your way.” — Dr. Seuss
122. “In every day, there are 1,440 minutes. That means we have 1,440 daily opportunities to make a positive impact.” — Les Brown
123. “Every day may not be good… but there’s something good in every day.” — Alice Morse Earle
124. “Every day is a good day to be alive, whether the sun’s shining or not.” — Marty Robbins
125. “Every day above earth is a good day.” — Ernest Heminway
126. “A good day is a good day. A bad day is a good story.” — Glennon Melton
127. “Every day is a good day. There is something to learn, care, and celebrate.” — Amit Ray
128. “No matter how bad things are, you can at least be happy that you woke up this morning.” — D. L. Hughley
129. “Today is a happy day because I say it is.” — Jonathan Lockwood Huie
130. “Some days are just bad days, that’s all. You have to experience sadness to know happiness, and I remind myself that not every day is going to be a good day, that’s just the way it is!” — Dita Von Teese Read
131. “We know nothing of tomorrow; our business is to be good and happy today.” — Sydney Smith
132. “Give every day the chance to become the most beautiful day of your life.” — Mark Twain
133. “This is a wonderful day, I have never seen this one before.” — Maya Angelou
134. “Every single day is a good day no matter how bright or dark it is, because it always brings an opportunity to start a positive beginning in your life.” — Edmond Mbiaka
135. “Every day is a good day, some are just a little better than others.” — Jeff Garthwaite
136. “How many slams in an old screen door? Depends how loud you shut it. How many slices in a bread? Depends how thin you cut it. How much good inside a day? Depends how good you live ’em. How much love inside a friend? Depends how much you give ’em.” — Shel Silverstein
137. “Waking up this morning, I smile. 24 brand new hours are before me. I vow to live fully in each moment.” — Thich Nhat Hanh
138. “Now that your eyes are open, make the sun jealous with your burning passion to start the day. Make the sun jealous or stay in bed.” — Malak El Halabi
139. “Morning is an important time of day, because how you spend your morning can often tell you what kind of day you are going to have.” — Lemony Snicket
140. “Even the worst days have an ending, and the best days have a beginning.” — Jennifer Coletta
Silly good day messages to send to anyone at all:
141. Morning. Make today your bitch.
142. Good morning. We live in a cruel world but at least we have each other.
143. Today is going to suck but at least we can drink wine and laugh about it later.
144. We’re far from the weekend, but today is still going to be a good day. I hope…
145. Wake up thankful because you have me in your life. You couldn’t be luckier.
146. Good morning. I hope you’re still alive and kicking.
147. Another day, another horror. I hope you have a decent day, my friend.
148. I hate pretty much everything about this world, but at least we have dogs.
149. This week has sucked, but at least it can’t get any worse.
150. Bring me alcohol. Help me get through today in one piece.
151. I always start the day grumpy. But then I see you and everything feels okay.
152. The birds are out. The sun is shining. And I’m going back to bed. I’ll talk to you later.
153. It’s not a good day until I have my coffee and some bacon.
154. Good morning! Another stressful day has arrived.
155. I woke up smiling. Then I remembered today is going to suck.
156. Good morning to the person who makes Mondays feel almost tolerable.
157. Today might not be as horrible as we think. Keep an open mind. One of us has to.
158. I hope you have an exciting (short!) Monday.
159. Good morning. I hope you wake up happy to have the privilege of knowing me.
160. I wanted to wish you well today but I’m too tired to form a coherent sentence.
161. Today will be a good day. As long as we have each other. And coffee. Plenty of coffee.
162. Smile. This could be the best part of your day. It could be all downhill from here.
163. I’m wishing you luck today! You’re going to need it.
164. When you’re feeling down, remember, you might be having a bad day, but I’m having a worse day.
165. Each day is a blessing. Or maybe a curse. I can’t tell the difference anymore.
166. Have a nice day. Don’t let reality get you too depressed.
167. A good day requires good friends and good alcohol.
168. You’re going to have a great day. I can tell — and I’m beyond jealous.
169. Today is a great day to face your fears. And to lend me cash.
170. Have an amazing day. You deserve it, even though you annoy the hell out of me.
Good day messages to send any day of the week:
171. Smile. Today could end up being the greatest day of your life.
172. You have no idea what today is going to bring, so there’s no reason to worry. Think positive thoughts and ignore the negative ones.
173. Your world can completely change in an instant, so be prepared. This could be the first day of the rest of your life.
174. Today has so much potential. There are so many risks you could take and adventures you could embark on if you’re brave enough to try.
175. A good day starts with a good mindset, so don’t let your doubts get the best of you.
176. The most amazing days of your life are the ones you don’t see coming. Who knows? Today could be one of those days.
177. Have a good day. Remember you are loved and admired and respected by so many. Whatever insecurities you have are only in your head.
178. Don’t race to tomorrow. Don’t waste today.
179. Your bad days will make your good days feel even brighter. They will teach you to enjoy the good moments while they last.
180. Today, you are going to surprise yourself. You are going to prove you are capable of anything you put your mind to.
181. The best days start out as perfectly normal days. Never forget that fact.
182. Every single day is a chance to become someone new, someone better, someone you are proud of being.
183. Today is the start of something new, so there’s no reason to worry about what happened yesterday. Live in the moment. Focus on the present.
184. You aren’t going to have a good day if you have a bad attitude. Make sure you’re giving yourself a chance to have some fun.
185. The next 24 hours could change your life. It depends on how you spend those hours. It’s completely up to you.
186. You’re in charge of the direction of your day. You can’t control the people around you, but you can control yourself.
187. Today is a beautiful day and you’re a beautiful person. I know these things to be true.
188. Opportunity is knocking, so don’t ignore it. Make today amazing.
189. Make the most of today. Don’t hold back. Don’t sell yourself short.
190. You deserve every ounce of happiness that today brings.
191. This day has so much potential. You have so much potential.
192. I’m wishing you an amazing day filled with joy, laughter, and love.
193. Every single day is a journey. Make sure you choose the right path.
194. Start the day off with a smile. Don’t settle for frowns.
195. Have a great day! And tell me all about it later. I want to know the juicy details.
196. You deserve to have an amazing day that fills you with hope for the future.
197. I know times are rough right now, but a great day could be right around the corner. You have to keep the faith.
198. My days are always brighter when they’re spent with you. Can we see each other soon?
199. This day is beautiful. It makes me feel like anything is possible.
200. I hope you have a great day because the thought of seeing you sad makes my heart physically hurt.
201. If you have a bad day, I’m here to wipe away your tears.
202. The best days are when we’re together. I wish you were here with me right now.
203. Today, the world feels like such a magical place. I hope you can feel it, too.
204. The sun is shining down on my shoulders and the wind is whipping my hair. It makes me feel so lucky to be alive.
205. The day ahead of you might not be easy, but you are going to get through it regardless. You’re too strong to back down.
206. There’s so much beauty surrounding you. Look around on this gorgeous day. Don’t keep your nose stuck in your phone.
207. Today, you are going to accomplish something great. I believe in you even more than I believe in myself.
208. Have a nice day. Treat yourself. You deserve to be spoiled.
209. This magical day won’t be complete until I see you. I hope you stop by soon.
210. I’m wishing you the most wonderous day. It’s only the beginning of everything you deserve.
211. Never lose faith in yourself. Even if today knocks you down, you can get back up again. There’s no doubt about it.
212. My favorite days are the ones that start with your name on my phone. I hope you feel the same way about me.
213. Today has the potential to turn out perfect. However, you have to put in the effort.
214. Everything about today is beautiful. The sun. The sky. And you.
215. Every single day is a chance to explore the world and learn more about yourself.
216. Today is waiting for you. Show it what you’re capable of accomplishing.
217. The power of positive thinking will power you through today. Remember to search for that silver lining.
218. Today is special. Just like every other day.
219. Make the most of your time on this planet. Don’t waste today because tomorrow is never guaranteed.
220. Today is a great day to move forward and stop worrying so much about the past.
221. Focus on your mood and your attitude, because they can make a wonderful day miserable and a miserable day wonderful.
222. Today is full of surprises. Wait until you find out what’s in store.
223. The more you appreciate today, the happier you’ll be tomorrow.
224. You’re lucky to be alive right now. Make sure you count your blessings as often as your problems.
225. A beautiful day is behind us — but there’s another beautiful day right in front of us.
226. Have an amazing day. Take risks. Take chances. Make yourself proud.
227. I hope your day is filled with excitement. I hope you explore everything this world has to offer.
228. Today might look dreary and gray — but looks can be deceiving.
229. You have no idea what today has in store. The world might surprise you. You might even surprise yourself.
230. What you do today will impact you tomorrow, so make your choices wisely.
231. Time is such a precious gift. You don’t want to waste it. You want to make the most of every second you’re given today.
232. Have a great day. Don’t let the rain ruin your mood because a rainbow will be out soon.
233. I hope your day goes exactly the way you planned. I hope your only surprises are positive ones!
234. Today is a miracle. Tomorrow is, too. Never forget that statement is true.
235. Today, like every other day, there are a million choices for you to make. Listen to your heart and you can’t go wrong.
236. Have an amazing day. Remember you are worthy of every ounce of happiness that comes your way.
237. Have a nice, productive day. Believe in yourself and you’ll accomplish anything and everything.
238. Have a great day. Have a great week. Have a great year.
239. What you learn today is going to prepare you for tomorrow, so listen closely.
240. I hope you have the loveliest day of your life.
241. Today could bring us closer together. It could be the best day of our lives.
242. You can’t face the day with a frown. You need to smile your widest and expect great things to happen.
243. Today is a great day to go on an adventure, spread your wings, and fly.
244. I hope this text finds you well. I hope you’re having a wonderful week.
245. Live life to the fullest. Don’t let your insecurities get in the way of having a great time.
246. Have a nice day! Actually, I take that back. Have a wonderful day!
247. Today, nothing is impossible as long as you believe in yourself.
248. Every day is better with a smile. And a warm cup of coffee.
249. Today is a wonderful, beautiful day. It reminds me of how wonderful and beautiful you are.
250. I love you today, tomorrow, and every other day. Never forget that!