iheartintelligence--2020-09-04--Did an L.A. Sheriff Deputy Kill a Teenager as Part of Police Gang Initiation?

Did an L.A. Sheriff Deputy Kill a Teenager as Part of Police Gang Initiation ?
LA County Sheriff ’ s deputy Art Gonzalez has been living in fear because he stood up to an allegedly violent group of police officers .
He gave a six-hour court testimony regarding a gang of cops at the Compton station referred to as the Executioners .
In his excessive-force lawsuit testimony , he noted that deputy Miguel Vega murdered Andres Guardado , 18 , in hopes of being initiated into the gang by proving his worth .
Gonzalez , an ex U.S. Marine decorated @ @ @ @ @ @ @ , claims he was forced to leave his position as a field training officer because he feared revenge from fellow cops .
He could not hold his silence after witnessing fellow deputy Thomas Banuelos being assaulted by an Executioner .
Following the incident , he left an anonymous message on a confidential hotline that was intercepted and sent straight to the Executioners .
After reporting the attack , a note saying “ Art is a rat ” was placed on the patrol station ’ s entrance keypad .
Gonzalez claims there are around @ @ @ @ @ @ @ of them full-fledged and the other half prospective – at the Compton station , located in close proximity of south LA .
The gang identifies itself by a tattoo of a skeleton wearing a Nazi-style helmet and holding an assault rifle .
According to Gonzalez , they celebrate deputy shootings with “ inking parties ” where fresh members are initiated into the gang .
“ Often the inking is attached to some act of violence , including a shooting .
It ’ s the ultimate expression of your commitment to policing and your @ @ @ @ @ @ @ Sean Kennedy of Loyola Law School told ABC 7 News .
“ We have a gang here that has grown to the point where it dominates every aspect of life at the Compton station , ” Alan Romero , an attorney representing Gonzalez , said according to Business Insider .
Gonzalez claims that no female and black cops are allowed to join the group .
Deputy Banuelos says he was bullied and intimidated for 5 years by the gang .
It was his attack by deputies that made Gonzalez leave his anonymous tip @ @ @ @ @ @ @ the enforcer of the Executioners where he was badly beaten and told “ not to cooperate with investigators and to lie about the violent attack.
” “ It was a very serious , violent and bloody assault which could have killed Deputy Banuelos , ” Romero said .
“ He had him on the ground and was literally just bashing his head in with his elbow over and over and over again.
” The most shocking allegation made by Gonzalez is that the murder of Guardado was part of an initiation process .
@ @ @ @ @ @ @ was working his security guard shift at an auto body shop in Gardena .
The teen ran and was gunned down by officer Miguel Vega .
Witness Andrew Heney says that the boy Vega ’ s lawyer says that when the cop approached Guardado , who was lying on his stomach , he quickly grabbed for a weapon and the officer shot him in self-defense .
According to Heney , CCTV footage from the crime scene was confiscated and destroyed by police after the incident .
The case is still under investigation , @ @ @ @ @ @ @ filed a lawsuit against the Sheriff ’ s Department and those involved in the crime .
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Did an L.A. Sheriff Deputy Kill a Teenager as Part of Police Gang Initiation?
Did an L.A. Sheriff Deputy Kill a Teenager as Part of Police Gang Initiation?
LA County Sheriff’s deputy Art Gonzalez has been living in fear because he stood up to an allegedly violent group of police officers.
He gave a six-hour court testimony regarding a gang of cops at the Compton station referred to as the Executioners.
In his excessive-force lawsuit testimony, he noted that deputy Miguel Vega murdered Andres Guardado, 18, in hopes of being initiated into the gang by proving his worth.
Gonzalez, an ex U.S. Marine decorated for his service in the Middle East, claims he was forced to leave his position as a field training officer because he feared revenge from fellow cops.
He could not hold his silence after witnessing fellow deputy Thomas Banuelos being assaulted by an Executioner. Following the incident, he left an anonymous message on a confidential hotline that was intercepted and sent straight to the Executioners.
After reporting the attack, a note saying “Art is a rat” was placed on the patrol station’s entrance keypad.
LASD whistleblower Deputy Art Gonzalez said – under oath – the deputy who shot and killed 18-year-old Andres Guardado was a prospective member of the Executioners, an alleged violent clique of tattooed deputies inside the Compton Sheriff's station. #andresguardado WATCH: pic.twitter.com/5hZ1TzKTx3 — Kate Cagle (@KateCagle) August 30, 2020
Gonzalez claims there are around 40 members of the Executioners – half of them full-fledged and the other half prospective – at the Compton station, located in close proximity of south LA.
The gang identifies itself by a tattoo of a skeleton wearing a Nazi-style helmet and holding an assault rifle.
According to Gonzalez, they celebrate deputy shootings with “inking parties” where fresh members are initiated into the gang.
“Often the inking is attached to some act of violence, including a shooting. It’s the ultimate expression of your commitment to policing and your commitment to the gang,” Professor Sean Kennedy of Loyola Law School told ABC 7 News. “We have a gang here that has grown to the point where it dominates every aspect of life at the Compton station,” Alan Romero, an attorney representing Gonzalez, said according to Business Insider.
He added.
“It essentially controls scheduling, the distribution of informant tips, and assignments to deputies in the station with preference shown to members of the gang as well as prospects.”
Gonzalez claims that no female and black cops are allowed to join the group.
Deputy Banuelos says he was bullied and intimidated for 5 years by the gang. It was his attack by deputies that made Gonzalez leave his anonymous tip.
Banuelos was told to meet with the enforcer of the Executioners where he was badly beaten and told
“not to cooperate with investigators and to lie about the violent attack.” “It was a very serious, violent and bloody assault which could have killed Deputy Banuelos,” Romero said. “He had him on the ground and was literally just bashing his head in with his elbow over and over and over again.”
The enforcer told Banuelos,
“if you open your mouth, you’ll be labeled as no good, which essentially means that you’re open for retaliation in the station by all members of the gang,” Romero added.
The family of Andres Guardado, 18, who was fatally shot five times in the back by a Los Angeles sheriff's deputy, has filed a wrongful death lawsuit amid allegations from another deputy that the station is home to a gang or clique of officers. https://t.co/j6s7qLhova — NBC Latino (@NBCLatino) September 3, 2020
The most shocking allegation made by Gonzalez is that the murder of Guardado was part of an initiation process.
Guardado was approached by officers while he was working his security guard shift at an auto body shop in Gardena. The teen ran and was gunned down by officer Miguel Vega.
Witness Andrew Heney says that the boy
“got down on his knees and surrendered with his hands behind his head but was still shot seven times in the back.”
Vega’s lawyer says that when the cop approached Guardado, who was lying on his stomach, he quickly grabbed for a weapon and the officer shot him in self-defense.
According to Heney, CCTV footage from the crime scene was confiscated and destroyed by police after the incident.
The case is still under investigation, but the victim’s family has filed a lawsuit against the Sheriff’s Department and those involved in the crime.
What are your thoughts on this shocking news? Let us know by joining the conversation in the comments and please share this article if you’ve found it of value.


iheartintelligence--2020-09-04--‘Help Holyoke’ campaign has raised $93,592 for local businesses

The community in Holyoke , Colorado has raised over $ 90,000 to help local businesses affected by the shutdown .
• The ‘ Help Holyoke ’ campaign was started in late March .
• The community raised enough money to help every local business affected by the pandemic .
The pandemic forced small businesses to struggle like never before .
COVID-19 has left business owners feeling desperate and hopeless .
Cathy Free , a writer for the Washington Post , tells the story of Brenda Hernandez Ramirez who thought that following the closures in March , she would have to @ @ @ @ @ @ @ restaurant for good .
Ramirez had explained that with bills piling up and no source of income , ‘ we weren ’ t prepared for the challenges that COVID-19 brought ’ .
In late March , the Help Holyoke campaign was started .
Upon hearing that the ‘ Help Holyoke ’ fund had been set up to help local businesses in the town , business owners like Ramirez felt grateful , thinking that they would receive a few hundred dollars worth of financial help .
Unsurprisingly , when Ramirez received a check for @ @ @ @ @ @ @ she was beyond grateful : How did the campaign raise enough to help every business in Holyoke ?
Tom Bennett , president of the town ’ s First Pioneer National Bank , came up with the idea for the Help Holyoke fund .
As people had received stimulus checks worth $ 1,200 , Bennett wondered whether those who did not need the money would be willing to donate them .
Subsequently , he contacted Holyoke Chamber of Commerce Director Holly Ferguson , Phillips Country Economic Development Director Trisha Herman , and publisher of @ @ @ @ @ @ @ his idea .
They quickly developed a plan and set about collecting donations for the local businesses .
Even those who did not receive stimulus checks helped by pitching in .
Those who were not eligible for stimulus checks did everything they could to help their community .
Chamber director Ferguson explained that ‘ some gave $ 10 , some gave $ 100 and little kids came to my office to empty their piggy banks ’ .
Every little bit helps and it is thanks to this and the compassion of the entire @ @ @ @ @ @ @ $ 93,592 .

The community in Holyoke, Colorado has raised over $90,000 to help local businesses affected by the shutdown.
The ‘Help Holyoke’ campaign was started in late March.
The community raised enough money to help every local business affected by the pandemic.
Brenda Hernandez Ramirez: “We were overwhelmed with emotion”.
The pandemic forced small businesses to struggle like never before.
COVID-19 has left business owners feeling desperate and hopeless. Cathy Free, a writer for the Washington Post, tells the story of Brenda Hernandez Ramirez who thought that following the closures in March, she would have to shut down her family’s small-town restaurant for good. Ramirez had explained that with bills piling up and no source of income, ‘we weren’t prepared for the challenges that COVID-19 brought’.
In late March, the Help Holyoke campaign was started.
Upon hearing that the ‘Help Holyoke’ fund had been set up to help local businesses in the town, business owners like Ramirez felt grateful, thinking that they would receive a few hundred dollars worth of financial help. Unsurprisingly, when Ramirez received a check for over $2,000 two months later, she was beyond grateful:
We were overwhelmed with emotion […] Feeling our community’s support during the pandemic gave us the ambition to keep on going. I’m beyond thankful. Ramirez
How did the campaign raise enough to help every business in Holyoke?
Tom Bennett, president of the town’s First Pioneer National Bank, came up with the idea for the Help Holyoke fund. As people had received stimulus checks worth $1,200, Bennett wondered whether those who did not need the money would be willing to donate them. Subsequently, he contacted Holyoke Chamber of Commerce Director Holly Ferguson, Phillips Country Economic Development Director Trisha Herman, and publisher of the Holyoke Enterprise Brenda Brandt to discuss his idea. They quickly developed a plan and set about collecting donations for the local businesses.
I kind of looked at my husband and both of us have our jobs. Let’s donate our stimulus checks. Trisha Herman
Even those who did not receive stimulus checks helped by pitching in.
Those who were not eligible for stimulus checks did everything they could to help their community. Chamber director Ferguson explained that ‘some gave $10, some gave $100 and little kids came to my office to empty their piggy banks’. Every little bit helps and it is thanks to this and the compassion of the entire community that Help Holyoke managed to raise $93,592.


iheartintelligence--2020-09-04--Protests erupt in New York: Bodycam footage emerged, showing a black man suffocating to death after

Protests erupt in New York: Bodycam footage emerged, showing a black man suffocating to death after cops put a hood over his head

Upstate New York filled with protesters after a newly surfaced video revealed how a handcuffed black man was left brain dead by a group of police officers in March .
• A video emerged of a 41-year-old black man being left brain dead by Rochester police officers in March .
• Protesters are demanding the cops involved be prosecuted on murder charges .
Daniel Prude , 41 , a father-of-five , died of asphyxiation after the cops put a hood over his head and pressed his face into the ground until he stopped breathing .
As reported by Daily Mail @ @ @ @ @ @ @ the incident .
He died on March 30 when he was taken off of life support – seven days after the encounter with police in Rochester .
The horrific incident occurred on March 23 , only two months before George Floyd was killed by Minnesota police officers , sparking a massive wave of protests around the world .
Prior to Prude ’ s encounter with the officers , his brother had called assistance because Daniel was struggling with a mental health episode .
He had walked out of his brother ’ s house @ @ @ @ @ @ @ weather , wearing nothing but underwear , a tank top , and socks .
While making his way through the neighborhood , he started taking his clothes off .
According to the police , he also smashed windows on the way .
Prude was seen by several people , with at least one calling the cops to report his behavior .
Officer Mark Vaughn from the Rochester PD was the first cop to stop Prude .
He pointed a taser at the man and ordered him to lay on the ground and put @ @ @ @ @ @ @ complied with the orders .
Vaughn then handcuffed the man as he lay naked on the ground .
Clearly still suffering from an episode , Prude started yelling and told the officers he had COVID-19 .
To shut him down , they put a hood over his head .
Shortly after , three of the policemen pushed him into the ground and held him down for more than three minutes .
One of the officers used his knee at one point to hold down Prude ’ s torso , and another held down @ @ @ @ @ @ @ completely motionless .
Prude was taken to a hospital where doctors put him on life support .
Tragically , he died only seven days later .
According to the medical examiner , Daniel Prude ’ s death was a result of a homicide .
When EMTs arrived on the scene , they tell cops not to worry , since PCP causes ‘ excited delirium ’ .
One EMT says : “ I guarantee you that ’ s why he coded .
It ’ s not your fault guys.
” However , the medical @ @ @ @ @ @ @ ‘ complications of asphyxia in the setting of physical restraint , excited delirium [ and ] acute phencyclidine [ PCP ] intoxication ’ .
At a Wednesday news conference , while revealing the newly surfaced bodycam footage , Prude ’ s brother , Joe Prude , said : It was also revealed that Daniel Prude was taken into custody only several hours earlier for a mental health evaluation due to disturbing suicidal thoughts .
According to his aunt , Letoria Moore , he had been traumatized by the deaths of his mother and @ @ @ @ @ @ @ lost another brother before that .
During the news conference , Ashley Gantt of Free the People ROC said : Protesters gathered outside Rochester ’ s Public Safety Building , demanding for the cops involved to be charged with murder .
After discovering the horrific cause of Daniel ’ s death , his family weighed a wrongful death lawsuit against the police department .
Elliot Shields , the attorney representing Prude ’ s family , said they are willing to ‘ sue everyone who is responsible for Daniel Prude ’ s death ’ @ @ @ @ @ @ @ the officers involved in the incident to be fired at the least and face charges at most .
The group of police officers includes Officer Mark Vaughn , Officer Paul Ricotta , Officer Andrew Specksgoor , Officer Josiah Harris , Officer Troy Talladay , and Sgt .
Michael Magri .
They remain on duty .
Following the revealing of the distressing footage , activists gathered in Upstate New York , demanding that officers involved with Prude ’ s death be prosecuted on murder charges and that they must be removed from the department @ @ @ @ @

Upstate New York filled with protesters after a newly surfaced video revealed how a handcuffed black man was left brain dead by a group of police officers in March.
WARNING: The article contains graphic content!
A video emerged of a 41-year-old black man being left brain dead by Rochester police officers in March.
Protesters are demanding the cops involved be prosecuted on murder charges.
Daniel Prude, 41, a father-of-five, died of asphyxiation after the cops put a hood over his head and pressed his face into the ground until he stopped breathing. As reported by Daily Mail, Prude was left brain dead after the incident. He died on March 30 when he was taken off of life support – seven days after the encounter with police in Rochester.
Credits: AP
The horrific incident occurred on March 23, only two months before George Floyd was killed by Minnesota police officers, sparking a massive wave of protests around the world.
Prior to Prude’s encounter with the officers, his brother had called assistance because Daniel was struggling with a mental health episode. He had walked out of his brother’s house at around 3 am in freezing cold weather, wearing nothing but underwear, a tank top, and socks. While making his way through the neighborhood, he started taking his clothes off. According to the police, he also smashed windows on the way. Prude was seen by several people, with at least one calling the cops to report his behavior.
Officer Mark Vaughn from the Rochester PD was the first cop to stop Prude. He pointed a taser at the man and ordered him to lay on the ground and put his hands behind his back. Daniel complied with the orders. Vaughn then handcuffed the man as he lay naked on the ground.
Credits: AP
Clearly still suffering from an episode, Prude started yelling and told the officers he had COVID-19. To shut him down, they put a hood over his head. Shortly after, three of the policemen pushed him into the ground and held him down for more than three minutes. One of the officers used his knee at one point to hold down Prude’s torso, and another held down his legs. This left the man completely motionless.
Credits: Facebook
Prude was taken to a hospital where doctors put him on life support. Tragically, he died only seven days later.
According to the medical examiner, Daniel Prude’s death was a result of a homicide.
When EMTs arrived on the scene, they tell cops not to worry, since PCP causes ‘excited delirium’. One EMT says: “I guarantee you that’s why he coded. It’s not your fault guys.”
Credits: AP
However, the medical examiner stated his death was caused by ‘complications of asphyxia in the setting of physical restraint, excited delirium [and] acute phencyclidine [PCP] intoxication’.
At a Wednesday news conference, while revealing the newly surfaced bodycam footage, Prude’s brother, Joe Prude, said:
“I placed a phone call for my brother to get help. Not for my brother to get lynched. How did you see him and not directly say, ‘The man is defenseless, buck naked on the ground. He’s cuffed up already. Come on.’ How many more brothers gotta die for society to understand that this needs to stop?”
Credits: AP
It was also revealed that Daniel Prude was taken into custody only several hours earlier for a mental health evaluation due to disturbing suicidal thoughts. According to his aunt, Letoria Moore, he had been traumatized by the deaths of his mother and a brother in recent years, having lost another brother before that.
During the news conference, Ashley Gantt of Free the People ROC said:
“The police have shown us over and over again that they are not equipped to handle individuals with mental health concerns. These officers are trained to kill, and not to de-escalate. These officers are trained to ridicule, instead of supporting Mr. Daniel Prude.”
Protesters gathered outside Rochester’s Public Safety Building, demanding for the cops involved to be charged with murder.
Credits: AP
After discovering the horrific cause of Daniel’s death, his family weighed a wrongful death lawsuit against the police department. Elliot Shields, the attorney representing Prude’s family, said they are willing to ‘sue everyone who is responsible for Daniel Prude’s death’.
There were also growing calls for the officers involved in the incident to be fired at the least and face charges at most. The group of police officers includes Officer Mark Vaughn, Officer Paul Ricotta, Officer Andrew Specksgoor, Officer Josiah Harris, Officer Troy Talladay, and Sgt. Michael Magri. They remain on duty.
Credits: AP
Following the revealing of the distressing footage, activists gathered in Upstate New York, demanding that officers involved with Prude’s death be prosecuted on murder charges and that they must be removed from the department while the investigation proceeds.
Credits: AP


iheartintelligence--2020-09-07--5 ways to spot a commitment phobe and how to deal with them

People who suffer from commitment phobia tend to have difficulties committing to people and things .
Being a commitment phobe does not mean that you do not want to commit , but rather that you fear it .
This fear can affect numerous aspects of one ’ s life and can go beyond the inability to commit to a person and/or a relationship .
In other words , people who have a fear of commitment may find it difficult to make long-term decisions regarding almost anything in their life .
According to Arthur Peirce , this is how you can @ @ @ @ @ @ @ of commitment may find it difficult to commit to a job or career .
While quitting a job is normal and something that many people do at some point in their lives , if one does it too often and without a rational excuse , they could just be afraid of committing to it .
2 .
They have never been in a relationship While many people struggle to find the right person to date , commitment phobes tend to have dated multiple people for short periods of time .
Similarly , many @ @ @ @ @ @ @ relationships may even deny the fact and claim that they had never actually labeled it as such .
3 .
They have difficulty talking about love A commitment phobe struggles with labels and with saying ( or even hearing ) ‘ I love you ’ .
These three words tend to define the relationship and make it seem more real .
Even if they do feel love towards you , they may be terrified of saying it out loud and may even break off the relationship out of fear .
4 .
They @ @ @ @ @ @ @ who are afraid of commitment find it difficult to commit to attending events and making plans for the future .
They tend to wait until a much closer date and time to confirm their attendance .
5 .
They have not introduced you to their friends and/or family Introducing you to friends or family has the same effect as saying ‘ I love you ’ .
For this reason , a commitment phobe will most probably avoid introducing you to those who are close to them .
What is more , Peirce explains @ @ @ @ @ @ @ , shows that they are keeping you in a separate compartment of their personal life – a compartment easily abandoned with no affect to the others ’ .
What can you do to deal with a commitment phobe ?
First , you need to step back and ask yourself if your commitment phobic partner is causing you more stress , anxiety , and harm than good .
If your relationship makes you feel unhappy more often than it makes you feel happy , then it is probably best that you walk away .
@ @ @ @ @ @ @ that you want to be with your commitment phobic partner , you should make sure that you try to always put yourself first .
Putting yourself first and giving your commitment phobic partner space when they need it is necessary .
According to the Business Insider , dating expert Lindsey Metselaar claims that ‘ doing things without your CP partner shows them that they aren ’ t walking into a point of no return [ when committing to you ] .
A real phobe needs to know that the walls aren ’ t @ @ @ @ @ @ @ way , it is vital that you do not rush your partner and that you always keep in mind that they may never change their mind about committing .

What is commitment phobia?
People who suffer from commitment phobia tend to have difficulties committing to people and things. Being a commitment phobe does not mean that you do not want to commit, but rather that you fear it. This fear can affect numerous aspects of one’s life and can go beyond the inability to commit to a person and/or a relationship. In other words, people who have a fear of commitment may find it difficult to make long-term decisions regarding almost anything in their life.
According to Arthur Peirce, this is how you can spot a commitment phobe:
1. They are constantly changing jobs
Someone afraid of commitment may find it difficult to commit to a job or career. While quitting a job is normal and something that many people do at some point in their lives, if one does it too often and without a rational excuse, they could just be afraid of committing to it.
2. They have never been in a relationship
While many people struggle to find the right person to date, commitment phobes tend to have dated multiple people for short periods of time. Similarly, many commitment phobes who have had more serious relationships may even deny the fact and claim that they had never actually labeled it as such.
3. They have difficulty talking about love
A commitment phobe struggles with labels and with saying (or even hearing) ‘I love you’. These three words tend to define the relationship and make it seem more real. Even if they do feel love towards you, they may be terrified of saying it out loud and may even break off the relationship out of fear.
4. They struggle committing to events in advance
Those who are afraid of commitment find it difficult to commit to attending events and making plans for the future. They tend to wait until a much closer date and time to confirm their attendance.
5. They have not introduced you to their friends and/or family
Introducing you to friends or family has the same effect as saying ‘I love you’. For this reason, a commitment phobe will most probably avoid introducing you to those who are close to them. What is more, Peirce explains that ‘this, in a sense, shows that they are keeping you in a separate compartment of their personal life – a compartment easily abandoned with no affect to the others’.
What can you do to deal with a commitment phobe?
First, you need to step back and ask yourself if your commitment phobic partner is causing you more stress, anxiety, and harm than good. If your relationship makes you feel unhappy more often than it makes you feel happy, then it is probably best that you walk away.
If, however, you are certain that you want to be with your commitment phobic partner, you should make sure that you try to always put yourself first. Putting yourself first and giving your commitment phobic partner space when they need it is necessary. According to the Business Insider, dating expert Lindsey Metselaar claims that ‘doing things without your CP partner shows them that they aren’t walking into a point of no return [when committing to you]. A real phobe needs to know that the walls aren’t closing in on them’.
Either way, it is vital that you do not rush your partner and that you always keep in mind that they may never change their mind about committing.


iheartintelligence--2020-09-07--Eight secrets of committed, happy and healthy relationships

Everybody ’ s idea of a perfect relationship varies .
I am sure you have probably come across couples who are extremely happy with their partners and sometimes , you can not understand why or how that is possible .
You might look at them and think you could never be happy in a relationship like theirs , so how can they ?
The truth is , people look for and value different things and so , no two relationships can ever be the same .
However , the secrets which lie behind successful relationships do not have anything to @ @ @ @ @ @ @ instead , what truly makes a relationship a success is the partnership which exists between the two people ; that is , how the two people treat each other and how they feel for one another .
According to Kyle Benson , these are the 8 secret ingredients for a happy , healthy and emotionally-committed relationship : Building a relationship requires a lot of work and a lot of the time , it can be very difficult .
The first , and possibly the most important , ingredient for a successful relationship is @ @ @ @ @ @ @ need to be completely invested in the relationship – otherwise , there is no reason to be in it .
If you are fully and wholly invested in it , you know that whatever comes your way , you will make sure to work through and overcome together .
Couples who make sure to understand , pay attention to and turn towards their partners when they are being talked to are likely to have more successful relationships .
Dr. Gottman explains “ emotional bids ” and says that they can be verbal or @ @ @ @ @ @ @ are when your partner asks you a question , makes a simple statement such as “ It ’ s a beautiful day ” or pulls a facial expression .
Dr. Gottmann further explained that “ couples are always making “ bids ” for each other ’ s attention , affection , humor or support , and each bid presents an opportunity for the other individual to turn towards and acknowledge the bid or away and dismiss the bid ” .
After conducting research on newly-weds , he found that those who had remained @ @ @ @ @ @ @ their partner ’ s bids 86 % of the time whereas those who separated only did so 33 % of the time .
To be in a happy and healthy relationship , you must obviously have positive views of one another .
Cherishing each other means making sure you ’ re always appreciative of what your partner does .
People who are in happy and healthy relationships often tend to think and talk positively of their partners .
Expressing gratitude and not taking one another for granted is extremely important so that you @ @ @ @ @ @ @ .
It is important to note that this does not mean neglecting your own needs ; rather , it means making sure you do not dismiss your partner and the relationship that you are trying to build and grow together .
Making time for your partner and putting in the effort to listen to and understand their needs is key to a successful relationship – of course , it is necessary that they do the same .
Benson writes that ‘ if the above ingredients are available , it ’ s easy to @ @ @ @ @ @ @ is no better partner in the world than the one that they have ’ .
Although relationships do rely on romance and intimacy , couples who are in successful relationships as more than just partners – they are best friends .
Your partner should be your best friend : the person you share your secrets and laugh out loud with .
This is one of the most important ingredients for a successful relationship .
Conflict and arguments do not ruin relationships .
What has the power to ruin a relationship is how the @ @ @ @ @ @ @ argue but always try – really try – to understand where your partner ’ s concerns are coming from and how you can work on fixing things together , then you have nothing to fear .
People in successful relationships work hard to understand their partners instead of dismissing their concerns and fighting to ‘ win ’ an argument .
There is no winning an argument : successful relationships are built by resolving not winning .
A balance between interdependence and independence should be found in order to ensure a happy , healthy @ @ @ @ @ @ @ feel like they can depend on each other for closeness , comfort and security ; however , one should not become too dependent on their partner .
A level of independence is necessary so that you do not feel like you rely too much on your partner and they do not begin to feel suffocated .
In addition to this , being independent allows you to pursue and share your concerns openly and honestly .
Insecurity can ruin a relationship .
Successful relationships are secure and steady as the partners know that they @ @ @ @ @ @ @ .
If one is constantly on edge and insecure about the relationship ’ s strength or their partner ’ s affection towards them , then the relationship will most likely fail .
Working on building trust and security is key in a healthy relationship .
If you do not already do the above things , make sure that you begin to apply these secret ingredients in order to strengthen your relationship and make sure it lasts forever .

What is a successful relationship?
Everybody’s idea of a perfect relationship varies. I am sure you have probably come across couples who are extremely happy with their partners and sometimes, you cannot understand why or how that is possible. You might look at them and think you could never be happy in a relationship like theirs, so how can they? The truth is, people look for and value different things and so, no two relationships can ever be the same. However, the secrets which lie behind successful relationships do not have anything to do with the choice of partner – instead, what truly makes a relationship a success is the partnership which exists between the two people; that is, how the two people treat each other and how they feel for one another.
According to Kyle Benson, these are the 8 secret ingredients for a happy, healthy and emotionally-committed relationship:
1. Emotional Investment:
Building a relationship requires a lot of work and a lot of the time, it can be very difficult. The first, and possibly the most important, ingredient for a successful relationship is 100% emotional investment. Both partners need to be completely invested in the relationship – otherwise, there is no reason to be in it. If you are fully and wholly invested in it, you know that whatever comes your way, you will make sure to work through and overcome together.
2. Responsiveness:
Couples who make sure to understand, pay attention to and turn towards their partners when they are being talked to are likely to have more successful relationships. Dr. Gottman explains “emotional bids” and says that they can be verbal or behavioural – some examples of emotional bids are when your partner asks you a question, makes a simple statement such as “It’s a beautiful day” or pulls a facial expression. Dr. Gottmann further explained that “couples are always making “bids” for each other’s attention, affection, humor or support, and each bid presents an opportunity for the other individual to turn towards and acknowledge the bid or away and dismiss the bid”. After conducting research on newly-weds, he found that those who had remained married after 6 years had turned to their partner’s bids 86% of the time whereas those who separated only did so 33% of the time.
3. Cherishing one another:
To be in a happy and healthy relationship, you must obviously have positive views of one another. Cherishing each other means making sure you’re always appreciative of what your partner does. People who are in happy and healthy relationships often tend to think and talk positively of their partners. Expressing gratitude and not taking one another for granted is extremely important so that you never forget how lucky you truly are.
4. Making your relationship a priority:
It is important to note that this does not mean neglecting your own needs; rather, it means making sure you do not dismiss your partner and the relationship that you are trying to build and grow together. Making time for your partner and putting in the effort to listen to and understand their needs is key to a successful relationship – of course, it is necessary that they do the same.
5. Building a strong friendship:
Benson writes that ‘if the above ingredients are available, it’s easy to see why committed lovers feel that there is no better partner in the world than the one that they have’. Although relationships do rely on romance and intimacy, couples who are in successful relationships as more than just partners – they are best friends. Your partner should be your best friend: the person you share your secrets and laugh out loud with.
6. Seeking understanding during conflict:
This is one of the most important ingredients for a successful relationship. Conflict and arguments do not ruin relationships. What has the power to ruin a relationship is how the conflict is handled. If you do argue but always try – really try – to understand where your partner’s concerns are coming from and how you can work on fixing things together, then you have nothing to fear. People in successful relationships work hard to understand their partners instead of dismissing their concerns and fighting to ‘win’ an argument. There is no winning an argument: successful relationships are built by resolving not winning.
7. Interdependence and Independence:
A balance between interdependence and independence should be found in order to ensure a happy, healthy relationship. It is important that partners feel like they can depend on each other for closeness, comfort and security; however, one should not become too dependent on their partner. A level of independence is necessary so that you do not feel like you rely too much on your partner and they do not begin to feel suffocated. In addition to this, being independent allows you to pursue and share your concerns openly and honestly.
8. Security:
Insecurity can ruin a relationship. Successful relationships are secure and steady as the partners know that they can trust and rely on each other. If one is constantly on edge and insecure about the relationship’s strength or their partner’s affection towards them, then the relationship will most likely fail. Working on building trust and security is key in a healthy relationship.
If you do not already do the above things, make sure that you begin to apply these secret ingredients in order to strengthen your relationship and make sure it lasts forever.


iheartintelligence--2020-09-07--Here’s Why So Many Men Withdraw in Relationships When Women Pursue

There is a well-known negative relationship pattern found in couples called the pursuer-distancer pattern wherein it is mostly women who pursue their male partners while searching for a deeper emotional connection .
However , in this situation , men become polarized and distance themselves from their women .
This pattern often causes a deep crack in the relationship and can easily lead to long-term unhappiness or even separation .
Some people are of the mind that gender differences in this pattern are attributable to individual differences between the sexes .
Females generally are more prone to form bonds while men @ @ @ @ @ @ @ , and thus they are more likely to withdraw .
Men are also more reactive to stress , so when there is rising conflict in the relationship they may withdraw to take a psychological break .
Another way this could be explained is that these roles are more attributable to the social structure of traditional marriage .
It is known that females seek faster change and development in their marriages than males do .
Meanwhile , men are less likely to seek change as they see their wives ‘ requests for change as @ @ @ @ @ @ @ quo .
But regardless of which explanation is right , it is undeniable that this is a pattern that escalates between couples and it causes deep distress to the relationship .
Due to the fact that women seek stronger emotional connections with their partners , they might be at a disadvantage because they rely heavily on their men for what they need in a relationship .
Due to the fact that men are less dependent by nature , they are also less dependent on their partners because they can achieve what they want @ @ @ @ @ @ @ a consequence , no matter what deal the two make , the outcome will favor the man because he is less dependant on his partner .
In turn , this leaves the woman to crave for attention even more , but with little result as the man sees this as intrusive and withdraws even more .
Women can counter this pattern by lowering their hopes and expectations for the relationship , but this also will inevitably lead to an increasing emotional distance in the couple .
But hopefully , the man can see @ @ @ @ @ @ @ making things better .
Men can also try to be more sensitive and understanding to the fact that even though it may seem like they ’ ve made peace with their wives after a heated argument , their wives will often be left less satisfied with the outcome than them .
Hence , men must be more proactive and willing to make sacrifices in order to meed their wives somewhere in the middle and sustain a long-lasting and fulfilling relationship .
We hope that this article was of help to you .
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There is a well-known negative relationship pattern found in couples called the pursuer-distancer pattern wherein it is mostly women who pursue their male partners while searching for a deeper emotional connection. However, in this situation, men become polarized and distance themselves from their women.
This pattern often causes a deep crack in the relationship and can easily lead to long-term unhappiness or even separation.
Some people are of the mind that gender differences in this pattern are attributable to individual differences between the sexes. Females generally are more prone to form bonds while men tend to be more independent and self-reliant, and thus they are more likely to withdraw. Men are also more reactive to stress, so when there is rising conflict in the relationship they may withdraw to take a psychological break.
Another way this could be explained is that these roles are more attributable to the social structure of traditional marriage.
It is known that females seek faster change and development in their marriages than males do. Meanwhile, men are less likely to seek change as they see their wives ‘ requests for change as threatening to the preservation of the status quo.
But regardless of which explanation is right, it is undeniable that this is a pattern that escalates between couples and it causes deep distress to the relationship. Due to the fact that women seek stronger emotional connections with their partners, they might be at a disadvantage because they rely heavily on their men for what they need in a relationship.
Due to the fact that men are less dependent by nature, they are also less dependent on their partners because they can achieve what they want by withdrawing in the relationship.
As a consequence, no matter what deal the two make, the outcome will favor the man because he is less dependant on his partner. In turn, this leaves the woman to crave for attention even more, but with little result as the man sees this as intrusive and withdraws even more.
Women can counter this pattern by lowering their hopes and expectations for the relationship, but this also will inevitably lead to an increasing emotional distance in the couple.
But hopefully, the man can see what is happening and start working on making things better.
Men can also try to be more sensitive and understanding to the fact that even though it may seem like they’ve made peace with their wives after a heated argument, their wives will often be left less satisfied with the outcome than them.
Hence, men must be more proactive and willing to make sacrifices in order to meed their wives somewhere in the middle and sustain a long-lasting and fulfilling relationship.
We hope that this article was of help to you. Let us know your thoughts on the topic and please share if you’ve enjoyed the read.


iheartintelligence--2020-09-07--How to love your partner the way they need to be loved

The way you express love might be different from how your partner wants to receive it ( and vice versa ) .
There are numerous , different ways of expressing love : you can use your words or you can make gestures , both big and small .
What you might see as the perfect expression of love may differ greatly from how your partner sees it .
We all express love differently and we all prefer a specific way of receiving it .
For this reason , you might find that your relationship can become stronger if you discussed @ @ @ @ @ @ @ that you know how to love one another .
What are the different love languages ?
Rossanna Snee explains that according to Dr. Gary Chapman , author of The Five Love Languages , “ there are five basic ways to communicate your love to your partner ” .
These five love languages are : words of affirmation , acts of service , receiving gifts , quality time and physical touch .
If your partner ’ s love language heavily relies on words of affirmation then they probably value verbal or written expressions of @ @ @ @ @ @ @ being told that they are loved and most likely appreciate receiving written love letters or texts expressing love .
However , Snee points out that it is important to remember that ‘ negative words can have a very strong impact in the other direction , so be very mindful of what you say and how you say it ’ .
For some people , small acts of service speak louder than words .
This refers to doing little things that you know will relieve your partner from stress .
According to Snee , @ @ @ @ @ @ @ something as simple as making the bed or doing the dishes .
What takes little effort on your part might turn out to be a grand expression of love for your partner .
If receiving gifts is your partner ’ s primary love language , it is due to the motivation and intentions which they know lie behind the gift they are given .
Snee gives her son as an example as she explains that he gifted his girlfriend a pair of wireless headphones after noticing that she always struggled untangling her old @ @ @ @ @ @ @ not the act of giving and receiving which expressed love but the motivation behind the gift – namely , the fact that he did not want her to struggle .
Spending quality time is always important in a relationship .
However , for many , this is the preferred and primary expression of love .
If this is true for your relationship , your partner may need more of your time and attention .
Unsurprisingly , this is one of the hardest love languages as it requires a lot of time and effort @ @ @ @ @ @ @ by physical touch , Dr. Chapman refers to ‘ hand holding , a shoulder squeeze , a hand on the back , little touches here and there ’ .
Even if physical touch may not be your preferred choice of expressing love , it may be your partner ’ s preferred way of receiving it .
Knowing what your partner needs can strengthen your relationship .
When you find out what you and your partner both need , you will certainly see your relationship begin to flourish .
Of course , knowing that @ @ @ @ @ @ @ language does not mean disregarding and dismissing the other expressions of love altogether .
It just means giving more of what you know they need .

The way you express love might be different from how your partner wants to receive it (and vice versa).
There are numerous, different ways of expressing love: you can use your words or you can make gestures, both big and small. What you might see as the perfect expression of love may differ greatly from how your partner sees it. We all express love differently and we all prefer a specific way of receiving it. For this reason, you might find that your relationship can become stronger if you discussed your preferred and primary love languages so that you know how to love one another.
What are the different love languages?
Rossanna Snee explains that according to Dr. Gary Chapman, author of The Five Love Languages, “there are five basic ways to communicate your love to your partner”. These five love languages are: words of affirmation, acts of service, receiving gifts, quality time and physical touch.
Words of affirmation
If your partner’s love language heavily relies on words of affirmation then they probably value verbal or written expressions of love; that is, they like being told that they are loved and most likely appreciate receiving written love letters or texts expressing love. However, Snee points out that it is important to remember that ‘negative words can have a very strong impact in the other direction, so be very mindful of what you say and how you say it’.
Acts of service
For some people, small acts of service speak louder than words. This refers to doing little things that you know will relieve your partner from stress. According to Snee, these little acts of service could be something as simple as making the bed or doing the dishes. What takes little effort on your part might turn out to be a grand expression of love for your partner.
Receiving gifts
If receiving gifts is your partner’s primary love language, it is due to the motivation and intentions which they know lie behind the gift they are given. Snee gives her son as an example as she explains that he gifted his girlfriend a pair of wireless headphones after noticing that she always struggled untangling her old ones. For her, it was not the act of giving and receiving which expressed love but the motivation behind the gift – namely, the fact that he did not want her to struggle.
Quality time
Spending quality time is always important in a relationship. However, for many, this is the preferred and primary expression of love. If this is true for your relationship, your partner may need more of your time and attention. Unsurprisingly, this is one of the hardest love languages as it requires a lot of time and effort on your part.
Snee explains that by physical touch, Dr. Chapman refers to ‘hand holding, a shoulder squeeze, a hand on the back, little touches here and there’. Even if physical touch may not be your preferred choice of expressing love, it may be your partner’s preferred way of receiving it.
Knowing what your partner needs can strengthen your relationship.
When you find out what you and your partner both need, you will certainly see your relationship begin to flourish. Of course, knowing that they have a primary or preferred love language does not mean disregarding and dismissing the other expressions of love altogether. It just means giving more of what you know they need.


iheartintelligence--2020-09-08--Osama Bin Laden’s Niece Claims Only Trump Can Prevent Another 9/11

Noor bin Ladin claims Trump is the only president who will be able to prevent another 9/11 .
• Osama bin Laden ’ s niece believes that if Joe Biden becomes president , the US would be at risk of terrorist attacks .
• Bin Ladin is a proud supporter of President Trump and an ‘ American at heart ’ .
• She explains that for her , the USA is not a racist country and that she has always been treated with kindness and understanding .
The 33-year-old believes that Trump ‘ must be reelected ’ to ensure the @ @ @ @ @ @ @ Laden ’ s niece has spoken about her political views , her love for the United States , and the 2020 presidential elections .
According to the 33-year-old , Trump is the only one who can prevent an attack similar to 9/11 from happening again .
The Daily Mail reported that bin Laden ‘ warned that if Joe Biden is elected , another attack may be on the way , as she claimed that leftists in the US have aligned themselves with radicalism ’ .
Although she was born and lives in Switzerland @ @ @ @ @ @ @ ‘ an American at heart ’ .
For this reason , she explained that when she was 14 , she was left heartbroken after her uncle attacked the country she viewed as ‘ a second home ’ .
The 33-year-old expressed her support of Trump and claimed that she has supported him since his election in 2015 .
What is more , she proudly exhibits her political views even when she is not in the United States .
Even though the majority of Swiss citizens do not support Trump , bin Ladin wears @ @ @ @ @ @ @ ) hat at home .
The Daily Mail explained that bin Ladin opened up about a time she wore her MAGA hat to the grocery store in Switzerland : I am minding my own business and this woman in her late 50s charges toward me and starts speaking very loudly and aggressively to me [ … ] She ’ s yelling at me and saying how can I be wearing this and Trump is the worst president ever and she ’ s basically dumping on my beloved president … She told me three @ @ @ @ @ @ @ ” .
I kept my cool , and needless to say I kept my hat !
She believes America is not a racist country .
Bin Ladin explained that from her own experience in the US , she has found that the country is not racist – in fact , the Daily Mail stated that she rejects all claims that America is racist .
She added that despite her family name , she has never faced discrimination and that she has always been treated with kindness and understanding .
As a result of @ @ @ @ @ @ @ bin Ladin was not raised in Saudi Arabia and for this reason , she explains that she ‘ grew up with this deep appreciation for freedom and basic individual rights ’ .

Noor bin Ladin claims Trump is the only president who will be able to prevent another 9/11.
Osama bin Laden’s niece believes that if Joe Biden becomes president, the US would be at risk of terrorist attacks.
Bin Ladin is a proud supporter of President Trump and an ‘American at heart’.
She explains that for her, the USA is not a racist country and that she has always been treated with kindness and understanding.
The 33-year-old believes that Trump ‘must be reelected’ to ensure the safety of the USA.
Osama bin Laden’s niece has spoken about her political views, her love for the United States, and the 2020 presidential elections. According to the 33-year-old, Trump is the only one who can prevent an attack similar to 9/11 from happening again. The Daily Mail reported that bin Laden ‘warned that if Joe Biden is elected, another attack may be on the way, as she claimed that leftists in the US have aligned themselves with radicalism’.
ISIS proliferated under the Obama/Biden administration, leading to them coming to Europe […] Trump has shown he protects America and us by extension from foreign threats by obliterating terrorists at the root and before they get a chance to strike. Noor bin Ladin
Noor bin Ladin is a proud supporter of President Trump.
Although she was born and lives in Switzerland, bin Ladin claims that she is ‘an American at heart’. For this reason, she explained that when she was 14, she was left heartbroken after her uncle attacked the country she viewed as ‘a second home’. The 33-year-old expressed her support of Trump and claimed that she has supported him since his election in 2015. What is more, she proudly exhibits her political views even when she is not in the United States. Even though the majority of Swiss citizens do not support Trump, bin Ladin wears her MAGA (Make America Great Again) hat at home. The Daily Mail explained that bin Ladin opened up about a time she wore her MAGA hat to the grocery store in Switzerland:
I am minding my own business and this woman in her late 50s charges toward me and starts speaking very loudly and aggressively to me […] She’s yelling at me and saying how can I be wearing this and Trump is the worst president ever and she’s basically dumping on my beloved president … She told me three times, “You’re stupid”. I kept my cool, and needless to say I kept my hat! Noor bin Ladin
She believes America is not a racist country.
Bin Ladin explained that from her own experience in the US, she has found that the country is not racist – in fact, the Daily Mail stated that she rejects all claims that America is racist. She added that despite her family name, she has never faced discrimination and that she has always been treated with kindness and understanding. As a result of her parents’ divorce in 1988, bin Ladin was not raised in Saudi Arabia and for this reason, she explains that she ‘grew up with this deep appreciation for freedom and basic individual rights’.


iheartintelligence--2020-09-08--Job ad for ‘happy’ hairdresser was taken down for being ‘discriminatory’

AJ ’ s Unisex Hair Salon was asked to take down their recruitment ad on account of it being ‘ discriminatory ’ .
• The local job center said that they could not run the salon ’ s ad because it could discourage people who do not see themselves as ‘ happy ’ from applying .
• A Department of Work and Pensions spokesperson has since apologised for the ‘ error ’ .
According to The Sunday Times , Mrs. Birch wanted her job advertisement to read : “ Part-time fully qualified hairdresser , must be confident in barbering as @ @ @ @ @ @ @ must have at least five years ’ experience working in a salon after being fully qualified .
This is a busy , friendly , small salon , so only happy , friendly stylist need apply.
” However , the local job center contacted Mrs. Birch on Wednesday , informing her that her ad could not be run on account of it being discriminatory .
FOX News reported that the owner further explained that she had been told : “ I ’ m sorry , but the word happy is a discriminatory word and @ @ @ @ @ @ @ it , as somebody who is not happy will be discriminated against ” .
The conversation with the job center had left Mrs. Birch shocked , frustrated , and questioning whether the word ‘ happy ’ really is discriminatory .
According to METRO , the woman explained : ‘ When he called me up and said he wanted to talk to me about using a discriminatory word in my job advert , I panicked .
I thought , “ what have I said ?
” I wouldn ’ t do something like that @ @ @ @ @ @ @ said the word was “ happy ” .
’ Moreover , Mrs. Birch initially thought that she was being pranked by one of her customers .
Upon realizing that the man was serious , she was outraged : AJ ’ s Unisex Hair Salon takes pride in being known as a happy salon .
Mrs. Birch claims that her salon has always been described as ‘ the happy little salon in Cainscross ’ .
To her , this has been a compliment and she takes pride in being able to make her customers @ @ @ @ @ @ @ dark and difficult times , ‘ customers don ’ t want to come in to staff with bad attitudes ’ .
The owner finds that nowadays , everybody is trying to be politically correct and that any descriptive word can be seen as being discriminatory .
A spokesperson for the Department of Work and Pensions has since spoken to METRO , stating : ‘ We mistakenly advised a customer to amend a job advert but have since offered to repost the original copy and apologised for the error .
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AJ’s Unisex Hair Salon was asked to take down their recruitment ad on account of it being ‘discriminatory’.
AJ’s Unisex Hair Salon is located in Stroud, England.
The local job center said that they could not run the salon’s ad because it could discourage people who do not see themselves as ‘happy’ from applying.
A Department of Work and Pensions spokesperson has since apologised for the ‘error’.
Alison Birch posted a job ad, looking for a part-time hairdresser.
According to The Sunday Times, Mrs. Birch wanted her job advertisement to read: “Part-time fully qualified hairdresser, must be confident in barbering as well as all aspects of hairdressing, must have at least five years’ experience working in a salon after being fully qualified. This is a busy, friendly, small salon, so only happy, friendly stylist need apply.” However, the local job center contacted Mrs. Birch on Wednesday, informing her that her ad could not be run on account of it being discriminatory. FOX News reported that the owner further explained that she had been told: “I’m sorry, but the word happy is a discriminatory word and we aren’t allowed to use it, as somebody who is not happy will be discriminated against”.
Is the word ‘happy’ discriminatory?
The conversation with the job center had left Mrs. Birch shocked, frustrated, and questioning whether the word ‘happy’ really is discriminatory. According to METRO, the woman explained: ‘When he called me up and said he wanted to talk to me about using a discriminatory word in my job advert, I panicked. I thought, “what have I said?” I wouldn’t do something like that. I was almost relieved when he said the word was “happy”.’ Moreover, Mrs. Birch initially thought that she was being pranked by one of her customers. Upon realizing that the man was serious, she was outraged:
I told him I was perfectly happy with the use of the word “happy”, and that he could just take it off their site and I’d find somewhere else to list it.
AJ’s Unisex Hair Salon takes pride in being known as a happy salon.
Mrs. Birch claims that her salon has always been described as ‘the happy little salon in Cainscross’. To her, this has been a compliment and she takes pride in being able to make her customers happy. Especially now, during already dark and difficult times, ‘customers don’t want to come in to staff with bad attitudes’. The owner finds that nowadays, everybody is trying to be politically correct and that any descriptive word can be seen as being discriminatory.
A spokesperson for the Department of Work and Pensions has since spoken to METRO, stating: ‘We mistakenly advised a customer to amend a job advert but have since offered to repost the original copy and apologised for the error.’


iheartintelligence--2020-09-08--Professor, 46, collapses and dies in front of her virtual class amid COVID-19 symptoms

College professor , 46 , who had been allegedly battling coronavirus for over a month , collapsed and died during a Zoom lecture .
• Paola De Simone , professor at Universidad Argentina de la Empresa in Buenos Aries , who had been reportedly struggling with COVID-19 symptoms , died in the middle of a Zoom lecture , reports say .
• The professor had previously mentioned her battle with the virus on Twitter .
• Former students and friends describe her as an ‘ unforgettable teacher ’ and ‘ a great person ’ .
Last week , during a @ @ @ @ @ @ @ , who was teaching 20th-century world history at Universidad Argentina de la Empresa in Buenos Aries , died at her home after having severe trouble breathing , as per The New York Post .
As The Sun reports , citing Diari Mes , De Simone was not feeling very well and was suffering breathing difficulties during the lesson .
Her concerned students asked her to give them her address so they could send help , but all she could say was : “ I can ’ t ” before collapsing at her home @ @ @ @ @ @ @ , came home from work , he discovered her lifeless body .
She left behind both her husband and her daughter .
The Argentinian professor had previously mentioned her health issues and her husband ’ s work amid the coronavirus pandemic on social media .
In a Twitter post , De Simone reportedly wrote : Ana Breccia , 23 , one of Paola ’ s students , described her last moments before allegedly losing her life to the virus .
The professor was also described as an ‘ unforgettable teacher ’ who was @ @ @ @ @ @ @ Sterin Pensel , an Argentine journalist in New York , who had been friends with De Simone , told the Washington Post Paola was dedicated to her students , adding that her death is a ‘ sad reminder that the virus is real ’ .
The journalist claimed that the virus is ‘ still making rounds in Buenos Aires ’ .
She said : Another one of De Simone ’ s students , Michelle Denise Bolo , who said she took the lecturer ’ s economics class at the Universidad de Buenos Aires @ @ @ @ @ @ @ classes were at 7 a.m. , it was very difficult sometimes , we were sleepy , but it was crazy because everybody listened to her .
By the end of the class , nobody wanted to leave , everybody wanted to keep talking about what she was explaining.
” Bolo added that the news of the professor ’ s tragic death was ‘ very heartbreaking ’ .
The Universidad Argentina de la Empresa released a statement saying that De Simone ’ s death had left the institution with ‘ deep pain ’ and @ @ @ @ @ @ @ dedicated teacher , and a great person , with more [ than ] fifteen years of experience ’ .
As of September 8 , there are 488,007 COVID-19 cases and over 10,000 deaths reported in Argentina , according to Worldometers .

College professor, 46, who had been allegedly battling coronavirus for over a month, collapsed and died during a Zoom lecture.
Paola De Simone, professor at Universidad Argentina de la Empresa in Buenos Aries, who had been reportedly struggling with COVID-19 symptoms, died in the middle of a Zoom lecture, reports say.
The professor had previously mentioned her battle with the virus on Twitter.
Former students and friends describe her as an ‘unforgettable teacher’ and ‘a great person’.
Last week, during a Zoom lecture, professor Paola De Simone, who was teaching 20th-century world history at Universidad Argentina de la Empresa in Buenos Aries, died at her home after having severe trouble breathing, as per The New York Post.
Paola De Simone en su máxima expresión, me pareció interesante su postura tan relajada para dar una clase que no dude en capturar ese momento. pic.twitter.com/z3QfGGOQAt — Nawel ♛ (@naweljimenez) September 3, 2020
As The Sun reports, citing Diari Mes, De Simone was not feeling very well and was suffering breathing difficulties during the lesson. Her concerned students asked her to give them her address so they could send help, but all she could say was: “I can’t” before collapsing at her home. When her husband, a doctor, came home from work, he discovered her lifeless body. She left behind both her husband and her daughter.
The Argentinian professor had previously mentioned her health issues and her husband’s work amid the coronavirus pandemic on social media. In a Twitter post, De Simone reportedly wrote:
“It is very complicated. I have been here [with the virus] for more than four weeks and the symptoms do not go away. My husband is exhausted from working so much at the moment.”
Ana Breccia, 23, one of Paola’s students, described her last moments before allegedly losing her life to the virus.
“She began by saying that she had pneumonia, we saw it was worse than in previous classes. At one point she could not continue passing slides, nor speak and she became unbalanced.”
The professor was also described as an ‘unforgettable teacher’ who was always there for her students.
Silvina Sterin Pensel, an Argentine journalist in New York, who had been friends with De Simone, told the Washington Post Paola was dedicated to her students, adding that her death is a ‘sad reminder that the virus is real’.
The journalist claimed that the virus is ‘still making rounds in Buenos Aires’. She said:
“In Argentina, the confinement has been very strict, so people are showing signs of fatigue in complying. But these kinds of reminders, these awful reminders, they shake your core.”
Another one of De Simone’s students, Michelle Denise Bolo, who said she took the lecturer’s economics class at the Universidad de Buenos Aires in 2017, shared:
“Her classes were at 7 a.m., it was very difficult sometimes, we were sleepy, but it was crazy because everybody listened to her. By the end of the class, nobody wanted to leave, everybody wanted to keep talking about what she was explaining.”
Bolo added that the news of the professor’s tragic death was ‘very heartbreaking’.
The Universidad Argentina de la Empresa released a statement saying that De Simone’s death had left the institution with ‘deep pain’ and that she was ‘a passionate and dedicated teacher, and a great person, with more [than] fifteen years of experience’.
As of September 8, there are 488,007 COVID-19 cases and over 10,000 deaths reported in Argentina, according to Worldometers.


iheartintelligence--2020-09-08--Mother finds child sex doll on Amazon resembling her daughter

A shocked mother said she “ cried uncontrollably ” after she discovered that her daughter ’ s image had been used to manufacture a child sex doll that was being offered on the web .
The Florida mom , who wanted to be referred to as ‘ Terri ’ , said a friend of her ’ s sent her a message regarding a doll that looked too much like her daughter being sold on Amazon for $ 559 .
The item was listed on the web as a “ high-quality sexy dolly live dolls for men.
” The doll strongly @ @ @ @ @ @ @ Facebook of her daughter sitting on the couch at home .
She told local news outlet WTVJ that finding the doll has left her deeply disturbed .
“ I knew it right away .
I knew it … the one site , I saw her and zoomed in on her face and hair , ” she said .
“ I couldn ’ t believe it.
” “ I started crying , ” she added .
“ I was just completely in shock and angry.
” The reviews left for the item were just @ @ @ @ @ @ @ it was a “ good item during these times ” .
Terri said she urged Amazon to remove the doll from the site , and advertisements for it were taken down in a matter of 4 days .
However , later Terri reported that the item was still available on other web pages , and there is also a video where people explain how to use it .
“ They should be charged as sex offenders , ” Terri said of the people who use child sex dolls .
“ They should be @ @ @ @ @ @ @ be shut down.
” Afterward , Terri turned to the Child Rescue Coalition for help .
They are a Boca Raton-based organization that is working to pass a federal law forbidding the sale and purchasing of child sex dolls .
The worrying story gained the attention of Elizabeth Smart , a child sex abuse survivor and advocate who shared an Instagram video recently calling on viewers to sign the petition banning the sale of child sex dolls .
What are your thoughts on this disturbing story ?
Let us know by joining the @ @ @ @ @ @ @ this article if you ’ ve found it informative .

A shocked mother said she “cried uncontrollably” after she discovered that her daughter’s image had been used to manufacture a child sex doll that was being offered on the web.
The Florida mom, who wanted to be referred to as ‘Terri’, said a friend of her’s sent her a message regarding a doll that looked too much like her daughter being sold on Amazon for $559.
The item was listed on the web as a “high-quality sexy dolly live dolls for men.”
The doll strongly resembles a picture that Terri posted on Facebook of her daughter sitting on the couch at home.
She told local news outlet WTVJ that finding the doll has left her deeply disturbed.
“I knew it right away. I knew it … the one site, I saw her and zoomed in on her face and hair,” she said. “I couldn’t believe it.” “I started crying,” she added. “I was just completely in shock and angry.”
The reviews left for the item were just as horrifying, with one person saying it was a “good item during these times”.
“I can’t sleep sometimes because that’s all I can think about, men who have sex with those dolls, and I can’t get them back. I just want to burn them,” the worried mother said.
Terri said she urged Amazon to remove the doll from the site, and advertisements for it were taken down in a matter of 4 days.
“All sellers must follow our selling guidelines and those who do not will be subject to action including potential removal of their account,” an Amazon representative said. “This product has been removed.”
However, later Terri reported that the item was still available on other web pages, and there is also a video where people explain how to use it.
“They should be charged as sex offenders,” Terri said of the people who use child sex dolls. “They should be fined – and these websites need to be shut down.”
Afterward, Terri turned to the Child Rescue Coalition for help. They are a Boca Raton-based organization that is working to pass a federal law forbidding the sale and purchasing of child sex dolls.
The worrying story gained the attention of Elizabeth Smart, a child sex abuse survivor and advocate who shared an Instagram video recently calling on viewers to sign the petition banning the sale of child sex dolls.
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iheartintelligence--2020-09-08--“World’s loneliest elephant” kept in a tiny enclosure for 35 years will be allowed to leave Pakistan

“ World ’ s loneliest elephant ” kept in a tiny enclosure for 35 years will be allowed to leave Pakistani zoo in seek for better life The ‘ world ’ s loneliest elephant ’ will finally have the chance to live in better conditions .
• Kaavan , the elephant , who has spent over three decades in terrible conditions in a Pakistani zoo , will finally have the chance to live in a proper environment .
• Animal welfare activists established a campaign helping Kaavan to receive medical approval to travel .
• The elephant will most likely @ @ @ @ @ @ @ live in significantly better conditions .
The poor animal has languished at a zoo in the Pakistani capital of Islamabad for more than 35 years .
A campaign established by animal welfare activists helped Kaavan the elephant to ensure him a better environment away from the tiny enclosure of the zoo , Daily Mail reports .
According to Martin Bauer , a spokesman for Four Paws , Kaavan , who is also overweight , underwent a full medical examination at the zoo .
Thankfully , after the examination , the elephant has finally @ @ @ @ @ @ @ likely in Cambodia , where he will find a good home , and he will no longer be lonely .
In May , the Marghazar Zoo , where Kaavan lived in solitude for more than three decades , was closed by Pakistan ’ s High Court due to its unacceptable conditions blamed on systematic negligence .
Animal activists around the world , including celebrities like the iconic pop singer Cher , united and worked together to rescue the lonely animal .
Sadly , two lions who also lived in the Pakistani zoo died @ @ @ @ @ @ @ .
Bauer said : It was Islamabad Wildlife Management Board that contacted the welfare organization Four Paws in a bid to save the animals at the zoo .
Due to the horrific setting the elephant was forced to live in , his health was in a critical condition .
The examination showed that Kaavan was overweight , even though he displayed signs of malnutrition .
His nails were overgrown and cracked , which was a result of the years of living in a tiny cage with flooring that hurt his feet .
Luckily @ @ @ @ @ @ @ healthy enough to move to a place with proper environmental conditions .
Bauer added : However , the spokesman notes that the elephant ’ s recovery will be a long journey , both physically and emotionally .
In 2012 , Kaavan lost his life partner and later suffered behavioral issues .
Both the loss and the loneliness afterward have taken their toll on his wellbeing .
Wildlife veterinarians and experts have lobbied for his relocation since 2016 .
The activists have worked hard on making it possible for Kaaavan to travel to a @ @ @ @ @ @ @ and cure his heartache .

“World’s loneliest elephant” kept in a tiny enclosure for 35 years will be allowed to leave Pakistani zoo in seek for better life
“World’s loneliest elephant” kept in a tiny enclosure for 35 years will be allowed to leave Pakistani zoo in seek for better life
The ‘world’s loneliest elephant’ will finally have the chance to live in better conditions.
Kaavan, the elephant, who has spent over three decades in terrible conditions in a Pakistani zoo, will finally have the chance to live in a proper environment.
Animal welfare activists established a campaign helping Kaavan to receive medical approval to travel.
The elephant will most likely be moved to Cambodia where he would live in significantly better conditions.
The poor animal has languished at a zoo in the Pakistani capital of Islamabad for more than 35 years. A campaign established by animal welfare activists helped Kaavan the elephant to ensure him a better environment away from the tiny enclosure of the zoo, Daily Mail reports.
According to Martin Bauer, a spokesman for Four Paws, Kaavan, who is also overweight, underwent a full medical examination at the zoo. Thankfully, after the examination, the elephant has finally received medical approval to travel, most likely in Cambodia, where he will find a good home, and he will no longer be lonely.
In May, the Marghazar Zoo, where Kaavan lived in solitude for more than three decades, was closed by Pakistan’s High Court due to its unacceptable conditions blamed on systematic negligence. Animal activists around the world, including celebrities like the iconic pop singer Cher, united and worked together to rescue the lonely animal.
Sadly, two lions who also lived in the Pakistani zoo died before having the chance to be rescued. Bauer said:
“Unfortunately, the rescue comes too late for two lions that died during an attempted transfer at the end of July after local animal handlers set a fire in their enclosure to force them into their transport crates.”
It was Islamabad Wildlife Management Board that contacted the welfare organization Four Paws in a bid to save the animals at the zoo.
Due to the horrific setting the elephant was forced to live in, his health was in a critical condition.
The examination showed that Kaavan was overweight, even though he displayed signs of malnutrition. His nails were overgrown and cracked, which was a result of the years of living in a tiny cage with flooring that hurt his feet. Luckily, the tests showed the animal is healthy enough to move to a place with proper environmental conditions. Bauer added:
“Following the checks, which confirmed Kaavan is strong enough, steps will now be taken to finalize his relocation to an animal sanctuary potentially in Cambodia.”
However, the spokesman notes that the elephant’s recovery will be a long journey, both physically and emotionally. In 2012, Kaavan lost his life partner and later suffered behavioral issues. Both the loss and the loneliness afterward have taken their toll on his wellbeing.
Wildlife veterinarians and experts have lobbied for his relocation since 2016. The activists have worked hard on making it possible for Kaaavan to travel to a better place where he would find friends and cure his heartache.


iheartintelligence--2020-09-08--BLM Protesters Scream ‘F**k white people’ At Elderly Diners. Violence And Harassment On The Rise

Pittsburgh , Pennsylvania : Black Lives Matter protesters were harassing an elderly white couple during Saturday ’ s protests , disturbing footage shows .
A video taken with a mobile phone shows a mob taking over an outdoor dining space with one person even getting in an old couple ’ s faces before drinking their beer in front of them ; another took one of their glasses and smashed it to the ground .
Meanwhile , other customers pick up their belongings and leave after protesters call them an ’ embarrassment ’ .
The recent protests and violent riots are @ @ @ @ @ @ @ Americans who have lost their lives while in police custody , with the recently shared video of Daniel Prude ’ s death in Rochester , New York in March , igniting a new wave of anger and violence .
Similar disturbing scenes have played out all over , with a person in Washington last week cornered by a mob of BLM supporters outside a restaurant .
In another case , diners in Rochester were forced to leave their tables when a mob started breaking things apart around them .
‘ We ’ re @ @ @ @ @ @ @ woman was seen shouting in the face of a New Yorker as demonstrators smashed the customer ’ s glasses in front of their faces , broke plates , threw chairs and chanted at them to get out .
And unfortunately , these incidents seem to be increasing in frequency .
An elderly man was recently also attacked Washington D.C. , for attending the Republican National Convention .
He had water thrown at him and at one point was pushed/punched to the ground .
Other RNC attendees also received a taste of BLM harassment… @ @ @ @ @ @ @ man was brutally struck by a brick-wielding man for his skin color .
What are your thoughts on the growing divide in the United States , and how do you think this issue could be solved ?
Let us know by joining the conversation in the comments and please share this article if you ’ ve found it of value .

Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania: Black Lives Matter protesters were harassing an elderly white couple during Saturday’s protests, disturbing footage shows.
A video taken with a mobile phone shows a mob taking over an outdoor dining space with one person even getting in an old couple’s faces before drinking their beer in front of them; another took one of their glasses and smashed it to the ground.
One protester tells the couple:
‘F**k the white people that built the system.’
He added:
‘F*** 12’ (a reference to police.)
Meanwhile, other customers pick up their belongings and leave after protesters call them an ’embarrassment’.
Five people were arrested for their involvement in riots that started late Saturday night and carried into early Sunday morning at Black Lives Matter Plaza and other parts of D.C. https://t.co/PM3iesDqRh This included another laser attack that hurt an officer. — Acting Deputy Secretary Ken Cuccinelli (@HomelandKen) August 31, 2020
The recent protests and violent riots are in response to a number of African Americans who have lost their lives while in police custody, with the recently shared video of Daniel Prude’s death in Rochester, New York in March, igniting a new wave of anger and violence.
TERROR: Black Lives Matter Mob Storms People’s Homes, Attack Restaurants/Patrons, Flip Tables, Climb Onto People’s Roofs https://t.co/xyGapezdzq pic.twitter.com/72IV4isKAW — Geller Report (@PamelaGeller) September 5, 2020
Similar disturbing scenes have played out all over, with a person in Washington last week cornered by a mob of BLM supporters outside a restaurant. In another case, diners in Rochester were forced to leave their tables when a mob started breaking things apart around them.
‘We’re shutting your party down,’ one woman was seen shouting in the face of a New Yorker as demonstrators smashed the customer’s glasses in front of their faces, broke plates, threw chairs and chanted at them to get out.
And unfortunately, these incidents seem to be increasing in frequency.
An elderly man was recently also attacked Washington D.C., for attending the Republican National Convention.
He had water thrown at him and at one point was pushed/punched to the ground.
Other RNC attendees also received a taste of BLM harassment…
In the video below, a white man was brutally struck by a brick-wielding man for his skin color.
In a video posted to Instagram, a black man attacked an unsuspecting white man with a brick. I bring up their skin colors because it was posted with a hashtag that reads "WhiteLivesDoNotMatter." https://t.co/9DJeT95tRd pic.twitter.com/0OooUTGyeM — Sophia (Insert joke here) Narwitz (@SophNar0747) August 31, 2020
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iheartintelligence--2020-09-08--Take Charge Of Your Life: 4 Core Benefits Of Personal Development

The world puts a high value on education – to a certain extent .
You go through school and university in order to enter your desired career .
However , many people stop actively seeking to learn and evolve in different areas of life as soon as they move into the workforce .
The most successful people out there however , never stop growing and learning , and that doesn ’ t just mean getting another degree or studying for board meetings .
Self-improvement is a key part of your career and life in general and should never be put @ @ @ @ @ @ @ are 5 of the most important benefits of a personal development mindset .
1 .
It forces you out of your comfort zone If there are areas of your personality or your job you believe you need to work on , those are the weaknesses that personal development can help you improve on .
Facing those issues and improving on them can help to take you out of your comfort zone and ultimately guide you towards growth .
Making the decision to work on yourself will take you a step closer to true @ @ @ @ @ @ @ a certain goal , learn a new skill , or grow in a certain area of your life , you will inevitably feel much better about who you are as a person .
The more you work on the things you are less confident about , the more you will boost your confidence .
A personal growth plan not only aids you in eliminating your weaknesses , but it can also help you develop your existing strengths .
By spending time working on your strengths , you will go from being decent at @ @ @ @ @ @ @ You can become the best version of yourself by further evolving in the areas you are already good at .
Personal development is deeply connected to self-awareness .
It gives you the chance to take a close look at the things in you that need improvement .
If you engage in this process , you will get to know your true self , what you stand for , and what path you should take in life .
It will help you improve your self-awareness and find inner peace .
We hope you ’ @ @ @ @ @ @ @ Let us know your thoughts on the topic by joining the conversation in the comments and please share if you enjoyed the read .

The world puts a high value on education – to a certain extent. You go through school and university in order to enter your desired career. However, many people stop actively seeking to learn and evolve in different areas of life as soon as they move into the workforce.
The most successful people out there however, never stop growing and learning, and that doesn’t just mean getting another degree or studying for board meetings.
Self-improvement is a key part of your career and life in general and should never be put on the backseat.
So, here are 5 of the most important benefits of a personal development mindset.
1. It forces you out of your comfort zone
If there are areas of your personality or your job you believe you need to work on, those are the weaknesses that personal development can help you improve on. Facing those issues and improving on them can help to take you out of your comfort zone and ultimately guide you towards growth.
2. It’s a great confidence-booster
Making the decision to work on yourself will take you a step closer to true self-confidence. As soon as you achieve a certain goal, learn a new skill, or grow in a certain area of your life, you will inevitably feel much better about who you are as a person. The more you work on the things you are less confident about, the more you will boost your confidence.
3. It develops your strengths
A personal growth plan not only aids you in eliminating your weaknesses, but it can also help you develop your existing strengths. By spending time working on your strengths, you will go from being decent at something to being incredible at it. You can become the best version of yourself by further evolving in the areas you are already good at.
4. It improves your self-awareness
Personal development is deeply connected to self-awareness. It gives you the chance to take a close look at the things in you that need improvement. If you engage in this process, you will get to know your true self, what you stand for, and what path you should take in life. It will help you improve your self-awareness and find inner peace.
We hope you’ve found this article of value. Let us know your thoughts on the topic by joining the conversation in the comments and please share if you enjoyed the read.


iheartintelligence--2020-09-08--Children do not say “I’m anxious”, they say “My stomach hurts”

If your child frequently suffers from stomach pain , they might be struggling with anxiety .
A stomach ache from time to time is normal in both adults and children ; however , if you are starting to notice that your child frequently says that their stomach hurts , they might be struggling with anxiety .
Naturally , children are too young to understand anxiety and the symptoms which arise from feeling anxious .
Thus , instead of saying ‘ Mum , I ’ m feeling anxious this morning ’ , they might say ‘ My stomach hurts ’ .
@ @ @ @ @ @ @ times a week or month , parents consult pediatricians who are unable to diagnose what is causing the child ’ s pain .
Consequently , some begin to worry if there is a more serious underlying condition that is causing the pain while others begin to think that their child is lying or making things up .
In reality , your child ’ s stomach pain could be caused by anxiety .
Your child ’ s anxiety can manifest itself in numerous different ways .
According to Bright Side , if you think @ @ @ @ @ @ @ are other symptoms you should watch out for .
Some of these symptoms include : • Refusal to go to school What can you do to relieve your child ’ s anxiety ?
If you think your child might be struggling with anxiety , it is your job as a parent to share your knowledge , explain what anxiety is , and teach them how to cope with it .
Ensure that your child understands the cause of their pain .
Try to explain what anxiety is and let them know that the @ @ @ @ @ @ @ result of worry and fear .
In addition to this , pay attention to their symptoms and make note of their pattern ; in doing so , you will be able to identify what triggers their anxiety .
Teach your child positive affirmations that they can repeat to themselves when they start feeling anxious .
This can be a short phrase such as ‘ I am safe ’ or a question such as ‘ What ’ s the worst that could happen ?
’ .
Teaching your child breathing techniques and grounding exercises @ @ @ @ @ @ @ helpful , especially if they become anxious when you are not around to help them deal with their feelings .
Remember that your child can not understand what they are feeling and as a result , they will struggle to explain it to you .
For this reason , make sure that you watch out for the above symptoms and try to identify what makes your child anxious so that you can help them learn how to manage ( rather than avoid ) their triggers .

If your child frequently suffers from stomach pain, they might be struggling with anxiety.
A stomach ache from time to time is normal in both adults and children; however, if you are starting to notice that your child frequently says that their stomach hurts, they might be struggling with anxiety. Naturally, children are too young to understand anxiety and the symptoms which arise from feeling anxious. Thus, instead of saying ‘Mum, I’m feeling anxious this morning’, they might say ‘My stomach hurts’. Upon hearing their child say this several times a week or month, parents consult pediatricians who are unable to diagnose what is causing the child’s pain. Consequently, some begin to worry if there is a more serious underlying condition that is causing the pain while others begin to think that their child is lying or making things up. In reality, your child’s stomach pain could be caused by anxiety.
Your child’s anxiety can manifest itself in numerous different ways.
According to Bright Side, if you think your child might have anxiety, there are other symptoms you should watch out for. Some of these symptoms include:
Difficulty sleeping
Changes in appetite
Headaches
Dizziness
Restlessness
Irritability
Refusal to go to school
Sensitivity
What can you do to relieve your child’s anxiety?
If you think your child might be struggling with anxiety, it is your job as a parent to share your knowledge, explain what anxiety is, and teach them how to cope with it.
1. Explain and inform
Ensure that your child understands the cause of their pain. Try to explain what anxiety is and let them know that the pain they are experiencing is as a result of worry and fear. In addition to this, pay attention to their symptoms and make note of their pattern; in doing so, you will be able to identify what triggers their anxiety.
Teach your child positive affirmations that they can repeat to themselves when they start feeling anxious. This can be a short phrase such as ‘I am safe’ or a question such as ‘What’s the worst that could happen?’.
3. Exercises
Teaching your child breathing techniques and grounding exercises is necessary. These can prove extremely helpful, especially if they become anxious when you are not around to help them deal with their feelings.
Remember that your child cannot understand what they are feeling and as a result, they will struggle to explain it to you. For this reason, make sure that you watch out for the above symptoms and try to identify what makes your child anxious so that you can help them learn how to manage (rather than avoid) their triggers.