awarenessact--2020-04-12--Mars, Saturn, Jupiter, And The Moon To Form Straight Line For 3 Nights In Rare Cosmic Event

On the nights of the 14th through the 16th there will be three very prominent planets in the sky forming almost a straight line with the moon itself .
These planets will be Jupiter , Mars , and Saturn .
While depending on where you are this line might look straighter or more crooked , all of these celestial bodies will be quite present and could even be seen now .
At the top of this line besides the moon , Jupiter will be at the top and appear much brighter than the other two planets .
While Mars and @ @ @ @ @ @ @ they will not compare to the light Jupiter brings .
Mars will be the last planet in all of this leaving Saturn to sit right in the middle somewhere and you might even be able to see a bit of color on Mars and Saturn even just with your naked eye .
According to Earth Sky Mars will glow with a slight red color and Saturn a slight gold color .
If you can not see this well with your eyes , binoculars may come in handy or if you ’ re lucky @ @ @ @ @ @ @ Mercury will also be visible during this time but will be much lower although still very much close to being aligned with these planets we ’ re speaking about .
While this might not sound like a lot , it ’ s very interesting to see and always fun to look at planets we ’ ve learned so much about throughout the years .
During times like these sky watching is a great way to pass the time and doesn ’ t always require fancy equipment .
The celestial world is quite present @ @ @ @ @ @ @ you can see so much if you know where to look .
I should also mention you may end up noticing a few shooting stars while out looking at these planets as the Lyrid meteor shower ’ s peak looms .
This month might not be that exciting since we ’ re all stuck at home , but we can make the most of it .
For more interesting things to view during this month and tips on how to ‘ sky watch ’ check out the video below .
This kind of @ @ @ @ @ @ @ expect and anyone can do it .
Perhaps you should take the time before you to pick up a new more sky focused hobby ?
Get outside and enjoy not only the fresh air but the beautiful view .
If you live in an area that has clear skies and open areas , you ’ re in the perfect place for this kind of thing .
The sky is a place full of mystery , and we can find all kinds of things in it .

On the nights of the 14th through the 16th there will be three very prominent planets in the sky forming almost a straight line with the moon itself. These planets will be Jupiter, Mars, and Saturn.
While depending on where you are this line might look straighter or more crooked, all of these celestial bodies will be quite present and could even be seen now. At the top of this line besides the moon, Jupiter will be at the top and appear much brighter than the other two planets. While Mars and Saturn will also be quite bright, they will not compare to the light Jupiter brings.
Mars will be the last planet in all of this leaving Saturn to sit right in the middle somewhere and you might even be able to see a bit of color on Mars and Saturn even just with your naked eye. According to Earth Sky Mars will glow with a slight red color and Saturn a slight gold color. If you cannot see this well with your eyes, binoculars may come in handy or if you’re lucky enough to have on a telescope.
Mercury will also be visible during this time but will be much lower although still very much close to being aligned with these planets we’re speaking about. While this might not sound like a lot, it’s very interesting to see and always fun to look at planets we’ve learned so much about throughout the years. During times like these sky watching is a great way to pass the time and doesn’t always require fancy equipment.
The celestial world is quite present in the night sky right now and you can see so much if you know where to look. I should also mention you may end up noticing a few shooting stars while out looking at these planets as the Lyrid meteor shower’s peak looms. This month might not be that exciting since we’re all stuck at home, but we can make the most of it.
For more interesting things to view during this month and tips on how to ‘sky watch’ check out the video below. This kind of thing is easier than you’d expect and anyone can do it. Perhaps you should take the time before you to pick up a new more sky focused hobby?
Get outside and enjoy not only the fresh air but the beautiful view. If you live in an area that has clear skies and open areas, you’re in the perfect place for this kind of thing. The sky is a place full of mystery, and we can find all kinds of things in it.


awarenessact--2020-04-12--Stop Trying To Please Everyone, Your Happiness Matters Too

Just because something is working for someone you know does not mean it ’ s going to work for you .
People-pleasing isn ’ t going to make you feel better about yourself and the sooner you realize that the better .
Instead of letting someone walk all over you , hold your own .
Don ’ t obsess over the happiness of others when you ’ re not concerned about your own .
Your happiness matters more than that of others when you ’ re looking at things on a personal level .
Sure , other people deserve to @ @ @ @ @ @ @ your expense .
The harder you try to be the person everyone else wants you to be the less content and happy you will be as a whole .
True happiness only comes from within .
You can not find it by turning yourself into someone you ’ re not .
Below I am going to go over some of the reasons why people-pleasing overall is a terrible idea , don ’ t be afraid to let these reasons sink in .
10 Reasons Why You Should Stop Trying To Please Everyone : @ @ @ @ @ @ @ for the feelings of others .
Just because you feel responsible for the feelings of others does not mean you are .
You need to put yourself first and make sure you ’ re taking care of your own wants and needs before those of other people .
Sure , you might not like it when people are mad or upset in regards to you but it ’ s just a part of life you ’ ve got to face .
2 .
The faker you are the less you ’ ll be @ @ @ @ @ @ @ you try to change who you are to fit in with other people you become quite fake .
The faker you are the less people will want to be around you .
They can tell that you ’ re trying too hard and it becomes quite apparent that you ’ re not actually into the things you ’ re saying you ’ re into .
3 .
Working to please everyone takes a serious toll on your self-esteem .
The more you try to make everyone else happy and excited to see you @ @ @ @ @ @ @ recognize yourself .
People-pleasing takes a serious toll on the self-esteem of those who fall into its trap .
You should be building yourself up and not worrying about the thoughts of others .
The more you try to make everyone else happy the more frustrated you ’ re going to become .
Instead of making proper authentic connections you ’ re going to have a ton of fake friends and be wasting your time .
Wouldn ’ t you rather have three real friends instead of five fake ones ?
5 .
@ @ @ @ @ @ @ to the opinions of others when people-pleasing .
The more you let other people control how you feel the worse you ’ re going to end up .
Your opinion of yourself should be the only one that matters to you .
Sure , the people around you should be able to provide you with their input but you should also be capable of telling them to shove it .
6 .
You can not please everyone , period .
This life is short and you shouldn ’ t waste it trying to @ @ @ @ @ @ @ not please everyone and trying to is a waste of time .
In the end , there will always be people who just don ’ t and won ’ t like you .
7 .
People-pleasing is more or less a burden and not something you enjoy .
The more you people-please the more clear it will become how much of a burden it is .
You have to keep up with so much and never have time for yourself .
You become someone that you might not recognize as time passes .
@ @ @ @ @ @ @ to change for others the more clear it is you need serious self-love .
As you continue to work so hard for others you stop loving yourself .
You become a version of yourself that is nothing like the real you and it becomes hard to figure out where the lines end .
Just how much of you are you willing to lose ?
9 .
The more you try to please others the more you lose sight of who you are .
People-pleasing , as noted above , makes you lose yourself @ @ @ @ @ @ @ the worse you ’ re going to feel .
Instead of feeding your soul , you ’ re draining it .
10 .
Trying to please everyone is a serious waste of energy .
Other people should not be able to bring you down in the way you allow them to .
Giving them this power over you is a waste of your energy and your time .
They ’ re just going to leave you feeling worse than before and you don ’ t deserve that at all .

Just because something is working for someone you know does not mean it’s going to work for you. People-pleasing isn’t going to make you feel better about yourself and the sooner you realize that the better.
Instead of letting someone walk all over you, hold your own. Don’t obsess over the happiness of others when you’re not concerned about your own. Your happiness matters more than that of others when you’re looking at things on a personal level. Sure, other people deserve to be happy as well but not at your expense.
The harder you try to be the person everyone else wants you to be the less content and happy you will be as a whole. True happiness only comes from within. You cannot find it by turning yourself into someone you’re not. Below I am going to go over some of the reasons why people-pleasing overall is a terrible idea, don’t be afraid to let these reasons sink in.
10 Reasons Why You Should Stop Trying To Please Everyone:
1. You are not actually responsible for the feelings of others.
Just because you feel responsible for the feelings of others does not mean you are. You need to put yourself first and make sure you’re taking care of your own wants and needs before those of other people. Sure, you might not like it when people are mad or upset in regards to you but it’s just a part of life you’ve got to face.
2. The faker you are the less you’ll be able to please anyone anyway.
When you try to change who you are to fit in with other people you become quite fake. The faker you are the less people will want to be around you. They can tell that you’re trying too hard and it becomes quite apparent that you’re not actually into the things you’re saying you’re into.
3. Working to please everyone takes a serious toll on your self-esteem.
The more you try to make everyone else happy and excited to see you the less you’re going to recognize yourself. People-pleasing takes a serious toll on the self-esteem of those who fall into its trap. You should be building yourself up and not worrying about the thoughts of others.
4. When you’re ‘people-pleasing’ you’re not making authentic connections.
The more you try to make everyone else happy the more frustrated you’re going to become. Instead of making proper authentic connections you’re going to have a ton of fake friends and be wasting your time. Wouldn’t you rather have three real friends instead of five fake ones?
5. You’re giving too much power to the opinions of others when people-pleasing.
The more you let other people control how you feel the worse you’re going to end up. Your opinion of yourself should be the only one that matters to you. Sure, the people around you should be able to provide you with their input but you should also be capable of telling them to shove it.
6. You cannot please everyone, period.
This life is short and you shouldn’t waste it trying to please everyone around you. You cannot please everyone and trying to is a waste of time. In the end, there will always be people who just don’t and won’t like you.
7. People-pleasing is more or less a burden and not something you enjoy.
The more you people-please the more clear it will become how much of a burden it is. You have to keep up with so much and never have time for yourself. You become someone that you might not recognize as time passes.
8. The more willing you are to change for others the more clear it is you need serious self-love.
As you continue to work so hard for others you stop loving yourself. You become a version of yourself that is nothing like the real you and it becomes hard to figure out where the lines end. Just how much of you are you willing to lose?
9. The more you try to please others the more you lose sight of who you are.
People-pleasing, as noted above, makes you lose yourself. The more you put into it the worse you’re going to feel. Instead of feeding your soul, you’re draining it.
10. Trying to please everyone is a serious waste of energy.
Other people should not be able to bring you down in the way you allow them to. Giving them this power over you is a waste of your energy and your time. They’re just going to leave you feeling worse than before and you don’t deserve that at all.


awarenessact--2020-04-12--How To Actually Stop Letting Others Take Advantage Of You

Sadly in this world , there are tons of people who will go out of their way to take advantage of the people around them .
Whether they ’ re friends , family members , or otherwise they can sometimes be hard to deal with .
When we are younger it ’ s harder to break from this kind of thing but as we move into adulthood making sure you ’ re not doing too much for people who refuse to give anything in return is important .
At the end of the day , you can only do so @ @ @ @ @ @ @ will not help themselves , you ’ re doing no more than wasting your time and effort .
At some point , we all have to come to terms with the fact that some people just want to gain all they can from us and don ’ t actually care about us like they might say they do .
Below I am going to go over some of the things that we can all do to help keep users at bay .
These things will allow you to take power back in your @ @ @ @ @ @ @ should be .
7 Ways To Stop Letting Others Take Advantage Of You : 1 .
Stop working so hard to please others .
You don ’ t have to try so hard to make other people happy .
At the end of the day , you ’ re only responsible for your own happiness and that ’ s it .
The more you try to make everyone else happy the more unhappy you ’ re likely going to become .
2 .
Weigh things out properly and figure out who does their @ @ @ @ @ @ @ someone is not helping you in the ways you ’ re helping them it will stand out in your mind .
Really think about the people in your life and how your connections play out .
Do these people really benefit you in the ways you benefit them ?
3 .
Don ’ t let your needs fall through the cracks .
Keep your own needs in mind moving forth .
You above all else need to make sure you ’ re taken care of properly .
If doing something for someone else @ @ @ @ @ @ @ do it .
4 .
Remember that you need personal space .
We all need personal space and boundaries are important .
Stop letting people walk all over you .
If you need distance , put that distance forth , period .
5 .
Know when to say ‘ no.
’ You don ’ t have to agree to do so much for other people .
There is nothing wrong with saying no when you need to .
If you are not interested in something turn it down , it ’ s not @ @ @ @ @ @ @ world , I promise .
6 .
Don ’ t let people guilt trip you into things .
There are people in this world who will try to turn everything they ’ ve ever done for you against you .
Those people do not ask for equal things in return but greater .
Don ’ t let people force you to do things you know are going to put you behind .
Sure , being kind and doing things for one another is great but this has limits .
7 .
Remember you @ @ @ @ @ @ @ the end of the day , you do not owe anyone anything .
You are your own person and so is everyone else .
If you don ’ t want to do something for someone , don ’ t do it .
You are the only person who can make your decisions .

Sadly, in this world, there are tons of people who will go out of their way to take advantage of the people around them. Whether they’re friends, family members, or otherwise they can sometimes be hard to deal with.
When we are younger, it’s harder to break from this kind of thing, but as we move into adulthood, making sure you’re not doing too much for people who refuse to give anything in return is important. At the end of the day, you can only do so much for other people. If they will not help themselves, you’re doing no more than wasting your time and effort.
At some point, we all have to come to terms with the fact that some people just want to gain all they can from us and don’t actually care about us like they might say they do. Below, I am going to go over some of the things that we can all do to help keep users at bay. These things will allow you to take power back in your own life and keep things as they should be.
7 Ways To Stop Letting Others Take Advantage Of You:
1. Stop working so hard to please others.
You don’t have to try so hard to make other people happy. At the end of the day, you’re only responsible for your own happiness, and that’s it. The more you try to make everyone else happy, the more unhappy you’re likely going to become.
2. Weigh things out properly and figure out who does their part and who does not.
If someone is not helping you in the ways you’re helping them, it will stand out in your mind. Really think about the people in your life and how your connections play out. Do these people really benefit you in the ways you benefit them?
3. Don’t let your needs fall through the cracks.
Keep your own needs in mind moving forth. You above all else need to make sure you’re taken care of properly. If doing something for someone else puts you behind, don’t do it.
4. Remember that you need personal space.
We all need personal space, and boundaries are important. Stop letting people walk all over you. If you need distance, put that distance forth, period.
5. Know when to say ‘no.’
You don’t have to agree to do so much for other people. There is nothing wrong with saying no when you need to. If you are not interested in something turn it down, it’s not going to be the end of the world, I promise.
6. Don’t let people guilt trip you into things.
There are people in this world who will try to turn everything they’ve ever done for you against you. Those people do not ask for equal things in return, but greater. Don’t let people force you to do things you know are going to put you behind. Sure, being kind and doing things for one another is great, but this has limits.
7. Remember, you do not owe anyone anything.
At the end of the day, you do not owe anyone anything. You are your own person, and so is everyone else. If you don’t want to do something for someone, don’t do it. You are the only person who can make your decisions.


awarenessact--2020-04-12--More Wildlife Spotted In Cities Across The World As Lockdown Ensues

With so many places across the globe being affected by the current pandemic things are changing quickly .
It seems in many countries animals are coming back out and in some images , it really looks like they ’ re taking over even if they ’ re not .
There have been lots of different animals roaming the streets in different places it seems as this lockdown continues we are sure to see much more of this .
Wildlife really is coming out to play .
With the streets in many areas seemingly empty you can find things like peacocks @ @ @ @ @ @ @ and so much more .
It is important to note that while some are just curious others are animals that would normally rely on tourists for food who are now quite hungry and looking for something to eat .
The effects of this pandemic hit hard in many ways , that being one of them .
While it ’ s not a virus that animals are dying from it is one that as the dominoes fall does affect them in this manner .
As you can see in the video below there are @ @ @ @ @ @ @ they ’ ve been missing .
While there aren ’ t entire herds scouring the streets the random wild animal here and here is quite interesting to see and even deer have been noted as roaming the roads in some places .
No , we ’ re not yet facing some kind of animal take over but the presence of some of these critters is concerning .
The longer this pandemic goes on the more these animals will come forth .
While it is a good thing that nature is getting a break @ @ @ @ @ @ @ in some areas as monkeys in Thailand have been fighting over scraps in the street because they are so used to seeing people who are willing to give them snacks .
I know , this might be cute and silly to some but others can see where this is going and how serious it could become .
Fox Baltimore wrote as follows about this on their website for those who see animals here in the US strolling : From deer being spotted around Baltimore City , to bears on the streets of North @ @ @ @ @ @ @ nature .
“ They won ’ t hesitate to take advantage of people not being around , ” Paul Peditto with the Maryland Department of Natural Resources said .
“ All of those species are opportunists.
” The DNR says none of this behavior is uncommon but with more humans staying home due to the Coronavirus pandemic , wildlife is more likely to venture out , especially young ones .
“ Fox are learning to hunt right now and raccoons are learning to forage , ” Peditto said .
“ Our black bears @ @ @ @ @ @ @ in western Maryland.
” DNR says it ’ s been seeing an increase in wildlife-related calls during the pandemic , but they believe it may be because more people are home to observe the animals .
“ We ’ ve seen calls for things like foxes running through yards and those are normal behaviors for those species , ” Peditto said .
“ But for folks who are normally not at home , observing them gives rise to maybe there ’ s something wrong here.
” If you do see an animal like @ @ @ @ @ @ @ a street or in a park DNR says if it loks OK just take in the moment but don ’ t approach it .
Who would have thought we would ever see times like these ?
While we knew it was possible there is no denying that we were without a doubt not ready .
Please do your best to respect the wildlife coming out if you do happen to see any , these animals are just trying to make sense of things themselves .

With so many places across the globe being affected by the current pandemic things are changing quickly. It seems in many countries animals are coming back out and in some images, it really looks like they’re taking over even if they’re not.
There have been lots of different animals roaming the streets in different places it seems as this lockdown continues we are sure to see much more of this. Wildlife really is coming out to play. With the streets in many areas seemingly empty you can find things like peacocks in Spain, goats in Wales, and so much more.
It is important to note that while some are just curious others are animals that would normally rely on tourists for food who are now quite hungry and looking for something to eat. The effects of this pandemic hit hard in many ways, that being one of them. While it’s not a virus that animals are dying from it is one that as the dominoes fall does affect them in this manner.
As you can see in the video below there are some creatures coming out to see what they’ve been missing. While there aren’t entire herds scouring the streets the random wild animal here and here is quite interesting to see and even deer have been noted as roaming the roads in some places. No, we’re not yet facing some kind of animal take over but the presence of some of these critters is concerning.
The longer this pandemic goes on the more these animals will come forth. While it is a good thing that nature is getting a break it does seem things are getting weird in some areas as monkeys in Thailand have been fighting over scraps in the street because they are so used to seeing people who are willing to give them snacks. I know, this might be cute and silly to some but others can see where this is going and how serious it could become.
Fox Baltimore wrote as follows about this on their website for those who see animals here in the US strolling:
From deer being spotted around Baltimore City, to bears on the streets of North Carolina animals seeming to be taking back nature.
“They won’t hesitate to take advantage of people not being around,” Paul Peditto with the Maryland Department of Natural Resources said. “All of those species are opportunists.”
The DNR says none of this behavior is uncommon but with more humans staying home due to the Coronavirus pandemic, wildlife is more likely to venture out, especially young ones.
“Fox are learning to hunt right now and raccoons are learning to forage,” Peditto said. “Our black bears are also emerging from hibernation right now in western Maryland.”
DNR says it’s been seeing an increase in wildlife-related calls during the pandemic, but they believe it may be because more people are home to observe the animals.
“We’ve seen calls for things like foxes running through yards and those are normal behaviors for those species,” Peditto said. “But for folks who are normally not at home, observing them gives rise to maybe there’s something wrong here.”
If you do see an animal like a deer or even a bear on a street or in a park DNR says if it loks OK just take in the moment but don’t approach it.
Who would have thought we would ever see times like these? While we knew it was possible there is no denying that we were without a doubt not ready. Please do your best to respect the wildlife coming out if you do happen to see any, these animals are just trying to make sense of things themselves.


awarenessact--2020-04-12--Look Up! The Spectacular Lyrids Meteor Shower Visible This Week

While there might not be much going on in the night sky you could depending on where you are in the world catch a few shooting stars .
If you are stuck at home during this pandemic maybe getting some fresh air in the middle of the night would be a good idea .
According to The American Meteor Society , this week might not be that spectacular in regard to meteors , but we will be able to catch a few .
In the morning hours while it is still dark those viewing from the northern hemisphere should be @ @ @ @ @ @ @ per hour which if you look close enough might be enough to at least make a few wishes .
Now , if you ’ re located south of the equator the AMS noted that you might be getting 3 per hour and 4 if in mid-northern latitudes .
While that might not sound like a lot , it ’ s fun to search for and makes seeing these meteors even more special .
The AMS also wrote that if you ’ re in tropical southern locations you ’ re in store for around @ @ @ @ @ @ @ local weather conditions could affect this but if the sky is clear and you ’ re able to get out you might still see a few regardless of where you are .
Meteor watching or just sky watching , in general , is quite fun and could prove to be a productive hobby during these trying times .
With the Lyrids meteor shower peak coming near the end of this month as we approach the end of this week we may notice an increase in meteors in the night sky but that we @ @ @ @ @ @ @ .
According to Time and Date , the Lyrids are usually visible between the 16th and 25th but peak around the 21st and 22nd .
If you want to see what radiant points to look for in the night sky you can click here to see what the AMS wrote in full .
If you ’ re stuck in the city these meteors might not be too easy to spot but that doesn ’ t mean you shouldn ’ t keep an eye out for them .
If you have a telescope these @ @ @ @ @ @ @ .
If you want to keep your eyes out for other celestial events check out the video below .
These are things we can all take advantage of right now .
While some have already passed and others are not quite here yet all of them are quite mesmerizing when spotted .
How many shooting stars have you seen in your life thus far ?
I have lost count but also take pride in that .

While there might not be much going on in the night sky you could depending on where you are in the world catch a few shooting stars. If you are stuck at home during this pandemic maybe getting some fresh air in the middle of the night would be a good idea.
According to The American Meteor Society, this week might not be that spectacular in regard to meteors, but we will be able to catch a few. In the morning hours while it is still dark those viewing from the northern hemisphere should be able to spot at least 2 meteors per hour which if you look close enough might be enough to at least make a few wishes. Now, if you’re located south of the equator the AMS noted that you might be getting 3 per hour and 4 if in mid-northern latitudes. While that might not sound like a lot, it’s fun to search for and makes seeing these meteors even more special.
The AMS also wrote that if you’re in tropical southern locations you’re in store for around 7 per hour. Now, your local weather conditions could affect this but if the sky is clear and you’re able to get out you might still see a few regardless of where you are. Meteor watching or just sky watching, in general, is quite fun and could prove to be a productive hobby during these trying times.
With the Lyrids meteor shower peak coming near the end of this month as we approach the end of this week we may notice an increase in meteors in the night sky but that we are not too certain of right now. According to Time and Date, the Lyrids are usually visible between the 16th and 25th but peak around the 21st and 22nd.
If you want to see what radiant points to look for in the night sky you can click here to see what the AMS wrote in full. If you’re stuck in the city these meteors might not be too easy to spot but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t keep an eye out for them. If you have a telescope these radiant points will definitely come in handy.
If you want to keep your eyes out for other celestial events check out the video below. These are things we can all take advantage of right now. While some have already passed and others are not quite here yet all of them are quite mesmerizing when spotted. How many shooting stars have you seen in your life thus far? I have lost count but also take pride in that.


awarenessact--2020-04-12--Can You Spot The Pug Hiding In All Of These Easter Eggs?

This seemingly new online puzzle has many while stuck at home getting into the Easter mood .
Instead of going out and hunting for eggs yourself , why not find the adorable pug amidst the eggs ?
This puzzle was created by the insurance company CIA Landlords and basically it consists of lots and lots of vibrant colorful eggs but one of these is not an egg at all .
Hidden in this mess is a cute little pug but he ’ s not as easy as you might think he would be to find .
While you might think @ @ @ @ @ @ @ he ’ s apparently quite the tough pup to spot .
Have you found him yet ?
He ’ s not near the top if that helps and he ’ s not pink so don ’ t bother looking over all of those eggs .
If you haven ’ t found him yet here ’ s another hint , he ’ s egg shaped .
Yes , he is an eggshaped pug .
While he might blend in with the other eggs well once you see his tiny face , you will know @ @ @ @ @ @ @ , if you ’ re still unable to find him or just want verification that you ’ ve found him take a peek below for the answer .
He is circled in red and quite present in his orangey-brown color sitting beside three teal colored plain eggs .
How long did it take you to spot him or did you struggle to find him at all ?
Right now while we ’ re stuck at home puzzles like this are a great way to kill time .
To see more puzzles like this @ @ @ @ @ @ @ I know , this might be a bit frustrating but it is a lot of fun , isn ’ t it ?

This seemingly new online puzzle has many while stuck at home getting into the Easter mood. Instead of going out and hunting for eggs yourself, why not find the adorable pug amidst the eggs?
This puzzle was created by the insurance company CIA Landlords and basically it consists of lots and lots of vibrant colorful eggs but one of these is not an egg at all. Hidden in this mess is a cute little pug but he’s not as easy as you might think he would be to find. While you might think it would be a quick find, he’s apparently quite the tough pup to spot.
Have you found him yet? He’s not near the top if that helps and he’s not pink so don’t bother looking over all of those eggs.
If you haven’t found him yet here’s another hint, he’s egg shaped. Yes, he is an eggshaped pug. While he might blend in with the other eggs well once you see his tiny face, you will know you’ve spotted him.
Now, if you’re still unable to find him or just want verification that you’ve found him take a peek below for the answer. He is circled in red and quite present in his orangey-brown color sitting beside three teal colored plain eggs. How long did it take you to spot him or did you struggle to find him at all?
Right now while we’re stuck at home puzzles like this are a great way to kill time. To see more puzzles like this one check out the video below. I know, this might be a bit frustrating but it is a lot of fun, isn’t it?


awarenessact--2020-04-12--Here’s How To Make A No-Sew Face Mask During This COVID-19 Pandemic

As we learn more and more about the novel coronavirus we ’ re facing right now regulations are chancing and while in the past the CDC did not recommend that we here in the US wore masks , we are now being urged to consider covering our faces when in public .
That having been said , face masks are in short supply and should be going to those in the medical world who need them the most which leaves the public to make their own cloth masks .
Homemade face masks have become a very important thing during this @ @ @ @ @ @ @ hard to make as you might expect them to be .
Sure , you could wear a bandana when out and about but making a few face masks to change through as you move through your week is without a doubt a great idea .
You can even make some without having to sew .
While the ones sewn by hand or with machines do look a bit better the no-sew masks are still going to help .
These cloth masks are able to help make a big difference but only if we @ @ @ @ @ @ @ you want to make extras for the rest of the people in your household , go for it .
When we are going to the grocery store we should be doing the right thing and keeping our faces covered as best we can .
This , if done by everyone , would keep those who are infected but unaware from further spreading the virus freely and keep you from touching your face without realizing it .
Below I am going to go over how to make a no-sew face mask for those who @ @ @ @ @ @ @ or are just overall not very good at it .
That being said , while we ’ re all stuck at home sewing is a great hobby to pick up and not as hard as many might make it out to be or think it is .
Giving it a chance might prove to be more fun than you assume .
Ties/Handles – hairbows , rubber bands , elastic , or even ribbon can be used for this .
‘ Filters ’ – while you might still be able to find some kinds @ @ @ @ @ @ @ not I would suggest shop towels as that is what I have used when making mine ( you can even use normal paper towels overlaid a few times or coffee filters ) .
Cut your fabric into a medium-size square or simply use the whole bandana itself if you ’ re going that route and fold it in half .
Place your filter in the middle if you ’ re opting to use one .
Now , once you ’ ve done that fold one side to the middle ( longways ) and @ @ @ @ @ @ @ .
From here place your rubberbands or hairbows on each side of the fabric ( one on each side ) .
It should now look something like a piece of candy waiting to be unwrapped .
If you do not have hairbows or rubberbands tie together some ribbon but make sure you ’ re making it longer to make up for the lack of stretch given .
Once you ’ ve done this fold the two ends left out towards the middle this leaving the hairbows on the ends .
Tuck one side @ @ @ @ @ @ @ and that should be it .
From here you can put your mask on .
To see a demonstration of this check out the video below it also includes some interesting twists to this as well .
While it might not sound like much this could be a very big safety thing for all of us .
I for one am wearing my masks whenever I have to go out and you should too .
This is not something to be taken lightly .

As we learn more and more about the novel coronavirus we’re facing right now regulations are chancing and while in the past the CDC did not recommend that we here in the US wore masks, we are now being urged to consider covering our faces when in public. That having been said, face masks are in short supply and should be going to those in the medical world who need them the most which leaves the public to make their own cloth masks.
Homemade face masks have become a very important thing during this pandemic and they’re not as hard to make as you might expect them to be. Sure, you could wear a bandana when out and about but making a few face masks to change through as you move through your week is without a doubt a great idea. You can even make some without having to sew. While the ones sewn by hand or with machines do look a bit better the no-sew masks are still going to help.
These cloth masks are able to help make a big difference but only if we’re all wearing them so if you want to make extras for the rest of the people in your household, go for it. When we are going to the grocery store we should be doing the right thing and keeping our faces covered as best we can. This, if done by everyone, would keep those who are infected but unaware from further spreading the virus freely and keep you from touching your face without realizing it.
Below I am going to go over how to make a no-sew face mask for those who don’t know how to sew or are just overall not very good at it. That being said, while we’re all stuck at home sewing is a great hobby to pick up and not as hard as many might make it out to be or think it is. Giving it a chance might prove to be more fun than you assume.
How To Make No-Sew Face Mask:
Things Needed:
Fabric – tightly woven 100 percent cotton fabric. (bandana, curtains, etc)
Ties/Handles – hairbows, rubber bands, elastic, or even ribbon can be used for this.
‘Filters’ – while you might still be able to find some kinds of filter inserts online if you cannot I would suggest shop towels as that is what I have used when making mine (you can even use normal paper towels overlaid a few times or coffee filters).
Directions:
Cut your fabric into a medium-size square or simply use the whole bandana itself if you’re going that route and fold it in half. Place your filter in the middle if you’re opting to use one. Now, once you’ve done that fold one side to the middle (longways) and the other to meet that folded side.
From here place your rubberbands or hairbows on each side of the fabric (one on each side). It should now look something like a piece of candy waiting to be unwrapped. If you do not have hairbows or rubberbands tie together some ribbon but make sure you’re making it longer to make up for the lack of stretch given.
Once you’ve done this fold the two ends left out towards the middle this leaving the hairbows on the ends. Tuck one side of these folded ends into the other and that should be it. From here you can put your mask on.
To see a demonstration of this check out the video below it also includes some interesting twists to this as well. While it might not sound like much this could be a very big safety thing for all of us. I for one am wearing my masks whenever I have to go out and you should too. This is not something to be taken lightly.
(Image Credit SS From Asia Jackson YouTube)


awarenessact--2020-04-12--Over 100 Of Earths Largest Telescopes Have Closed Due To Covid-19

While many major telescopes are closed right now considering the things going on in the world , that does not mean no one is looking at the sky .
Asteroid detection is still present and with fewer people and telescopes in action , some have likely had to take on more responsibilities .
According to Astronomy Magazine , more than 100 of our biggest telescopes have closed in recent weeks because of the COVID-19 pandemic we are all going through .
While these telescopes closed slowly it seems they will likely be closed for a while and thus not able @ @ @ @ @ @ @ by AM that these telescopes could end up being offline for anywhere from three to six months if not longer depending on the case/location .
This meaning we will see a loss of data during this period and while it won ’ t make a huge difference , it is important to be aware of .
The worst part about them closing is that those who run them won ’ t know what they ’ ve missed .
While these skywatchers might have an idea of the things they ’ re unable to @ @ @ @ @ @ @ them in all their splendor .
Astronomy.com wrote as follows on the topic : Through interviews and email exchanges with dozens of researchers , administrators , press officers , and observatory directors , as well as reviewing a private list circulating among scientists , Astronomy magazine has confirmed more than 120 of Earth ’ s largest telescopes are now closed as a result of COVID-19 .
Many of the shutdowns happened in late March , as astronomy-rich states like Arizona , Hawaii , and California issued stay-at-home orders .
Nine of the 10 @ @ @ @ @ @ @ now closed .
In Chile , an epicenter of observing , the government placed the entire country under a strict lockdown , shuttering dozens of telescopes .
Spain and Italy , two European nations with rich astronomical communities — and a large number of COVID-19 infections — closed their observatories weeks ago .
Even many small telescopes have now closed , as all-out shutdowns were ordered on mountaintops ranging from Hawaii ’ s Mauna Kea to the Chilean Atacama to the Spanish Canary Islands .
Science historians say nothing like this has happened @ @ @ @ @ @ @ Even during the chaos of World War II , telescopes kept observing .
As wartime fears gripped Americans in the 1940s , German-born astronomer Walter Baade was placed under virtual house arrest .
As a result , he famously declared Mount Wilson Observatory in California to be his official residence .
With the lights of Los Angeles dimmed to avoid enemy bombs , Baade operated the world ’ s largest telescope in isolation , making groundbreaking discoveries about the cosmos .
Among them , Baade ’ s work revealed multiple populations of stars @ @ @ @ @ @ @ the universe was twice as big as previously thought .
While there are a few observatories still open lots of precautions are being taken to be as safe as possible during these trying times .
For instance , HET has a special research exemption and will only allow one observer to sit in HET ’ s control room .
They have set specific people to do specific things and this limits their contact with each other drastically .
While the chances of us getting hit by an asteroid that would wipe us out @ @ @ @ @ @ @ ’ s still something that has to be monitored .
Those who ‘ protect the Earth from asteroid impact ’ at the Pan-STARRS observatories are working as hard as they can to continue their missions as long as they can .
Sure , most people might not get how important it is but all NEOs have to be treated as if they were a threat until that threat has been ruled out .
Astronomy.com noted as follows regarding those still looking for asteroids : In normal times , astronomers send new NEO entries @ @ @ @ @ @ @ observers worldwide then take additional observations to refine the objects ’ trajectories .
Previously , this has let researchers track small , Earth-approaching asteroids until they harmlessly break up in our atmosphere , sometimes allowing scientists to recover fragments that reach the ground .
But with most telescopes closed , there are fewer instruments left to confirm and collect details on new discoveries .
As a result , the Catalina Sky Survey and Pan-STARRS have both been forced to tackle more of their own follow-up work .
In recent weeks , they ’ @ @ @ @ @ @ @ that it ’ s reducing their ability to make new discoveries .
One group that is still following up on new discoveries is the Las Cumbres Observatory global network , which has managed to keep several of its telescopes up and running .
But even many small , robotic telescopes have had to close as their mountaintop sites are put on lockdown .
“ Several of the most prolific follow-up sites — in Arizona , Chile , and elsewhere — have unfortunately had to cease operations due to COVID-19 concerns , ” Christensen @ @ @ @ @ @ @ of the follow-up burden back to the survey programs.
” Chambers , the Pan-STARRS director , agrees .
“ We are adapting our observing strategy to do more self-follow-up , ” he says .
“ This will mean we make fewer discoveries and that we will miss some objects that we would have found in normal times.
” What do you think about all of this and do you think more observatories should be open right now ?
I for one think at the moment things are operating as they should be and @ @ @ @ @ @ @ this time won ’ t make a huge difference in the end .
As long as the major things are being watched , we should all be fine .

While many major telescopes are closed right now considering the things going on in the world, that does not mean no one is looking at the sky. Asteroid detection is still present and with fewer people and telescopes in action, some have likely had to take on more responsibilities.
According to Astronomy Magazine, more than 100 of our biggest telescopes have closed in recent weeks because of the COVID-19 pandemic we are all going through. While these telescopes closed slowly it seems they will likely be closed for a while and thus not able to be used. It was noted by AM that these telescopes could end up being offline for anywhere from three to six months if not longer depending on the case/location.
This meaning we will see a loss of data during this period and while it won’t make a huge difference, it is important to be aware of. The worst part about them closing is that those who run them won’t know what they’ve missed. While these skywatchers might have an idea of the things they’re unable to record, they are unable to see them in all their splendor.
Astronomy.com wrote as follows on the topic:
Through interviews and email exchanges with dozens of researchers, administrators, press officers, and observatory directors, as well as reviewing a private list circulating among scientists, Astronomy magazine has confirmed more than 120 of Earth’s largest telescopes are now closed as a result of COVID-19.
Many of the shutdowns happened in late March, as astronomy-rich states like Arizona, Hawaii, and California issued stay-at-home orders. Nine of the 10 largest optical telescopes in North America are now closed. In Chile, an epicenter of observing, the government placed the entire country under a strict lockdown, shuttering dozens of telescopes. Spain and Italy, two European nations with rich astronomical communities — and a large number of COVID-19 infections — closed their observatories weeks ago.
Even many small telescopes have now closed, as all-out shutdowns were ordered on mountaintops ranging from Hawaii’s Mauna Kea to the Chilean Atacama to the Spanish Canary Islands. Science historians say nothing like this has happened in the modern era of astronomy. Even during the chaos of World War II, telescopes kept observing.
As wartime fears gripped Americans in the 1940s, German-born astronomer Walter Baade was placed under virtual house arrest. As a result, he famously declared Mount Wilson Observatory in California to be his official residence. With the lights of Los Angeles dimmed to avoid enemy bombs, Baade operated the world’s largest telescope in isolation, making groundbreaking discoveries about the cosmos. Among them, Baade’s work revealed multiple populations of stars, which led him to realize that the universe was twice as big as previously thought.
While there are a few observatories still open lots of precautions are being taken to be as safe as possible during these trying times. For instance, HET has a special research exemption and will only allow one observer to sit in HET’s control room. They have set specific people to do specific things and this limits their contact with each other drastically.
While the chances of us getting hit by an asteroid that would wipe us out are very slim to none, it’s still something that has to be monitored. Those who ‘protect the Earth from asteroid impact’ at the Pan-STARRS observatories are working as hard as they can to continue their missions as long as they can. Sure, most people might not get how important it is but all NEOs have to be treated as if they were a threat until that threat has been ruled out.
Astronomy.com noted as follows regarding those still looking for asteroids:
In normal times, astronomers send new NEO entries to the Minor Planet Center, and observers worldwide then take additional observations to refine the objects’ trajectories. Previously, this has let researchers track small, Earth-approaching asteroids until they harmlessly break up in our atmosphere, sometimes allowing scientists to recover fragments that reach the ground.
But with most telescopes closed, there are fewer instruments left to confirm and collect details on new discoveries. As a result, the Catalina Sky Survey and Pan-STARRS have both been forced to tackle more of their own follow-up work. In recent weeks, they’ve had to double back so often that it’s reducing their ability to make new discoveries.
One group that is still following up on new discoveries is the Las Cumbres Observatory global network, which has managed to keep several of its telescopes up and running. But even many small, robotic telescopes have had to close as their mountaintop sites are put on lockdown.
“Several of the most prolific follow-up sites — in Arizona, Chile, and elsewhere — have unfortunately had to cease operations due to COVID-19 concerns,” Christensen says. “This has shifted more of the follow-up burden back to the survey programs.”
Chambers, the Pan-STARRS director, agrees. “We are adapting our observing strategy to do more self-follow-up,” he says. “This will mean we make fewer discoveries and that we will miss some objects that we would have found in normal times.”
What do you think about all of this and do you think more observatories should be open right now? I for one think at the moment things are operating as they should be and the few months that some loss in this time won’t make a huge difference in the end. As long as the major things are being watched, we should all be fine.


awarenessact--2020-04-12--14 Things Narcissists Say To Trick Their Victims

Narcissists are some of the most manipulative people you will ever come across .
When they ’ ve chosen a victim they not only use their actions to reel them in but also their words .
Narcissists for those who might not be aware are people who have something many refer to as narcissistic personality disorder .
This disorder leaves them with an inflated ego , a need for admiration , a lack of empathy , and more .
These people are oftentimes willing to do whatever they need to do to get what they want and don ’ t @ @ @ @ @ @ @ get where they need to be .
Narcissistic people are able to use their words in a way that makes you feel trapped and through manipulation , they really sink their claws into others .
Below I am going to go over some of the things narcissists tend to say and what they actually mean when saying these things .
Just because they ’ re using the words you want to hear does not mean they ’ re doing what they want you to do .
This you need to be aware of @ @ @ @ @ @ @ Their Victims : You ’ re not actually overreacting but this person wants you to question yourself .
The more he or she can make you think you ’ re reacting too severely the more control he or she can gain .
They know this all too well .
2 .
I wish you understood me better .
While you understand things quite well , you ’ re not seeing the narrative this person wants you to see so they ’ re going to go out of their way to try to make @ @ @ @ @ @ @ to change your perspective and turn them into the victim even though , you ’ re the victim .
While they might wish you were not upset they ’ re not sorry for what they did to upset you .
They are only apologizing to get you to stop going on and on about it .
They don ’ t really care at all .
4 .
I won ’ t do it again .
They would and will do it again .
They just won ’ t be as open about it @ @ @ @ @ @ @ won ’ t figure out they ’ re still doing it now that they know how to keep you in check , isn ’ t that scary ?
Narcissists don ’ t actually love anyone but themselves .
They can say they love you all they want but their actions will never match .
They are not going to be there when you need them the most .
6 .
All of my exes are nuts .
Yeah , all of their exes might be nuts but only because they drove them insane @ @ @ @ @ @ @ doesn ’ t have at least one good ex , they ’ re probably the problem .
Keep that in mind as you move forth .
7 .
You ’ re making this worse than it has to be .
You ’ re not doing anything wrong but they want you to stop going on about it and they ’ re going to do all they can to make that happen .
You didn ’ t make it out to be worse than it is , he or she just doesn ’ t @ @ @ @ @ @ @ or she doesn ’ t care .
That ’ s the difference you should be looking for .
Actually , you ’ re probably not too jealous .
You ’ re probably reacting properly to his or her baiting you into being jealous .
Narcissists love to play with the emotions of the people closest to them .
9 .
Why do you always have to act so crazy ?
You ’ re not acting crazy and if you are he or she is bringing that out in you on purpose .
They @ @ @ @ @ @ @ of other people so they can make you out to be the bad person .
This is their way of getting people on their side .
10 .
You ’ ll never find anyone else who loves you like I do .
You will find someone who loves you better , actually but they don ’ t want you to know that .
Your narcissist will beat you down over and over again .
The more they do that the more they know you will believe them .
This is the narcissist ’ @ @ @ @ @ @ @ mistakes and that you shouldn ’ t be overreacting to theirs but their mistakes are not the same as yours .
You always apologize for yours and you don ’ t go out of your way to hurt this person how he or she hurts you .
Don ’ t let them act as if their issues are not a problem when they are .
You are insecure but that is his or her fault not your own .
They are making you insecure so they can be more in control of you @ @ @ @ @ @ @ opposite of what they ’ re saying when it comes to this one , that ’ s for sure .
13 .
I wish you wouldn ’ t make me feel so bad every time I ’ m around you .
While you might not make them feel bad they want you to feel like you ’ re the problem because they want more control over you .
If you feel bad for bringing things up and calling them out you ’ re less likely to do it .
14 .
I wish @ @ @ @ @ @ @ on me .
While you ’ re not taking anything out on him or her this is something they will commonly say .
They do this so that you will be more likely to let things slide .
They want you to think you ’ re being too hard even if you are not .

Narcissists are some of the most manipulative people you will ever come across. When they’ve chosen a victim, they not only use their actions to reel them in but also their words.
Narcissists for those who might not be aware are people who have something many refer to as narcissistic personality disorder. This disorder leaves them with an inflated ego, a need for admiration, a lack of empathy, and more. These people are oftentimes willing to do whatever they need to do to get what they want, and don’t care who they have to hurt to get where they need to be.
Narcissistic people are able to use their words in a way that makes you feel trapped and through manipulation, they really sink their claws into others. Below, I am going to go over some of the things narcissists tend to say and what they actually mean when saying these things. Just because they’re using the words you want to hear does not mean they’re doing what they want you to do. This you need to be aware of.
14 Things Narcissists Say To Trick Their Victims:
1. You’re just overreacting.
You’re not actually overreacting but this person wants you to question yourself. The more he or she can make you think you’re reacting too severely the more control he or she can gain. They know this all too well.
2. I wish you understood me better.
While you understand things quite well, you’re not seeing the narrative this person wants you to see so they’re going to go out of their way to try to make you see it. They want you to change your perspective and turn them into the victim even though, you’re the victim.
3. I’m sorry you’re upset.
While they might wish you were not upset they’re not sorry for what they did to upset you. They are only apologizing to get you to stop going on and on about it. They don’t really care at all.
4. I won’t do it again.
They would and will do it again. They just won’t be as open about it this time around. Chances are you won’t figure out they’re still doing it now that they know how to keep you in check, isn’t that scary?
5. I love you.
Narcissists don’t actually love anyone but themselves. They can say they love you all they want but their actions will never match. They are not going to be there when you need them the most.
6. All of my exes are nuts.
Yeah, all of their exes might be nuts, but only because they drove them insane. If someone you’re with doesn’t have at least one good ex, they’re probably the problem. Keep that in mind as you move forth.
7. You’re making this worse than it has to be.
You’re not doing anything wrong, but they want you to stop going on about it, and they’re going to do all they can to make that happen. You didn’t make it out to be worse than it is, he or she just doesn’t see how bad it is because he or she doesn’t care. That’s the difference you should be looking for.
8. You’re too jealous.
Actually, you’re probably not too jealous. You’re probably reacting properly to his or her baiting you into being jealous. Narcissists love to play with the emotions of the people closest to them.
9. Why do you always have to act so crazy?
You’re not acting crazy, and if you are, he or she is bringing that out in you on purpose. They want you to act weird in front of other people, so they can make you out to be the bad person. This is their way of getting people on their side.
10. You’ll never find anyone else who loves you like I do.
You will find someone who loves you better, actually, but they don’t want you to know that. Your narcissist will beat you down over and over again. The more they do that, the more they know you will believe them.
11. Oh, I forgot, you don’t make mistakes.
This is the narcissist’s way of saying you to make mistakes and that you shouldn’t be overreacting to theirs, but their mistakes are not the same as yours. You always apologize for yours, and you don’t go out of your way to hurt this person how he or she hurts you. Don’t let them act as if their issues are not a problem, when they are.
12. Stop being so insecure.
You are insecure, but that is his or her fault, not your own. They are making you insecure, so they can be more in control of you. They want you to do the opposite of what they’re saying when it comes to this one, that’s for sure.
13. I wish you wouldn’t make me feel so bad every time I’m around you.
While you might not make them feel bad, they want you to feel like you’re the problem because they want more control over you. If you feel bad for bringing things up and calling them out, you’re less likely to do it.
14. I wish you’d stop taking things out on me.
While you’re not taking anything out on him or her, this is something they will commonly say. They do this so that you will be more likely to let things slide. They want you to think you’re being too hard, even if you are not.


awarenessact--2020-04-12--Your Animal Soul Symbol Based On Your Birth Month

While our souls are all unique , the month we were born can reveal a lot about us .
Each and every one of us has an animal soul symbol and that animal soul symbol can reveal a lot .
Whether you believe in this kind of thing or not , the animal soul symbols below might surprise you .
If you ’ re looking to learn more about yourself within you have come to the right place .
Take a look at the animal soul symbol associated with your birth month and how that affects you in this life @ @ @ @ @ @ @ to terms with more than you could have ever imagined through this .
You are very hard-working and determined like the eagle .
You are stubborn and very set in your ways but also quite wise .
While eagles are very intimidating they are quite beautiful which also fits you well .
Your power and abilities overall are something many seek themselves .
Very much like the giraffe , you like to mind your own business .
While you are quite confident you move through life at your own pace .
You never @ @ @ @ @ @ @ don ’ t want to be a part of .
Your determination knows no bounds .
Like the horse , you are very generous and impressionable .
You can be a good shoulder to cry on but are also not to be messed with .
Sure , sometimes you might let your emotions get the best of you but overall , you keep a level head .
Like the owl , you too are quick to make sure you ’ re getting what you want but also willing to wait for it if @ @ @ @ @ @ @ nuisances well and tend to lash out a lot but not in a way that ruins things for you .
You are a very motivated person who is more than willing to always go the extra mile .
As a May person , you are very much like the rabbit itself .
You are skittish in the sense that you do not often let others close and strong in the sense that not much can stop you .
You like to have your cake and eat it too but in many cases , @ @ @ @ @ @ @ good .
You love to speak your mind just like the rooster does but are also very much high strung .
You don ’ t know when to slow down and are often in need of being the center of attention .
When surrounded by the right kinds of people you flourish big time .
Cows are extremely loving whether you realize that or not and so are you .
You are the kind of person who would do anything for the people you love .
You are often letting others take advantage @ @ @ @ @ @ @ something you really should be working on .
You are a powerful person who always holds his or her own .
You do not let others hold you back and you are always very much sure of yourself .
Of course , you do have your weak moments but overall you ’ re very set on dominating the world around you .
Like the parrot , you ’ re more social than you would like others to believe .
You are reliable and kind but also can be a bit critical .
Sure @ @ @ @ @ @ @ you ’ re also one of the most judgmental humans around whether you want to see it or not .
October people are very much like lions .
They can be social when they need to be but are also very reserved .
You are very clever and it works to your advantage but sometimes you overstep boundaries and that can be a big issue in your life .
As a November person , you are very brave but also know your place .
You do not do more than you can handle @ @ @ @ @ @ @ within to ensure you are safe .
You are often a very jealous person who can be quite frustrating to the people around him or her but not in a serious manner .
I guess you could say , you ’ re just a bit odd .
You ’ re not the kind of person who likes to let many people close .
You like the cat only show those you really want to be around that you care .
Unlike most people , you are both very independent and adventurous .
That @ @ @ @ @ @ @ because you also know when to slow down .

While our souls are all unique, the month we were born can reveal a lot about us. Each and every one of us has an animal soul symbol and that animal soul symbol can reveal a lot.
Whether you believe in this kind of thing or not, the animal soul symbols below might surprise you. If you’re looking to learn more about yourself within you have come to the right place. Take a look at the animal soul symbol associated with your birth month and how that affects you in this life. You may be able to come to terms with more than you could have ever imagined through this.
January – Eagle
You are very hard-working and determined like the eagle. You are stubborn and very set in your ways but also quite wise. While eagles are very intimidating they are quite beautiful which also fits you well. Your power and abilities overall are something many seek themselves.
February – Giraffe
Very much like the giraffe, you like to mind your own business. While you are quite confident you move through life at your own pace. You never let people force you into things you don’t want to be a part of. Your determination knows no bounds.
March – Horse
Like the horse, you are very generous and impressionable. You can be a good shoulder to cry on but are also not to be messed with. Sure, sometimes you might let your emotions get the best of you but overall, you keep a level head.
April – Owl
Like the owl, you too are quick to make sure you’re getting what you want but also willing to wait for it if you must. You cannot handle nuisances well and tend to lash out a lot but not in a way that ruins things for you. You are a very motivated person who is more than willing to always go the extra mile.
May – Rabbit
As a May person, you are very much like the rabbit itself. You are skittish in the sense that you do not often let others close and strong in the sense that not much can stop you. You like to have your cake and eat it too but in many cases, you are too quick for your own good.
June – Rooster
You love to speak your mind just like the rooster does but are also very much high strung. You don’t know when to slow down and are often in need of being the center of attention. When surrounded by the right kinds of people you flourish big time.
July – Cow
Cows are extremely loving whether you realize that or not and so are you. You are the kind of person who would do anything for the people you love. You are often letting others take advantage of your kind heart and that is something you really should be working on.
August – Tiger
You are a powerful person who always holds his or her own. You do not let others hold you back and you are always very much sure of yourself. Of course, you do have your weak moments but overall you’re very set on dominating the world around you.
September – Parrot
Like the parrot, you’re more social than you would like others to believe. You are reliable and kind but also can be a bit critical. Sure, you’re only human but you’re also one of the most judgmental humans around whether you want to see it or not.
October – Lion
October people are very much like lions. They can be social when they need to be but are also very reserved. You are very clever and it works to your advantage but sometimes you overstep boundaries and that can be a big issue in your life.
November – Deer
As a November person, you are very brave but also know your place. You do not do more than you can handle and you know what bounds to stay within to ensure you are safe. You are often a very jealous person who can be quite frustrating to the people around him or her but not in a serious manner. I guess you could say, you’re just a bit odd.
December – Cat
You’re not the kind of person who likes to let many people close. You like the cat only show those you really want to be around that you care. Unlike most people, you are both very independent and adventurous. That having been said, you are special because you also know when to slow down.


awarenessact--2020-03-13--Parents Can Be Toxic Too – Hidden Ways You Could Be Damaging Your Children

As parents , we often don ’ t stop to consider if the things we ’ re doing or saying to our children could be deemed toxic .
We think that because our kids are clothed , fed and have a roof over their heads that they ’ re properly cared for but that is not all that makes up proper care .
Being a mother or father can be a lot .
It is overwhelming and easy to mess up .
This kind of thing doesn ’ t come with any kind of guide book , and we all @ @ @ @ @ @ @ That being said , as parents , we should be considering our actions and how those actions could be impacting our children as they grow .
Instead of just doing what we want or saying things without a second thought we should be questioning ourselves and making sure we ’ re doing everything we need to for our offspring .
In this day and age with all the things we face , it is far too easy to become a toxic parent and not even realize it .
Far too many toxic traits @ @ @ @ @ @ @ feel as though we don ’ t have enough time for the things that matter the most .
If you ’ re doing the things below you could be a toxic parent or perhaps engaging in some toxic behaviors without realizing the impact they could have .
You can make things better and stop doing these things if you truly want your child to flourish , that choice is up to you .
While some of them might not seem like much , to your kids they make big differences .
1 .
@ @ @ @ @ @ @ kids should want to please you and be scared of how you may sometimes react , but they shouldn ’ t be terrified of you .
If they ’ re terrified of you they ’ re never going to come to you when they need you .
Instead , they will have no one to turn to .
2 .
You keep making promises that you don ’ t follow through with .
When you promise your kids that you ’ re going to do something they expect you to follow through .
@ @ @ @ @ @ @ you ’ re just teaching them that the people most important in their lives will always let them down .
I know sometimes things come up but things don ’ t come up every single time you make a promise .
3 .
You ’ re waiting on them hand and foot .
Your kids should not be waited on hand and foot .
They should have a sense of independence .
While this doesn ’ t have to be a huge sense of independence , anything is better than nothing .
4 @ @ @ @ @ @ @ have any personal space or boundaries .
Your kids are not your property , they are still people just like you .
While they need your guidance they still deserve some space .
They , too , need boundaries that are not crossed .
5 .
You force them into things they are not interested in so that you can ‘ live through them.
’ When you force your kids to do things they aren ’ t interested in like play sports or take dance lessons they will resent you for it once @ @ @ @ @ @ @ should be allowed to chase their own passions .
They should not be forced to live out yours .
Your kids will make mistakes , that is just how life goes .
They are not perfect and neither are you .
You ’ ve made mistakes yourself and should not be so quick to judge .
7 .
You do not give them any room to express themselves .
As kids , they want to express themselves properly .
If you do not allow them to be themselves then they will only end @ @ @ @ @ @ @ .
Even if just on a small scale let them be who they are .
8 .
They do not feel like they can come to you with their problems because you do not listen .
When you don ’ t listen to your kids you set them up for a serious lack in their support system .
Instead of coming to you for advice or talking to you about their problems they have no one to turn to .
They end up bottling and leaving so much unspoken .
9 .
Instead @ @ @ @ @ @ @ them like your best friends .
If you treat your kids like they are your best friends chances are you ’ re letting them do whatever they want whenever they want .
This is toxic in many ways .
They are still kids , and they still need guidance , be a parent .
If you just don ’ t bother to do the things you should do as a parent you ’ re about as toxic as it gets .
Instead of being there for your kids you ’ re off doing @ @ @ @ @ @ @ serious reality check above all else .

As parents, we often don’t stop to consider if the things we’re doing or saying to our children could be deemed toxic. We think that because our kids are clothed, fed and have a roof over their heads that they’re properly cared for, but that is not all that makes up proper care.
Being a mother or father can be a lot. It is overwhelming and easy to mess up. This kind of thing doesn’t come with any kind of guide book, and we all just do the best we can. That being said, as parents, we should be considering our actions and how those actions could be impacting our children as they grow. Instead of just doing what we want or saying things without a second thought, we should be questioning ourselves and making sure we’re doing everything we need to for our offspring.
In this day and age with all the things we face, it is far too easy to become a toxic parent and not even realize it. Far too many toxic traits are normalized, and we tend to feel as though we don’t have enough time for the things that matter the most.
If you’re doing the things below, you could be a toxic parent or perhaps engaging in some toxic behaviors without realizing the impact they could have. You can make things better and stop doing these things if you truly want your child to flourish, that choice is up to you. While some of them might not seem like much, to your kids they make big differences.
10 Signs You’re A Toxic Parent:
1. They are terrified of you.
Your kids should want to please you and be scared of how you may sometimes react, but they shouldn’t be terrified of you. If they’re terrified of you they’re never going to come to you when they need you. Instead, they will have no one to turn to.
2. You keep making promises that you don’t follow through with.
When you promise your kids that you’re going to do something they expect you to follow through. By not following through time after time you’re just teaching them that the people most important in their lives will always let them down. I know sometimes things come up but things don’t come up every single time you make a promise.
3. You’re waiting on them hand and foot.
Your kids should not be waited on hand and foot. They should have a sense of independence. While this doesn’t have to be a huge sense of independence, anything is better than nothing.
4. You refuse to let your kids have any personal space or boundaries.
Your kids are not your property, they are still people just like you. While they need your guidance they still deserve some space. They, too, need boundaries that are not crossed.
5. You force them into things they are not interested in so that you can ‘live through them.’
When you force your kids to do things they aren’t interested in like play sports or take dance lessons they will resent you for it once all is said and done. They should be allowed to chase their own passions. They should not be forced to live out yours.
6. You’re overly critical of your kids.
Your kids will make mistakes, that is just how life goes. They are not perfect and neither are you. You’ve made mistakes yourself and should not be so quick to judge.
7. You do not give them any room to express themselves.
As kids, they want to express themselves properly. If you do not allow them to be themselves then they will only end up lashing out later on in life. Even if just on a small scale let them be who they are.
8. They do not feel like they can come to you with their problems because you do not listen.
When you don’t listen to your kids you set them up for a serious lack in their support system. Instead of coming to you for advice or talking to you about their problems they have no one to turn to. They end up bottling and leaving so much unspoken.
9. Instead of disciplining your kids, you treat them like your best friends.
If you treat your kids like they are your best friends chances are you’re letting them do whatever they want whenever they want. This is toxic in many ways. They are still kids, and they still need guidance, be a parent.
10. You’re a lazy uninterested parent.
If you just don’t bother to do the things you should do as a parent you’re about as toxic as it gets. Instead of being there for your kids you’re off doing your own thing. You need a serious reality check above all else.


awarenessact--2020-03-13--Don’t Let Fake People Hold You Back, Cut Ties With People Who Refuse To Grow

In this day and age , we are surrounded by people who are much faker than we might realize .
Some of them are faker than others but sometimes it seems like the worst ones we ’ re not quite able to spot .
Just because someone has been in your life for a long time or because you care about them does not mean they should be by your side or that they care about you .
Fake people might make it seem like there is more to your connection than there is but at the end of the @ @ @ @ @ @ @ to benefit anyone but themselves .
If someone in your life refuses to try to better themselves and help you grow , don ’ t keep wasting your time on them .
9 Signs Someone In Your Life Is A True Fake Person : 1 .
They are always asking for something but never willing to help anyone else .
Fake people are always going to be willing to take from others but never willing to give .
They think that they do not owe anyone anything all the while assuming the rest @ @ @ @ @ @ @ When you tell them ‘ no ’ they become extremely upset an oftentimes angry with you .
2 .
They only come around when things are going well .
When someone is a fake friend they won ’ t come around when things are going bad unless they want to see you suffering .
They will keep their distance and make sure you ’ re able to benefit them before they pop back up .
They won ’ t even be there for you to vent to , yes they ’ re than @ @ @ @ @ @ @ you their real emotions .
Fake friends will always hide the way they ’ re truly feeling .
They won ’ t want you to see them for who they are .
Instead of opening up and sharing things with you , they will close themselves off more and more .
4 .
They are always talking about other people behind their backs ( including you ) .
These kinds of people love to stir the pot .
They are always gossiping and causing drama .
If they can find something to talk @ @ @ @ @ @ @ they will not hesitate to talk about it .
When these people are not in the spotlight they become quite jealous .
They want all eyes on them and nothing else .
They are always looking for more attention from others and can be a real pain if they ’ re not getting it .
6 .
They are never there for you when you need them the most .
Unlike your good friends , fake friends will never be there when you need them .
These people will disappear when you need @ @ @ @ @ @ @ things are back to where they should be .
They won ’ t let you ask them for anything .
7 .
They are rarely ever actually keeping the plans they make .
Fake people are not the kinds of people you can count on .
They will make plans only to cancel last minute .
They are always falling through in some of the worst ways .
8 .
They are constantly bragging and trying to show off .
People like this love to brag .
They always use every chance they @ @ @ @ @ @ @ more you try to ignore it the worse it becomes .
9 .
They don ’ t ever own up to their mistakes .
When these people make mistakes they never own up to them .
They downplay things and make it out to have been out of their control .
After all , they can do no wrong .

In this day and age, we are surrounded by people who are much faker than we might realize. Some of them are faker than others but sometimes it seems like the worst ones we’re not quite able to spot.
Just because someone has been in your life for a long time or because you care about them does not mean they should be by your side or that they care about you. Fake people might make it seem like there is more to your connection than there is but at the end of the day they’re not doing anything to benefit anyone but themselves. If someone in your life refuses to try to better themselves and help you grow, don’t keep wasting your time on them.
9 Signs Someone In Your Life Is A True Fake Person:
1. They are always asking for something but never willing to help anyone else.
Fake people are always going to be willing to take from others but never willing to give. They think that they do not owe anyone anything all the while assuming the rest of the world owes them everything. When you tell them ‘no’ they become extremely upset an oftentimes angry with you.
2. They only come around when things are going well.
When someone is a fake friend they won’t come around when things are going bad unless they want to see you suffering. They will keep their distance and make sure you’re able to benefit them before they pop back up. They won’t even be there for you to vent to, yes they’re than cunning.
3. They never show you their real emotions.
Fake friends will always hide the way they’re truly feeling. They won’t want you to see them for who they are. Instead of opening up and sharing things with you, they will close themselves off more and more.
4. They are always talking about other people behind their backs (including you).
These kinds of people love to stir the pot. They are always gossiping and causing drama. If they can find something to talk about in regard to other people, they will not hesitate to talk about it.
5. They are extreme attention seekers.
When these people are not in the spotlight they become quite jealous. They want all eyes on them and nothing else. They are always looking for more attention from others and can be a real pain if they’re not getting it.
6. They are never there for you when you need them the most.
Unlike your good friends, fake friends will never be there when you need them. These people will disappear when you need them the most and ignore you until things are back to where they should be. They won’t let you ask them for anything.
7. They are rarely ever actually keeping the plans they make.
Fake people are not the kinds of people you can count on. They will make plans only to cancel last minute. They are always falling through in some of the worst ways.
8. They are constantly bragging and trying to show off.
People like this love to brag. They always use every chance they get to hype themselves up. The more you try to ignore it the worse it becomes.
9. They don’t ever own up to their mistakes.
When these people make mistakes they never own up to them. They downplay things and make it out to have been out of their control. After all, they can do no wrong.


awarenessact--2020-03-13--The Real Link Between Selfies And Narcissism

While we often think narcissists take a lot of selfies , is there anything to back that up ?
Sure , we have heard they ’ re full of themselves but to what extent ?
Well , I recently came across an article in Psychology Today that covered a study that really seemed to set things out more clearly .
Within this article , it was gone over that there are a few different kinds of selfies which many people are not aware of .
There are solo selfies , group selfies , and couple selfies .
When assessing this @ @ @ @ @ @ @ to broke things down into two different actual studies .
One of those being keeping up with the number of selfies someone admitted they had posted on social media and the other their social media selfie content being counted by someone from else .
This ended up showing that women tend to post more selfies than men but what does that mean ?
Well , it seems measures for things like vanity , leadership , and admiration demand helped identify who were posting the most selfies in men when it came to women @ @ @ @ @ @ @ Women only seemed to be predictable when it came to admiration demand .
This research might not have been the most extensive with both bodies of research holding under a thousand in ‘ sample sizes ’ but it was and is quite interesting .
The abstract for this was listed as follows : Although many studies have investigated individual differences in online social networking , few have examined the recent and rapidly popularized social phenomenon of the “ selfie ” ( a self-portrait photograph of oneself ) .
In two studies with a @ @ @ @ @ @ @ , we tested the prediction that individuals who score high on four narcissism sub-scales ( Self-sufficiency , Vanity , Leadership , and Admiration Demand ) will be more likely to post selfies to social media sites than will individuals who exhibit low narcissism .
We examined three categories of selfies : own selfies ; selfies with a romantic partner ; and group selfies , controlling for non-selfie photographs .
Women posted more selfies of all types than did men .
However , women ’ s selfie-posting behavior was generally unrelated to their narcissism @ @ @ @ @ @ @ s overall narcissism scores positively predicted posting own selfies , selfies with a partner , and group selfies .
Moreover , men ’ s Vanity , Leadership , and Admiration Demand scores each independently predicted the posting of one or more types of selfies .
Our findings provide the first evidence that the link between narcissism and selfie-posting behavior is comparatively weak among women than men and provide novel insight into the social motivations and functions of online social networking .
( PsycINFO Database Record ( c ) 2019 APA , all rights @ @ @ @ @ @ @ , women were overall not as linked with their selfies when it came to their narcissistic traits/tendencies .
That being said , this does mean there is even if just on a small scale an mostly for men some kind of link present between narcissism and selfies overall .
For more information on this please check out the video below it covers different research on the subject at hand .

While we often think narcissists take a lot of selfies, is there anything to back that up? Sure, we have heard they’re full of themselves but to what extent?
Well, I recently came across an article in Psychology Today that covered a study that really seemed to set things out more clearly. Within this article, it was gone over that there are a few different kinds of selfies which many people are not aware of. There are solo selfies, group selfies, and couple selfies.
When assessing this kind of thing the researchers being referred to broke things down into two different actual studies. One of those being keeping up with the number of selfies someone admitted they had posted on social media and the other their social media selfie content being counted by someone from else. This ended up showing that women tend to post more selfies than men but what does that mean?
Well, it seems measures for things like vanity, leadership, and admiration demand helped identify who were posting the most selfies in men when it came to women things were not quite the same. Women only seemed to be predictable when it came to admiration demand. This research might not have been the most extensive with both bodies of research holding under a thousand in ‘sample sizes’ but it was and is quite interesting.
The abstract for this was listed as follows:
Although many studies have investigated individual differences in online social networking, few have examined the recent and rapidly popularized social phenomenon of the “selfie” (a self-portrait photograph of oneself). In two studies with a pooled sample of 1296 men and women, we tested the prediction that individuals who score high on four narcissism sub-scales (Self-sufficiency, Vanity, Leadership, and Admiration Demand) will be more likely to post selfies to social media sites than will individuals who exhibit low narcissism. We examined three categories of selfies: own selfies; selfies with a romantic partner; and group selfies, controlling for non-selfie photographs. Women posted more selfies of all types than did men. However, women’s selfie-posting behavior was generally unrelated to their narcissism scores. In contrast, men’s overall narcissism scores positively predicted posting own selfies, selfies with a partner, and group selfies. Moreover, men’s Vanity, Leadership, and Admiration Demand scores each independently predicted the posting of one or more types of selfies. Our findings provide the first evidence that the link between narcissism and selfie-posting behavior is comparatively weak among women than men and provide novel insight into the social motivations and functions of online social networking. (PsycINFO Database Record (c) 2019 APA, all rights reserved)
You see, unlike men, women were overall not as linked with their selfies when it came to their narcissistic traits/tendencies. That being said, this does mean there is even if just on a small scale an mostly for men some kind of link present between narcissism and selfies overall. For more information on this please check out the video below it covers different research on the subject at hand.


awarenessact--2020-03-13--Mister Rogers’ Widow Says He Farted During Boring Events To Make Her Laugh

The late Mister Rogers was and still is an icon to many of us .
As someone who grew up watching him on TV , I was devastated when he finally passed .
Fred Rogers was everyone ’ s neighbor and that much I am sure we can all agree on .
He worked hard to tackle very real issues and educate children on them in a way that was not overwhelming .
Sure , many people see him and the things he ’ s done in his life as something unreal because of how kind and caring he truly @ @ @ @ @ @ @ it .
All of that having been said , he was still human and as we all do still liked to cut up from time to time .
According to his wife Joanne Rogers who recently did an interview with the Los Angeles Times , he actually liked to pass gas in public to get her chuckling .
As he rose to fame through the years they as a couple had to go to many events , some of which were quite boring , and he would always spice things up by raising @ @ @ @ @ @ @ .
The couple were extremely close and were able to truly see one another properly through their years together .
If true love does exist , that was and is what these two share even now that Mister Rogers is no longer of this world .
Mister Rogers was according to his wife hilarious and always bringing a smile to her face .
“ He would just raise one cheek , and he would look at me and smile , ” – Joanne Rogers told LAT as she laughed Joanne might not be @ @ @ @ @ @ @ even now at 91 she is quite the spitfire and from what it seems everyone who gets the chance to speak with her truly enjoys her company and can not get enough .
Something I learned through reading the interview myself about Mister Rogers himself was that he was an ordained Presbyterian minister , throughout all my years of watching his show I never knew that .
This is because he never talked about religion on his program .
He kept things open for children of all religious backgrounds and I believe that @ @ @ @ @ @ @ That in itself is something to praise as it allows everyone a chance to gain the insight on topics they need to from a young age without feeling attacked or being bombarded with religious things that may differ from that of their household and cause them to stop watching .
There is clearly a side to Rogers that we as his viewers never saw but through his wife we are able to learn more and more about that side and as a result wishing that we had got to see more of whom @ @ @ @ @ @ @ information on Mister Rogers overall please check out the video below .
This man truly was something special .

The late Mister Rogers was and still is an icon to many of us. As someone who grew up watching him on TV, I was devastated when he finally passed.
Fred Rogers was everyone’s neighbor and that much I am sure we can all agree on. He worked hard to tackle very real issues and educate children on them in a way that was not overwhelming. Sure, many people see him and the things he’s done in his life as something unreal because of how kind and caring he truly was but there is nothing fake about it.
All of that having been said, he was still human and as we all do still liked to cut up from time to time. According to his wife Joanne Rogers who recently did an interview with the Los Angeles Times, he actually liked to pass gas in public to get her chuckling. As he rose to fame through the years they as a couple had to go to many events, some of which were quite boring, and he would always spice things up by raising one cheek and letting a toot out.
The couple were extremely close and were able to truly see one another properly through their years together. If true love does exist, that was and is what these two share even now that Mister Rogers is no longer of this world. Mister Rogers was according to his wife hilarious and always bringing a smile to her face.
“He would just raise one cheek, and he would look at me and smile,” – Joanne Rogers told LAT as she laughed
Joanne might not be the young woman she once was but even now at 91 she is quite the spitfire and from what it seems everyone who gets the chance to speak with her truly enjoys her company and cannot get enough. Something I learned through reading the interview myself about Mister Rogers himself was that he was an ordained Presbyterian minister, throughout all my years of watching his show I never knew that. This is because he never talked about religion on his program. He kept things open for children of all religious backgrounds and I believe that his ability to do-so is astounding. That in itself is something to praise as it allows everyone a chance to gain the insight on topics they need to from a young age without feeling attacked or being bombarded with religious things that may differ from that of their household and cause them to stop watching.
There is clearly a side to Rogers that we as his viewers never saw but through his wife we are able to learn more and more about that side and as a result wishing that we had got to see more of whom this man truly was. For more information on Mister Rogers overall please check out the video below. This man truly was something special.


awarenessact--2020-03-12--Just Because She Cares Doesn’t Mean She Won’t Walk Away

She might care about you and she might actually love you but she will only put up with your bullsh !
t for so long .
Once she comes to her senses and realizes what she ’ s facing she won ’ t keep wasting her time .
At first , she might not have been able to see the difference between real love and toxic love but a lot of time has passed , and she has things figured out now .
You can not expect the label to be enough , you have to work hard if you @ @ @ @ @ @ @ just standing around and pretending that everything is fine , you ’ re only making things worse .
She is not a toy , and she will not let you treat her like one .
If you think you might be in a toxic relationship , look for the signs .
As a strong woman , you deserve something real .
Don ’ t let your partner turn you into someone you ’ re not .
1 .
Toxic love leaves you walking on eggshells , real love does not .
When you @ @ @ @ @ @ @ ’ re most likely on edge and uncomfortable with your partner .
You ’ re not able to be yourself or to really open up .
Everything is closed off and you ’ re not quite yourself .
2 .
Real love is pure and comfortable , toxic love is not .
Once you ’ ve found a real love you learn how comfortable it can be to really be in a proper relationship .
You ’ re not trying to hide things or constantly looking for cracks in the pavement .
Everything @ @ @ @ @ @ @ Being in a toxic relationship is not something that allows you room to grow .
It keeps you stuck in one place and closes you off from the world around you .
This kind of relationship is all about control .
Finding someone who truly loves you is one of the best things you could ever possibly do .
You finally feel accepted and are able to be yourself .
Instead of changing to fit in with someone else , you are fine as you are .
You get to spend time being @ @ @ @ @ @ @ without worrying about whether the person closest to you will judge you or not .
5 .
Toxic love is selfish , real love is not .
Toxic love is all about the self .
One of the two people involved is going to be extremely selfish and taking advantage of the other .
This kind of thing gets dangerous quickly .
6 .
Real love is all about growth , toxic love is not .
Real love is all about becoming the best version of yourself that you can be .
When @ @ @ @ @ @ @ truthfully , you become stronger .
Instead of being stuck , you are able to transform into the person you ’ ve always wanted to be .
Nothing is holding you back .

She might care about you and she might actually love you, but she will only put up with your bullsh!t for so long. Once she comes to her senses and realizes what she’s facing she won’t keep wasting her time. At first, she might not have been able to see the difference between real love and toxic love, but a lot of time has passed, and she has things figured out now.
You cannot expect the label to be enough, you have to work hard if you want the relationship to last. By just standing around and pretending that everything is fine, you’re only making things worse. She is not a toy, and she will not let you treat her like one.
If you think you might be in a toxic relationship, look for the signs. As a strong woman, you deserve something real. Don’t let your partner turn you into someone you’re not.
6 Differences Between Toxic Love And Real Love:
1. Toxic love leaves you walking on eggshells, real love does not.
When you’re stuck in toxic love you’re most likely on edge and uncomfortable with your partner. You’re not able to be yourself or to really open up. Everything is closed off and you’re not quite yourself.
2. Real love is pure and comfortable, toxic love is not.
Once you’ve found a real love you learn how comfortable it can be to really be in a proper relationship. You’re not trying to hide things or constantly looking for cracks in the pavement. Everything just kind of falls into place.
3. Toxic love holds people back, real love does not.
Being in a toxic relationship is not something that allows you room to grow. It keeps you stuck in one place and closes you off from the world around you. This kind of relationship is all about control.
4. Real love doesn’t squash your individuality, toxic love does.
Finding someone who truly loves you is one of the best things you could ever possibly do. You finally feel accepted and are able to be yourself. Instead of changing to fit in with someone else, you are fine as you are. You get to spend time being yourself and doing the things you love without worrying about whether the person closest to you will judge you or not.
5. Toxic love is selfish, real love is not.
Toxic love is all about the self. One of the two people involved is going to be extremely selfish and taking advantage of the other. This kind of thing gets dangerous quickly.
6. Real love is all about growth, toxic love is not.
Real love is all about becoming the best version of yourself that you can be. When you find someone that cares about you truthfully, you become stronger. Instead of being stuck, you are able to transform into the person you’ve always wanted to be. Nothing is holding you back.