thehuffingtonpostuk--2020-03-21--Vulnerable Children Will ‘Slip Through The Cracks’ As Coronavirus Shuts Schools, Headteachers Fear

As schools close their doors to most pupils to tackle the spread of the coronavirus outbreak, teachers and charities have expressed their fears about the plight of vulnerable children from poverty-stricken and chaotic homes.
Schools across the UK will be closed from Monday until further notice – except to children of key workers, and vulnerable children who have a social worker or Education, Health and Care (EHC) plan.
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But concerns are mounting that some vulnerable children will fall under the radar without the safety net of school to monitor their wellbeing and act as a safe environment for them to share problems with their home life.
Worries are also rising about how families struggling financially will cope with providing food for their children without the provision of free school meals – particularly if schools are closed for a prolonged period.
While the government has said schools will be able to provide meals or vouchers for supermarkets or local shops to families with children on free school meals, the concern is that there will be many more families who are barely coping who will be tipped over the edge but left without that crucial support.
HuffPost UK spent a week at Moorside Community Primary School in Ovenden, near Halifax, West Yorkshire, last year to highlight how funding cuts and rising poverty are pushing schools to breaking point.
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Staff revealed how they often went home at night crying – worried about sending children home to environments where they might be hungry or even unsafe.
School holidays heighten these feelings of dread. And now the coronavirus crisis has led to closures for an unspecified period of time, despair among staff has escalated.
Moorside Community Primary School in Ovenden Ian Robinson
“If they are living in households with domestic violence or neglect, we are not there to keep an eye on them and see that they are coming into school safely every day.”” - Dani Worthington, headteacher, Moorside Community Primary School
Dani Worthington, the school’s headteacher, told HuffPost UK: “The current situation and the closure of schools has brought our worries about our vulnerable children to a whole new and frightening level.”
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The government has said vulnerable pupils with a social worker will still be able to attend school. But Worthington is scared for those who fall short of these criteria but are still extremely susceptible to risk.
“We as a school are concerned about the children who sit directly underneath this who maybe don’t hit the criteria or haven’t yet been assigned a social worker but are still at risk.” she said.
“Their situation could soon escalate into them needing a social worker in the near future.
“These are often the most vulnerable children because without school, they have not got any professional looking after them.
“It is the worry about what these children will potentially experience at home without having the outlet of school. They often use school to express their worries and concerns – but they’re no longer going to have that.
“If they are living in households with domestic violence or neglect, we are not there to keep an eye on them and see that they are coming into school safely every day.”
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Dani Worthington, headteacher at Moorside Community Primary School in Ovenden Ian Robinson
Worthington is also perturbed at what powers schools will have to ensure vulnerable children actually do attend school during the coronavirus shutdown as they often come from chaotic homes and have poor attendance levels to begin with.
“These are the children who are usually the poor attenders due to their parents not bringing them into school. The worry is that their parents of vulnerable children might say: ‘None of their friends are coming into school, so they won’t either.’
“The question is: how enforceable is this and do we have any remit to make them come into school?”
Like many other schools across the country, Moorside is in a deprived area with high levels of poverty, and hunger is a huge issue. For some children, the food they get at school – such as the free school meal, and the breakfast bagel they get at the start of each day – is all they have.
Free bagels at Moorside Community Primary School in Ovenden Ian Robinson
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School lunches at Moorside Community Primary School in Ovenden Ian Robinson
Worthington says the risk of children going without food during the school closures is “heartbreaking”. While she welcomes the government’s pledge to give supermarket vouchers to those eligible for free school meals, she says there are many families on very low incomes who don’t meet the criteria for free school meals but are still struggling.
“Some of our families just don’t have the money to feed their children and rely heavily on schools so if we are shut for a prolonged period, that support will no longer be there.”
She also wants reassurance that any vouchers provided can only be spent on food and not on “beer, cigarettes and lottery tickets”.
As a school, Moorside works with a food bank and drops off food parcels on a weekly basis to several families who are struggling. School staff have pledged to carry on making sure these families get these parcels during the closure.
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The school has also drawn up a list of its most vulnerable children and families and are going to make sure they maintain regular contact with them.
Worthington explained: “We are going to make sure every child is spoken to at least once a week, but with the vulnerable children, we will do this more often and aim to do it on a daily basis.
“I have had staff and pastoral staff tell me that they are willing to go to these families’ homes and take them food and check on the children.
“But as a headteacher, I also need to consider the safety of my staff and their wellbeing and the concern is that they may put themselves at risk. There is also the risk of them catching coronavirus from the families or passing it on to them.”
“A lot of children won’t have access to a computer or laptop or might not have internet access at home."” - Dani Worthington, headteacher, Moorside Community Primary School
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The impact on the children’s education is also troubling Worthington and she says, once again, the poorest in society will be at a disadvantage.
“Children will be missing out on a huge chunk of their education. We are sending educational teaching packs home and there are also online educational sites where children can log in and do learning.
“But a lot of children won’t have access to a computer or laptop or might not have internet access at home. I asked parents if they had access to the internet and for those who don’t, I am providing a bigger pack of written teaching resources.”
Emma Bradley, a parenting expert at childcare networking site childcare.co.uk, Emma Bradley
Emma Bradley, a parenting expert at childcare networking site childcare.co.uk, told HuffPost UK the school closures will affect the families who have just been managing to keep their heads above water the hardest.
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“While we know about our most vulnerable children, there will be many others who are slipping through the net.” she said.
“These are the families who have just about been coping and scraping by but natural catastrophes like this will tip them over the edge.
“These will be people like low income families on zero hour contracts who have just about been surviving but won’t be able to now.”
“The home is a pressure cooker for many of these families anyway, so being cooped up in isolation is not going to be healthy for children in homes where there might be domestic violence or addiction.” - Emma Bradley, parenting expert at childcare.co.uk
Bradley, a former teacher and whose husband is an assistant headteacher at a secondary school, is worried that although the government says vulnerable children can still attend school, schools will be powerless if they choose not to.
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“A lot of these children live in chaotic and disorganised households and their parents are already disengaged from education. At the moment, they do what they have to do to avoid the risk of prosecution.
“But if these children don’t go to school during the coronavirus closures, will anyone be tracking them or rounding them up?”
Bradley added: “There is going to be so much risk. The home is a pressure cooker for many of these families anyway so being cooped up in isolation is not going to be healthy for children in homes where there might be domestic violence or addiction.
“Shutting the schools for health reasons is the right thing to do. But we also need to make sure we are looking after the most vulnerable in society.”
“The coronavirus outbreak has exploded into the lives of vulnerable children and families at a time when they were already suffering.” - Imran Hussain, Action for Children
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Imran Hussain, Action for Children’s director of policy and campaigns, told HuffPost UK: “The coronavirus outbreak has exploded into the lives of vulnerable children and families at a time when they were already suffering.
“Millions of children are locked in poverty with cash strapped councils having to cut back vital children’s services.”
Action for Children’s frontline staff have already been running unofficial food banks and dropping food parcels to the homes of vulnerable families. But Hussain said the added instability of this huge health and economic crisis means families who are struggling to keep their heads above water are terrified of going under.
He added that as families face cuts in working hours and incomes falling off a cliff, many more children than the 4m already in poverty face months of financial hardship and called for a government rescue package to lift up the incomes of those on low pay.
Alison Garnham, chief executive of Child Poverty Action Group, believes the government needs to provide emergency measures for struggling families and make it possible financially for every family to self isolate – particularly when children are losing out on the benefit of a free school lunch.
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She believes increasing child benefit by £10 per child per week during the pandemic would be the simplest and most direct way to shield children in low income families from damaging hardship.
“The government must move swiftly to match its support for business with emergency measures for struggling families,” she told HuffPost UK.
“That doesn’t mean only extra tins of tuna or bags of pasta. It means a temporary uplift in family benefits so that parents need not suffer the indignity of going to a foodbank – if they remain open – but can feed their children and have heating on if necessary at home.”
“The risk to children’s learning is huge, especially for children in low-income families who already tend to do less well at school.”” - Becca Lyon, Save the Children
Becca Lyon, head of UK poverty campaigns at Save the Children, welcomes news that children receiving free school meals will continue to get support, but she says more support is needed.
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“This is an incredibly stressful time for parents, particularly those on low incomes.” she said. “The UK government must urgently put forward a package of measures to support struggling parents who lose their job, have to take unpaid leave or reduce their hours.


thehuffingtonpostuk--2020-03-21--How To Know If You're Using Too Many Skincare Products

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Once upon a time makeup remover and moisturiser will have done the trick, but now we have 10-step skincare routines inspired by influencers and beauty editors.
Acids, serums, oils and creams all feature in this complex charade. The lineup changes from night to night – sometimes retinol will retire to the bench, while a vitamin C serum takes centre stage – and there’ll be the odd cameo from face masks and under eye patches. But what sounds like a pretty complicated routine isn’t that uncommon for today’s skincare obsessives.
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Not only is the application of these lotions and potions time-consuming, but they can take up valuable bathroom space and cost a fair amount of money – even affordable and much-loved brand The Ordinary gets expensive when you’ve shoved five things in your basket, after all the sale of beauty products and services reached £27.2bn in 2018 alone, according to the British Beauty Council.
So the question remains: do we really need it all? And when do you know if you’ve overdone it?
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“I often see people who are using extremely complex skincare routines,” says Dr Emma Wedgeworth, consultant dermatologist and British Skin Foundation spokesperson. “However, using more than five or six steps in a routine is seldom that helpful and very time consuming,” she explains.
Putting the modern day skincare obsession to magazines and social media, Dr Wedgeworth explains our desire to try as many products as possible is understandable. “We are all keen to improve our skin, but rather than adding layer upon layer of new products, the best approach is to try and understand your own individual skin needs.”
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Overloading your skin with too many products can have an adverse effect to what you’d hoped for. This is particularly the case if you’re using too many actives (or active ingredients), such as retinoids or hyaluronic acid, which target specific concerns.
“If we are using too many actives, this can cause skin barrier function disruption which can lead to acne spots, perioral dermatitis, eczema and exacerbated rosacea symptoms,” warns Pamela Marshall, clinical aesthetician and co-founder of skincare clinic and shop Mortar & Milk.
“As consumers we are inundated with so many messages about what we must use,” she adds. When asked to recommend the essential products everyone should be using, she says: a gentle milky or balm cleanser, a Polyhydroxy acid (PHA) serum, moisturiser and UV protection of SPF 30 or higher. She also recommends using vitamin C and retinol, but not daily.
If you’re prone to acne, Dr Wedgeworth advises to avoid using too many oils, as they can be pore blocking and exacerbate breakouts.
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thehuffingtonpostuk--2020-03-21--In Parenting – And Everything Else – Now Is The Time For Grace

Last week, back when self-distancing and self-isolating were beginning to become the norm, a friend of mine commented on an Instagram post of mine calling all parents “non-consensual home school teachers.” At the time it was funny, and it was easy to see the humour in the idea of being a home-school teacher because we all hadn’t yet become home-school teachers to our kids.
And then shit got real.
Fast forward a week, and here we are: if you’re being responsible, you’re self-isolating or at the very least self-distancing with your family. Hundreds of millions of kids around the world are out of school. If they’re privileged enough and able, parents are working from home. My kids’ schoolrooms are now in our dining room while my office is my kitchen. It’s hardly perfect.
We here at HuffPost Parents are writing articles about activities and shows to keep kids occupied, how to create a schedule for your kids, and how to tell if that app your kid has been playing with all week is ruining their brain or teaching them something. Countless other outlets are pumping out similar stories. All the type-A parents have to stick together, huh?
But after a few days of home schooling, when the Groundhog Day effect really started to kick in, I started worrying about the psychological effects my husband and I wearing two hats (teacher and parent) was gonna have on our kids ― as a result of all of this, will our kids turn into extreme germaphobic introverts, or will they be able to rise to any challenge?
I couldn’t sleep last night thinking about all the pressure I was putting not only on myself but also my kids. I worried about that down-to-the-minute schedule that loomed over the dining room; I worried about how this was really all going to work long-term. I worried one of us would get sick.
And then, around 5 a.m., something dawned on me: I will not get through this by worrying. I owe it to myself and my family to try to roll with the punches and stop trying to be all things to everyone. Yes, it’s inevitable that something will have to give, and that’s OK.
Now, more than ever, is the time to put yourself in your kids’ shoes and remember that they will be fine. If you treat this like an extended slumber party and not a home school and just try to make this as fun as possible ― if you’re able to ― you’ll get out the other side.
Now is the time to watch that movie with them, and talk about its lessons ... or not.
Now is the time to build that fort and play Legos and do an in-house scavenger hunt.
Now is the time for screens.
Now is the time to run outside and skip and do funny physical challenges ... or not.
Now is the time for snuggling.
Now is the time to be silly.
Now is the time for grace.


thehuffingtonpostuk--2020-03-21--17 Simple Food Swaps For When You Run Out Of Ingredients

Under normal circumstances, it’s frustrating to discover you’re out of a key ingredient mid-recipe. When you’re coronavirus-quarantined, it can ruin your day. Obviously, you can’t just run out to the grocery store to pick up what you’re missing. But with a few key substitutions, you should be able to muddle through.
We’ve consulted in-the-know sources and “The Food Substitutions Bible” to find suitable swaps for ingredients you’re most likely to deplete. They’re not all perfect flavour matches, but they’ll do the job. And who knows, maybe you’ll discover you prefer a recipe this way!
Butter
For cooking, any oil will do. For baking, use an equivalent amount of:
Regular (not light) margarine
Lard
Coconut oil (solid)
If you’ve only got half the amount of butter you need for a baked good recipe, applesauce can work for the rest.
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Eggs
For each egg in a baking recipe, swap in:
1/3 cup applesauce
1/2 pureed banana (1/4 cup)
1 tablespoon ground flax seeds or chia seeds + 3 tablespoons water
1/4 cup blended silken tofu
3 tablespoons vegetable oil + 1 tablespoon water
2 to 3 tablespoons mayonnaise (for cakes)
Sour Cream
Replace each cup with:
Plain Greek yogurt, an equivalent amount
3/4 cup cream cheese + 3 tablespoons milk
1/3 cup melted unsalted butter + 3/4 cup milk + 1 teaspoon lemon juice (for baking)
Dairy Products
1 cup milk = 1/2 cup evaporated milk + 1/2 cup water
1 cup half & half = 1 cup whole milk + 1 tablespoon melted unsalted butter OR 1 cup evaporated milk
1 cup heavy whipping cream = 2/3 cup whole milk + 1/3 cup melted unsalted butter
1 cup buttermilk = 1 cup milk + 1 teaspoon lemon juice or vinegar
Garlic
For each clove, use:
1/8 teaspoon garlic powder
1/2 teaspoon garlic salt (omit 1/2 teaspoon salt from the recipe)
1/2 teaspoon jarred minced garlic
1/2 to 1 teaspoon minced shallots
Onions
For each medium onion, use:
1 1/2 to 2 teaspoons onion powder
1 cup chopped shallots
1 1/4 cups chopped leeks, green onions or scallions (white and light green parts only)
1 cup frozen chopped onions
Lemon
For each tablespoon of juice, use 1 1/2 teaspoons white wine vinegar, sherry vinegar or champagne vinegar
For each teaspoon of zest, use 1/2 teaspoon lemon extract
Fresh Herbs
For each tablespoon of chopped fresh herbs, use:
1 teaspoon dried
1/4 to 1/2 teaspoon ground or powdered
Breadcrumbs
For each cup, use:
3 to 4 slices oven-dried bread, crushed in a food processor
1 1/4 cups croutons or stuffing cubes, crushed
3/4 cup cracker crumbs
1 cup crushed tortilla or potato chips
1 cup crushed pretzels
1 cup crushed cornflakes
Flour
1 cup all-purpose flour = 1 cup + 3 tablespoons cake flour OR 1 cup self-rising flour (omit baking powder + salt from recipe) OR 1 1/2 cups dry breadcrumbs
1 cup of cake flour = 1 cup pastry flour OR 1 cup minus 3 tablespoons all-purpose flour + 3 tablespoons cornstarch
1 cup pastry flour = 2/3 cup all-purpose flour + 1/3 cup cake flour
1 cup self-rising flour = 1 cup all-purpose flour + 1 1/2 teaspoons baking powder + 1/2 teaspoon salt
Sugar
1 cup granulated sugar = 1 3/4 cup unsifted confectioners’ sugar OR 1 cup packed light or dark brown sugar OR 1 cup minus 2 tablespoons honey, agave nectar, or brown rice syrup + 1/4 teaspoon baking soda (reduce liquid in recipe by 3 tablespoons and lower oven temperature by 25°F)
1 cup dark brown sugar = 1 packed cup light brown sugar + 1 tablespoon molasses OR 1 cup granulated sugar + 2 to 3 tablespoons molasses
1 cup light brown sugar = 1 cup granulated sugar + 1 to 2 tablespoons molasses OR 1/2 cup dark brown sugar + 1/2 cup granulated sugar
1 cup confectioners’ sugar = 1 cup granulated sugar + 1 tablespoon cornstarch, processed in a food processor
Cocoa Powder
For every 3 tablespoons, use:
1 ounce unsweetened chocolate (decrease fat in recipe by 1 tablespoon)
2 ounces semisweet chocolate (decrease fat in recipe by 1 tablespoon and sugar in recipe by 3 tablespoons)
For each teaspoon, use:
1 1/2 teaspoons Morton kosher salt
2 teaspoons Diamond Crystal kosher salt
2 teaspoons soy sauce
Rice
For each 1 cup of uncooked white or brown rice, use the following amount of the uncooked substitute:
2 cups orzo pasta
1 1/4 cups couscous
3/4 cup barley
1 cup quinoa
1 cup bulgur
1 1/3 cups wheatberries
1 1/2 cups kasha
Tomatoes
For each pound of fresh tomatoes, use:
1 1/2 cups canned whole tomatoes
6 to 8 sun-dried tomato halves, reconstituted in hot water
3 tablespoons tomato paste (you may need to add liquid)
Broth
1 cup of broth = 1 bouillon cube + 1 cup boiling water OR 1 teaspoon bouillon granules + 1 cup boiling water
To replace chicken or vegetable broth, use an equivalent amount of dry white wine, vermouth or water (in small amounts).
To replace beef broth, use an equivalent amount of vegetable broth, red wine or beer.
Wine
For each cup of red, use:
3/4 cup red grape juice + 2 tablespoons red wine vinegar or lemon juice + 2 tablespoons of water (for marinades)
1 cup beef broth (for sauces and stews)
1 cup beer (for stews)
For each cup of white, use:
3/4 cup white grape juice, apple juice, or apple cider + 1/4 cup white wine vinegar or lemon juice (for marinades)
1 cup sherry, vermouth, sake, mirin, or chicken or vegetable broth (for sauces and stews)
Unfortunately, these substitutes won’t help if you just want to drink ― this is purely a cooking substitute.


thehuffingtonpostuk--2020-03-21--Don't Let Coronavirus Ruin Your Weekend. Here's How To Make The Most Of It

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When you’re looking at the same four walls all week, the days can begin to roll into one. But a weekend is still a weekend – and there are ways to enjoy it even though the UK is in near-total lockdown.
Sure, it might mean cancelling group plans and being a little more creative, but proactively filling the weekend with enjoyable activities is a sure-fire way to boost moral. And boy, do we need that boost right now.
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Here are some ideas to get you started.
Clear away that work station
For many of us, our homes are now our workplaces. To help get you out of that headspace, first thing’s first: clear away anything that reminds you of work the moment you log off.
Place your work laptop, notes and any other office paraphernalia in another room where possible. Alternatively, shove them in a drawer or throw a blanket over them if space is tight. Repeat after me: do not touch until Monday.
Stay connected with loved ones
If you’ve been working from home all week, you’re probably used to chatting with colleagues via video calls. But now is the time to do it with friends and family – and make it fun!
If you’ve had to cancel plans with friends this weekend, do it digitally using group video apps like Zoom and House Party. Planned to head to the pub? Have a team wine on video (even better if someone can organise a pub quiz). Intended to go to the cinema? Watch a film together and analyse it in great detail en masse afterwards.
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To stop you staring at a screen for hours on end, you could also set up your phone or laptop for a call with a loved one while you’re completing an activity. Why not chat while you’re both making dinner, for example? It’ll offer a sense of normality, especially if you live by yourself.
Find a way to enjoy nature
We can still get out once a day to enjoy exercise, while following the social distancing guidelines. Go for a solo walk or run and take time to connect with all your senses: the feel of the breeze, the smell of the flowers, the sight of fellow walkers in the distance. Staying in the present moment will hep take your mind off the news.
Cook a delicious meal
Boredom can very easily slip into mindless grazing, but you can do better than munching cereal straight from the box. Take time to plan and really enjoy food this weekend.
If you can’t find the ingredients you want in the ever-empty supermarket, don’t sweat it. Instead, use it as an opportunity to flex your culinary muscles and get creative, Masterchef “market challenge”-style.
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Alternatively, why not support a local business (and treat yourself) instead? The government has ordered all bars and restaurants to close, but many local businesses are launching takeaway solutions.
Keep an eye on social media to see what’s going on in your area – but remember to be sensible about it. If it’s possible to pay online and have the food left on your doorstep, do it. Minimising contact is key for everyone right now.
Indulge in entertainment
Sure, you could use this period of solitude to get some life admin done or Marie Kondo your home, but who really wants to spend a global pandemic clearing out wardrobes?
It’s been a draining week, so don’t put pressure on yourself to be productive this weekend. Instead, check out our recommendations for shows and films you can stream on Netflix for pure escapism, or find something great to watch in this list of free boxsets for those who don’t have Netflix or Amazon Prime.
To get away from screens entirely, close your eyes while listening to one of these podcast recommendations or snuggle down with a good book. You deserve it.


thehuffingtonpostuk--2020-03-21--Donald Trump’s ‘Chinese Virus’ Coronavirus Tweet Has Me Scared For My Family

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Just before I climbed back into the car, after dropping bags of groceries at my parents’ door and firmly declining an offer to come inside for a cup of tea, my mom stepped outside to wave goodbye to me. My dad stayed behind the door watching us through its window. I grabbed my phone and asked her to pose for a snapshot to send my sister an update about our successful social distancing in the face of covid-19.
Never one to shy away from a camera, my mom threw her head back and gave me a dazzling smile. It’s always a surprise when people learn she’s almost 70 — she’s playful and vibrant, with the high cheekbones and beautiful skin often seen in Chinese women. I always say I hope to inherit her agelessness to join the dark eyes and olive skin she gave me. I drove away with tears in my eyes; my desire to keep my parents safe overwhelming me. I’m grateful they moved close to us years earlier, so I can take care of them now.
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“This is who I am protecting. I need you to protect her, too,” I wrote when I shared the photo on my social media once I got home.
Hours later, I read a tweet from Donald Trump in which he called covid-19 “the Chinese Virus” (the first of several times in recent days he’s done that and a term he defended at his press briefing on Wednesday). My concern was no longer just about my mom’s vulnerability to the coronavirus. Simmering worries I’ve had about our ethnicity became icy fear as I scrolled through the comments. Trump’s language and the expected ripple effects feel very dangerous, even here in Canada, where statements from leaders south of the border have incited and inspired people to behave badly.
The author's mom, Doris, in front of her home earlier this week. Courtesy of Louise Gleeson
In the earliest days of the coronavirus, my mom underwent two-phase eye surgery at our local hospital. No extra precautions were taken when she went in for the first eye, but two weeks later when we returned for the second, screening signs were placed throughout the waiting area and news of the virus had overtaken the media. Headlines played in a loop on the television mounted to the wall above the rows of chairs filled with patients and their family members. The tension was palpable.
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When she coughed, I could feel the eyes upon us immediately. The furtive glances pushed me upright in my seat, ready to defend her if I had to. I was sitting right beside her, but even with her colouring in my features, my Irish father’s genes made me separate. And in that moment, being white-passing felt like letting her down when she needed me most.
My mom knew she wasn’t a threat — having not traveled since before the onset of the outbreak and knowing her intermittent cough is a side-effect of the blood pressure medication she takes — but for many people in that room she was. Because of her cough, but also because of her ethnicity.
Growing up in a small, predominately white town in the 1980s, my sister and I were targeted and taunted by peers, and I often felt embarrassed by our parent’s interracial marriage. I had to be walked to kindergarten every day by our neighbour’s son because a group of older kids had been throwing rocks at me while pretending to speak Chinese. I suffered the terror alone for days before finally telling my parents, because I didn’t want them to feel at fault for what was happening to me.
Even when we visited our cousins from my mom’s side in a bigger city, we would face jeers while visiting playgrounds and swimming pools. I felt great empathy for them, knowing they faced racism more often and perhaps more viciously than we did, because our biracialism kept us safe a lot of the time.
When our younger cousin came to visit us, a neighbour kid threw her to the ground, shoved snow into her face, and called her a “Chink.” Overcome with rage and protectiveness, my sister and I pulled him off and chased him to the door of his house, where we were met by his unimpressed parents. We went inside and confessed what we did to our father, worried that he’d find out about it eventually. He didn’t waste a moment before announcing, “You have to stand up to people like that your whole life.”
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The author and her parents, Doris and Tom, when the family first arrived in Canada in 1974. Courtesy of Louise Gleeson
Since moving from that town and growing older, my experiences with racism have been much more intermittent. Living in a culturally diverse community has helped me fully embrace my biracialism and allowed me to honor my culture and teach it to my own children. It has felt safe to be openly Chinese, and my children are proud of their heritage, too, sharing it with their peers and making presentations about it at school.
But I haven’t forgotten the importance of teaching them about the racism we’ve experienced. I remind them they are fortunate, thus far, to know it only by way of our stories. They’ve listened to tales from my childhood and they know about my mother’s traumas, too.
In 1969, she was a 19-year-old student who immigrated to England from Hong Kong, where she was born and raised, to attend a nursing college in a community hospital. She was young, alone, and had no more than a handful of English phrases. She was placed directly on to the hospital wards, where she learned by watching and listening. She had to navigate language and cultural gaps daily, and often heard racist insults from patients.
Although she was treated well by many, she was also screamed at and physically threatened by others. She kept showing up anyway, and made a difference to countless patients when they were at their most vulnerable.
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Over the past two months, since the coronavirus outbreak began making news, I’ve scrolled past countless articles with click-bait headlines and commentary that perpetuate stereotypes and prejudices against Asian people and set off xenophobic alarm bells. The posts are being shared widely by strangers, but also by people I know. My outward appearance and father’s last name perhaps make it easy for them to forget that my family is Chinese.
And it’s not just headlines I’m experiencing. Last month, I overheard a conversation among colleagues expressing concern about attending a staff potluck where spring rolls were going to be served. I am watching from the sidelines in terms of how Asian people are being treated in my once-safe community because I am seen as white.
The author and her grandmother shortly after the family immigrated to Canada in 1974. Courtesy of Louise Gleeson
We know that fear can lead to defensiveness and blame. I can tell myself that Trump’s dog-whistle tweets are an attempt to distract from his administration’s failures in preventing and controlling the spread of the virus. But I will not feel compassion for his fear, as he clearly lacks any for the fear his words have ignited in the Asian community ― or any concern about the very real and very dangerous acts that his words could inspire in others.
We all carry the traumas of the generations before us, who bravely faced persecution and prejudice when they immigrated here. It terrifies me to think of my children’s generation having firsthand experience of such prejudice to share with the next one.
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“Mom, I just saw Trump’s tweet,” my 17-year-old daughter tells me after noticing it on her Chinese friend’s social media. “She’s really angry.”
We talk about how we feel angry, too, even though it’s much scarier for her friend’s family and her grandmother than it is for her.
“We have to stand up to people like that,” I remind her, stopping myself before adding the words, “your whole life,” like my father did for me. I want to hold on to the hope that she won’t have to.
Louise Gleeson is a Toronto-based freelance writer. You can find her on Instagram or Twitter @louisegleeson. This article first appeared on HuffPost US Personal.


thehuffingtonpostuk--2020-03-21--No Plans This Weekend? We Can Still Live Meaningful Lives Amid Coronavirus

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It may seem perverse but it wasn’t all that long ago that I was excited for a quiet weekend in. Mindless, cut-off, indulgent downtime. Usually by the Friday evening, however, my ‘downtime’ would include a meal out, a social gathering or visiting an attraction, determined to make my way across the city despite planned engineering works. Wanting to rest up gave way to what I actually preferred: connection and busyness. It was easy to take for granted how accessible that lifestyle was. Even if meant braving a replacement bus.
If our activities are laid out by various domains (work, friends, family, hobbies, learning, well-being) our identity can be vulnerable if any one of these is taken away. We lose a loved one, we feel hollowed out. We lose a job, we feel incomplete. So, as many of us head into the first weekend of social isolation or, at a minimum, a restriction on the activities that filled our time and defined us, it can feel daunting.
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At first glance, a smaller world suggests that we must limit meaningful activity, but does it have to be the case?
Of course, the Covid-19 crisis has left us susceptible to physical, mental and financial risk, so protecting our health is our first priority. Without the feeling of a secure life-jacket, all we can do is try to stay afloat. But if we do find ourselves in the privileged position that we aren’t in immediate danger… well, that could leave quite some time to fill up.
Jump forward to the ‘end’ of the pandemic and imagine asking yourself how you have occupied your time. Whilst there’s a value in being informed, I doubt I would be thrilled looking back to see that I had spent my days scanning the news and sharing articles across group chats. Social isolation might not be within our control but how we fill each moment is.
If our activities are laid out by various domains (work, friends, family, hobbies, learning, well-being) our identity can be vulnerable if any one of these is taken away. Getty Images
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As a therapist, regardless of the presenting issue, I ask the same question to everyone each session: “Despite the limitations, am I living the most meaningful life I can right now?” Granted, some practical barriers will need to be accepted – e.g. I can’t get to the gym, I can’t go to the pub – but we can unstick them if we’re resourceful and creative: I can work out at home, or I can host a group call with friends.
Living meaningfully isn’t a smug pursuit if it’s focused on enriching your life with activities that are driven by purpose and satisfaction. Doing, despite the limitations, will not only bring accomplishment but also allow continuation of our identities rather than slipping into resigned lethargy.
We also need to overcome more perceptual limitations if they’re paralysing us from attending to meaningful tasks. “Video calls do not equal physical intimacy.” “The world is too terrifying to bother trying.” What would a compassionate friend say in response? Probably to persevere with what matters.
“Living meaningfully isn’t a smug pursuit if it’s focused on enriching your life with activities that are driven by purpose and satisfaction”
Another approach to living meaningfully is to act on our values — e.g. creativity, determination, empathy — and being guided by these defining qualities. If I’m compassionate, how can I demonstrate this now? Maybe by offering support to vulnerable people or by turning compassion on myself and switching off the news. Sticking with self-compassion for a moment, we’re all struggling, so be kind and don’t put too many expectations on yourself.
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Acting purposefully can reframe social isolation as an opportunity for a bit of a reset. We have been afforded some free reign, at least cognitively, to consider who and how we want to be. There has been no better time to make space for the language you’ve always wanted to learn or the craft you’ve wanted to master. If you can get the ball rolling in social isolation, even better, because starting now is more likely to demand space when our lives inevitably busy themselves later on.
Who knows what the world will look like and what living through a pandemic will have collectively taught us? What this does remind us, however, is that life is precious and we deserve to be fulfilled. If social isolation allows for a moment of reflection, of specifying our values, and of meaningful beginnings, then we should take advantage of that.


thehuffingtonpostuk--2020-03-21--Coronavirus Outbreak: 53 More People Die Bringing UK Total To 233

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A further 53 people have died after being diagnosed with coronavirus in England, health chiefs said, bringing the death toll in the UK to 233.
NHS England said in a statement: “Patients were aged between 41 and 94 years old and all had underlying health conditions.”
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As of 9am on Saturday, a total of 72,818 people had been tested for the virus, the Department of Health said. Of these, 67,800 were negative and 5,018 positive – a 26% increase on the previous 24 hours.
Two more deaths were also announced in Wales, bringing the country’s total to five.
The first person in the UK to die after being diagnosed with coronavirus was announced on March 5.
How did the outbreak start?
Coronaviruses are a large family of viruses that cause illnesses ranging from the common cold to more severe diseases such as severe acute respiratory syndrome (Sars).
The strain that has recently emerged is a new strain that had not been previously identified in humans. The respiratory disease it causes has been named Covid-19 by the WHO.
Coronaviruses are zoonotic, meaning they are transmitted between animals and people, the WHO says.
The first cases identified were among people connected to the Huanan Seafood Wholesale Market in Wuhan, China.
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Experts believe the virus is spread in cough and sneeze droplets. The virus can survive on surfaces for several hours, but it is unclear exactly how long for.
Government scientists say a small proportion of people will pass on the virus while having no symptoms themselves.
General medical advice is to wash your hands with soap and hot water more often. Do this for at least 20 seconds each time.
The NHS says people should also wash their hands when they get home or arrive at work. Hand sanitiser can be used if soap is not available.
What are the symptoms?
Anyone with coughs and sneezes should catch them in a tissue, which is then put in a bin. Wash your hands afterwards.
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People should also avoid close contact with people who are unwell, and avoid touching the eyes, nose or mouth if their hands are not clean.
Initial symptoms include fever, cough, tightness of the chest, shortness of breath and breathing difficulties.


thehuffingtonpostuk--2020-03-21--'Be Responsible' Environment Secretary Urges Coronavirus Panic Buyers

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The environment secretary has urged panic buyers to “be responsible” and stop panic buying and the coronavirus outbreak continues.
Scenes of empty shelves and huge queues outside of supermarkets have dominated coverage of Covid-19 across the UK, with restrictions places on certain items such as toilet roll.
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“Be responsible when you shop and think of others. Buying more than you need means others may be left without and it is making life harder for frontline workers,” said George Eustice, secretary of state for Environment, Food and Rural Affairs.
Stephen Powis, national medical director at NHS England, said people should be “ashamed” of themselves for panic-buying, and urged people to think of struggling NHS staff.
“I would like to make a plea on behalf of all my colleagues in the NHS, nurses, doctors, paramedics and many, many others who are working incredibly hard at the moment to manage this outbreak of coronavirus,” he said.
“It’s incredibly important that they too have access to food, to those essential supplies that they need.”
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Food manufacturing in the UK is up by 50%, it was revealed during the press conference held at Downing Street on Saturday afternoon.
Helen Dickinson, chief executive of the British Retail Consortium, said she wanted to reassure people that those “right across the food industry… are doing everything they can to ensure that we have the food we all need.”
The increased demand had been so severe, Dickinson explained, that there had been a peak in demand “like Christmas... without the four-month build-up period.”
She added: “There is plenty of food in the supply chain.
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“The issue is around people and lorries, so getting that food right into the front line onto our shelves, which is why we’ve seen some shortages.
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“There is a billion pounds more food in people’s houses than there was three weeks ago, so we should make sure we eat some of it.”
When asked if rationing would be necessary, Eustice repeatedly stated that it would be a matter for supermarkets to determine whether or not limits would have to be imposed on products.
Asked about possible military involvement in the supply chain, the environment secretary said: “We are obviously giving increasing thought within government over how we will protect those who may be self-isolating because they are vulnerable and I know more will be said about this in due course.”
When it came to social distancing, Powis said it was “absolutely crucial” that “everybody” followed advice on reducing social contact.
He said: “It’s not for somebody else to follow, it’s for you to follow, it’s for me to follow, it’s for everybody to follow.
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“This is all our problem and if we do it together, it will be an effective strategy.
“If you do it, you follow the advice, you will be saving somebody’s life.


thehuffingtonpostuk--2020-03-21--'I've Lost Half Of Myself' – Husband Pays Tribute To British Woman Who Died In Bali After Contractin

'I've Lost Half Of Myself' – Husband Pays Tribute To British Woman Who Died In Bali After Contracting Coronavirus

The husband of a British woman has described how he “lost half of himself” following her death after contracting coronavirus during a holiday to Bali.
Kimberley Finlayson, 52, from Hertfordshire – who had underlying health conditions – underwent two emergency operations in an Indonesian government hospital before her death.
Her husband Ken Finlayson said the couple were able to exchange goodbyes “for a few minutes” before she died on the Indonesian island on March 11.
He moved presenter Diana Speed to tears as he told the BBC: “I talked to her. She said that she loved me and we exchanged that for a few minutes and looked into one another’s eyes.”
“Myself and my four children are absolutely devastated to lose the most beautiful wife and mother,” he added.
“She’s so generous, she’s so full of life, she’s so powerful, courageous, supportive of all of us. I’ve lost half of myself.”
Finlayson, who tested negative for the virus, warned other UK citizens about travelling overseas and urged them to “be strong” for their families in the months to come.
He said: “The lesson for the British public to realise is that if you go to these places then people really mean well but you’re giving up that level of care which we expect and you are playing Russian roulette with your lives if you become critical.
“Mistakes were being made. I don’t believe… if this had happened in Barnet Hospital, I believe our great NHS would have saved Kimberley.
“I don’t think she would have been anywhere near as critical in the first place.
“Tragically in the UK there will be many people who will suffer, I’m sure, over the months ahead. You need to be strong for your family and the memory of your loved one who died in such tragic circumstance.”
He added that there was an irony in the now-familiar phrase “underlying health issues” – referring to his wife, who had diabetes.
He said: “I don’t know many people in their 50s who haven’t received medication, haven’t had some health issues. My wife is the most incredibly generous, loving mum.”
Colleagues of Kimberley, founded of a dental communications company, praised her “passion, creativity and determination”.
An online statement said: “Those fortunate enough to know her will remember a whirlwind of energy and ideas – and an ability to make things happen that few can match.”
As of 7am on Saturday morning, there have been 177 deaths within the UK of patients who have contracted Covid-19.


thehuffingtonpostuk--2020-03-21--Eight Things You Need To Know About Coronavirus Today

Tens of thousands of pubs, bars, theatres and restaurants across the country are staying shut in an attempt to slow the spread of the virus.
Boris Johnson ordered the dramatic closing down of the hospitality and entertainment sectors amid fears of the NHS being overwhelmed.
With scientists warning “social distancing” measures will have to stay in place for months to come, cinemas, nightclubs, gyms and betting shops were left wondering they would be able to open their doors again.
John Lewis Partnership announced on Saturday it had taken the “difficult decision” to temporarily close all 50 John Lewis shops at close of business on Monday due to the impact of the virus.
The retailer said Johnlewis.com will continue to operate, as will Waitrose shops and waitrose.com.
Announcing the move – the first time in the 155-year history of the business that it will not open its shop doors for customers – chairman Sharon White said: “The welfare of our customers, communities and partners is always our absolute priority.
“While it is with a heavy heart that we temporarily close our John Lewis shops, our partners will, where possible, be taking on important roles in supporting their fellow partners, providing critical services in Waitrose shops and ensuring our customers can get what they need through johnlewis.com, which is seeing extremely strong demand.”
The National Trust also announced it would be closing its parks and gardens from midnight on Saturday “to help restrict the spread” of the virus.
Meanwhile, economists have said the bill to taxpayers for the government’s unprecedented scheme to cover most of the wages of workers whose jobs are under threat from the outbreak could run to billions of pounds a month.
The PM announced the closures at a Downing Street news conference on Friday, following reports that many people had ignored earlier appeals to stay away.
While he acknowledged the ban went against the “freedom-loving instincts” of the British people, he said it was essential to achieve the 75% reduction in “unnecessary” social contacts required to reduce the rate of infection.
Scottish first minister Nicola Sturgeon also appealed to establishments who had not yet closed their doors to “do the right thing”.


thehuffingtonpostuk--2020-03-22--Coronavirus: NHS Staff Treated Like 'Cannon Fodder', Says Doctors' Association

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NHS staff treating coronavirus patients feel like “lambs to the slaughter”, the Doctors’ Association has said, as calls for more protective clothing to shield medics intensified on Sunday.
Chairman Dr Rinesh Parmar said doctors and nurses are still not getting the equipment they need and feel treated like “cannon fodder” in the UK’s fight against the disease.
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Speaking to BBC One’s Andrew Marr Show, Parmar made a direct appeal to prime minister Boris Johnson for help.
He said: “We have had doctors tell us they feel like lambs to the slaughter, that they feel like cannon fodder. GPs tell us that they feel absolutely abandoned.
“We are all pleading with Boris Johnson that they really look into arranging the vital personal protection equipment that all of us need on the NHS front line.”
His plea came as a group of almost 4,000 NHS workers penned an open letter to the PM in the Sunday Times, urging him to “protect the lives of the life-savers” and resolve the “unacceptable” shortage of protective equipment.
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Saying medical workers were “putting their lives on the line every day” by treating coronavirus patients without appropriate protection, they called on Johnson to ensure an adequate supply of masks, safety glasses, gloves, aprons and protective suits.
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The letter, signed by 3,963 frontline NHS staff, read: “Front-line doctors have been telling us for weeks that they do not feel safe at work.
“Intensive care doctors and anaesthetists have told us they have been carrying out the highest-risk procedure, putting a patient on a ventilator, with masks that expired in 2015.”
It adds that paediatricians have warned their stocks of protective glasses would run out in 48 hours, including in special-care baby units.
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One acute care worker reported one NHS trust had run out of its stock of masks last weekend, the letter said.
“GPs have told us they feel abandoned; many have been left without any protection for weeks and do not even have simple masks to protect them if a patient comes in with symptoms of Covid-19,” it continued.
Ambulance workers had been arriving for shifts to find no hand sanitiser, masks or wipes were available, it also stated.
Staff in the NHS feel like "lambs to the slaughter" and "cannon fodder" because of a lack of personal protective equipment, says Dr Rinesh Parmar, Chair of the Doctors’ Association#Marr #Covid_19 https://t.co/qXKtTxYWj6 pic.twitter.com/KXoCKDhGSL — BBC Politics (@BBCPolitics) March 22, 2020
The UK death toll on Sunday rose to 240 after a further seven patients in Wales died.
Speaking to Sky News’ Sophy Ridge on Sunday, communities secretary Robert Jenrick admitted more needed to be done.
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The presenter put details of the letter to the minister, including how medics felt “abandoned”, and challenged him with the question: “That’s a disgrace isn’t it?”
Jenrick replied “absolutely”, and moved to reassure frontline staff that protective clothing, saying it was on its way “this afternoon”.
He said: “Everybody who is on the frontline, supporting us as a country through this crisis, must have the equipment that they need to do their job and to be personally protected.
“We are working very hard, with success, to get more PPE (personal protective equipment) available.
“I think by this afternoon we will have delivered more supplies to hospitals across the country. We have delivered supplies to GP surgeries and to pharmacies and next week all social care providers will receive further supplies.
“We are manufacturing and importing large quantities and I think in recent days we have received three million masks for example but I completely accept there is more to do.
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thehuffingtonpostuk--2020-03-22--Idris Elba Releases Song About Self-Quarantine, Positive Coronavirus Diagnosis

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Idris Elba has turned to music as a way to cope during his self-isolation amid the coronavirus pandemic.
Earlier this week, Idris announced that he had tested positive for Covid-19, the disease caused by the new virus.
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The Luther actor, who is also a DJ and music producer, has since shared a nearly four-minute track on his Instagram, titled The Long Road 2.
“Creating is living right now,” he captioned the post. “Music therapy.”
Idris kicked off the song by discussing his self-quarantine.
“I guess it’s time to do a direct talk / Feels appropriate right now I guess,” Idris said. “Yeah sitting in the spare room quarantined, you know what I mean / Just letting out some thoughts.”
Later in the song, Idris rapped about President Donald Trump declaring a national emergency in the US last week, and videos of quarantined Italians singing to each other from their balconies.
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“What a week,” he rapped.
On Tuesday, Idris gave an update on how he’s feeling during a livestream Q&A on Twitter.
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He noted that his wife, Sabrina Dhowre Elba, had since been tested and that he didn’t have any of the “commonly known” symptoms that have been reported to be associated with the virus.
Elsewhere in the livestream, Idris said that Tom Hanks had inspired him to go public with his diagnosis.
The Forrest Gump actor released a statement last week revealing that he and his wife, actor Rita Wilson, had both tested positive for the virus.
Idris added that he felt it was important to be transparent about his diagnosis, saying he was “worried people aren’t talking to each other about it.”
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thehuffingtonpostuk--2020-03-22--Mariah Carey's Self-Isolation Videos Are, Obviously, All Kinds Of Fabulous

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If anyone is in need of some cheering up right now – and let’s face it, who isn’t? – then look no further than Mariah Carey’s social media platforms, as she’s been sharing a string of fabulous videos while she self-isolates at her house.
Like many of us, the legendary diva is currently staying at home with her family in response to the coronavirus pandemic, and treated fans to her latest video update on Saturday night.
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In the clip, Mariah is seen working out at her home gym while sporting some chic black surgical gloves, telling her followers she is “staying home and staying active”.
While her song It’s Like That plays, Mariah observes: “For real, you gotta just keep it going with this whole thing. I don’t know what else to say.”
As if that wasn’t iconic enough in itself, the star then performs an adapted version of the track, while continuing her exercise, singing: “I came to work out… quarantine’s got me stressed out. Oh well, that’s what’s up now…”
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Mariah has already posted a few videos during her time self-isolating, including one last week in which she and her eight-year-old twins Moroccan and Monroe practise their hand-washing to – obviously – one of their mum’s tunes...
Exercising this to 20 seconds of Ol' Dirty Bastard! Wash your hands! Stay safe!!! ❤ https://t.co/lStI918GmF pic.twitter.com/SO8SQJNrk7 — Mariah Carey (@MariahCarey) March 13, 2020
And proving that she doesn’t need to leave the house to be the ultimate diva, check out her St Patrick’s Day Tik Tok post from earlier in the week…
Of course, Mariah has become renowned for her fabulous activity on social media in recent times, including her hilarious attempt at the Bottle Cap Challenge last year, and her completely over-the-top announcement at the beginning of the festive season.
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thehuffingtonpostuk--2020-03-22--Coronavirus: Minister Hints At Lockdown As Public Ignore Health Advice

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Communities secretary Robert Jenrick hinted a lockdown could be enforced to stop the spread of coronavirus, amid fears people are ignoring advice on social distancing.
The cabinet minister warned the public that advice on social distancing “isn’t a game” and the government will be forced to consider “other options” if people continue to flout new rules.
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It could see the police enforcing rules on self-isolation and social distancing.
Boris Johnson ordered pubs and restaurants to close this week and asked the public to stay at home and away from others.
The vulnerable - including people aged over 70, pregnant women and those with existing health conditions - should strictly self-isolate for three months, the prime minister also said, as he underlined the measures were vital in order to save lives from the potentially-fatal disease.
But despite this, reports have emerged of crowds flocking to beaches and families mixing closely at parks.
Housing secretary Robert Jenrick leaves Downing Street after a meeting in London ASSOCIATED PRESS
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Speaking to Sky News, Jenrick said children should not be going to play dates and that, while it was OK for people to go outdoors and exercise, they should be avoiding crowds and keeping their distance.
“Lots of people sat out together in parks or on beaches. That isn’t sensible. We strongly discourage that,” he said.
He added that if people continued to ignore advice, the government would take further action, he said, suggesting the police could be asked to intervene.
It comes as emergency legislation to tackle the disease is set to include powers for the police to arrest people who refuse to isolate themselves.
Jenrick said: “We want to live in a free society where we can continue to go about activities whilst following the medical advice. But this isn’t a game, it is very serious.
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“People need to follow that advice. If people don’t follow that advice then clearly we’ll have to consider other options, but none of us want to go down that route.”
GPs have identified 1.5m people who are particularly vulnerable to the virus and will be receiving a letter from government imploring them to follow the advice for 12 weeks.
He also stressed that these people would be guaranteed food supplies.
London mayor Sadiq Khan, meanwhile, urged people in the city to follow the advice and stay at home.
"Please, please, please" stop social mixing or "more people will die"
The Mayor of London Sadiq Khan talks to #Marr about #Covid_19https://t.co/KidqEmUYa1 pic.twitter.com/ATHea8aTd8 — BBC Politics (@BBCPolitics) March 22, 2020
The city is ahead of other parts of the country in the spread of the virus, with a majority of cases emerging there.
The UK death toll on Sunday rose to 240, after a further seven patients in Wales died.
Labour leader Jeremy Corbyn also spoke to Sky News urging people to follow health advice.
He said: “We are all the front line now and I do urge people to listen, listen, listen to the advice you’re given.
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thehuffingtonpostuk--2020-03-22--Five Things You Need To Know About Coronavirus Today

The International Olympic Committee (IOC) continues to come under pressure to postpone the 2020 Tokyo Games due to the coronavirus pandemic.
Sporting events around the globe have all taken action as life is put on hold for athletes and fans alike.
On Saturday, US Track and Field sent an email calling for the US Olympic and Paralympic Committee to make representations about delaying the Games in Japan – set to start on July 24 – as the “right and responsible thing to do” in the circumstances.
An increasing number of athletes have been speaking out over their fears for Tokyo 2020, particularly in relation to social distancing which make their training programmes impossible to pursue.
USA Swimming, meanwhile, had already asking the USOPC to push for a one-year postponement as the impact of the lockdown began to hit home.
USATF chief executive Max Siegel wrote: “The right and responsible thing to do is prioritise everyone’s health and safety, and appropriately recognise the toll this difficult situation has, and continues to take, on our athletes and their Olympic Games preparations.
“We are all experiencing unfathomable disruptions, and everyone’s lives are being impacted accordingly.
“For those reasons, USATF is respectfully requesting that the (USOPC) advocate to the IOC for the postponement of the 2020 Olympic Games in Tokyo.”
The Spanish Football Federation also called for this summer’s Olympics to be postponed.
President of the RFEF Luis Rubiales made the request to IOC committee member Juan Antonio Samaranch Jr at a meeting with other Spanish sports federations, the governing body said in a statement.
The meeting had been called by president of the Spanish Olympic Committee, Alejandro Blanco.
Rubiales said in a statement: “At this time, health must prevail over any other issue and we must be on the side of our Government.
“Sport is our reason for being, but now it must be in the background. We continue to work for football and solutions for this sector, however, now the duty as Spaniards is to stay united and to suspend all sports events.”


thehuffingtonpostuk--2020-03-22--Ant And Dec Relaunch ITV's Mental Health Campaign In Response To Coronavirus Outbreak

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Ant and Dec have relaunched ITV’s Britain Get Talking mental health campaign, in response to the coronavirus outbreak, which has left much of the nation social distancing and self-isolating.
On Saturday night, the pair fronted the last live episode in the current series of Saturday Night Takeaway, which went ahead without a studio audience for the first time, due to the Covid-19 pandemic.
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Sitting in the empty audience, Ant and Dec spoke of the importance of talking to one another, particularly while so many of us are spending a lot of time alone.
“Chances are you have just watched the show at home, a place we are all going to be spending a bit more time over the next few weeks,” Dec began.
Ant and Dec ITV
Ant said: “Yes, now more of us will be apart or by ourselves than ever before, and it is going to be harder for some of us than it is for others.”
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“Which is why it is more important than ever that we keep talking,” Dec continued. “Just hearing someone’s voice has been shown to reduce anxiety and distress.”
“So,” Ant added. “If there is someone you can’t be with right now, pick up the phone and show them you care. Reach out to the ones who need it most.”
The duo then encouraged viewers to “share a message with the nation”, posting videos on social media with the hashtag #BritainGetTalking, with the aim that ITV will show a handful on their channel over the next few weeks.
The Britain Get Talking campaign – supported by the organisations Mind and YoungMind – launched during last year’s Britain’s Got Talent: The Champions, encouraging people in the UK to talk more openly with one another.
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ITV’s director of social purpose for Clare Phillips has said: “Physical isolation doesn’t have to mean social isolation.
“Britain has never needed to connect more, and through Britain Get Talking we want to use ITV to help people feel good, talk more and establish a feeling of unity through these challenging and unprecedented times.
“Hearing someone’s voice is a proven means of decreasing anxiety and stress so we want to encourage more talking and more connecting.”
Ant and Dec had planned to air this year’s Saturday Night Takeaway finale live from Disney World, but these plans were scuppered when the theme park closed its doors due to coronavirus.
Instead, a pre-recorded finale will air on ITV Saturday night, as was revealed during this week’s show.
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thehuffingtonpostuk--2020-03-22--Bradley Walsh Fumes As He's Pranked By Ant And Dec For The Second Time

Bradley Walsh was left fuming when he became a victim of one of Ant and Dec’s Undercover pranks for the second time.
Back in 2005, The Chase’s presenter was fooled by Ant and Dec during a segment on Saturday Night Takeaway and did not take it well, storming off and vowing the duo would never trick him again.
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Well, it might have taken 15 years, but they finally managed it.
In the latest instalment of Saturday Night Takeaway, the pair wreaked havoc on the set of The Chase, where everyone was in on the joke apart from the man himself, Bradley Walsh.
Ant and Dec behind the scenes of The Chase ITV
During the course of filming, Ant and Dec – speaking to the “contestants” and Chaser Jenny Ryan through an earpiece – made sure to mess with the host by having contestants big up Pointless as a “more intellectual” show and answering impossible questions without batting an eye, while Jenny was instructed to get people’s names wrong.
“What the f*** is going on with this show?” he asked, when he spotted a spelling mistake on a question, changing “father” to “farter”.
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As time went on, Bradley slowly began to lose his cool, most notably when Ant and Dec also made sure there was as much behind the scenes noise as possible, and the host took various trips to cool off backstage.
Bradley struggled to keep his cool as the prank unfolded ITV
And when it looked like the fake team was about to win the biggest prize pot in The Chase’s history, the biggest stunt of them all was then carried out, with the lights going out and the studio’s light-up board sparking.
That was when Ant and Dec ran in dressed as fireman, and Bradley’s face pretty much said all there is to say…
Ant and Dec reveal themselves ITV
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This weekend’s Saturday Night Takeaway was a bit of an unusual one, as it was the first ever not to feature a studio audience, due to the coronavirus pandemic.
Next week’s finale had originally been supposed to have been filmed at Disney World, but when the theme park closed its doors, these plans were axed.
Instead, Ant and Dec confirmed that a pre-recorded finale episode would air instead.
Saturday Night Takeaway returns next week on ITV.


thehuffingtonpostuk--2020-03-22--The Simpsons: 30 Must-Watch Episodes Whether You're A Newbie Or A Long-Time Fan

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The moment fans of The Simpsons have been waiting years for is finally here.
The streaming service Disney+ has launched in the UK, meaning for the first time, we have more than 600 episodes of the classic show at our fingertips.
And let’s face it, given the current situation, we’ve probably never been more in need of it.
Whether you’re a Simpsons fan keen to revisit the long-running show, or you’ve just always wanted to get into it, this is our handy guide of 30 episodes of The Simpsons to check out first.
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And trust us, it was tough to narrow it down to just 30...
1. Simpsons Roasting On An Open Fire (season 1, episode 1)
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Yes it’s a Christmas special, but in all honest, we could probably all do with a bit of festive cheer right now, couldn’t we? Plus, Simpsons On A Roasting Fire is the very first episode, and as first episodes go, The Simpsons’ actually does a pretty good job of introducing the main family, not to mention a few other key Springfield residents.
Best line: “He’s pathetic! He’s a loser! He’s... a Simpson” – Homer
2. Lisa’s Substitute (season 2, episode 19)
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Dustin Hoffman – under an alias, no less – gave The Simpsons its biggest A-list cameo to date (at that point, at least) when he voiced Lisa’s substitute teacher Mr Bergstrom. He captured both her heart and ours, frankly, and gave the show one of its biggest ever tear-jerking scenes with that “you are Lisa Simpson” moment.
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Best line: “Whenever you feel like you’re alone, and there’s nobody you can rely on, this is all you need to know...” – Mr Bergstrom
3. Homer Alone (season 3, episode 15)
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After two and a half series of putting up with her family’s constant nonsense, Marge finally catches a break in Homer Alone, spending the ultimate self-care weekend at Rancho Relaxo. Homer caring for Maggie is obviously hilarious, as are Bart and Lisa as they spend the weekend with aunts Patty and Selma, but seeing Marge devoting time to herself (calling for a bottle of tequila on room service, no less) is the stuff of Simpsons gold.
Best line: “Woah oh! Someone smells stiiiinky! Oh, it’s me” - Barney Gumble
4. Homer At The Bat (season 3, episode 17)
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Of course, an episode centred around baseball, packed full of cameos that were at the top of their game in *checks notes* 1992, sounds like a tough sell to UK viewers in 2020, but trust is when we say this episode is a must-see. Even if the sports references go totally over your head, it’s worth it for Mr Burns’ coaching and the glorious final scene alone.
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Best line: “We’ll tell you, mom” – Bart, four seconds after Marge asks him to tell her when Homer “stops scratching himself”
5. Black Widower (season 3, episode 21)
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Sideshow Bob makes a string of appearances in The Simpsons (his best is coming later down this list), but Black Widower definitely holds a special place in our hearts. Not only is it chock full of gags – and shudder-worthy moments, thanks to Selma – but there’s also some real tension as Bart races against time to save his beloved(-ish) aunt.
Best line: “After trying four times to explain it to Homer I explained it to mom and we were on our way” – Bart
6. A Streetcar Named Marge (season 4, episode 2)
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The Simpsons always does a superb job with musical numbers, and Oh Streetcar! – their musical theatre version of A Streetcar Named Desire – is a particular stand-out. And while the songs are obviously the highlight of this episode, and Julie Kavner’s resigned performance as Marge is also excellent, we have to give credit to whoever came up with Maggie’s Great Escape-inspired B-story too.
Best line: “I’m sure you won’t enjoy it. There’s nothing about bowling in the play. Oh wait, there is” - Marge
7. Lisa’s First Word (season 4, episode 10)
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The constant rivalry between Bart and Lisa is something anyone with a sibling can relate to, but Lisa’s First Word – the second of the show’s fantastic flashback episodes – is a reminder that there’s a lot of love there too... even if he did once creep into her room and cut all of her hair off. This episode is worth sticking around until the very end for, when none other than Elizabeth Taylor gives Maggie Simpson her first ever word.
Best line: “You know Maggie, the sooner kids learn to talk, the sooner they talk back. I hope you never say a word” – Homer
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8. Marge vs. The Monorail (season 4, episode 12)
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Around The Simpsons’ 30th anniversary last year, we asked around HuffPost staff members for the episode they thought was the most iconic, and this was one that came up more than any others – and there’s a reason for that. Marge vs. The Monorail has got everything you want in a 10/10 Simpsons episode: a top-notch musical number, laugh-out-loud throwaway gags and running jokes, plus a fantastic celebrity cameo (who knew Star Trek’s Leonard Nimoy would become so synonymous with monorails?).
Best line: “I shouldn’t have stopped for that haircut” – Sebastian Cobb
9. Selma’s Choice (season 4, episode 13)
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An episode that kicks off with a family funeral and ends with a trip to Duff Gardens – with an out-of-date sandwich, a cameo from an iguana and even a trippy sequence after Lisa drinks the water on an It’s A Small World-esque boat ride (the birth of the “I am the lizard queen!” meme, no less) all thrown into the mix. Yep, this episode truly is a ride, and who doesn’t love when Patty and Selma are given the opportunity to take centre stage?
Best line: “I’m not pouting. I’m mourning. Stupid dead woman” - Homer
10. I Love Lisa (season 4, episode 15)
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A Valentine’s Day episode that really shows the ups and downs of romance, as we see Lisa giving a card to Ralph Wiggum, only for him to end up falling in love with her. Obviously, her “I choo-choo-choose you” card and the above screenshot are huge Simpsons moments to come from this episode, but on a non-comedic note, it’s always a treat to hear Yeardley Smith playing Lisa in those rare moments she’s struggling with not being in the right.
Best line: “Now for my favorite part of the show! What does that say? ‘Talk to the audience’?! Oh god, this is always death” – Krusty The Klown
11. Last Exit To Springfield (season 4, episode 17)
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Frequently named by fans and critics as the best episode of The Simpsons ever produced, Last Exit To Springfield doesn’t let up for even one second, only stopping the laughs (“Dental plan! Lisa needs braces!”) for heartwarming moments (Lisa’s protest song is still one of our favourite scenes from a character we have no end of love for). From the Big Book Of British Smiles to Homer getting confused over Mr Burns’ “backdoor shenanigans”, it’s hard to pick a favourite moment, and that’s why Last Exit To Springfield is the perfect Simpsons offering for both long-time fans and those who’ve never actually seen an episode before.
Best line: “Smithers, I’m starting to think Homer Simpson is not the brilliant tactician I thought he was” – Mr Burns
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12. Marge In Chains (season 4, episode 21)
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When an outbreak brings Springfield to a standstill (sound familiar?), a misunderstanding leaves a stressed-out Marge in prison for shoplifting. If that first bit sounds a bit “too real”, trust us when we say this episode still brings enough of the laughs to take your mind off the real world for 20 minutes.
Best line: “Where can we get these placebos?” “Maybe there’s some in this truck!!” – The people of Springfield, as they’re struck down by the Osaka flu
13. Cape Feare (season 5, episode 2)
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We’re just going to say it... Cape Feare is the best episode of The Simpsons ever made. There are so many quotable lines and stand-out jokes, ranging from the clever to the totally absurd (“bake ’em away, toys!”, “no one who speaks German could be an evil man”). Which other TV show would spend so much time allowing a minor character to step on not two, not three but nine rakes one after the other, only for them to then deliver an impromptu Gilbert And Sullivan medley? We should also note that the fact the comedy shines so brightly is particularly praise-worthy when you also consider Cape Feare is one of the show’s most sinister offerings ever.
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Best line: Not actually a “line”, but that rake sequence is just perfect, and Kelsey Grammer’s shudder is never not funny.
14. The Last Temptation Of Homer (season 5, episode 9)
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The thought of watching Homer contemplate cheating on his beloved spouse, Marge, doesn’t exactly sound like a laugh-a-minute episode, but it’s done in such a brilliantly Simpsons way (“whatsamatter, Homer? Ain’t you ever seen a naked chick riding a clam before?”), you can’t help but enjoy it. From Marge’s smeared selfie t-shirt to the Barry Manilow interpolation at the very end, The Last Temptation Of Homer delivers on both laughs and heart. Classic Simpsons.
Best line: ”*gasp* So am I!” – Millhouse, responding to Bart’s discovery that he’s a “geek”
15. Lisa’s Rival (season 6, episode 2)
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By the time The Simpsons was in its sixth year, the guest stars were coming in thick and fast, with Winona Ryder doing a great job as Alison, who managed to outdo Lisa in every area she considered herself special. Watching high-achiever Lisa struggling with her new-found sense of inadequacy (“Jeremy’s... iron?”) makes for a really interesting watch, and the fact they both end up being bested by Ralph makes for a really sweet ending.
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Best line: “I always thought I had the tallest hair, but that trip to Graceland really opened my eyes” – Marge
16. Treehouse Of Horror V (season 6, episode 6)
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There’s probably a separate article to be had in the best Treehouse Of Horror specials, when The Simpsons does its yearly Halloween celebration with episodes made up of three shorter stories. This is probably the definitive one, though, thanks largely to the show’s fantastic ode to The Shining. The whole thing is just perfect, with plenty of nods to the classic horror film. The other two stories also bring the laughs (particularly Nightmare Cafeteria, another example of Treehouse Of Horror brilliance), before the finale sees an inside-out version of the family performing a number from A Chorus Line. Naturally.
Best line: “That’s odd. Usually the blood gets off at the second floor” – Mr Burns
17. Fear Of Flying (season 6, episode 11)
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Like Last Exit To Springfield and Cape Feare, Fear Of Flying doesn’t stop for breath, cramming a lot of Simpsons brilliance into the space of 20 minutes. The most effective Simpsons episodes are the ones that take you on a total journey, and that’s exactly what Fear Of Flying manages, opening with Homer searching for a new place for a bevvie (“this lesbian bar doesn’t have a fire exit!”) and ending with Marge moving on from her issues with her father (“you might even say he was an American hero” “let’s not go nuts”).
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Best line: “Sure, I will tell you about father. Father Christmas. That’s what they call Santa Claus in England. They drive on the wrong side of the road there – now that’s crazy! People are always talking about how small England is but you could not fit it all in here. Not by a long shot!” – Marge
18. And Maggie Makes Three (season 6, episode 13)
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If ever you need proof that The Simpsons delivers every bit on the emotional front as it does on the laughs, you can point to the last two minutes of And Maggie Makes Three. We’ve already spoken about how great The Simpsons’ flashback episodes are, and this is yet another triumph from start to finish, but those last moments, where it’s revealed that Homer keeps all of his photos of Maggie at work, are just flawless.
Best line: “I should be resisting this, but I’m paralysed with rage… and island rhythms” – Mr Burns, as Homer plays his head like a bongo
19. Lisa’s Wedding (season 6, episode 19)
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Having perfected the art of the flashback, The Simpsons producers tried something different in their sixth series, setting a story in the future. The episode is hooked around Lisa’s wedding to a rather stuffy British man, Hugh, who she meets – where else? – at the library. The format allowed the show to really play around with minor characters and imagine where they’d be 15 years in the future (a cryogenically-frozen Mr Burns is a particular highlight). Watching Lisa’s Wedding back now also makes for a good unintentional laugh, as the futuristic episode is set... in 2010.
Best line: “Oh, Millhouse doesn’t count” – Marge to Lisa, on why she should still wear white to her wedding
20. Who Shot Mr Burns? (season 6 episode 25 and season 7, episode 1)
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Another case of The Simpsons bringing both comedy and high drama, with this light-hearted take on Who Shot J.R.?, the show played with the idea of a two-part episode for the first time. By leaving viewers to believe that anyone in Springfield could have been responsible for Mr Burns’ shooting, the writers created a genuinely suspenseful cliffhanger, and precisely no one could have predicted who the culprit would actually turn out to be...
Best line: “The town’s sundial will be useless” – Smithers tries to convince Mr Burns against blocking out the sun
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21. Lisa The Vegetarian (season 7, episode 5)
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In exchange for appearing on the show, Paul and Linda McCartney made it a condition that Lisa would remain a vegetarian for the rest of the show, and producers have stayed true to their word. This episode explores the origins of Lisa’s vegetarianism via some very cute farm animals, a conga line and, of course, a suckling pig flying over Springfield, set to the former Beatle’s hit Maybe I’m Amazed.
Best line: “I’m sorry, honey, I just got swept up on the rhythm” – Marge, after chanting “you don’t win friends with salad” with Homer and Bart
22. King-Size Homer (season 7, episode 7)
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King-Size Homer has a fairly simple (though not entirely PC) premise, with Homer deciding to deliberately gain 61lbs so he can register as disabled and therefore work from home. The plan goes about as well as you’d think, but the episode did give us some of the most quotable Simpsons lines ever (“Let me have my dignity, I just want to watch Honk If You’re Horny in peace” and “I’m washing my fat guy hat” being just two of our faves), not to mention a truly iconic outfit in Homer’s muumuu. Homer grappling with his oh-so-90s computer is also a stroke of genius, even if it isn’t the most up-to-date humour in 2020.
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Best line: “I wish I had my reaching broom” – Homer
23. Scenes From The Class Struggle In Springfield (season 7, episode 14)
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And speaking of iconic Simpsons outfits, can we please just take a moment to appreciate Marge in her Chanel suit? Yes, Scenes From The Class Struggle In Springfield is essentially a 20-minute love letter to Marge in this suit, but seeing her come into her own only to end up flying too close to the sun (that scene where she yells at Lisa is particularly heartbreaking) before finally coming to her senses is honestly more compelling than you’d imagine.
Best line: “I hope she didn’t take my attempts to destroy her too seriously” – Marge’s snooty new friend Susan
24. A Fish Called Selma (season 7, episode 19)
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We’re not sure what was happening in season seven, but The Simpsons seemed determined to give their staple characters makeovers, with “movie star Selma” being among the best. The late Phil Hartman truly owns this episode as Troy McClure, who seems chipper on the surface (not least during the legendary Planet Of The Apes musical sequence) but is apparently hiding a dark – and, indeed, fishy – secret.
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Best line: “That’s too funny! I can’t remember when I’ve heard a funnier anecdote! Okay, now you tell one” – Troy McClure
25. Bart On The Road (season 7, episode 20)
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Bart’s roadtrip with fan-favourite characters Millhouse, Martin and Nelson allows for some excellent moments, including the group picking up a hitch-hiker, seeing Andy Williams and, of course, trying on some wigs. We have to say, though, Bart On The Road is a great example of Lisa stealing the show even when she’s not involved in the main storyline, with her bonding session with Homer proving every bit as watchable as the central plot.
Best line: “This has purple stuff inside. Purple is a fruit” - Homer
26. Summer Of 4 ft. 2 (season 7, episode 25)
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But seriously, if we’re going to talk about season seven make-overs, then Lisa in Summer Of 4 ft. 2 wins out. Given the opportunity to reinvent herself on summer holiday, the episode sees Lisa finally discover some friends who get her, outshining Bart for the first time, and bringing hope to outsiders everywhere in the process.
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Best line: “Like y’know, whatever” – Lisa
27. You Only Move Twice (season 8, episode 2)
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You Only Move Twice is The Simpsons at its absolute zaniest, and with the fast-talking charmer (and apparent supervillain) Hank Scorpio, the show found one of its greatest ever one-time characters, complete with his very own Bond theme over the closing credits.
Best line: “I’ve been so bored since we moved here, I found myself drinking a glass of wine every day. I know doctors say you should drink a glass and a half, but I just can’t drink that much” – Marge
28. Bart After Dark (season 8, episode 5)
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There’s a lot we could say about this episode, but let’s just leave it at We Put The Springfield and call it a day. Seriously, what a number.
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Best line: “Why Joseph, I had no idea” “Come on now, you were working here” – Mayor Quimby and his wife have it out in song form
29. Simpsoncalifragilisticexpiala(Annoyed Grunt)cious (season 8, episode 13)
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The Simpsons had flirted with Disney parodies before this episode – most notably in the musical number See My Vest and in various explorations of the Itchy And Scratchy franchise – but this marked the first time the show ever devoted an entire episode to one. And what an episode this is, with Sherri Bobbins providing a string of toe-tapping musical numbers and bringing some cheer to Springfield. When The Simpsons start to drag her down, off she flies on her umbrella (before meeting a very un-Disney end). And how brilliant that this episode has ended up on Disney+, of all places.
Best line: “I’ve been singing you songs all day, I’m not a bloody jukebox, you know” – Sherri Bobbins
30. Homer’s Enemy (season 8, episode 23)
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In this season eight offering, the show pondered the unthinkable question “what would it actually be like to have Homer Simpson in your life?”, and wasn’t afraid to show just how unpleasant a reality that would be. This episode (in particular its ending) is a lot darker than many past Simpsons episode, and is a divisive one among both fans and the show’s cast and crew, which is why it’s essential viewing, even if it ends up not being to your particular taste.
Best line: “Hmmm... Nitzy....?” – Marge, unafraid to settle when it comes to her personalised number plate.
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Over 70s On Self-Isolation: 'I Don't Want To Get The Virus – But I Won't Be Locking Myself Away Either'

“Would you be locked away in your house for months?” asks Isolene Williams, 91.
“On a normal day, I wouldn’t even go for week without going out on the street. I have to go and get fresh air.
“I don’t want to pick up the germs but I won’t be locking myself away.”
Williams has a long-term health condition. On paper, she is exactly who the government has asked to self-isolate for 12 weeks to minimise the risk of catching coronavirus.
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But like many over-70s with underlying health risks – a group asked this week to shut themselves away – she will not be following government advice to the letter.
During an interview on The Marr Show on Sunday, health minister Matt Hancock said people over 70 would soon be asked to stay at home for up to four months to protect themselves from the risk of contracting coronavirus.
The move would be “a very big ask”, he added.
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But it sparked outcry from many who fall in that age bracket, who argued that the move was impractical and effectively “singled out” older people, regardless of considerations around their individual health.
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It then emerged on Monday that UK government advice is for people aged 70 or older with underlying health conditions to self-isolate – and those who don’t to be “particularly stringent” in following social distancing measures.
Put simply, those who have existing medical conditions shouldn’t come into contact with others at all, while healthy over 70s should reduce social contact.
HuffPost UK spoke to people aged 70 and above who shared their views on the guidance and what their personal practice will entail.
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Williams says she will now avoid crowded places and bus journeys. And, though she generally doesn’t embark on big shopping trips due to an inability to carry bags, she will continue to go to the supermarket for groceries should the need arise.
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She does, though, plan to be careful.
“I won’t be standing behind anybody and nobody will be standing behind me. If anyone sees me out on the street and comes up to me, I’ll ask them to stand back and not come too close. We can talk from a short distance.
“If they ask why, I’ll explain that I am vulnerable which they’ll understand as that’s what we’re being told to do.”
She added: “But as for staying in for 12 weeks - the government can do better. If they did the right thing and dealt with this after the first person was diagnosed with the virus, it wouldn’t be spreading how it is now.
“Boris Johnson wasn’t doing what he was supposed to and still isn’t. They should be doing more than telling people to wash their hands!”
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Seventy-year-old author and broadcaster Christian Wolmar lives a very active lifestyle that involves jogging up to four times a week.
A regular contributor to Talk Radio, he regularly undertakes speaking engagements, works in studios and writes books.
Though Wolmar is mindful of the gravity of coronavirus outbreak, he plans to “keep calm and carry on”.
“Work is vital for mental health and paying for life’s necessities and pleasures,” he told HuffPost UK.
“I’m just as engaged now as I was when I was 50, when I first went freelance. It would be very disheartening if I wasn’t able to engaged in my work as it’s one of the things that keeps me young and healthy. I treat my job now as I did 20 years ago.”
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He added: “Of course, if I got any symptoms I would stay at home. But other than that I certainly won’t stay indoors for four months. In any case, all my meetings seem to have been cancelled. I’ll keep working because I get paid to, I like it and I would like to stay employed.
“Of course there is some risk – relatively limited – as I’ll be in contact with people, but it’s a part of my job.”
On the confusion around government advice, Wolmar – a former Labour politician – said there appeared to have been a u-turn on policy earlier this week.
“The government did change their tune. Originally Matt Hancock said that on Sunday that the idea was to self-isolate over 70s but, then, by the time it emerged as a policy, they had softened.
“That highlights the terrible way in which a lot of these things have been communicated in that they’re dribbled out, there’s a discussion, the policy comes out – and it seems they haven’t got their messages straight.
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“There was a danger of categorising older people as thought everybody is in a zimmerframe and ready to pop their clogs. It implied that over-70s were, of themselves, a special group whereas I’m arguing that it depends on a lot of other factors, as to whether they should self-isolate.”
A person wearing a full face mask in King's Cross underground station in London after NHS England announced that the coronavirus death toll had reached 104 in the UK. PA
Neil Brown, 72, from Warwickshire, will self-isolate apart from once a week when he will visit his 37-year-old daughter in a Birmingham independent living facility where she gets 24-hour care.
“I can self-isolate apart from once a week and I think that is probably satisfactory because I’m not going to meet anybody, be in contact with anyone, driving the 15 miles in the car,” he said.
“When I get to where my daughter is, I will keep away from the care workers, get my daughter into the car and take her out for a while – then bring her back and then self-isolate from home again. I don’t have a problem with that.”
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Like Wolmar, Brown fully supports the government’s guidance but will bend the rules if necessary.
″I see where the government are coming from with the advice to self-isolate but if you’re over 70, fit and healthy, you might have the immune system of somebody much younger and the choice is theirs isn’t it? If they want to go out, they go out.
“My choice is to see my daughter, maybe opt for online shopping, but if the system facility is not there, I’ll go in my car and go into the supermarket.
“I’m not going to 100% isolate myself. I’ll do essential journeys, which is what the government have said, I think.”


thehuffingtonpostuk--2020-03-22--'My Closest Friend And A True Ally': Why We're Celebrating Drag Mothers Today

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There is no one quite like a drag mother. A mentor, friend and ally, she’s the glamorous matriarch of any drag family – a close-knit support network of drag queens and performers. She’s generally a more experienced queen with a formidable reputation on the LGBTQ scene who nurtures her coterie of drag daughters – and on Mother’s Day, she too deserves to be celebrated.
“To be a good drag child you have to be respectful and listen to those who came before you,” says London-based DJ and performer Raven Mandella. “It’s literally the same way I respect my birth mother.”
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Raven is both a drag mother and daughter. When she relocated from Leeds in 2013, she entered a drag competition where she was mentored by Mzz Kimberly, a highly respected trans performer and activist. Their relationship continued to blossom after the competition as Mzz Kimberley helped Raven to “develop and grow as a performer by giving me advice and work opportunities when they arose”. Raven says she now considers Mzz Kimberley “one of my closest friends and a true ally”, adding passionately: “I have the utmost respect and admiration for her. She’s a warrior, and she’ll always be my mother who I hold in the highest regard.”
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The relationship between drag mother and daughter is a particularly heartwarming example of the so-called “chosen family”. This concept, which will be familiar to fans of RuPaul’s Drag Race, is predicated on the idea that LGBTQ people can form their own family groups away from biological relatives who may not fully understand – or even support – their way of life. “My relationship with Raven is 100% about trust, respect and unconditional love,” says Mzz Kimberley. “It’s been the greatest thrill watching my drag daughter grow into an even more amazing person. Being able to support and be supported is what family is all about. And sharing my experiences is what keeps our family bond strong.”
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Mzz Kimberley prides herself on helping her drag daughter to navigate the world with confidence and conviction – just like any mother figure. “She always reminds me to value myself and my own personal worth,” says Raven. “Sometimes businesses can try to take advantage of artists, and knowing your worth can be an inconvenience to them. But if I’ve ever had to make the decision to step away from an opportunity because I’ve felt like I’ve not been valued, she’s always there to remind me I’m doing the right thing by standing strong and believing in myself.”
As Raven’s own reputation grew, she realised she could pay it forward and offer emerging drag queens the same guidance and advice that Mzz Kimberley gives to her. She says she was especially motivated to become a drag mother because, when she arrived in London, “there were hardly any drag queens of colour on the scene”. Raven now has two drag daughters, Asttina Mandella and Brandy X Mandella, who’ve adopted her surname as members of the “House of Mandella”, a kind of burgeoning drag dynasty. LA-raised Brandy first became friends with Raven when she visited London in 2014, but their relationship deepened when she decided to make the UK her permanent home.
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“Visiting was one thing, but living here I realised I’d have to start over from the bottom up,” Brandy recalls. “I was now in a new country working on a different nightlife scene. Raven immediately took me under her wing and asked me to work as a backing dancer at her amazing Prince tribute night.” Six years after they first met, Brandy says they enjoy a “typical” mother–daughter relationship: “She loves me unconditionally, but with love comes discipline.”
That’s because a drag daughter often feels a responsibility to maintain her drag mother’s high standards. “In our house culture we get to choose our family and that to me is very special,” Brandy explains. “I’m honoured to be Raven’s daughter and I’m very thankful to be given the opportunity to become an important member of the LGBTQ nightlife scene. I wouldn’t be where I am without her and for that I’m forever grateful.”
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Other drag mother-daughter relationships are more informal, but no less loving. Marsha Mallow says that when she first saw Miss Jason on stage at a south London gay venue, she was “in awe of her sense of humour” and the way “she knew how to have fun with the crowd at both their expense and hers”. But when Marsha asked Miss Jason to become her drag mother, the more experienced queen replied self-deprecatingly: “Darling, I can’t even sort myself out!”
Still, their mother-daughter relationship blossomed over time anyway. Marsha says that after gigs she and Miss Jason like to “get together and put the world to rights”. It sounds as though their relationship has a lovely conspiratorial quality, but one that’s grounded in real support. Marsha adds: “Miss Jason now says to me, ’Listen to mumsy dear, and everything will be fine,” and actually it always has been.” For her part, Miss Jason says that being a drag mother is “the most wonderful thing and a privilege” because she gets to “pass my experience on to this talented young person that I love and admire”. She also says she’s grateful to mentor someone like Marsha who has “such a belief in continuing the great tradition of drag”.
“Having a mother you can relate to and who’s gone through the same trials as yourself can be invaluable and at times a matter of life or death.”” - Drag queen Raven Mandella