mercurynews--2020-10-10--Five ways the afterhought Raiders can upset the Chiefs at Arrowhead Stadium

The Raiders are an afterthought in Kansas City , and for good reason .
As quarterback Derek Carr noted with candor this week , it takes two to make a rivalry and the Raiders haven ’ t held up their end , especially at Arrowhead Stadium .
The Chiefs are coming off a Super Bowl championship , are 4-0 and destined for another AFC West title .
The Raiders have lost two straight , are 2-2 , and their season could go either way with a long list of injuries and a leaky defense .
Under coach Andy Reid , @ @ @ @ @ @ @ and 6-0 at Arrowhead Stadium since 2013 , outscoring their alleged rival 176-70 in Kansas City .
Since his return to coaching , Jon Gruden is 0-4 against the Chiefs , coming within 40-33 the first time they played but outscored 103-20 in the last three games .
So it ’ s no wonder the Raiders are 12-point underdogs , a whopping margin by NFL standards and the second biggest point spread this week behind Cincinnati ( plus 13 1/2 ) against Baltimore .
But Chiefs players have a lot on their mind @ @ @ @ @ @ @ necessarily atop their list of priorities .
They are coming off a 26-10 win over New England , after which the Patriots ’ Stephon Gilmore tested positive for COVID-19 .
Gilmore interacted with several players after the game , including quarterback Patrick Mahomes , the Chiefs ’ $ 503 million man .
One of the Chiefs ’ practice squad players , quarterback Jordan Ta ’ amu , is on the COVID-19 list and presumably has interacted with Mahomes on some level as they play the same position .
When Mahomes did his video @ @ @ @ @ @ @ he spent most of the time talking about the coronavirus .
The Raiders were barely mentioned .
While the Raiders follow the Chiefs with a bye week , Kansas City has a Thursday night game coming up against Buffalo , which is currently unbeaten at 4-0 .
Keep in mind that while the Chiefs are formidable , and cemented their status with a convincing Week 3 win over Baltimore , they were fortunate to beat the Los Angeles Chargers in Week 2 and were more workman-like than spectacular against New England , which @ @ @ @ @ @ @ at quarterback in place of Cam Newton .
This isn ’ t the usual December game at Arrowhead where the weather is frigid and the Chiefs are grinding toward a playoff berth .
If the Raiders are to break through at their least favorite venue , there ’ s no time like the present .
“ Kansas City is for real .
They are the defending world champions , ” Gruden said .
“ I think every starter is returning for the most part .
Very uncommon feat , winning a championship and @ @ @ @ @ @ @ it would mean a lot.
” Five ways in which the Raiders could beat the Chiefs and snap their losing streak at Arrowhead Stadium at seven : Carr has done some good things against the Chiefs , just not at Arrowhead Stadium .
He ’ s going in with the best supporting cast he ’ s had with the possible exception of 2016 , and he ’ s not doing it in December like usual .
“ He can wing it , ” Chiefs coach Andy Reid said .
“ We ’ ve @ @ @ @ @ @ @ The Raiders will be better off , of course , if Carr is winging it about the same ratio as Josh Jacobs and Co. are running it .
While the Chiefs can score from anywhere , favorable down and distance en route to the end zone is what feeds the beast for the Raiders .
2 .
The defense steps up — with minimal blitzing The masses would have you believe the Raiders should send the house at Mahomes to disrupt the rhythm of the NFL ’ s most explosve passer .
And @ @ @ @ @ @ @ have blitzed more of late to try and bring more pressure .
One problem .
Mahomes does some of his best work in chaotic situations , and he has begun to acquire a trait common to truly great quarterbacks .
You blitz , you pay .
“ Mahomes sees the blitz and he has the quickest trigger in the league , probably , ” Gruden said .
“ He knows how to buy time and they have some great audibles that defeat the blitz.
” It ’ s not that the Chiefs can @ @ @ @ @ @ @ .
The have and they will .
But better to play top down coverage , keep receivers in front and make them work for the end zone .
3 .
Henry Ruggs III , and not Tyreek Hill , changes the game The Raiders drafted Henry Ruggs IIII with the thought of having their very own Tyreek Hill , a wide receiver with gamebreaking speed who can sprint past the defense or take a bubble screen or jet sweep to the house .
Ruggs should be back after missing two games with a @ @ @ @ @ @ @ a lot of practice .
Hill is at full speed and has caught a touchdown pass in each of the Chiefs ’ four games .
But if the Raiders want to flip the script , then dialing up a big play for Ruggs while at the same time keeping Hill out of the end zone would mean a lot .
The Raiders most important defender may be Jacobs .
If Jacobs carries 25 times and breaks 100 yards , Mahomes will spend a lot of time on the sideline where he can ’ @ @ @ @ @ @ @ for Darren Waller , Hunter Renfrow and whoever else Carr is looking for on third-and-reasonable .
As for the takeaways , the Raiders have just two in four games — interceptions by Nicholas Morrow and Johnathan Abram .
They ’ ll need at least two more to beat the Chiefs , while at the same time taking care of the ball themselves .
Gruden is aghast at the minus-9 disadvantage in turnover margin in the four games against the Chiefs since he ’ s come back to the sideline .
It ’ s @ @ @ @ @ @ @ friend , needs that much help .
5 .
Daniel Carlson calls on his inner Seabass If the Raiders are going to beat the Chiefs , chances are it will be close and it could come down to a field goal .
Daniel Carlson is 9-for-10 on field goal attempts in four games and has buried three kicks from 54 yards .
He had two of 50-plus all of last season .
So Gruden trusts him to dial long distance .
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In his Raiders career , Janikowski missed a @ @ @ @ @ @ @ rookie before kicking a game winner .
He went on to convert 32 of 36 attempts for his career and broke the hearts of the Chiefs more than once .
When Chiefs tight end Tony Gonazlez talked to Bay Area reporters by conference call after he ’ d moved on to Atlanta , he said his most vivid memory of Chiefs-Raiders was Janikowski beating Kansas City with field goals .
If the Raiders hope to make it a rivalry again , a little nostalgia never hurt anyone .

The Raiders are an afterthought in Kansas City, and for good reason.
As quarterback Derek Carr noted with candor this week, it takes two to make a rivalry and the Raiders haven’t held up their end, especially at Arrowhead Stadium.
The Chiefs are coming off a Super Bowl championship, are 4-0 and destined for another AFC West title. The Raiders have lost two straight, are 2-2, and their season could go either way with a long list of injuries and a leaky defense.
Under coach Andy Reid, the Chiefs are 10-2 against the Raiders and 6-0 at Arrowhead Stadium since 2013, outscoring their alleged rival 176-70 in Kansas City. Since his return to coaching, Jon Gruden is 0-4 against the Chiefs, coming within 40-33 the first time they played but outscored 103-20 in the last three games.
So it’s no wonder the Raiders are 12-point underdogs, a whopping margin by NFL standards and the second biggest point spread this week behind Cincinnati (plus 13 1/2) against Baltimore.
But Chiefs players have a lot on their mind, and the Raiders aren’t necessarily atop their list of priorities. They are coming off a 26-10 win over New England, after which the Patriots’ Stephon Gilmore tested positive for COVID-19. Gilmore interacted with several players after the game, including quarterback Patrick Mahomes, the Chiefs’ $503 million man.
One of the Chiefs’ practice squad players, quarterback Jordan Ta’amu, is on the COVID-19 list and presumably has interacted with Mahomes on some level as they play the same position.
When Mahomes did his video teleconference with the media this week, he spent most of the time talking about the coronavirus. The Raiders were barely mentioned.
While the Raiders follow the Chiefs with a bye week, Kansas City has a Thursday night game coming up against Buffalo, which is currently unbeaten at 4-0.
Keep in mind that while the Chiefs are formidable, and cemented their status with a convincing Week 3 win over Baltimore, they were fortunate to beat the Los Angeles Chargers in Week 2 and were more workman-like than spectacular against New England, which was using Brian Hoyer and Jarrett Stidham at quarterback in place of Cam Newton.
This isn’t the usual December game at Arrowhead where the weather is frigid and the Chiefs are grinding toward a playoff berth. If the Raiders are to break through at their least favorite venue, there’s no time like the present.
“Kansas City is for real. They are the defending world champions,” Gruden said. “I think every starter is returning for the most part. Very uncommon feat, winning a championship and returning the entire squad. Yeah, it would mean a lot.”
Five ways in which the Raiders could beat the Chiefs and snap their losing streak at Arrowhead Stadium at seven:
1. The sun shines on Derek Carr
Carr has done some good things against the Chiefs, just not at Arrowhead Stadium. He’s going in with the best supporting cast he’s had with the possible exception of 2016, and he’s not doing it in December as usual.
“He can wing it,” Chiefs coach Andy Reid said. “We’ve got to be on our toes.”
The Raiders will be better off, of course, if Carr is winging it about the same ratio as Josh Jacobs and Co. are running it. While the Chiefs can score from anywhere, favorable down and distance en route to the end zone is what feeds the beast for the Raiders.
2. The defense steps up — with minimal blitzing
The masses would have you believe the Raiders should send the house at Mahomes to disrupt the rhythm of the NFL’s most explosive passer. And defensive coordinator Paul Guenther noted the Raiders have blitzed more of late to try and bring more pressure.
One problem. Mahomes does some of his best work in chaotic situations, and he has begun to acquire a trait common to truly great quarterbacks. You blitz, you pay.
“Mahomes sees the blitz and he has the quickest trigger in the league, probably,” Gruden said. “He knows how to buy time and they have some great audibles that defeat the blitz.”
It’s not that the Chiefs can’t grind out a long drive. They have and they will. But better to play top-down coverage, keep receivers in front and make them work for the end zone.
3. Henry Ruggs III, and not Tyreek Hill, changes the game
The Raiders drafted Henry Ruggs IIII with the thought of having their very own Tyreek Hill, a wide receiver with game-breaking speed who can sprint past the defense or take a bubble screen or jet sweep to the house.
Ruggs should be back after missing two games with a hamstring injury. He’s missed a lot of practice. Hill is at full speed and has caught a touchdown pass in each of the Chiefs’ four games.
But if the Raiders want to flip the script, then dialing up a big play for Ruggs while at the same time keeping Hill out of the end zone would mean a lot.
4. The Raiders play keep-away and takeaway
The Raiders most important defender may be Jacobs. If Jacobs carries 25 times and breaks 100 yards, Mahomes will spend a lot of time on the sideline where he can’t do any damage.
Same goes for Darren Waller, Hunter Renfrow and whoever else Carr is looking for on third-and-reasonable.
As for the takeaways, the Raiders have just two in four games — interceptions by Nicholas Morrow and Johnathan Abram. They’ll need at least two more to beat the Chiefs, while at the same time taking care of the ball themselves.
Gruden is aghast at the minus-9 disadvantage in turnover margin in the four games against the Chiefs since he’s come back to the sideline. It’s not as if Reid, a longtime friend, needs that much help.
5. Daniel Carlson calls on his inner Seabass
If the Raiders are going to beat the Chiefs, chances are it will be close and it could come down to a field goal.
Daniel Carlson is 9-for-10 on field-goal attempts in four games and has buried three kicks from 54 yards. He had two of 50-plus all of last season. So Gruden trusts him to dial long distance.
Much like he did with Sebastian Janikowski, to whom Arrowhead Stadium was his second home. In his Raiders career, Janikowski missed a pair of field-goal attempts as a rookie before kicking a game-winner. He went on to convert 32 of 36 attempts for his career and broke the hearts of the Chiefs more than once.
When Chiefs tight end Tony Gonazlez talked to Bay Area reporters by conference call after he’d moved on to Atlanta, he said his most vivid memory of Chiefs-Raiders was Janikowski beating Kansas City with field goals.
If the Raiders hope to make it a rivalry again, a little nostalgia never hurt anyone.


Word Game: Oct. 10, 2020

Can you find 45 or more words in DERANGE ?
The list will be published Monday .
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1 .
@ @ @ @ @ or more letters .
2 .
Words that acquire four letters by the addition of @ @ @ @ @ as “ bats ” or “ dies , ” are not allowed .
3 .
@ @ @ @ @ a “ d ” or an “ s ” may not be used .
For @ @ @ @ @ ” is used , “ baked ” or “ bakes ” are not allowed , @ @ @ @ @ “ baking ” are admissible .
4 .
Proper nouns , slang words , or @ @ @ @ @ are not allowed .

TODAY’S WORD — DERANGE (DERANGE: dih-RAYNJ: To disturb mentally.)
Average mark 32 words
Time limit 40 minutes
Can you find 45 or more words in DERANGE? The list will be published Monday.
YESTERDAY’S WORD — DECLIVITY deity deli delict devil dice dicey diel diet
dive edict edit elicit evict evil cite city civet civil levity levy lice licit lied live livid
iced icily idle idly ivied veil vice vied vile telic tide tidily tidy tied tilde tile yeti yield
To purchase the Word Game book, visit WordGameBooks.com. Order it now for just $5 while supplies last!
RULES OF THE GAME:
1. Words must be of four or more letters.
2. Words that acquire four letters by the addition of “s,” such as “bats” or “dies,” are not allowed.
3. Additional words made by adding a “d” or an “s” may not be used. For example, if “bake” is used, “baked” or “bakes” are not allowed, but “bake” and “baking” are admissible.
4. Proper nouns, slang words, or vulgar or sexually explicit words are not allowed.
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mercurynews--2020-10-10--Horoscopes Oct. 10, 2020: Mario Lopez and Nora Roberts share advice

Happy Birthday : Face facts , make adjustments and prepare to move forward .
Stop putting up with situations that are uncertain , tense or stressful .
Take action , and revamp your lifestyle to encourage a healthier , happier outcome .
Anger and frustration will drag you down , but taking the initiative to enforce adjustments that enrich your life will boost your morale and encourage success .
Your numbers are 9 , 14 , 24 , 26 , 31 , 35 , 48 .
ARIES ( March 21-April 19 ) : Take a moment before you react .
@ @ @ @ @ @ @ if you let your temper or emotions take over .
Pour your energy into something you are passionate about , and the results you get will be rewarding .
2 stars TAURUS ( April 20-May 20 ) : A change is in your best interest .
Whether at work or home , taking a different approach will be mentally stimulating and bring good results .
Jump at a chance to pursue a romantic encounter with someone you love .
4 stars GEMINI ( May 21-June 20 ) : Slow down , and give @ @ @ @ @ @ @ s going on around you .
Look for the truth , gather the facts and reflect on the past .
Don ’ t share your secrets or opinions with anyone who may use the information against you .
4 stars CANCER ( June 21-July 22 ) : Use your intelligence , and abide by the rules .
A creative idea you have will turn out to be lucrative as well as enjoyable .
A change will encourage you to spend more time with someone special .
Romance is favored .
3 stars LEO @ @ @ @ @ @ @ matters through before you blurt out how you feel .
Protect against being judged by someone who can influence your livelihood or your reputation .
It ’ s vital to keep secrets , especially when they can upset your social standing .
3 stars VIRGO ( Aug. 23-Sept. 22 ) : Speak up , get involved and do your best to do what ’ s right .
Your participation in a cause or your community will offer insight into your neighbors , worthwhile programs and exciting people who share your concerns .
Romance @ @ @ @ @ @ @ LIBRA ( Sept. 23-Oct. 22 ) : A discussion will lead to an unexpected change .
Don ’ t let anger set in , or you ’ ll make a mistake .
Consider your options , and do what ’ s best for you .
Now is not the time to give in to someone who takes advantage of you .
2 stars SCORPIO ( Oct. 23-Nov. 21 ) : It ’ s up to you to use what ’ s available .
Timing will be critical , and to act too quickly @ @ @ @ @ @ @ .
Watch what ’ s going on around you , and execute your plan with precision .
Romance is favored .
5 stars SAGITTARIUS ( Nov. 22-Dec. 21 ) : Take action .
If you want something done , do it yourself .
Don ’ t count on others to help , or you ’ ll be disappointed .
Set your mind on your goal , and don ’ t stop until you get the results you want .
Avoid temptation and excess .
3 stars CAPRICORN ( Dec. 22-Jan. 19 ) : @ @ @ @ @ @ @ put your plans in motion .
A change should have a positive impact on your expenses .
A more efficient home will help to lower your overhead .
Not everyone will like your plans .
Don ’ t argue over something inconsequential .
3 stars AQUARIUS ( Jan. 20-Feb. 18 ) : Work hard , play hard and get things done on time .
Don ’ t worry about the changes others make .
Look out for your interests , and do what ’ s best for you .
Shared expenses or ventures @ @ @ @ @ @ @ your own thing .
3 stars PISCES ( Feb. 19-March 20 ) : Get involved in something that motivates you to be a better person .
Surround yourself with people who bring out the best in you and push you to grow .
A love relationship will take a favorable turn .
Partnerships are favored .
5 stars Birthday Baby : You are opportunistic , hardworking and dedicated .
You are energetic and elaborate .

CELEBRITIES BORN ON THIS DAY: Jodi Lyn O’Keefe, 42; Mario Lopez, 47; Wendi McLendon-Covey, 51; Nora Roberts, 70.
Happy Birthday: Face facts, make adjustments and prepare to move forward. Stop putting up with situations that are uncertain, tense or stressful. Take action, and revamp your lifestyle to encourage a healthier, happier outcome. Anger and frustration will drag you down, but taking the initiative to enforce adjustments that enrich your life will boost your morale and encourage success. Your numbers are 9, 14, 24, 26, 31, 35, 48.
ARIES (March 21-April 19): Take a moment before you react. Remain calm, and consider the consequences if you let your temper or emotions take over. Pour your energy into something you are passionate about, and the results you get will be rewarding. 2 stars
TAURUS (April 20-May 20): A change is in your best interest. Whether at work or home, taking a different approach will be mentally stimulating and bring good results. Jump at a chance to pursue a romantic encounter with someone you love. 4 stars
GEMINI (May 21-June 20): Slow down, and give yourself a chance to digest what’s going on around you. Look for the truth, gather the facts and reflect on the past. Don’t share your secrets or opinions with anyone who may use the information against you. 4 stars
CANCER (June 21-July 22): Use your intelligence, and abide by the rules. A creative idea you have will turn out to be lucrative as well as enjoyable. A change will encourage you to spend more time with someone special. Romance is favored. 3 stars
LEO (July 23-Aug. 22): Think matters through before you blurt out how you feel. Protect against being judged by someone who can influence your livelihood or your reputation. It’s vital to keep secrets, especially when they can upset your social standing. 3 stars
VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22): Speak up, get involved and do your best to do what’s right. Your participation in a cause or your community will offer insight into your neighbors, worthwhile programs and exciting people who share your concerns. Romance is on the rise. 4 stars
LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 22): A discussion will lead to an unexpected change. Don’t let anger set in, or you’ll make a mistake. Consider your options, and do what’s best for you. Now is not the time to give in to someone who takes advantage of you. 2 stars
SCORPIO (Oct. 23-Nov. 21): It’s up to you to use what’s available. Timing will be critical, and to act too quickly or too slowly will work against you. Watch what’s going on around you, and execute your plan with precision. Romance is favored. 5 stars
SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22-Dec. 21): Take action. If you want something done, do it yourself. Don’t count on others to help, or you’ll be disappointed. Set your mind on your goal, and don’t stop until you get the results you want. Avoid temptation and excess. 3 stars
CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19): Speak up, share your intentions and put your plans in motion. A change should have a positive impact on your expenses. A more efficient home will help to lower your overhead. Not everyone will like your plans. Don’t argue over something inconsequential. 3 stars
AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 18): Work hard, play hard and get things done on time. Don’t worry about the changes others make. Look out for your interests, and do what’s best for you. Shared expenses or ventures will lead to an argument. Do your own thing. 3 stars
PISCES (Feb. 19-March 20): Get involved in something that motivates you to be a better person. Surround yourself with people who bring out the best in you and push you to grow. A love relationship will take a favorable turn. Partnerships are favored. 5 stars
Birthday Baby: You are opportunistic, hardworking and dedicated. You are energetic and elaborate.
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Bridge: Oct. 10, 2020

“ That Cy is so lazy , ” Rose sighed to me .
“ If he died and was destined for heaven , he would want heaven to send somebody to pick him up.
” Cy the Cynic never considers his play as declarer .
He seizes on the first line he sees .
“ Avoids wear and tear on the brain , ” Cy insists .
As today ’ s South , Cy opened two clubs — I would have settled for one diamond — then rebid a lusty 2NT .
North had just enough to raise to 3NT @ @ @ @ @ @ @ clubs , Cy took the queen and fired back the king to set up his ninth trick .
Alas for the Cynic , West took the ace and exited with a diamond , giving away nothing .
Cy ran his diamonds , but the defenders discarded carefully , and Cy won only eight tricks .
Cy ’ s haste was his downfall .
After he wins Trick One , he must take the A-K of diamonds , then lead the king of clubs .
When West wins , he must give dummy the @ @ @ @ @ @ @ or spades , letting Cy win an extra trick in a major suit and nine tricks in all .
You hold : S K 9 4 H Q 8 3 D 10 3 C A 10 9 8 3 .
Your partner opens one diamond , you respond 1NT and he next bids two hearts .
What do you say ?
ANSWER : Your partner has “ reversed ” the normal order of showing two long suits — higher-ranking first — and so promises a strong hand .
You must not pass ; @ @ @ @ @ @ @ have stoppers in the other two suits but lack strong support for diamonds or hearts , bid 2NT and await your partner ’ s next bid .

“That Cy is so lazy,” Rose sighed to me. “If he died and was destined for heaven, he would want heaven to send somebody to pick him up.”
Cy the Cynic never considers his play as declarer. He seizes on the first line he sees.
“Avoids wear and tear on the brain,” Cy insists.
As today’s South, Cy opened two clubs — I would have settled for one diamond — then rebid a lusty 2NT. North had just enough to raise to 3NT. When West led the ten of clubs, Cy took the queen and fired back the king to set up his ninth trick.
EIGHT TRICKS
Alas for the Cynic, West took the ace and exited with a diamond, giving away nothing. Cy ran his diamonds, but the defenders discarded carefully, and Cy won only eight tricks.
Cy’s haste was his downfall. After he wins Trick One, he must take the A-K of diamonds, then lead the king of clubs. When West wins, he must give dummy the jack of clubs or break the hearts or spades, letting Cy win an extra trick in a major suit and nine tricks in all.
DAILY QUESTION
You hold: S K 9 4 H Q 8 3 D 10 3 C A 10 9 8 3. Your partner opens one diamond, you respond 1NT and he next bids two hearts. What do you say?
ANSWER: Your partner has “reversed” the normal order of showing two long suits — higher-ranking first — and so promises a strong hand. You must not pass; his bid is forcing. Since you have stoppers in the other two suits but lack strong support for diamonds or hearts, bid 2NT and await your partner’s next bid.
South dealer
N-S vulnerable
NORTH
S Q 7 3 2
H J 10 4
D 5 4 2
C J 6 4
WEST
S K 9 4
H Q 8 3
D 10 3
C A 10 9 8 3
EAST
S A 10 8 5
H K 9 7 5
D 9 7
C 7 5 2
SOUTH
S J 6
H A 6 2
D A K Q J 8 6
C K Q
South West North East
2 C(!) Pass 2 D Pass
2 NT(!) Pass 3 NT All Pass
Opening lead — C 10
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mercurynews--2020-10-10--Ask Amy: The bride excluded her, and she doesn’t know why

Dear Amy : My niece “ Kate ” has been married for several years .
Her husband ’ s brother “ Bradley ” will be getting married this year .
All of Bradley ’ s siblings and their spouses have been asked to be in the bridal party — everyone except Kate .
Kate ’ s husband is in his brother ’ s party , but her future sister-in-law , “ Julie , ” has excluded Kate .
Kate included Julie in her wedding party several years ago .
Kate can think of nothing that would have offended Julie .
@ @ @ @ @ @ @ ?
Dear Sad Aunt : In the movie version , “ Kate ” would attend the wedding , get roaring drunk at the reception , and then deliver the roasty-toast of the century .
• Ask Amy : My marriage dreams have faded into work and chores • Ask Amy : My husband wears tight clothes .
How do I make him stop ?
• Ask Amy : Everyone wants me to ignore my mother-in-law ’ s immorality , but I just can ’ t • Ask Amy : How do I tell @ @ @ @ @ @ @ video ?
• Ask Amy : They ’ re urging me to go against my dad ’ s dying wish Movie pitch aside , if every single sibling and spouse has been included in the wedding party , this exclusion does seem off-kilter .
However , the fact that Kate included “ Julie ” in her own wedding does not obligate Julie to recipro-kate .
Ideally , Julie would have anticipated this challenge and explained her decision to Kate — gently and respectfully — in advance of her announcement .
Kate might be @ @ @ @ @ @ @ by asking Julie , “ I accept your decision not to ask me to be part of the wedding party , but I want to make sure — are you and I OK ?
” She should add , “ Please , let me know if there is any way I can be helpful as you get closer to the date.
” Kate should attend this wedding , be a gracious guest , and have a good time .
Dear Amy : Every summer and fall , family members gather at a beach @ @ @ @ @ @ @ .
Because there are not enough bedrooms in the house , my husband and I sleep in an open loft , just above the kitchen and living room .
I ’ m a light sleeper , and I get only a few hours of shut-eye , due to the natural activity from both the night owls and children rising early .
With chronic health conditions , I ’ d prefer to sleep in my own home and return to the beach house for day and evening activities , but I ’ m afraid @ @ @ @ @ @ @ Family is important , but so is my health .
What do you recommend ?
Dear Sleep-deprived : You are responsible for taking care of yourself and seeing to your own needs .
No one else can do that for you .
You have two reasonable choices : To ask for a bedroom with a door , or to drive home each night .
I can not imagine that anyone would be affronted if — after many years — you decided to make a change and stop sleeping in the loft .
In @ @ @ @ @ @ @ to your home and sleep in your own bed each night , your fellow family members might actually be happy to have more sleeping space available in the group house .
And you could show up in the mornings with fresh bagels/donuts/coffee for the group .
Just make sure you aren ’ t tired and/or inebriated when you drive home .
Dear Amy : Responding to “ Red-faced Friends , ” who worried about people bringing gifts to a “ no gifts ” party — on my 80th birthday , my wife invited @ @ @ @ @ @ @ birthday party .
Knowing that most all of them would bring a gift ( even though told not to on the invitations ) , I asked them to bring a new unwrapped children ’ s toy , which they all did .
The days after the party , I delivered all of the toys to our local children ’ s hospital ( Children ’ s Hospital of Orange County ) .
They almost did not fit into my van !
The hospital staff brought some of the children down to the lobby where @ @ @ @ @ @ @ kids were so excited .
This 80-year-old man was excited , too .
Dear Amy : Lame advice from you to “ Frustrated , ” whose husband had stopped using deodorant and was now smelly .
Better advice for this person would be : 1 ) Shave underarms it will reduce the smell drastically .
2 ) Wash underarms in the morning and evening .
3 ) Lose the weight , the coffee and change the diet .
4 ) Get active and sweat in a workout as you will get rid of @ @ @ @ @ @ @ .
This will also have a benefit with depression if it ’ s a cause .
Dear Reader : All great advice , I ’ m sure .
But “ Frustrated ” couldn ’ t even muster the courage to speak to her husband about his body odor .
If she can ’ t even mention it to him , getting him to shave his armpits could be a very tough sell .
You can email Amy Dickinson at askamy @ amydickinson.com or send a letter to Ask Amy , P.O .
Box @ @ @ @ @ @ @ You can also follow her on Twitter @ askingamy or Facebook .

Dear Amy: My niece “Kate” has been married for several years. Her husband’s brother “Bradley” will be getting married this year.
All of Bradley’s siblings and their spouses have been asked to be in the bridal party — everyone except Kate.
Kate’s husband is in his brother’s party, but her future sister-in-law, “Julie,” has excluded Kate.
Kate included Julie in her wedding party several years ago.
Kate can think of nothing that would have offended Julie.
How should Kate handle this upcoming wedding?
Sad Aunt
Dear Sad Aunt: In the movie version, “Kate” would attend the wedding, get roaring drunk at the reception, and then deliver the roasty-toast of the century.
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Ask Amy: I’ve told them they need therapy, and they refuse to do it. What now? Advice | Ask Amy: The man I love is my grandchild’s uncle, and things have gotten messy Movie pitch aside, if every single sibling and spouse has been included in the wedding party, this exclusion does seem off-kilter. However, the fact that Kate included “Julie” in her own wedding does not obligate Julie to recipro-kate.
Ideally, Julie would have anticipated this challenge and explained her decision to Kate — gently and respectfully — in advance of her announcement.
Kate might be able to tease out a gracious explanation by asking Julie, “I accept your decision not to ask me to be part of the wedding party, but I want to make sure — are you and I OK?”
She should add, “Please, let me know if there is any way I can be helpful as you get closer to the date.”
Kate should attend this wedding, be a gracious guest, and have a good time.
Dear Amy: Every summer and fall, family members gather at a beach house about an hour from my home.
Because there are not enough bedrooms in the house, my husband and I sleep in an open loft, just above the kitchen and living room.
I’m a light sleeper, and I get only a few hours of shut-eye, due to the natural activity from both the night owls and children rising early.
With chronic health conditions, I’d prefer to sleep in my own home and return to the beach house for day and evening activities, but I’m afraid this would be seen as rude.
Family is important, but so is my health. What do you recommend?
Sleep-deprived
Dear Sleep-deprived: You are responsible for taking care of yourself and seeing to your own needs. No one else can do that for you.
You have two reasonable choices: To ask for a bedroom with a door, or to drive home each night.
I cannot imagine that anyone would be affronted if — after many years — you decided to make a change and stop sleeping in the loft.
In fact, if you chose to return to your home and sleep in your own bed each night, your fellow family members might actually be happy to have more sleeping space available in the group house. And you could show up in the mornings with fresh bagels/donuts/coffee for the group.
Just make sure you aren’t tired and/or inebriated when you drive home.
Dear Amy: Responding to “Red-faced Friends,” who worried about people bringing gifts to a “no gifts” party — on my 80th birthday, my wife invited over 100 friends and relatives to my birthday party.
Knowing that most all of them would bring a gift (even though told not to on the invitations), I asked them to bring a new unwrapped children’s toy, which they all did.
The days after the party, I delivered all of the toys to our local children’s hospital (Children’s Hospital of Orange County). They almost did not fit into my van!
The hospital staff brought some of the children down to the lobby where the gifts were unloaded, and the kids were so excited.
This 80-year-old man was excited, too.
Gifted
Dear Gifted: I love your generous idea.
Dear Amy: Lame advice from you to “Frustrated,” whose husband had stopped using deodorant and was now smelly.
Better advice for this person would be:
1) Shave underarms it will reduce the smell drastically.
2) Wash underarms in the morning and evening.
3) Lose the weight, the coffee and change the diet.
4) Get active and sweat in a workout as you will get rid of toxins and other chemicals bacteria live on. This will also have a benefit with depression if it’s a cause.
Reader
Dear Reader: All great advice, I’m sure. But “Frustrated” couldn’t even muster the courage to speak to her husband about his body odor. If she can’t even mention it to him, getting him to shave his armpits could be a very tough sell.
You can email Amy Dickinson at askamy@amydickinson.com or send a letter to Ask Amy, P.O. Box 194, Freeville, NY 13068. You can also follow her on Twitter @askingamy or Facebook.


mercurynews--2020-10-10--Harriette Cole: With work-from-home, I can move to my dream town and nobody will be the wiser

DEAR HARRIETTE : My employer recently informed us that we will not go back into the office physically until next year sometime — probably not until midyear .
I have an expensive apartment and have been thinking about giving up my lease and moving to my dream town .
Right now , I live in Manhattan , and I feel like I ’ m too physically close to people to be safe moving about .
So I just stay inside all the time .
Where I want to move is much less densely populated , and I know I can @ @ @ @ @ @ @ outdoors without being too close to anyone .
I can work from there , enjoy the great outdoors and save money without anybody being the wiser .
I won ’ t keep it a secret , but it doesn ’ t matter where I live as long as I get my work done .
Do you think it is smart for me to give up my New York City digs and go on a once-in-a-lifetime adventure ?
DEAR MAKING A MOVE : You are part of a growing group of people who are @ @ @ @ @ @ @ Many people have moved back home with their parents to save money and be quarantined together .
Others have given up expensive homes to save money , and some — like you — are using this moment to check an item off their bucket lists .
I say go for it !
When the dust settles , trust that you will find the right place to live .
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Turns out it ’ s a hovel .
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Nothing has changed .
• Harriette Cole : My co-worker needles me about my girlfriend , and I can ’ t take it anymore • Harriette Cole : I don ’ t want to be a controlling jerk , but she was going against my plan DEAR HARRIETTE : My father is in a nursing home , and he recently fell .
He @ @ @ @ @ @ @ to offer .
My sister , who lives in the area , has been handling things , but now we have to make tough decisions .
She has been asking me and my brother to weigh in so that she doesn ’ t have to do everything herself .
I feel weird about that .
Since I ’ m not there , how can I really be of help ?
I can ’ t see what ’ s going on with him , while she has much more access .
I feel like @ @ @ @ @ @ @ whatever she thinks is right .
My brother , on the other hand , has lots of opinions .
She seems to be OK with what he has to say .
I feel uncomfortable chiming in .
What do you recommend that I do ?
DEAR DADDY ISSUES : It can feel burdensome for the local adult child to have to make all the decisions for an ailing parent .
Your sister has asked for your opinion because she values it and needs it .
It actually is selfish of you not to @ @ @ @ @ @ @ .
Your sister honestly needs your support .
Pay close attention to what ’ s happening with your father .
Do research when required .
Learn as much as you can about what he is facing so that you can offer informed recommendations or thoughts when she asks .
You can also be crystal clear that while you are happy to supply information , you defer to her in the decision-making , as she is the one on the ground seeing the situation play out in real time .
Harriette Cole is a @ @ @ @ @ @ @ initiative to help people access and activate their dreams .
You can send questions to askharriette @ harriettecole.com or c/o Andrews McMeel Syndication , 1130 Walnut St. , Kansas City , MO 64106 .

DEAR HARRIETTE: My employer recently informed us that we will not go back into the office physically until next year sometime — probably not until midyear. I have an expensive apartment and have been thinking about giving up my lease and moving to my dream town.
Right now, I live in Manhattan, and I feel like I’m too physically close to people to be safe moving about. So I just stay inside all the time.
Where I want to move is much less densely populated, and I know I can take hikes and fish and enjoy the outdoors without being too close to anyone. I can work from there, enjoy the great outdoors and save money without anybody being the wiser. I won’t keep it a secret, but it doesn’t matter where I live as long as I get my work done.
Do you think it is smart for me to give up my New York City digs and go on a once-in-a-lifetime adventure?
Making a Move
DEAR MAKING A MOVE: You are part of a growing group of people who are moving during the age of COVID-19. Many people have moved back home with their parents to save money and be quarantined together. Others have given up expensive homes to save money, and some — like you — are using this moment to check an item off their bucket lists. I say go for it! When the dust settles, trust that you will find the right place to live.
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Since I’m not there, how can I really be of help? I can’t see what’s going on with him, while she has much more access. I feel like she should have full authority to do whatever she thinks is right. My brother, on the other hand, has lots of opinions. She seems to be OK with what he has to say. I feel uncomfortable chiming in. What do you recommend that I do?
Daddy Issues
DEAR DADDY ISSUES: It can feel burdensome for the local adult child to have to make all the decisions for an ailing parent. Your sister has asked for your opinion because she values it and needs it. It actually is selfish of you not to share your thoughts, whatever they are. Your sister honestly needs your support.
Pay close attention to what’s happening with your father. Do research when required. Learn as much as you can about what he is facing so that you can offer informed recommendations or thoughts when she asks. You can also be crystal clear that while you are happy to supply information, you defer to her in the decision-making, as she is the one on the ground seeing the situation play out in real time.
Harriette Cole is a lifestylist and founder of DREAMLEAPERS, an initiative to help people access and activate their dreams. You can send questions to askharriette@harriettecole.com or c/o Andrews McMeel Syndication, 1130 Walnut St., Kansas City, MO 64106.


mercurynews--2020-10-10--Miss Manners: Is it rude to ask for a body part once a loved one is dead?

DEAR MISS MANNERS : I am of an unorthodox religious persuasion which holds the belief that the dead may be contacted , and that there are various aids to this process .
Anything tied to the dead person may be used , although the more intimately tied , the easier it is to establish the connection .
The most intimate items , of course , would be segments of the deceased ’ s own body .
So , to the question .
Is there any polite way to make it clear to a loved one that you hope , when @ @ @ @ @ @ @ part of them ?
I have racked my brain on this one and even done some research , and I am failing to come up with anything .
I suspect that if any rules apply , they would be the same that concern making it clear to a loved one that you hope to inherit any specific item — which is to say , it ’ s very rude to ask at all .
• Miss Manners : Does this mysterious floral gift mean anything ?
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• Miss Manners : I don ’ t know which face to bring to the gender reveal party • Miss Manners : You may call this passive-aggressive , but it ’ s better than aggressive-aggressive But I think in this case it ’ s something not likely to enter most people ’ s minds .
I would also like to make it clear that I wouldn ’ t be making this request to , say @ @ @ @ @ @ @ is necessary to their resurrection that their corpse remain intact .
Rather , I would be asking friends and family who are ( for instance ) Buddhist or atheist , and therefore not likely to be overly concerned with what becomes of their physical remains , or co-religionists , who may be sympathetic to my inquiry , but still distressed at conversations involving their own mortality .
GENTLE READER : What did you have in mind ?
“ Mind if I borrow your eyeballs when you croak ?
” Miss Manners is afraid @ @ @ @ @ @ @ a polite way to say this — as there is a reason it never entered anyone ’ s minds .
If you truly think that certain family members or friends might be amenable to it , she supposes that you could ease into the conversation by telling them of your beliefs and asking their general thoughts on organ donation .
If they ’ re squeamish about that , then you can be reasonably certain that they will not want their body parts used to get a call from you in the afterlife .
@ @ @ @ @ @ @ political beliefs than many of my friends and family , although I don ’ t generally advertise them .
This election cycle is causing me a considerable amount of anxiety .
I stopped following social media once I realized it no longer brought me joy .
Now family members have started sending me political messages directly via email or texts .
When this happens , I politely state that I am not interested in hearing more on the subject and ask them to refrain from sending me further messages of this kind .
@ @ @ @ @ @ @ sometimes I am treated as if my request is unreasonable and rude .
Is it ?
GENTLE READER : No ; their persistence is .
But if your current method continues to fail , Miss Manners would also endorse your deleting these messages without comment .
Please send your questions to Miss Manners at her website , www.missmanners.com ; to her email , dearmissmanners @ gmail.com ; or through postal mail to Miss Manners , Andrews McMeel Syndication , 1130 Walnut St. , Kansas City , MO 64106 .

Judith Martin, Nicholas Ivor Martin and Jacobina Martin

DEAR MISS MANNERS: I am of an unorthodox religious persuasion which holds the belief that the dead may be contacted, and that there are various aids to this process.
Anything tied to the dead person may be used, although the more intimately tied, the easier it is to establish the connection. The most intimate items, of course, would be segments of the deceased’s own body. So, to the question.
Is there any polite way to make it clear to a loved one that you hope, when they pass on, to inherit some part of them? I have racked my brain on this one and even done some research, and I am failing to come up with anything.
I suspect that if any rules apply, they would be the same that concern making it clear to a loved one that you hope to inherit any specific item — which is to say, it’s very rude to ask at all.
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GENTLE READER: What did you have in mind? “Mind if I borrow your eyeballs when you croak?”
Miss Manners is afraid that she is unable to help find a polite way to say this — as there is a reason it never entered anyone’s minds.
If you truly think that certain family members or friends might be amenable to it, she supposes that you could ease into the conversation by telling them of your beliefs and asking their general thoughts on organ donation. If they’re squeamish about that, then you can be reasonably certain that they will not want their body parts used to get a call from you in the afterlife.
DEAR MISS MANNERS: I hold different political beliefs than many of my friends and family, although I don’t generally advertise them. This election cycle is causing me a considerable amount of anxiety. I stopped following social media once I realized it no longer brought me joy.
Now family members have started sending me political messages directly via email or texts. When this happens, I politely state that I am not interested in hearing more on the subject and ask them to refrain from sending me further messages of this kind.
Usually, the sender complies, but sometimes I am treated as if my request is unreasonable and rude. Is it?
GENTLE READER: No; their persistence is. But if your current method continues to fail, Miss Manners would also endorse your deleting these messages without comment.
Please send your questions to Miss Manners at her website, www.missmanners.com; to her email, dearmissmanners@gmail.com; or through postal mail to Miss Manners, Andrews McMeel Syndication, 1130 Walnut St., Kansas City, MO 64106.


mercurynews--2020-10-10--Dear Abby: My wife has decided I can’t do anything right

DEAR ABBY : Since the coronavirus lockdown began , my wife and I have been cooped up together all day , every day .
Though we have lived together for 35 years , she ’ s now discovering that I “ don ’ t cook vegetables correctly.
” ( It goes without saying that I ’ m no longer allowed to prepare the entrees . )
I don ’ t sort the trash the way she thinks it should be , so I can ’ t take out the garbage without her first inspecting it .
Not only do I @ @ @ @ @ @ @ don ’ t even wash my face right .
Thus far the only thing I seem to be able to do is go to the restroom without her supervision , but I lock the door now just in case she decides to kibitz .
I realize that during this tense time , people feel a loss of control over their own lives and try to compensate however they can .
I ’ m able to hang on to my patience almost all the time , but occasionally I want to either scream at @ @ @ @ @ @ @ my own .
Do you have any advice for either or both of us ?
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She doesn ’ t want to talk about it .
• Dear Abby : He ’ s threatening to leave me over my nonexistent diary DEAR KEEPING CALM : @ @ @ @ @ @ @ who is experiencing this .
Your comment about your wife ’ s hypervigilance and fault-finding being her way of coping with her anxieties is perceptive .
If you haven ’ t talked with her ( calmly ) about how her behavior is affecting you , please do it before you explode .
Being cooped up together all day , every day , isn ’ t healthy for either of you .
You both should be getting out separately for at least 30 minutes of walking ( 60 could be even better ) and @ @ @ @ @ @ @ change of scenery would not only be healthy , but may lower both of your stress levels .
However , if that isn ’ t sufficient , the two of you should discuss what ’ s going on with her physician .
DEAR ABBY : I am instinctively tight-fisted with money .
It ’ s also necessary because my brother and I have been in business for ourselves for only a few years , and we are just now starting to turn a decent profit .
My girlfriend earns a good living as @ @ @ @ @ @ @ , but not when it comes to food .
My question is , how much of the bill should I be expected to foot for an expensive dinner I didn ’ t want to go out to , or an overpriced breakfast burrito from some snobby food truck ?
If I don ’ t look enthusiastic about the prospect of going to one of these places , she says not to worry because she ’ ll pay for it , which makes me feel insecure .
Any tips on how to handle this @ @ @ @ @ @ @ You appear to be an old-fashioned guy who is dating a contemporary woman .
Accept her generosity and quit tying your masculinity to how she chooses to spend her own hard-earned money .
That said , if you are thinking of marrying her , it would be in both your interests to have premarital counseling to ensure that disagreements about money don ’ t cause serious problems in your marriage .
Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren , also known as Jeanne Phillips , and was founded by her mother , @ @ @ @ @ @ @ www.DearAbby.com or P.O .
Box 69440 , Los Angeles , CA 90069 .

DEAR ABBY: Since the coronavirus lockdown began, my wife and I have been cooped up together all day, every day. Though we have lived together for 35 years, she’s now discovering that I “don’t cook vegetables correctly.” (It goes without saying that I’m no longer allowed to prepare the entrees.)
I don’t sort the trash the way she thinks it should be, so I can’t take out the garbage without her first inspecting it. Not only do I not wash the dishes properly, I don’t even wash my face right. Thus far the only thing I seem to be able to do is go to the restroom without her supervision, but I lock the door now just in case she decides to kibitz.
I realize that during this tense time, people feel a loss of control over their own lives and try to compensate however they can. I’m able to hang on to my patience almost all the time, but occasionally I want to either scream at her or look for an apartment of my own. Do you have any advice for either or both of us?
KEEPING CALM IN THE WEST
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Being cooped up together all day, every day, isn’t healthy for either of you. You both should be getting out separately for at least 30 minutes of walking (60 could be even better) and sunlight every day. The exercise and change of scenery would not only be healthy, but may lower both of your stress levels. However, if that isn’t sufficient, the two of you should discuss what’s going on with her physician.
DEAR ABBY: I am instinctively tight-fisted with money. It’s also necessary because my brother and I have been in business for ourselves for only a few years, and we are just now starting to turn a decent profit.
My girlfriend earns a good living as a nurse. She is pretty thrifty, but not when it comes to food.
My question is, how much of the bill should I be expected to foot for an expensive dinner I didn’t want to go out to, or an overpriced breakfast burrito from some snobby food truck? If I don’t look enthusiastic about the prospect of going to one of these places, she says not to worry because she’ll pay for it, which makes me feel insecure. Any tips on how to handle this?
PROUD GUY IN WASHINGTON
DEAR PROUD GUY: Yes. You appear to be an old-fashioned guy who is dating a contemporary woman. Accept her generosity and quit tying your masculinity to how she chooses to spend her own hard-earned money. That said, if you are thinking of marrying her, it would be in both your interests to have premarital counseling to ensure that disagreements about money don’t cause serious problems in your marriage.
Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips. Contact Dear Abby at www.DearAbby.com or P.O. Box 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069.


mercurynews--2020-10-10--Pedestrian hit, killed by vehicle in East San Jose

A pedestrian was hit and killed by a vehicle on the 800 block of South Jackson Avenue in San Jose @ @ @ @ @ , 2020 , police said .
SAN JOSE – A pedestrian was hit and killed @ @ @ @ @ San Jose on Friday night , police said .
The collision was reported just before @ @ @ @ @ block of South Jackson Avenue .
Additional details about the crash were not immediately available @ @ @ @ @ shut down in both directions between Bambi and Cinderella lanes .

A pedestrian was hit and killed by a vehicle on the 800 block of South Jackson Avenue in San Jose on Friday, Oct. 9, 2020, police said.
SAN JOSE – A pedestrian was hit and killed by a vehicle in East San Jose on Friday night in a suspected DUI crash, police said.
Just before 9 p.m. in the 800 block of South Jackson Avenue, a 2004 Saturn L300 was heading north when it struck a man who was crossing the street outside the crosswalk, Officer Steve Aponte said Saturday.
The man was rushed to a nearby hospital, where he was pronounced dead a short time later. Meanwhile, the driver — also an adult man — was arrested and booked into Santa Clara County jail on suspicion of driving under the influence of alcohol, Aponte said.
The victim’s identity will be released pending his formal identification by the coroner’s office and notification of next of kin. His death marks the 38th traffic fatality so far this year.
The crash briefly shut down Jackson Avenue between Bambi and Cinderella lanes.
Anyone with more information may contact the San Jose Police Department’s Traffic Investigations Unit at 408-277-4654.


mercurynews--2020-10-11--PG&E says its equipment might have sparked recent fatal wildfire

PG & E ’ s equipment might have caused a fatal and destructive recent wildfire in Shasta County , and state investigators have confiscated some of the company ’ s gear in connection with the fire , the utility has told California regulators .
The blaze , known as the Zogg Fire , broke out Sept. 27 near the Shasta County town of Igo , which is west of Redding .
The Shasta County wildfire began in the vicinity of Zogg Mine Road and Jenny Bird Lane .
“ A PG & E SmartMeter and a line recloser serving that @ @ @ @ @ @ @ approximately 2:40 p.m. and 3:06 p.m ” on Sept. 27 , PG & E stated in a regulatory filing with the Securities and Exchange Commission .
Evidence has emerged that show signs of a fire in that area around the time of the alarms and the other activity .
“ Wildfire camera and satellite data on Sep. 27 show smoke , heat or signs of fire in that area between approximately 2:43 p.m. and 2:46 p.m. , ” PG & E stated in the SEC filing .
PG & E customers in the @ @ @ @ @ @ @ are served by a distribution line known as the Girvan 1101 12 kV circuit .
The utility has reported the incident to the state Public Utilities Commission , PG & E stated in its SEC filing .
PG & E is currently uncertain of the causes of the activity on the Girvan 1101 circuit or the locations of these causes .
The state Department of Forestry and Fire Protection , or Cal Fire , is investigating the Zogg Fire .
A cause hasn ’ t been determined .
The Zogg Fire killed four @ @ @ @ @ @ @ 204 structures , and damaged 27 , according to Cal Fire .
“ Cal Fire informed PG & E that they had taken possession of PG & E equipment as part of CAL FIRE ’ s ongoing investigation into the cause of the Zogg Fire and allowed PG & E access to the area , ” PG & E stated in the SEC filing .
Over the last 10 years , starting in September 2010 , PG & E ’ s equipment has caused a fatal gas explosion in San Bruno and also @ @ @ @ @ @ @ in Northern California .
Among the fatal incidents in the last decade : — In 2010 , a PG & E gas pipeline ruptured and unleashed a fireball that killed eight people and destroyed a San Bruno neighborhood .
— 2015 Butte Fire in Amador County and Calaveras County killed two .
The cause was contact between a tree and a PG & E power line .
— 2017 Wine Country fires .
PG & E equipment was linked to multiple fatal fires in a series of infernos .
— 2018 Camp Fire @ @ @ @ @ @ @ equipment was determined to be the cause of the deadly wildfire that killed 85 people and destroyed the town of Paradise .
In 2016 , a federal jury convicted PG & E for six felonies because of crimes the utility committed before and after the San Bruno explosion .
In June 2020 , PG & E entered the grim pantheon of America ’ s deadliest corporate criminals when the company pleaded guilty and was convicted of 84 counts of involuntary manslaughter for its role in the Camp Fire .
The Zogg Fire probe @ @ @ @ @ @ @ E just months after the company emerged from a $ 51.69 billion bankruptcy case spawned by PG & E ’ s debts and wildfire-linked liabilities .
“ PG & E is cooperating with CAL FIRE in its investigation ” into the Zogg Fire , the utility said in the SEC documents .

State investigators who are attempting to determine whether PG&E’s equipment might have caused a fatal and destructive wildfire recently in Shasta County have confiscated some of the company’s gear in connection with the conflagration, the utility has told California regulators.
The blaze, known as the Zogg Fire, broke out Sept. 27 near the Shasta County town of Igo, which is west of Redding.
The Shasta County wildfire began in the vicinity of Zogg Mine Road and Jenny Bird Lane.
“A PG&E SmartMeter and a line recloser serving that area reported alarms and other activity between approximately 2:40 p.m. and 3:06 p.m.” on Sept. 27, PG&E stated in a regulatory filing with the Securities and Exchange Commission.
Evidence has emerged that show signs of a fire in that area around the time of the alarms and the other activity.
“Wildfire camera and satellite data on Sep. 27 show smoke, heat or signs of fire in that area between approximately 2:43 p.m. and 2:46 p.m.,” PG&E stated in the SEC filing.
PG&E customers in the area where the Zogg Fire broke out are served by a distribution line known as the Girvan 1101 12 kV circuit.
The utility has reported the incident to the state Public Utilities Commission, PG&E stated in its SEC filing.
PG&E is currently uncertain of the causes of the activity on the Girvan 1101 circuit or the locations of these causes.
The state Department of Forestry and Fire Protection, or Cal Fire, is investigating the Zogg Fire. A cause hasn’t been determined.
The Zogg Fire killed four people, injured one person, destroyed 204 structures, and damaged 27, according to Cal Fire.
“Cal Fire informed PG&E that they had taken possession of PG&E equipment as part of CAL FIRE’s ongoing investigation into the cause of the Zogg Fire and allowed PG&E access to the area,” PG&E stated in the SEC filing.
Over the last 10 years, starting in September 2010, PG&E’s equipment has caused a fatal gas explosion in San Bruno and also has caused a string of lethal wildfires in Northern California.
Among the fatal incidents in the last decade:
— In 2010, a PG&E gas pipeline ruptured and unleashed a fireball that killed eight people and destroyed a San Bruno neighborhood.
— 2015 Butte Fire in Amador County and Calaveras County killed two. The cause was contact between a tree and a PG&E power line.
— 2017 Wine Country fires. PG&E equipment was linked to multiple fatal fires in a series of infernos.
— 2018 Camp Fire in Butte County. PG&E equipment was determined to be the cause of the deadly wildfire that killed 85 people and destroyed the town of Paradise.
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In June 2020, PG&E entered the grim pantheon of America’s deadliest corporate criminals when the company pleaded guilty and was convicted of 84 counts of involuntary manslaughter for its role in the Camp Fire.
The Zogg Fire probe casts unsettling new shadows over PG&E just months after the company emerged from a $51.69 billion bankruptcy case spawned by PG&E’s debts and wildfire-linked liabilities.
“PG&E is cooperating with CAL FIRE in its investigation” into the Zogg Fire, the utility said in the SEC documents.
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mercurynews--2020-10-10--The Latest: Brazil’s virus death toll surpasses 150,000

By The Associated Press RIO DE JANEIRO — Brazil ’ s count of COVID-19 deaths surpassed 150,000 on Saturday night , despite signs the pandemic is slowly retreating in Latin America ’ s largest nation .
The Brazilian Health Ministry reported that the death toll now stands at 150,198 .
The figure is the world ’ s second highest behind the United States , according to the tally maintained by Johns Hopkins University .
Brazil ’ s far-right President Jair Bolsonaro has played down the severity of the virus while deaths mounted rapidly in Brazil .
The 65-year-old president flouted @ @ @ @ @ @ @ crowds during outings from the presidential residence .
He has rejected governors ’ and mayors ’ lockdowns and other tough measures to contain the virus ’ spread , even after he contracted it himself in July .
But there have been recent signs of relief in Brazil .
Over the last month and a half , the viral curve has dropped .
The average number of deaths sat at 598 over the last 7 days , the lowest level since the beginning of May .
HERE ’ S WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW @ @ @ @ @ @ @ Trump makes speech from White House balcony , 1st appearance in 5 days since return to residence — House Speaker Nancy Pelosi dismisses the latest White House offer in COVID-19 aid talks but remains hopeful progress can be made toward a deal .
— Queen Elizabeth II honored the work of doctors and nurses , delivery drivers , fundraisers and volunteers during the coronavirus pandemic .
— The NFL ’ s Tennessee Titans and the New England Patriots had no positive coronavirus tests Saturday and both teams will be allowed to go back @ @ @ @ @ @ @ WHAT ELSE IS HAPPENING : ANCHORAGE , Alaska — Anchorage public health officials say they are investigating a coronavirus outbreak from a youth hockey tournament that drew teams from around Alaska .
Officials say more than 300 players , coaches and fans were in attendance at the Termination Dust Invitational over a three-day period last weekend .
Teams came from nine cities across the state .
Local health officials did not provide specific numbers as to how many people tested positive as a result of the event .
But , tournament organizers say @ @ @ @ @ @ @ in one of the teams on Monday .
They also say they knew of two teams with a positive case each .
ST. LOUIS — Missouri reported more than 5,000 new COVID-19 cases on Saturday , more than doubling its previous daily record .
The Missouri Department of Health and Senior Services said there have been a total of 144,230 confirmed cases since the outbreak started , up 5,066 cases from Friday .
The state also reported 27 more deaths to bring the total to 2,422 .
The new number more than doubles @ @ @ @ @ @ @ cases , which occurred on July 30 .
Health department spokeswoman Lisa Cox didn ’ t immediately respond to an email from The Associated Press seeking an explanation for the large increase .
Data from the state shows that 1,313 people were hospitalized as of Friday , the second-most for any single day .
The rise in hospitalizations is occurring largely in Missouri ’ s rural communities .
Jayne Dees , administrator of the health department in New Madrid County in the Bootheel region of southeast Missouri , told the St. Louis Post-Dispatch @ @ @ @ @ @ @ or wearing masks .
Dr. Nathan Sprengel , a doctor at the SEMO Health Network clinic in New Madrid , said some patients get upset when they are urged to wear masks in the clinic .
PHOENIX — A new report by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention says coronavirus cases in Arizona dropped 75 % following the implementation of mask mandates .
The mandates were enacted after a statewide stay-at-home order was lifted , which resulted in a sharp uptick of cases .
The report was authored with the Arizona Department @ @ @ @ @ @ @ stay-at-home order expired on May 15 and two weeks later the daily average number of coronavirus cases climbed 151 % .
The substantial spike in cases overwhelmed the state ’ s health care system .
The number of virus cases in Arizona peaked between June 29 and July 2 and declined by approximately 75 % between July 13 and Aug. 7 .
AUSTIN , Texas — Protesters from Republican Texas Gov .
Greg Abbott ’ s own party have gathered outside his home to criticize his coronavirus orders as overbearing and unlawful .
@ @ @ @ @ @ @ Agriculture Commissioner Sid Miller and some GOP lawmakers were among an estimated 200 people gathered outside the governor ’ s mansion to protest Abbott ’ s executive orders including a continued statewide mask mandate and lockdowns .
Abbott was scheduled for a Saturday morning campaign event in Dallas and shortly after noon tweeted a photo of himself at the Texas-Oklahoma football game in Dallas .
COVID-19 has killed more than 16,500 people in Texas , according to the state ’ s official count , and is closing in on 800,000 confirmed cases since @ @ @ @ @ @ @ , Abbott lifted his shutdown order on bars that has been in place since June , though he gave county leaders control to keep them closed locally .
WASHINGTON — President Donald Trump spoke from a balcony in his first public appearance since returning to the White House after being treated for the coronavirus .
The president addressed a large crowd on the South Lawn despite the White House refusing to declare whether he is no longer contagious and against the guidance of public health officials .
Trump delivered an address on his @ @ @ @ @ @ @ Room balcony to a friendly crowd .
Most in the crowd wore masks , but there was little social distancing .
The president had not been seen in public — other than in White House-produced videos — since his return five days ago from the military hospital where he received experimental treatments for the coronavirus .
ROME – Rome was the site of two anti-mask protests on Saturday , even as Italy undergoes a resurgence of coronavirus infections .
The Health Ministry reported another 5,724 cases in the last 24 hours and 29 @ @ @ @ @ @ @ determined through increased testing — more than 133,000 in the period .
Protesters at one of the demonstrations complained about measures they call harsh , including a new order for all Italians to wear masks outdoors or face fines of up to 1,000 euros ( $ 1,200 ) .
Most of the new cases are in Lombardy in the north , which tallied 1,140 new infections , followed by Campania , which includes Naples , and Veneto .
In front of the Duomo Cathedral In Milan , entertainment workers protested against the government @ @ @ @ @ @ @ spread of the coronavirus .
Italy has reached totals of nearly 350,000 confirmed cases and 36,140 deaths .
BUCHAREST , Romania — Several hundred Romanians gathered in Bucharest on Saturday to protest coronavirus restrictions , despite a sharp spike in cases .
The protesters , all without mandatory masks , briefly scuffled with police as officers attempted to prevent them from erecting a makeshift stage in the University Square in the nation ’ s capital .
The protest came at the end of the week with the highest daily infections and deaths in @ @ @ @ @ @ @ in February .
The relatively small crowd was comprised mainly of Orthodox Christian and right-wing nationalists .
Many protesters shouted anti-Muslim slurs against the head of the country ’ s emergency services , who is of Palestinian descent .
They also chanted “ down with the masks ” and “ freedom.
” Some 85 percent of Romanians identify as Orthodox Christians .
Romania , a nation of 19 million , has confirmed more than 152,400 coronavirus cases and 5,350 deaths .
WATERBURY , Conn. — U.S. Rep. Jahana Hayes says a test Saturday @ @ @ @ @ @ @ her body , nearly three weeks after she tested positive .
The Democrat , who represents Connecticut ’ s 5th District , has been documenting her health struggle on social media since revealing her positive test results on Sept. 20 .
Hayes says a follow-up coronavirus test on Saturday came back negative .
She says she also received a flu shot and made an appointment with the American Red Cross to donate plasma .
LISBON , Portugal — Portugal has reported 1,646 news cases of the coronavirus , its highest daily count since @ @ @ @ @ @ @ has seen a steady rise in new infections in the past six weeks .
The 115 cases per 100,000 inhabitants accumulated over 14 days is still significantly lower than neighboring Spain ( 308 ) and France ( 267 ) .
The country has reached totals of 85,574 confirmed cases and 2,067 deaths .
YANGON , Myanmar — Myanmar ’ s nationwide reported daily coronavirus cases has exceeded 2,000 for the first time .
The 2,158 cases announced Saturday brings the total to 26,064 since March .
There were 32 more deaths for a @ @ @ @ @ @ @ virus cases at the start of August , but an upsurge later that month in the western state of Rakhine quickly spread to other parts of the country .
Myanmar ’ s leader , State Counsellor Aung San Suu Kyi , urged people who have recovered from the illness to consider donating blood plasma , which she says can help the recovery of those still sick .
WASHINGTON — Dr. Anthony Fauci , the government ’ s top infectious-disease expert , is again cautioning against large-scale gatherings of people without masks .
President @ @ @ @ @ @ @ large crowd outside the White House on Saturday .
Trump ’ s Rose Garden event announcing Judge Amy Coney Barrett as his Supreme Court nominee on Sept. 26 has been labeled a “ super-spreader ” for the coronavirus .
Fauci said of the Rose Garden event in an interview with The Associated Press on Friday : “ I was not surprised to see a super-spreader event given the circumstances .
Crowded , congregate setting , not wearing masks .
It is not surprising to see an outbreak.
” Fauci says the CDC guideline @ @ @ @ @ @ @ “ is 10 days from the onset of your symptoms.
” That onset for Trump was Oct. 1 , according to his doctors .
The president ’ s White House doctor , Navy Cmdr .
Sean Conley , said Trump could return to holding events on Saturday .
Organizers says attendees are required to bring masks or masks will be provided for the outdoor White House event .
TRENTON , N.J. — Former New Jersey Gov .
Chris Christie says he ’ s been discharged from a New Jersey hospital where he spent @ @ @ @ @ @ @ Christie says in a Saturday post on Twitter that he ’ d been released from the Morristown Medical Center .
He tweeted his thanks to hospital staff and says he ’ d “ have more to say about all of this next week.
” Christie announced Oct. 3 he had tested positive and checked himself into the hospital as “ an important precautionary measure , ” given his history of asthma .
Christie was among several coronavirus cases connected to President Donald Trump ’ s inner circle .
Along with Trump and first @ @ @ @ @ @ @ traveled with the president or attended his events recently contracted the virus .
PRAGUE — The Czech Republic and neighboring Slovakia have registered big increases in coronavirus infections , setting a record for the fourth straight day .
The Health Ministry says the day-to-day increase reached 8,618 confirmed cases on Friday , over 3,000 more than the previous record set a day earlier in the nation of over 10 million .
The Czech Republic has had a total of 109,374 cases since the beginning of the pandemic with 905 deaths .
Of those @ @ @ @ @ @ @ the first five days of this week while 146 have died this week , according to Saturday ’ s figures .
The government has responded to the record surge by imposing a series of new restrictive measures .
Prime Minister Andrej Babis said on Friday he can not rule out a lockdown of the entire country .
In Slovakia , the health ministry reported 1,887 new cases of infection on Friday , over 700 more than the day before .
Prime Minister Igor Matovic says the government is preparing further restrictive measures that @ @ @ @ @ @ @ — India ’ s confirmed coronavirus cases are nearing 7 million with another 73,272 reported in the past 24 hours .
The Health Ministry on Saturday also reported 926 additional deaths , taking total fatalities to 107,416 .
The deaths have remained below 1,000 for the seventh straight day .
India is seeing a slower pace of coronavirus spread since mid-September when the daily infections touched a record of 97,894 cases .
It ’ s averaging more than 70,000 cases daily so far this month , while the recovery rate has exceeded 85 @ @ @ @ @ @ @ that congregations during major festivals later this month and in November have the potential for the virus to spread .
“ We have to work aggressively to make sure that during winter months and during the festive season coronavirus cases don ’ t rise dramatically , ” said Dr. Randeep Guleria , a government health expert .
Experts say India ’ s fragile health system has been bolstered in recent months but could still be overwhelmed by an exponential rise in cases .
Consumer activity is gradually rebounding and millions of factory workers @ @ @ @ @ @ @ a 2-month-long rigorous lockdown on March 25 are returning .
SANTA FE , N.M. — New Mexico is losing ground in efforts to contain the spread of COVID-19 as newly reported daily infections hit a record of 488 cases .
Three additional deaths from the pandemic also were disclosed Friday by state health officials as fatalities from the pandemic surpassed 900 .
Bernalillo County , with the state ’ s most populous urban area , accounted for 135 new cases , while Dona Ana had 81 .
Lea and Chaves counties together accounted @ @ @ @ @ @ @ ’ s infection and positivity rates for the spread of the virus are climbing as the administration of Gov .
Michelle Lujan Grisham holds the line on emergency public health restrictions .
WINDOW ROCK , Ariz. — Enrolled members of the Navajo Nation will be eligible for payments of up to $ 1,500 as part of the tribe ’ s response to the coronavirus .
President Jonathan Nez and Vice President Myron Lizer on Friday approved the $ 49 million plan adopted by the tribal council .
The funding comes from the tribe @ @ @ @ @ @ @ funding .
Adults will be eligible for payments of $ 1,500 while minors are eligible for $ 500 .
Nez said in a statement that there isn ’ t enough funding to cover payments for all enrolled members of the tribe , so the money should be directed to elders and those most in need .
PROVIDENCE , R.I. — The University of Rhode Island has issued a two-week shelter-in-place order for fraternity and sorority houses because of a high number of coronavirus cases .
The school sent the notice Friday in tandem @ @ @ @ @ @ @ .
Students may leave Greek housing only for medical visits and other essential services , such as grocery shopping and essential employment .
The students will take classes virtually while sheltering .
Students and chapters that don ’ t follow guidelines could be suspended or dismissed .
The school says it based its decision on statistics showing a much higher rate of coronavirus positivity among students in Greek housing at over 11 % than in total off-campus housing at under 4 % or in the total on-campus population at 0.65 % .
ALBANY @ @ @ @ @ @ @ refused to block New York ’ s plan to temporarily limit the size of religious gatherings in COVID-19 hot spots .
U.S. District Judge Kiyo Matsumoto issued the ruling after an emergency hearing in a lawsuit brought by rabbis and synagogues who said the restrictions were unconstitutional .
They had sought to have enforcement delayed until at least after Jewish holy days this weekend .
The rules limit indoor prayer services in certain areas to no more than 10 people .
The judge said the state had an interest in protecting public safety @

By The Associated Press
RIO DE JANEIRO — Brazil’s count of COVID-19 deaths surpassed 150,000 on Saturday night, despite signs the pandemic is slowly retreating in Latin America’s largest nation.
The Brazilian Health Ministry reported that the death toll now stands at 150,198. The figure is the world’s second highest behind the United States, according to the tally maintained by Johns Hopkins University.
Brazil’s far-right President Jair Bolsonaro has played down the severity of the virus while deaths mounted rapidly in Brazil. The 65-year-old president flouted social distancing at lively demonstrations and encouraged crowds during outings from the presidential residence. He has rejected governors’ and mayors’ lockdowns and other tough measures to contain the virus’ spread, even after he contracted it himself in July.
But there have been recent signs of relief in Brazil. Over the last month and a half, the viral curve has dropped. The average number of deaths sat at 598 over the last 7 days, the lowest level since the beginning of May.
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HERE’S WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT THE VIRUS OUTBREAK:
— President Trump makes speech from White House balcony, 1st appearance in 5 days since return to residence
— Religious gathering limit upheld as New York hospitalizations rise
— Dr. Fauci cautions against large gatherings without masks, social distancing
— House Speaker Nancy Pelosi dismisses the latest White House offer in COVID-19 aid talks but remains hopeful progress can be made toward a deal.
— Queen Elizabeth II honored the work of doctors and nurses, delivery drivers, fundraisers and volunteers during the coronavirus pandemic.
— The NFL’s Tennessee Titans and the New England Patriots had no positive coronavirus tests Saturday and both teams will be allowed to go back to their facilities.
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— Follow AP’s pandemic coverage at http://apnews.com/VirusOutbreak and https://apnews.com/UnderstandingtheOutbreak
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HERE’S WHAT ELSE IS HAPPENING:
ANCHORAGE, Alaska — Anchorage public health officials say they are investigating a coronavirus outbreak from a youth hockey tournament that drew teams from around Alaska. Officials say more than 300 players, coaches and fans were in attendance at the Termination Dust Invitational over a three-day period last weekend. Teams came from nine cities across the state. Local health officials did not provide specific numbers as to how many people tested positive as a result of the event. But, tournament organizers say they first learned of a positive case in one of the teams on Monday. They also say they knew of two teams with a positive case each.
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ST. LOUIS — Missouri reported more than 5,000 new COVID-19 cases on Saturday, more than doubling its previous daily record.
The Missouri Department of Health and Senior Services said there have been a total of 144,230 confirmed cases since the outbreak started, up 5,066 cases from Friday. The state also reported 27 more deaths to bring the total to 2,422.
The new number more than doubles the previous single-day high of 2,084 new cases, which occurred on July 30. Health department spokeswoman Lisa Cox didn’t immediately respond to an email from The Associated Press seeking an explanation for the large increase.
Data from the state shows that 1,313 people were hospitalized as of Friday, the second-most for any single day. The rise in hospitalizations is occurring largely in Missouri’s rural communities.
Jayne Dees, administrator of the health department in New Madrid County in the Bootheel region of southeast Missouri, told the St. Louis Post-Dispatch that people aren’t social distancing or wearing masks.
Dr. Nathan Sprengel, a doctor at the SEMO Health Network clinic in New Madrid, said some patients get upset when they are urged to wear masks in the clinic.
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PHOENIX — A new report by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention says coronavirus cases in Arizona dropped 75% following the implementation of mask mandates.
The mandates were enacted after a statewide stay-at-home order was lifted, which resulted in a sharp uptick of cases.
The report was authored with the Arizona Department of Health Services. Arizona’s stay-at-home order expired on May 15 and two weeks later the daily average number of coronavirus cases climbed 151%. The substantial spike in cases overwhelmed the state’s health care system. The number of virus cases in Arizona peaked between June 29 and July 2 and declined by approximately 75% between July 13 and Aug. 7.
Find the report here: https://www.cdc.gov/mmwr/volumes/69/wr/mm6940e3.htm
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AUSTIN, Texas — Protesters from Republican Texas Gov. Greg Abbott’s own party have gathered outside his home to criticize his coronavirus orders as overbearing and unlawful.
State party chairman Allen West, Texas Agriculture Commissioner Sid Miller and some GOP lawmakers were among an estimated 200 people gathered outside the governor’s mansion to protest Abbott’s executive orders including a continued statewide mask mandate and lockdowns.
Abbott was scheduled for a Saturday morning campaign event in Dallas and shortly after noon tweeted a photo of himself at the Texas-Oklahoma football game in Dallas.
COVID-19 has killed more than 16,500 people in Texas, according to the state’s official count, and is closing in on 800,000 confirmed cases since the pandemic started.
Earlier this week, Abbott lifted his shutdown order on bars that has been in place since June, though he gave county leaders control to keep them closed locally.
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WASHINGTON — President Donald Trump spoke from a balcony in his first public appearance since returning to the White House after being treated for the coronavirus.
The president addressed a large crowd on the South Lawn despite the White House refusing to declare whether he is no longer contagious and against the guidance of public health officials.
Trump delivered an address on his support for law enforcement from the Blue Room balcony to a friendly crowd. Most in the crowd wore masks, but there was little social distancing.
The president had not been seen in public — other than in White House-produced videos — since his return five days ago from the military hospital where he received experimental treatments for the coronavirus.
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ROME – Rome was the site of two anti-mask protests on Saturday, even as Italy undergoes a resurgence of coronavirus infections.
The Health Ministry reported another 5,724 cases in the last 24 hours and 29 deaths. Most cases were asymptomatic and determined through increased testing — more than 133,000 in the period.
Protesters at one of the demonstrations complained about measures they call harsh, including a new order for all Italians to wear masks outdoors or face fines of up to 1,000 euros ($1,200). Most of the new cases are in Lombardy in the north, which tallied 1,140 new infections, followed by Campania, which includes Naples, and Veneto.
In front of the Duomo Cathedral In Milan, entertainment workers protested against the government’s economic policies to combat the spread of the coronavirus.
Italy has reached totals of nearly 350,000 confirmed cases and 36,140 deaths.
(This item has been corrected to show two demonstrations in Rome, not Milan.)
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BUCHAREST, Romania — Several hundred Romanians gathered in Bucharest on Saturday to protest coronavirus restrictions, despite a sharp spike in cases.
The protesters, all without mandatory masks, briefly scuffled with police as officers attempted to prevent them from erecting a makeshift stage in the University Square in the nation’s capital.
The protest came at the end of the week with the highest daily infections and deaths in Romania since the pandemic hit the country in February. The relatively small crowd was comprised mainly of Orthodox Christian and right-wing nationalists.
Many protesters shouted anti-Muslim slurs against the head of the country’s emergency services, who is of Palestinian descent. They also chanted “down with the masks” and “freedom.”
Some 85 percent of Romanians identify as Orthodox Christians.
Romania, a nation of 19 million, has confirmed more than 152,400 coronavirus cases and 5,350 deaths.
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WATERBURY, Conn. — U.S. Rep. Jahana Hayes says a test Saturday showed no signs of the coronavirus in her body, nearly three weeks after she tested positive.
The Democrat, who represents Connecticut’s 5th District, has been documenting her health struggle on social media since revealing her positive test results on Sept. 20.
Hayes says a follow-up coronavirus test on Saturday came back negative. She says she also received a flu shot and made an appointment with the American Red Cross to donate plasma.
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LISBON, Portugal — Portugal has reported 1,646 news cases of the coronavirus, its highest daily count since the start of the pandemic.
Portugal has seen a steady rise in new infections in the past six weeks. The 115 cases per 100,000 inhabitants accumulated over 14 days is still significantly lower than neighboring Spain (308) and France (267).
The country has reached totals of 85,574 confirmed cases and 2,067 deaths.
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YANGON, Myanmar — Myanmar’s nationwide reported daily coronavirus cases has exceeded 2,000 for the first time.
The 2,158 cases announced Saturday brings the total to 26,064 since March. There were 32 more deaths for a total of 598.
Myanmar recorded 353 virus cases at the start of August, but an upsurge later that month in the western state of Rakhine quickly spread to other parts of the country.
Myanmar’s leader, State Counsellor Aung San Suu Kyi, urged people who have recovered from the illness to consider donating blood plasma, which she says can help the recovery of those still sick.
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WASHINGTON — Dr. Anthony Fauci, the government’s top infectious-disease expert, is again cautioning against large-scale gatherings of people without masks.
President Donald Trump is planning to convene another large crowd outside the White House on Saturday. Trump’s Rose Garden event announcing Judge Amy Coney Barrett as his Supreme Court nominee on Sept. 26 has been labeled a “super-spreader” for the coronavirus.
Fauci said of the Rose Garden event in an interview with The Associated Press on Friday: “I was not surprised to see a super-spreader event given the circumstances. Crowded, congregate setting, not wearing masks. It is not surprising to see an outbreak.”
Fauci says the CDC guideline for getting people back into society generally “is 10 days from the onset of your symptoms.”
That onset for Trump was Oct. 1, according to his doctors. The president’s White House doctor, Navy Cmdr. Sean Conley, said Trump could return to holding events on Saturday. Organizers says attendees are required to bring masks or masks will be provided for the outdoor White House event.
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TRENTON, N.J. — Former New Jersey Gov. Chris Christie says he’s been discharged from a New Jersey hospital where he spent a week after contracting the coronavirus.
Christie says in a Saturday post on Twitter that he’d been released from the Morristown Medical Center. He tweeted his thanks to hospital staff and says he’d “have more to say about all of this next week.”
Christie announced Oct. 3 he had tested positive and checked himself into the hospital as “an important precautionary measure,” given his history of asthma.
Christie was among several coronavirus cases connected to President Donald Trump’s inner circle. Along with Trump and first lady Melania Trump, multiple people who traveled with the president or attended his events recently contracted the virus.
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PRAGUE — The Czech Republic and neighboring Slovakia have registered big increases in coronavirus infections, setting a record for the fourth straight day.
The Health Ministry says the day-to-day increase reached 8,618 confirmed cases on Friday, over 3,000 more than the previous record set a day earlier in the nation of over 10 million.
The Czech Republic has had a total of 109,374 cases since the beginning of the pandemic with 905 deaths. Of those, almost 27,000 have tested positive in the first five days of this week while 146 have died this week, according to Saturday’s figures.
The government has responded to the record surge by imposing a series of new restrictive measures. Prime Minister Andrej Babis said on Friday he cannot rule out a lockdown of the entire country.
In Slovakia, the health ministry reported 1,887 new cases of infection on Friday, over 700 more than the day before.
Prime Minister Igor Matovic says the government is preparing further restrictive measures that will be announced on Sunday.
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DELHI — India’s confirmed coronavirus cases are nearing 7 million with another 73,272 reported in the past 24 hours.
The Health Ministry on Saturday also reported 926 additional deaths, taking total fatalities to 107,416. The deaths have remained below 1,000 for the seventh straight day.
India is seeing a slower pace of coronavirus spread since mid-September when the daily infections touched a record of 97,894 cases. It’s averaging more than 70,000 cases daily so far this month, while the recovery rate has exceeded 85%.
But health experts have warned that congregations during major festivals later this month and in November have the potential for the virus to spread.
“We have to work aggressively to make sure that during winter months and during the festive season coronavirus cases don’t rise dramatically,” said Dr. Randeep Guleria, a government health expert.
Experts say India’s fragile health system has been bolstered in recent months but could still be overwhelmed by an exponential rise in cases.
Consumer activity is gradually rebounding and millions of factory workers who had fled cities when India imposed a 2-month-long rigorous lockdown on March 25 are returning.
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SANTA FE, N.M. — New Mexico is losing ground in efforts to contain the spread of COVID-19 as newly reported daily infections hit a record of 488 cases.
Three additional deaths from the pandemic also were disclosed Friday by state health officials as fatalities from the pandemic surpassed 900.
Bernalillo County, with the state’s most populous urban area, accounted for 135 new cases, while Dona Ana had 81. Lea and Chaves counties together accounted for 77 new cases.
The state’s infection and positivity rates for the spread of the virus are climbing as the administration of Gov. Michelle Lujan Grisham holds the line on emergency public health restrictions.
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WINDOW ROCK, Ariz. — Enrolled members of the Navajo Nation will be eligible for payments of up to $1,500 as part of the tribe’s response to the coronavirus.
President Jonathan Nez and Vice President Myron Lizer on Friday approved the $49 million plan adopted by the tribal council. The funding comes from the tribe’s share of federal coronavirus relief funding.
Adults will be eligible for payments of $1,500 while minors are eligible for $500.
Nez said in a statement that there isn’t enough funding to cover payments for all enrolled members of the tribe, so the money should be directed to elders and those most in need.
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PROVIDENCE, R.I. — The University of Rhode Island has issued a two-week shelter-in-place order for fraternity and sorority houses because of a high number of coronavirus cases.
The school sent the notice Friday in tandem with its Interfraternity Council and Panhellenic Association.
Students may leave Greek housing only for medical visits and other essential services, such as grocery shopping and essential employment. The students will take classes virtually while sheltering.
Students and chapters that don’t follow guidelines could be suspended or dismissed.
The school says it based its decision on statistics showing a much higher rate of coronavirus positivity among students in Greek housing at over 11% than in total off-campus housing at under 4% or in the total on-campus population at 0.65%.
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ALBANY, N.Y. — A federal judge has refused to block New York’s plan to temporarily limit the size of religious gatherings in COVID-19 hot spots.
U.S. District Judge Kiyo Matsumoto issued the ruling after an emergency hearing in a lawsuit brought by rabbis and synagogues who said the restrictions were unconstitutional.
They had sought to have enforcement delayed until at least after Jewish holy days this weekend. The rules limit indoor prayer services in certain areas to no more than 10 people.
The judge said the state had an interest in protecting public safety.
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