mercurynews--2020-01-12--Riding Globes, ‘1917’ ends ‘Star Wars’ box-office reign

LOS ANGELES — It took the Great War to finally take down “ Star Wars.
” Director Sam Mendes ’ World War I story “ 1917 ” brought in $ 36.5 million in its first weekend of wide release , easily topping the box office and ending the three-week reign of “ Star Wars : The Rise of Skywalker , ” which brought in $ 15 million , according to studio estimates Sunday .
Universal ’ s expansion strategy worked beautifully for “ 1917 , ” as the film went from just 11 screens in its first two weeks to @ @ @ @ @ @ @ it won Golden Globes for best director and best drama film , and just before Monday ’ s Academy Award nominations , where it ’ s likely to get nods in several categories .
“ This is the blueprint for how to perfectly execute the platform release for a potential Oscar nominee and Oscar winner , ” said Paul Dergarabedian , senior media analyst for Comscore .
While the epic wartime feel of “ 1917 , ” which was shot and edited to appear as though it was done in a single take @ @ @ @ @ @ @ awards , its triumphs at the Golden Globes were a surprise over other dramas including “ The Irishman ” and “ Marriage Story.
” “ I hope this means that people will turn up and see this on the big screen , the way it was intended , ” Mendes said at the Globes ceremony .
Those hopes weren ’ t unfounded .
A good weekend was expected for the film , but it shot past those expectations .
“ It ’ s the not like the kids were clamoring for a World @ @ @ @ @ @ @ said .
“ A film like this could have easily slipped off the radar.
” With its previous two-week take , “ 1917 ” has now earned $ 39.2 million in the U.S. and Canada and over $ 60 million globally .
That ’ s of course dwarfed by Disney ’ s total domestic take of $ 478.2 million for “ Star Wars : The Rise of Skywalker , ” which is on the verge of reaching $ 1 billion globally after four weeks .
“ Jumanji : The Next Level ” was @ @ @ @ @ @ @ of release for Sony with earnings of $ 14 million , and has totaled more than $ 257 million domestically .
Sony has a smaller sort of hit in “ Little Women , ” which could also make a mark at Monday ’ s Oscar nominations and continues its strong run for a film of its kind , bringing in another $ 7.65 million to put it in the sixth spot with a total of $ 74 million after three weeks .
The usual January box-office blahs were in effect for the week @ @ @ @ @ @ @ a Boss , ” Paramount ’ s comedy starring Tiffany Haddish and Rose Byrne , finished in a fourth-place tie at $ 10 million with “ Just Mercy.
” “ Underwater , ” 20th Century Fox ’ s deep-sea adventure starring Kristen Stewart , brought in a tepid $ 7 million and finished below “ Little Women.
” “ For newcomers , this is usually not a bountiful time for the box office , ” Dergarabedian said .
“ It ’ s usually about the holdovers and awards-season contenders.
” The tied-for-fourth $ @ @ @ @ @ @ @ Warner Bros. ’ smaller-budgeted “ Just Mercy , ” which stars Michael B. Jordan in the true story of an attorney appealing a murder conviction , and like “ 1917 ” was expanded from just a few screens to a few thousand in its third weekend .
• Timothée Chalamet to play Bob Dylan ; no word on if he sings • Women made strides in 2019 ’ s films , but it ’ s still a ‘ Man ’ s ( Celluloid ) World , ’ new study shows • BAFTA nominates @ @ @ @ @ @ @ white .
• Harvey Weinstein sex assault trial gets under way in New York Estimated ticket sales for Friday through Sunday at U.S. and Canadian theaters , according to Comscore .
Where available , the latest international numbers for Friday through Sunday are also included .

By Andrew Dalton | Associated Press
LOS ANGELES — It took the Great War to finally take down “Star Wars.”
Director Sam Mendes’ World War I story “1917” brought in $36.5 million in its first weekend of wide release, easily topping the box office and ending the three-week reign of “Star Wars: The Rise of Skywalker,” which brought in $15 million, according to studio estimates Sunday.
Universal’s expansion strategy worked beautifully for “1917,” as the film went from just 11 screens in its first two weeks to more than 3,400 on the weekend after it won Golden Globes for best director and best drama film, and just before Monday’s Academy Award nominations, where it’s likely to get nods in several categories.
“This is the blueprint for how to perfectly execute the platform release for a potential Oscar nominee and Oscar winner,” said Paul Dergarabedian, senior media analyst for Comscore.
While the epic wartime feel of “1917,” which was shot and edited to appear as though it was done in a single take, makes it a natural for major awards, its triumphs at the Golden Globes were a surprise over other dramas including “The Irishman” and “Marriage Story.”
“I hope this means that people will turn up and see this on the big screen, the way it was intended,” Mendes said at the Globes ceremony. Those hopes weren’t unfounded.
A good weekend was expected for the film, but it shot past those expectations.
“It’s the not like the kids were clamoring for a World War I trench drama,” Dergarabedian said. “A film like this could have easily slipped off the radar.”
With its previous two-week take, “1917” has now earned $39.2 million in the U.S. and Canada and over $60 million globally. That’s of course dwarfed by Disney’s total domestic take of $478.2 million for “Star Wars: The Rise of Skywalker,” which is on the verge of reaching $1 billion globally after four weeks.
“Jumanji: The Next Level” was in third place in its fifth week of release for Sony with earnings of $14 million, and has totaled more than $257 million domestically.
Sony has a smaller sort of hit in “Little Women,” which could also make a mark at Monday’s Oscar nominations and continues its strong run for a film of its kind, bringing in another $7.65 million to put it in the sixth spot with a total of $74 million after three weeks.
The usual January box-office blahs were in effect for the week’s new releases.
“Like a Boss,” Paramount’s comedy starring Tiffany Haddish and Rose Byrne, finished in a fourth-place tie at $10 million with “Just Mercy.”
“Underwater,” 20th Century Fox’s deep-sea adventure starring Kristen Stewart, brought in a tepid $7 million and finished below “Little Women.”
“For newcomers, this is usually not a bountiful time for the box office,” Dergarabedian said. “It’s usually about the holdovers and awards-season contenders.”
The tied-for-fourth $10 million finish was better news for Warner Bros.’ smaller-budgeted “Just Mercy,” which stars Michael B. Jordan in the true story of an attorney appealing a murder conviction, and like “1917” was expanded from just a few screens to a few thousand in its third weekend.
Estimated ticket sales for Friday through Sunday at U.S. and Canadian theaters, according to Comscore. Where available, the latest international numbers for Friday through Sunday are also included.
“1917,” $36.5 million, ($19.9 million international). “Star Wars: Rise of Skywalker,” $15.1 million, ($24.2 million international). “Jumanji: The Next Level,” $14 million, ($22.6 million international). “Like a Boss,” $10 million. “Just Mercy,” $10 million. “Little Women,” $7.65 million, ($8.1 million international). “Underwater,” $7 million, ($7.1 million international). “Frozen 2,” $5.76 million, ($19.1 million international). “Knives Out,” $5.73 million, ($5.5 million international). “Spies in Disguise,” $5.1 million, ($11.4 million international).
Follow AP Entertainment Writer Andrew Dalton on Twitter at: https://twitter.com/andyjamesdalton.


mercurynews--2020-01-13--Julie Jason: SECURE Act has important changes for beneficiaries

No doubt , you ’ ve been reading about the SECURE Act ’ s impact on retirement accounts .
The SECURE Act was passed in December 2019 .
Regulations have not been issued as of yet , so be sure to talk with your attorney or accountant before taking any action .
A bit of controversy is brewing about one provision that affects post-death required minimum distributions for non-spouses — RMDs that are mandated after the employee ( in the case of a company plan ) or owner of the account ( if an IRA ) dies .
Let ’ @ @ @ @ @ @ @ An IRA owner ’ s beneficiary designation form named his grandchild as his IRA beneficiary .
When the owner died , the IRA was retitled as an inherited IRA for the benefit of the grandchild .
No matter the grandchild ’ s age ( even if the grandchild was age 2 ) , the inherited IRA was subject to RMDs that would extend many years over the grandchild ’ s life expectancy .
Thus , the grandchild could “ stretch ” out mandated withdrawals and , in turn , allow continued tax-deferred growth @ @ @ @ @ @ @ Act , which is now in effect , places a severe limit on the ability to stretch tax deferral beyond the IRA owner ’ s lifetime .
In this example , the grandchild ’ s stretch would be limited to 10 years .
( Before , the 2-year-old ’ s deferral period could last more than 80 years . )
If the IRA owner dies in 2020 , the grandchild ’ s inherited IRA must be distributed in full by the end of the 10th calendar year following the year of the IRA @ @ @ @ @ @ @ is not fully withdrawn by then , there would be a 50 % penalty on the amount that should have been withdrawn but was not .
There is no requirement that RMDs be satisfied yearly over the 10-year period .
The 10-year period also applies to inherited Roth IRAs .
Beneficiaries are not taxed on those withdrawals , but they are now required to bring those Roth balances down to zero much faster than under pre-SECURE Act law .
But of course , legislators are loath to keep things simple .
There are @ @ @ @ @ @ @ fall under a new category of beneficiary called an “ eligible designated beneficiary ” ( EDB ) .
Whether someone is an EDB is determined as of the date of death of the employee or IRA owner .
EDBs can continue the pre-SECURE Act stretch .
So , who are EDBs ?
In addition to the surviving spouse , a minor child is an EDB , but only until the minor reaches majority .
Then , “ any remainder of the portion of the individual ’ s interest … shall be distributed within @ @ @ @ @ @ @ quoting from the statute .
A “ disabled ” or “ chronically ill ” individual is also an EDB , with some limitations set out in the statute , as well as an “ individual not described in any of the preceding subclauses who is not more than 10 years younger than the employee.
” These changes raise some practical questions and create the need to review beneficiary designations and estate plans .
For those who want to benefit from longer tax-deferral periods , most will likely want to name their spouses as @ @ @ @ @ @ @ trust as beneficiary , you ’ ll definitely want your lawyer to review the effect of the SECURE Act on mandated deferrals .
I participated in a webinar given by attorney Natalie Choate the other day , and I can tell you that the new law requires a careful review , even if you have a carefully crafted conduit trust .
Choate is the author of “ Life and Death Planning for Retirement Accounts.
” Also , I encourage readers of this column to write to me with questions and comments .
When @ @ @ @ @ @ @ tell me where you read the column and the state you live in .
My email is readers @ juliejason.com .
On a completely different note , as a proponent of financial literacy education , I have a special interest in promoting investing for retirement , especially among young employees who have access to company retirement plans , such as 401 ( k ) s. If you know of any participants who take part in the benefits of their 401 ( k ) s at work , tell them to apply for the @ @ @ @ @ @ @ The award shines a light on participants who “ love ” their 401 ( k ) s. For rules and deadlines , go to juliejason.com/award .
Julie Jason , JD , LLM , a personal portfolio manager ( Jackson , Grant of Stamford , Conn. ) and author , welcomes your questions/comments ( readers @ juliejason.com ) .
Her awards include the 2018 Clarion Award , symbolizing excellence in clear , concise communications .
Her latest book , a curated collection of Julie ’ s columns , is “ Retire Securely : Insights @ @ @ @ @ @ @ Columnist.
” To hear Julie speak , visit www.juliejason.com/events .

No doubt, you’ve been reading about the SECURE Act’s impact on retirement accounts. The SECURE Act was passed in December 2019. Regulations have not been issued as of yet, so be sure to talk with your attorney or accountant before taking any action.
A bit of controversy is brewing about one provision that affects post-death required minimum distributions for non-spouses — RMDs that are mandated after the employee (in the case of a company plan) or owner of the account (if an IRA) dies.
Let’s take a pre-SECURE Act example. An IRA owner’s beneficiary designation form named his grandchild as his IRA beneficiary. When the owner died, the IRA was retitled as an inherited IRA for the benefit of the grandchild. No matter the grandchild’s age (even if the grandchild was age 2), the inherited IRA was subject to RMDs that would extend many years over the grandchild’s life expectancy. Thus, the grandchild could “stretch” out mandated withdrawals and, in turn, allow continued tax-deferred growth of the retirement account.
The SECURE Act, which is now in effect, places a severe limit on the ability to stretch tax deferral beyond the IRA owner’s lifetime. In this example, the grandchild’s stretch would be limited to 10 years. (Before, the 2-year-old’s deferral period could last more than 80 years.)
If the IRA owner dies in 2020, the grandchild’s inherited IRA must be distributed in full by the end of the 10th calendar year following the year of the IRA owner’s death. If it is not fully withdrawn by then, there would be a 50% penalty on the amount that should have been withdrawn but was not. There is no requirement that RMDs be satisfied yearly over the 10-year period.
The 10-year period also applies to inherited Roth IRAs. Beneficiaries are not taxed on those withdrawals, but they are now required to bring those Roth balances down to zero much faster than under pre-SECURE Act law.
But of course, legislators are loath to keep things simple. There are exceptions to the 10-year rule. They fall under a new category of beneficiary called an “eligible designated beneficiary” (EDB).
Whether someone is an EDB is determined as of the date of death of the employee or IRA owner. EDBs can continue the pre-SECURE Act stretch.
So, who are EDBs? In addition to the surviving spouse, a minor child is an EDB, but only until the minor reaches majority. Then, “any remainder of the portion of the individual’s interest … shall be distributed within 10 years after such date,” quoting from the statute.
A “disabled” or “chronically ill” individual is also an EDB, with some limitations set out in the statute, as well as an “individual not described in any of the preceding subclauses who is not more than 10 years younger than the employee.”
These changes raise some practical questions and create the need to review beneficiary designations and estate plans. For those who want to benefit from longer tax-deferral periods, most will likely want to name their spouses as their beneficiaries. If you have a trust as beneficiary, you’ll definitely want your lawyer to review the effect of the SECURE Act on mandated deferrals.
I participated in a webinar given by attorney Natalie Choate the other day, and I can tell you that the new law requires a careful review, even if you have a carefully crafted conduit trust. Choate is the author of “Life and Death Planning for Retirement Accounts.”
Also, I encourage readers of this column to write to me with questions and comments. When you do, please be sure to tell me where you read the column and the state you live in. My email is readers@juliejason.com.
On a completely different note, as a proponent of financial literacy education, I have a special interest in promoting investing for retirement, especially among young employees who have access to company retirement plans, such as 401(k)s. If you know of any participants who take part in the benefits of their 401(k)s at work, tell them to apply for the 401(k) Champion Award. The award shines a light on participants who “love” their 401(k)s. For rules and deadlines, go to juliejason.com/award.
Julie Jason, JD, LLM, a personal portfolio manager (Jackson, Grant of Stamford, Conn.) and author, welcomes your questions/comments (readers@juliejason.com). Her awards include the 2018 Clarion Award, symbolizing excellence in clear, concise communications. Her latest book, a curated collection of Julie’s columns, is “Retire Securely: Insights on Money Management From an Award-Winning Financial Columnist.” To hear Julie speak, visit www.juliejason.com/events.


mercurynews--2020-01-13--Horoscopes Jan. 13, 2020: Orlando Bloom, get ready to take action.

Happy Birthday : Get ready to take action .
Initiate change , look for a way to expand and make whatever comes available work to your advantage .
Keep emotional matters in the background , and let whoever is making a fuss chill out before you make suggestions or offer help .
Make your life , goals and needs priorities , and you will find satisfaction and success .
Your numbers are 8 , 15 , 22 , 29 , 33 , 35 , 41 .
ARIES ( March 21-April 19 ) : Put additional effort into how you earn @ @ @ @ @ @ @ .
If you decide to make a move or change , keep it to a minimum and stay within your budget .
Personal improvement is favored .
3 stars TAURUS ( April 20-May 20 ) : You have options .
Set expectations and goals that are doable .
Check out courses or apprenticeships that interest you .
Look for a better position or a way to cut your overhead or invest wisely .
Having a safety net will ease stress .
5 stars GEMINI ( May 21-June 20 ) : Check out any @ @ @ @ @ @ @ business with pleasure will be difficult .
Someone you feel responsible for will use emotional tactics to get his or her way .
Don ’ t feel guilty ; do what ’ s right .
Pay attention to health issues .
2 stars CANCER ( June 21-July 22 ) : Do your best to help those in need .
Your input will make a difference as well as give your reputation a boost .
Time spent with someone you love will bring you closer together .
A change will end up being to @ @ @ @ @ @ @ July 23-Aug. 22 ) : Stick to what works best for you .
Don ’ t expect everyone to be happy with your decision .
Do something that physically challenges you .
Blowing off steam will lower your stress and encourage strength when dealing with sensitive issues .
3 stars VIRGO ( Aug. 23-Sept. 22 ) : Do something that brings you joy .
Focus on dealing with outsiders who can offer something new and exciting .
It ’ s time to do things your way and stop worrying about what others think @ @ @ @ @ @ @ Sept. 23-Oct. 22 ) : An emotional situation will surface if you ignore what others are trying to ask for or tell you .
Honesty will help you handle a difficult situation .
Take one step at a time .
A day trip will be enlightening .
3 stars SCORPIO ( Oct. 23-Nov. 21 ) : Quicken your pace , and get your plans rolled out .
Start to put your ideas in motion , even if you feel unprepared .
Cast your fate to the wind , and follow your heart .
@ @ @ @ @ @ @ Broaden your vision .
4 stars SAGITTARIUS ( Nov. 22-Dec. 21 ) : You may think you know what ’ s unfolding emotionally , but someone will take you by surprise and leave you questioning what ’ s happening .
Don ’ t overreact or exaggerate .
Keep the peace until you have verified what ’ s going on .
2 stars CAPRICORN ( Dec. 22-Jan. 19 ) : Don ’ t wait ; put your plans in motion , and don ’ t look back .
Know what you want , and @ @ @ @ @ @ @ top of situations that can affect your emotional well-being , but don ’ t give in to anyone trying to manipulate you .
3 stars AQUARIUS ( Jan. 20-Feb. 18 ) : Consider your options .
Contact people who can help you .
Think about partnering with someone who can bring new life to an old plan .
Channel your energy into development , hands-on help and using your skills and experience to bring about change .
3 stars PISCES ( Feb. 19-March 20 ) : You ’ ll make a good impression @ @ @ @ @ @ @ handle change will make a difference to the outcome of a situation that harbors resentment .
Be smart — listen , observe and make well-thought-out decisions .
Don ’ t give up on your dreams .
3 stars Birthday Baby : You are forceful , encouraging and meticulous .
You are practical and responsive .

CELEBRITIES BORN ON THIS DAY: Liam Hemsworth, 30; Orlando Bloom, 43; Patrick Dempsey, 54; Julia Louis-Dreyfus, 59.
Happy Birthday: Get ready to take action. Initiate change, look for a way to expand and make whatever comes available work to your advantage. Keep emotional matters in the background, and let whoever is making a fuss chill out before you make suggestions or offer help. Make your life, goals and needs priorities, and you will find satisfaction and success. Your numbers are 8, 15, 22, 29, 33, 35, 41.
ARIES (March 21-April 19): Put additional effort into how you earn your living and handle your financial affairs. If you decide to make a move or change, keep it to a minimum and stay within your budget. Personal improvement is favored. 3 stars
TAURUS (April 20-May 20): You have options. Set expectations and goals that are doable. Check out courses or apprenticeships that interest you. Look for a better position or a way to cut your overhead or invest wisely. Having a safety net will ease stress. 5 stars
GEMINI (May 21-June 20): Check out any offer that comes your way. Mixing business with pleasure will be difficult. Someone you feel responsible for will use emotional tactics to get his or her way. Don’t feel guilty; do what’s right. Pay attention to health issues. 2 stars
CANCER (June 21-July 22): Do your best to help those in need. Your input will make a difference as well as give your reputation a boost. Time spent with someone you love will bring you closer together. A change will end up being to your benefit. 4 stars
LEO (July 23-Aug. 22): Stick to what works best for you. Don’t expect everyone to be happy with your decision. Do something that physically challenges you. Blowing off steam will lower your stress and encourage strength when dealing with sensitive issues. 3 stars
VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22): Do something that brings you joy. Focus on dealing with outsiders who can offer something new and exciting. It’s time to do things your way and stop worrying about what others think or do. 3 stars
LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 22): An emotional situation will surface if you ignore what others are trying to ask for or tell you. Honesty will help you handle a difficult situation. Take one step at a time. A day trip will be enlightening. 3 stars
SCORPIO (Oct. 23-Nov. 21): Quicken your pace, and get your plans rolled out. Start to put your ideas in motion, even if you feel unprepared. Cast your fate to the wind, and follow your heart. Your effort will serve you well. Broaden your vision. 4 stars
SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22-Dec. 21): You may think you know what’s unfolding emotionally, but someone will take you by surprise and leave you questioning what’s happening. Don’t overreact or exaggerate. Keep the peace until you have verified what’s going on. 2 stars
CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19): Don’t wait; put your plans in motion, and don’t look back. Know what you want, and go after it wholeheartedly. Stay on top of situations that can affect your emotional well-being, but don’t give in to anyone trying to manipulate you. 3 stars
AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 18): Consider your options. Contact people who can help you. Think about partnering with someone who can bring new life to an old plan. Channel your energy into development, hands-on help and using your skills and experience to bring about change. 3 stars
PISCES (Feb. 19-March 20): You’ll make a good impression if you help others. How you handle change will make a difference to the outcome of a situation that harbors resentment. Be smart — listen, observe and make well-thought-out decisions. Don’t give up on your dreams. 3 stars
Birthday Baby: You are forceful, encouraging and meticulous. You are practical and responsive.
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Word Game: Jan. 13, 2020

TODAY ’ S WORD — VESPINE ( VESPINE : VES-pin : Of , relating to or resembling wasps . )
@ @ @ @ @ more words in VESPINE ?
The list will be published tomorrow .
To purchase the @ @ @ @ @ WordGameBooks.com .
Order it now for just $ 5 while supplies last !
1 .
@ @ @ @ @ or more letters .
2 .
Words that acquire four letters by the addition of @ @ @ @ @ as “ bats ” or “ dies , ” are not allowed .
3 .
@ @ @ @ @ a “ d ” or an “ s ” may not be used .
For @ @ @ @ @ ” is used , “ baked ” or “ bakes ” are not allowed , @ @ @ @ @ “ baking ” are admissible .
4 .
Proper nouns , slang words , or @ @ @ @ @ are not allowed .

TODAY’S WORD — VESPINE (VESPINE: VES-pin: Of, relating to or resembling wasps.)
Average mark 14 words
Time limit 25 minutes
Can you find 19 or more words in VESPINE? The list will be published tomorrow.
SATURDAY’S WORD — INCLEMENT icemen inlet item nene nice niece
nine cement cent centime cite clement client clime lenient lent lice lien
lime limn line linemen linen linnet lint elect elite emetic eminent emit entice
meet melt mete mice mien mile mince mine mint mite teem teen telic
tile time tine
To purchase the Word Game book, visit WordGameBooks.com. Order it now for just $5 while supplies last!
RULES OF THE GAME:
1. Words must be of four or more letters.
2. Words that acquire four letters by the addition of “s,” such as “bats” or “dies,” are not allowed.
3. Additional words made by adding a “d” or an “s” may not be used. For example, if “bake” is used, “baked” or “bakes” are not allowed, but “bake” and “baking” are admissible.
4. Proper nouns, slang words, or vulgar or sexually explicit words are not allowed.
Contact Word Game creator Kathleen Saxe at kzsaxe@gmail.com.


Bridge: Jan. 13, 2020

“ I ’ m turning over a new leaf , ” Unlucky Louie told me resolutely .
“ From now on , I ’ m playing slowly and carefully.
” “ If he turned over a new leaf , ” Cy the Cynic sniffed , “ there would be poison ivy under it.
” Louie ’ s campaign started badly .
As declarer at today ’ s six spades , Louie took the king of hearts and promptly drew trumps with the A-Q .
He led the A-K and a third diamond , hoping for a 3-3 break , but @ @ @ @ @ @ @ .
Louie ruffed , led a trump to dummy , threw a club on the ace of hearts and tried a club to his queen .
Down one .
Louie ’ s new leaf withered ; his play was neither slow nor careful .
After he takes the ace of trumps , he can cash the top diamonds , lead a trump to dummy , discard a diamond on the ace of hearts and ruff a diamond .
When East shows out , Louie leads a trump to dummy and returns the fourth @ @ @ @ @ @ @ loser-on-loser .
West wins and is end-played .
He must lead a club from his king or concede a ruff-sluff .
You hold : S K 9 3 2 H A 6 D 5 4 3 2 C 5 4 3 .
The dealer , at your left , opens one club .
Your partner doubles , you bid one spade and he raises to two spades .
What do you say ?
ANSWER : Your partner was willing to have you play for eight tricks , and he couldn ’ t know @ @ @ @ @ @ @ king .
So his raise promises a hand with significant extra strength .
If you trust him , bid at least three spades .
If vulnerable , you might bid four spades .

“I’m turning over a new leaf,” Unlucky Louie told me resolutely. “From now on, I’m playing slowly and carefully.”
“If he turned over a new leaf,” Cy the Cynic sniffed, “there would be poison ivy under it.”
Louie’s campaign started badly. As declarer at today’s six spades, Louie took the king of hearts and promptly drew trumps with the A-Q. He led the A-K and a third diamond, hoping for a 3-3 break, but West won and led a fourth diamond.
Louie ruffed, led a trump to dummy, threw a club on the ace of hearts and tried a club to his queen. Down one.
WITHERED
Louie’s new leaf withered; his play was neither slow nor careful. After he takes the ace of trumps, he can cash the top diamonds, lead a trump to dummy, discard a diamond on the ace of hearts and ruff a diamond.
When East shows out, Louie leads a trump to dummy and returns the fourth diamond, throwing a club: a loser-on-loser. West wins and is end-played. He must lead a club from his king or concede a ruff-sluff.
DAILY QUESTION
You hold: S K 9 3 2 H A 6 D 5 4 3 2 C 5 4 3. The dealer, at your left, opens one club. Your partner doubles, you bid one spade and he raises to two spades. What do you say?
ANSWER: Your partner was willing to have you play for eight tricks, and he couldn’t know that you have an ace and a king. So his raise promises a hand with significant extra strength. If you trust him, bid at least three spades. If vulnerable, you might bid four spades.
South dealer
Both sides vulnerable
NORTH
S K 9 3 2
H A 6
D 5 4 3 2
C 5 4 3
WEST
S 5 4
H Q J 10 9
D J 9 8 7
C K 7 6
EAST
S 6
H 8 7 5 4 3 2
D Q 10
C J 10 9 8
SOUTH
S A Q J 10 8 7
H K
D A K 6
C A Q 2
South West North East
2 C Pass 2 D Pass
2 S Pass 3 S Pass
6 S All Pass
Opening lead — H Q
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mercurynews--2020-01-13--Ask Amy: I’m contemplating a future with awful children

DEAR AMY : My boyfriend of eight years has raised perfectly awful children .
They lack basic kindness and empathy toward their father — and toward others in general .
I have raised two children of my own who volunteer , assist with nonprofit organizations , and are wonderful and caring individuals .
We mainly spend time around my family ; his children are in college .
We don ’ t spend any time with his daughter .
She won ’ t accept that he is even dating me ( I ruin her perfect picture of what a family is @ @ @ @ @ @ @ selfish and self-centered .
Their behavior leads my daughters to question why I would stay with my boyfriend and tolerate his kids ’ behavior .
We don ’ t live together , and I try to distance myself from much interaction .
But when I hear his children speak to him disrespectfully , it leads me to doubt whether we can ever be together because of the way they act .
My boyfriend and I are in our 50s and have been working toward a combined life for some time .
His kids @ @ @ @ @ @ @ Before moving ahead in selling houses and possibly marriage , I would like to know how to reconcile these differences in my own little brain and be OK with one set of offspring acting one way and the other one acting completely differently .
I wonder how I can manage to tolerate this if I stay with my boyfriend .
DEAR WORRIED : Overall , your judgment ( your children are wonderful/his are awful ) reveals a lack of empathy toward a set of young people who may be hurting , lashing out @ @ @ @ @ @ @ your empathy ?
Where is your kindness ?
If you have been in this man ’ s life for eight years , and his kids are in college , then the two of you have had plenty of time to try to influence these young people .
If your boyfriend didn ’ t influence them because he let someone else ( presumably his ex-wife ) raise them , then he ’ s a neglectful parent .
If your boyfriend did raise them , then he ’ s a deeply flawed parent .
And @ @ @ @ @ @ @ he ’ s demonstrating that he ’ s a flawed partner , too .
Many college-age people go through a self-centered jerky phase .
It is possible that these young adults are still maturing , and may actually grow and change .
However , the person at the center of this maelstrom is your boyfriend — not his kids .
For whatever reason ( probably many different reasons ) , he has not been an effective and positive influence .
And because you are so judgmental and their father is so passive , @ @ @ @ @ @ @ change .
When you think about your future , take these last eight years and then lay another two decades or so out in front of you .
You will be facing a lot of rejection , a lot of frustration , and the burden of your own harsh judgment .
That ’ s a lot to manage .
DEAR AMY : As we disconnect our land lines , cellphones are the main communication device for most of us .
There used to be an unwritten rule not to call someone after 10 @ @ @ @ @ @ @ people sending text messages and making cellphone calls ?
I get so annoyed with people texting at all hours of the night and early morning hours with nothing of importance , but simply “ catching up ” messages .
Since my cellphone is my only phone now , I need to keep it on for work and any family emergencies .
But I can ’ t stand these early morning and late-night messages .
How to handle this ?
DEAR ANNOYED : Let me hop onto the bandwagon here concerning group texts .
@ @ @ @ @ @ @ or blast in ) is a major annoyance for me .
Fortunately for both of us , you can very easily turn off the notifications for text messages , so you won ’ t hear them when they come in .
Get to know the capacities and features of your phone .
The “ do not disturb ” feature ( in “ settings ” ) will allow you to silence all notifications except for calls from specific people .
DEAR AMY : Responding to the question from “ New-ish Mom , ” who @ @ @ @ @ @ @ advice , the only advice I gave to my daughters when they had children was this : Only take parenting advice from people who have raised perfect children .
I haven ’ t met anyone who is qualified for that , yet .
DEAR MOM : Perfect parenting doesn ’ t exist .
But some of the best advice I ’ ve received is from parents who share their mistakes .
You can email Amy Dickinson at askamy @ amydickinson.com or send a letter to Ask Amy , P.O .
Box 194 , @ @ @ @ @ @ @ also follow her on Twitter @ askingamy or Facebook .

DEAR AMY: My boyfriend of eight years has raised perfectly awful children.
They lack basic kindness and empathy toward their father — and toward others in general.
I have raised two children of my own who volunteer, assist with nonprofit organizations, and are wonderful and caring individuals.
We mainly spend time around my family; his children are in college.
We don’t spend any time with his daughter. She won’t accept that he is even dating me (I ruin her perfect picture of what a family is), and his boys are very selfish and self-centered.
Their behavior leads my daughters to question why I would stay with my boyfriend and tolerate his kids’ behavior.
We don’t live together, and I try to distance myself from much interaction. But when I hear his children speak to him disrespectfully, it leads me to doubt whether we can ever be together because of the way they act.
My boyfriend and I are in our 50s and have been working toward a combined life for some time. His kids cause me to question our future.
Before moving ahead in selling houses and possibly marriage, I would like to know how to reconcile these differences in my own little brain and be OK with one set of offspring acting one way and the other one acting completely differently. I wonder how I can manage to tolerate this if I stay with my boyfriend.
Worried
DEAR WORRIED: Overall, your judgment (your children are wonderful/his are awful) reveals a lack of empathy toward a set of young people who may be hurting, lashing out, or perennially angry. Where is your empathy? Where is your kindness?
If you have been in this man’s life for eight years, and his kids are in college, then the two of you have had plenty of time to try to influence these young people.
If your boyfriend didn’t influence them because he let someone else (presumably his ex-wife) raise them, then he’s a neglectful parent.
If your boyfriend did raise them, then he’s a deeply flawed parent. And in letting his children reject you, he’s demonstrating that he’s a flawed partner, too.
Many college-age people go through a self-centered jerky phase. It is possible that these young adults are still maturing, and may actually grow and change.
However, the person at the center of this maelstrom is your boyfriend — not his kids. For whatever reason (probably many different reasons), he has not been an effective and positive influence. And because you are so judgmental and their father is so passive, these young people have no motivation to change.
When you think about your future, take these last eight years and then lay another two decades or so out in front of you. You will be facing a lot of rejection, a lot of frustration, and the burden of your own harsh judgment. That’s a lot to manage.
DEAR AMY: As we disconnect our land lines, cellphones are the main communication device for most of us.
There used to be an unwritten rule not to call someone after 10 p.m.
What is the proper etiquette on people sending text messages and making cellphone calls?
I get so annoyed with people texting at all hours of the night and early morning hours with nothing of importance, but simply “catching up” messages.
Since my cellphone is my only phone now, I need to keep it on for work and any family emergencies. But I can’t stand these early morning and late-night messages. How to handle this?
So Annoyed
DEAR ANNOYED: Let me hop onto the bandwagon here concerning group texts. Listening to multiple notifications trickle in (or blast in) is a major annoyance for me.
Fortunately for both of us, you can very easily turn off the notifications for text messages, so you won’t hear them when they come in.
Get to know the capacities and features of your phone. The “do not disturb” feature (in “settings”) will allow you to silence all notifications except for calls from specific people.
Want Ask Amy delivered to your inbox for free on weekdays?
DEAR AMY: Responding to the question from “New-ish Mom,” who didn’t want to receive unsolicited advice, the only advice I gave to my daughters when they had children was this: Only take parenting advice from people who have raised perfect children. I haven’t met anyone who is qualified for that, yet.
Older Mom
DEAR MOM: Perfect parenting doesn’t exist. But some of the best advice I’ve received is from parents who share their mistakes.
You can email Amy Dickinson at askamy@amydickinson.com or send a letter to Ask Amy, P.O. Box 194, Freeville, NY 13068. You can also follow her on Twitter @askingamy or Facebook.


mercurynews--2020-01-13--Harriette Cole: I think the school is handling these racist incidents wrong

DEAR HARRIETTE : There have been a couple of racist and anti-Semitic incidents at my son ’ s school recently , and it is disturbing to the whole student body , the faculty and the parents .
But I don ’ t see much being done about it .
At my son ’ s old school , the leadership hosted discussions with the students and parents that were led by experts .
At this school , there have been forums for the students to talk to the leadership , but they were unproductive and led to more division .
I @ @ @ @ @ @ @ one of those diversity and inclusion experts to help the school deal with some pretty serious issues .
How can I do that and be heard ?
There are so many accusations flying right now that I don ’ t think anybody is actually listening .
DEAR VOICE OF AUTHORITY : Do your research and identify organizations or individuals who are known as experts in the field .
Make a list of several choices that offer specific services at different rates .
Figure out who your allies are at the school .
In @ @ @ @ @ @ @ allies on all sides — with the administration , the students and the parents .
Form a small group , and ask them to work with you to help present your findings and recommendations to leadership .
Request a meeting with the school principal .
Outline your concerns and your reasons for why professional help may be advisable .
If you meet with the principal and your small coalition of supporters , you will have a chance to get them to consider your idea .
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• Harriette Cole : My husband says we shouldn ’ t tell our son what we found in his room DEAR HARRIETTE : I have two sons who love to play video games more than just about anything .
They are middle-schoolers , but they rarely want to go out and socialize .
They do connect online with other kids who plays these games @ @ @ @ @ @ @ that they aren ’ t out roaming the streets , but it is weird to me that they are so absorbed in their games .
It doesn ’ t seem healthy .
How can I get them to come up for air ?
DEAR VIDEO GAME OVERDOSE : You can limit the time that your sons are allowed to use their electronics and schedule other activities that will occupy them .
It is important to have other things for them to do so that they don ’ t feel like they are being @ @ @ @ @ @ @ play their games .
Find out what else excites them .
Start with school subjects .
Does anything pique their interest that may get them to want to go out and explore ?
What museums might be of interest to them ?
Sporting activities ?
If you can ’ t think of anything that is attractive to them , include them in things that you enjoy .
The point is that you should replace their game time with interactive face-to-face engagements .
Harriette Cole is a lifestylist and founder of DREAMLEAPERS , an @ @ @ @ @ @ @ their dreams .
You can send questions to askharriette @ harriettecole.com or c/o Andrews McMeel Syndication , 1130 Walnut St. , Kansas City , MO 64106 .

DEAR HARRIETTE: There have been a couple of racist and anti-Semitic incidents at my son’s school recently, and it is disturbing to the whole student body, the faculty and the parents. But I don’t see much being done about it. At my son’s old school, the leadership hosted discussions with the students and parents that were led by experts. At this school, there have been forums for the students to talk to the leadership, but they were unproductive and led to more division.
I want to recommend that the principal hire one of those diversity and inclusion experts to help the school deal with some pretty serious issues. How can I do that and be heard? There are so many accusations flying right now that I don’t think anybody is actually listening.
Voice of Authority
DEAR VOICE OF AUTHORITY: Do your research and identify organizations or individuals who are known as experts in the field. Make a list of several choices that offer specific services at different rates. Figure out who your allies are at the school. In a best-case scenario, you would have allies on all sides — with the administration, the students and the parents. Form a small group, and ask them to work with you to help present your findings and recommendations to leadership.
Request a meeting with the school principal. Outline your concerns and your reasons for why professional help may be advisable. If you meet with the principal and your small coalition of supporters, you will have a chance to get them to consider your idea.
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I suppose I should be happy that they aren’t out roaming the streets, but it is weird to me that they are so absorbed in their games. It doesn’t seem healthy. How can I get them to come up for air?
Video Game Overdose
DEAR VIDEO GAME OVERDOSE: You can limit the time that your sons are allowed to use their electronics and schedule other activities that will occupy them. It is important to have other things for them to do so that they don’t feel like they are being punished when they are not allowed to play their games.
Find out what else excites them. Start with school subjects. Does anything pique their interest that may get them to want to go out and explore? What museums might be of interest to them? Sporting activities?
If you can’t think of anything that is attractive to them, include them in things that you enjoy. The point is that you should replace their game time with interactive face-to-face engagements.
Harriette Cole is a lifestylist and founder of DREAMLEAPERS, an initiative to help people access and activate their dreams. You can send questions to askharriette@harriettecole.com or c/o Andrews McMeel Syndication, 1130 Walnut St., Kansas City, MO 64106.


mercurynews--2020-01-13--Miss Manners: How I lost weight is none of their business

DEAR MISS MANNERS : I lost about 75 pounds over the course of a year due to a chronic illness .
It was partially the illness , but mostly the medications I was taking , which made me nauseated and I never had an appetite .
My doctors and I feel that the illness is mostly under control now .
My closest friends and family are aware of my diagnosis , but it is not something I ’ m comfortable sharing with those outside my inner circle .
However , when I see someone who has not seen me in @ @ @ @ @ @ @ complimentary of how great I look .
For the most part , I can say “ thank you ” and change the subject , but many times , people will not give up .
They want to know my diet and exercise secrets , and it gets very uncomfortable because obviously I do not have any .
I don ’ t want to lie to them , but I ’ m also not comfortable sharing my medical history in casual conversation .
How can I politely decline to answer these questions without telling @ @ @ @ @ @ @ Manners : How should I have handled this woman ’ s parking lot rage ?
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GENTLE READER : “ I didn ’ t put any special effort into it .
I was actually able to eat as much as I wanted.
” Although this is quite true , as you did not want to eat , Miss Manners is aware that it will annoy your @ @ @ @ @ @ @ a magic formula that they can use to lose weight without the tiresome necessity of eating less and exercising .
But so be it .
They will be momentarily stunned , during which time you can open another topic .
DEAR MISS MANNERS : I have an amazing group of friends and neighbors with whom I love to enjoy outings , parties and events .
Depending on the host , venue or situation , the guest list is not always under my control .
A lot of these gatherings get posted on social @ @ @ @ @ @ @ , who knows none of the other ladies , comments on the social media posts that her feelings were hurt that she did not get invited , and that she must not be very much fun .
I ’ m at a loss as to how to respond .
I have told her before that it wasn ’ t up to me who to invite , it wasn ’ t my home , or I could only invite very limited guests .
This does not seem to stop her from commenting .
She @ @ @ @ @ @ @ she does not know any of the other ladies , and it makes me feel terrible .
Am I in the wrong ?
GENTLE READER : Only for not understanding that your childhood friend is still a child .
It is unfortunate that social media has trashed the rule against advertising parties to those who are not invited .
But still , mature people should come to terms with the fact that they are not likely to be included in everything .
And in this case , it is especially unrealistic of your @ @ @ @ @ @ @ to strangers ’ parties .
Miss Manners notes that you have tried to explain this , and can only keep doing so .
But you can at least spare yourself doubts .
Please send your questions to Miss Manners at her website , www.missmanners.com ; to her email , dearmissmanners @ gmail.com ; or through postal mail to Miss Manners , Andrews McMeel Syndication , 1130 Walnut St. , Kansas City , MO 64106 .

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DEAR MISS MANNERS: I lost about 75 pounds over the course of a year due to a chronic illness. It was partially the illness, but mostly the medications I was taking, which made me nauseated and I never had an appetite. My doctors and I feel that the illness is mostly under control now.
My closest friends and family are aware of my diagnosis, but it is not something I’m comfortable sharing with those outside my inner circle. However, when I see someone who has not seen me in several months, they are often over-the-top complimentary of how great I look.
For the most part, I can say “thank you” and change the subject, but many times, people will not give up. They want to know my diet and exercise secrets, and it gets very uncomfortable because obviously I do not have any.
I don’t want to lie to them, but I’m also not comfortable sharing my medical history in casual conversation. How can I politely decline to answer these questions without telling people to back off?
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Although this is quite true, as you did not want to eat, Miss Manners is aware that it will annoy your questioners. They are hoping to hear a magic formula that they can use to lose weight without the tiresome necessity of eating less and exercising.
But so be it. They will be momentarily stunned, during which time you can open another topic.
DEAR MISS MANNERS: I have an amazing group of friends and neighbors with whom I love to enjoy outings, parties and events. Depending on the host, venue or situation, the guest list is not always under my control. A lot of these gatherings get posted on social media.
A childhood friend of mine, who knows none of the other ladies, comments on the social media posts that her feelings were hurt that she did not get invited, and that she must not be very much fun.
I’m at a loss as to how to respond. I have told her before that it wasn’t up to me who to invite, it wasn’t my home, or I could only invite very limited guests. This does not seem to stop her from commenting.
She does not live in our area, she does not know any of the other ladies, and it makes me feel terrible. Am I in the wrong?
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GENTLE READER: Only for not understanding that your childhood friend is still a child.
It is unfortunate that social media has trashed the rule against advertising parties to those who are not invited. But still, mature people should come to terms with the fact that they are not likely to be included in everything. And in this case, it is especially unrealistic of your friend to pout about not being invited to strangers’ parties.
Miss Manners notes that you have tried to explain this, and can only keep doing so. But you can at least spare yourself doubts.
Please send your questions to Miss Manners at her website, www.missmanners.com; to her email, dearmissmanners@gmail.com; or through postal mail to Miss Manners, Andrews McMeel Syndication, 1130 Walnut St., Kansas City, MO 64106.


mercurynews--2020-01-13--Dear Abby: It’s a deal-breaker that he won’t tell me about his father

DEAR ABBY : My boyfriend of two years and I recently moved in together .
When we first met , he let me know he had lost his father to cancer a few years prior .
While I know a little about his father , it is mostly superficial .
As our relationship has progressed — moving in , talking about our future — I long to know more about his dad .
What kind of a father and husband was he ?
What special memories does my boyfriend have of spending time with him ?
However , when I @ @ @ @ @ @ @ with no elaboration .
If I ask more than one question at a time , I feel like I ’ m pulling teeth , so I just drop it .
When I asked if he ’ s uncomfortable talking about it , he says it ’ s fine , but I still know next to nothing .
The only time he brings up his dad is around the time of his dad ’ s birthday , the anniversary of his death or the time when they found out about his prognosis .
At @ @ @ @ @ @ @ I don ’ t want to cause my boyfriend more pain , and I worry that I ’ m being insensitive by asking him to talk about it .
Yet , if we are going to start a life together and be a family one day , I want to know about his father .
DEAR CURIOUS : Your boyfriend may not want to discuss his relationship with his father because the subject is painful , either because of his death or because they were not close .
If you want more details @ @ @ @ @ @ @ your boyfriend ’ s mother or his siblings , if he has any .
Because the subject clearly makes him uncomfortable , back off .
DEAR ABBY : I don ’ t smoke , but my mother and fiancee are chain smokers .
This is particularly annoying when the three of us eat together because they always light up during the meal .
For example , they ’ ll almost always have a cigarette after the salad , another before the dessert and then two or three cigarettes afterward .
It ruins the @ @ @ @ @ @ @ really disappointed in my fiancee , who seems to have forgotten her promise to quit smoking before our wedding day .
Is there anything I can do about their smoking at the dinner table ?
And should I remind my fiancee about her promise to give up cigarettes and be a smoke-free bride ?
DEAR ANNOYED : Your mother and your fiancee are nicotine addicts .
That they can not get through a meal without lighting at least three cigarettes is alarming .
No rule of etiquette dictates that you must tolerate secondhand @ @ @ @ @ @ @ your dinner .
If they need a fix , they should be considerate enough to excuse themselves from the table to indulge .
On a slightly different , but equally important , subject , your fiancee has not “ forgotten ” her promise to give up cigarettes before your wedding .
She ’ s ignoring it , and you haven ’ t called her on it .
Please do .
If you marry her , you will be living in a tobacco haze for the rest of her life , which could have @ @ @ @ @ @ @ your children ’ s — health in the future .
Don ’ t say you weren ’ t warned .
Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren , also known as Jeanne Phillips , and was founded by her mother , Pauline Phillips .
Contact Dear Abby at www.DearAbby.com or P.O .
Box 69440 , Los Angeles , CA 90069 .

DEAR ABBY: My boyfriend of two years and I recently moved in together. When we first met, he let me know he had lost his father to cancer a few years prior. While I know a little about his father, it is mostly superficial.
As our relationship has progressed — moving in, talking about our future — I long to know more about his dad. What kind of a father and husband was he? What special memories does my boyfriend have of spending time with him? However, when I ask questions, I get succinct answers with no elaboration. If I ask more than one question at a time, I feel like I’m pulling teeth, so I just drop it. When I asked if he’s uncomfortable talking about it, he says it’s fine, but I still know next to nothing.
The only time he brings up his dad is around the time of his dad’s birthday, the anniversary of his death or the time when they found out about his prognosis. At those times he is clearly grieving. I don’t want to cause my boyfriend more pain, and I worry that I’m being insensitive by asking him to talk about it. Yet, if we are going to start a life together and be a family one day, I want to know about his father.
CURIOUS IN NEW YORK
DEAR CURIOUS: Your boyfriend may not want to discuss his relationship with his father because the subject is painful, either because of his death or because they were not close. If you want more details, you might have better luck asking your boyfriend’s mother or his siblings, if he has any. Because the subject clearly makes him uncomfortable, back off.
DEAR ABBY: I don’t smoke, but my mother and fiancee are chain smokers. This is particularly annoying when the three of us eat together because they always light up during the meal. For example, they’ll almost always have a cigarette after the salad, another before the dessert and then two or three cigarettes afterward. It ruins the meal for me.
I’m really disappointed in my fiancee, who seems to have forgotten her promise to quit smoking before our wedding day. Is there anything I can do about their smoking at the dinner table? And should I remind my fiancee about her promise to give up cigarettes and be a smoke-free bride?
ANNOYED IN ALABAMA
DEAR ANNOYED: Your mother and your fiancee are nicotine addicts. That they cannot get through a meal without lighting at least three cigarettes is alarming. No rule of etiquette dictates that you must tolerate secondhand smoke while you are trying to enjoy your dinner. If they need a fix, they should be considerate enough to excuse themselves from the table to indulge.
On a slightly different, but equally important, subject, your fiancee has not “forgotten” her promise to give up cigarettes before your wedding.
She’s ignoring it, and you haven’t called her on it. Please do. If you marry her, you will be living in a tobacco haze for the rest of her life, which could have a negative effect on your — and your children’s — health in the future. Don’t say you weren’t warned.
Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips. Contact Dear Abby at www.DearAbby.com or P.O. Box 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069.


mercurynews--2020-01-13--Photos: 19th Annual “No Pants” BART Ride Day

Click here if you ’ re having trouble viewing this gallery on a mobile device Today about 40 people braved @ @ @ @ @ in the 19th Annual “ No Pants ” BART Ride Day on Sunday , Jan. @ @ @ @ @ from around the Bay Area gathered at several meeting locations and boarded BART trains and @ @ @ @ @ .
They then exited the stations and paraded in their underwear to city hall for @ @ @ @ @ the group photo many of them decided to a visit a local bar to have @ @ @ @

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Today about 40 people braved the cold temperature and participated in the 19th Annual “No Pants” BART Ride Day on Sunday, Jan. 12, 2020.
Participants from around the Bay Area gathered at several meeting locations and boarded BART trains and meet up in San Francisco. They then exited the stations and paraded in their underwear to city hall for a group picture.
After the group photo many of them decided to a visit a local bar to have drinks and food.


mercurynews--2020-01-13--Hubris is all that stands between the 49ers and the Super Bowl

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Less than two months ago , the Packers came to Santa Clara and were eviscerated by the 49ers , 37-8 .
Next Sunday , Green Bay will make a return trip to Levi ’ s Stadium with a berth on the Super Bowl on the line .
I expect the second matchup to have a similar outcome .
Given the lopsided nature of these teams ’ last showdown , the argument will no doubt be made throughout this week— for the sake of @ @ @ @ @ @ @ have changed since that Week 12 contest .
But they really haven ’ t .
At least not in any manner that would make the outcome dramatically different than the one in November .
We really don ’ t need to overthink this : Hubris is the only thing that stands between the 49ers and a trip to the Super Bowl .
The 49ers and Packers might have the same record this season , but these two teams are worlds apart .
The 49ers ’ 13-3 regular-season mark was battle-tested , while the @ @ @ @ @ @ @ , who lack a marquee road win this season , were the worst 13-3 team in league history .
The 49ers are better at running the ball than the Packers .
They ’ re better at throwing the ball than the Packers .
They are better at stopping the run than the Packers and better at stopping the pass too .
San Francisco ’ s special teams and coaching are better , too .
You might be picking up what I ’ m laying down , here .
That said , it ’ @ @ @ @ @ @ @ you roundly outclassed once before a second time .
A full-contact sport like football requires unfettered commitment and unbridled energy .
The 49ers could take a page out of the dynastic Golden State Warriors ’ book and think they might be able to half-effort their way to a win .
That would be a fatal mistake .
But if the 49ers show up at Levi ’ s Stadium with the same hunger and juice they showed against the Vikings Saturday , another win is in the cards .
Another big win .
Now @ @ @ @ @ @ @ , Dieter , the Packers have a great quarterback Aaron Rodgers — anything can happen.
” Indeed , anything can happen — any given Sunday and all that — but I would update your scouting report .
Rodgers is unquestionably an all-time great and a future Hall for Fame player , but — much like Tom Brady in New England — he has looked nothing like his former self this season .
Don ’ t let Sunday ’ s game against a tired and depleted Seattle Seahawks defense fool you .
Rodgers is @ @ @ @ @ @ @ Pro Bowl selection at age 36 was one of reputation and voter inattentiveness .
Consider the fact that no one in the NFL threw the ball away more than Rodgers this year .
In turn , he completed only 62 percent of his passes , 22nd in the NFL .
His Total QBR ( ESPN ’ s proprietary quarterback rating system ) was on-par with Brady and rookie quarterbacks Kyler Murray and Daniel Jones .
He had 10 games with a Total QBR under 50 in the regular season , the second-worst mark @ @ @ @ @ @ @ quarterback Mitchell Trubisky ) .
Yes , Rodgers made a great throw late in Sunday ’ s game against the Seahawks — a game-winning throw — but do not be fooled .
We just went through a scenario like this .
Last week , the mental contortions that were made to validate Vikings quarterback Kirk Cousins were truly incredible to watch .
Cousins had been a milquetoast quarterback for 16-plus games this season , but he made an outstanding throw late in the Vikings ’ first-round win over the Saints , so apparently @ @ @ @ @ @ @ moot .
Almost as moot as the Vikings ’ offense in Saturday ’ s game against the Niners… The same gaslighting effort is coming with Rodgers this week , except it will be stronger because he was — once upon a time — a truly great quarterback .
What Rodgers did in the clutch Sunday night was no doubt impressive .
For San Francisco ’ s sake , you ’ d hope it ’ s impressive enough to scare them a bit .
But context is important .
The Seahawks defense was gassed @ @ @ @ @ @ @ to mention that their pass defense hasn ’ t been all that impressive for a while now ( did you see what San Francisco did to them in Week 17 ? )
Rodgers was operating in clean pockets for most of the contest , and yet he only attempted six passes that traveled further than 10 yards down the field .
He had one “ wow ” throw in a contest of dinks and dunks .
That because the truth of the matter is that , these days , Rodgers is far closer @ @ @ @ @ @ @ Wilson , the quarterback he “ outdueled ” Sunday .
Cousins can only effectively operate in a clean pocket , same with Rodgers .
Cousins doesn ’ t move around all that much .
Neither does Rodgers .
Cousins held onto the ball for an NFL-leading three seconds per throw .
Rodgers holds the ball for 2.8 seconds per throw .
Both are in offenses that require a potent run game to put points on the board and with questionable offensive lines in front of them .
This might come across as blasphemous @ @ @ @ @ @ @ ’ s game against Minnesota applies to Sunday ’ s game against the Packers : if the 49ers ’ defense can stop the run , the quarterback simply won ’ t be able to beat them .
On the flip side , the Vikings defense the 49ers just saw — the defense that the Niners ran all over — was markedly better than the one they ’ ll see from Green Bay on Sunday .
Yes , the Packers have two excellent edge pass rushers in Preston and Za ’ Darius Smith , @ @ @ @ @ @ @ their linebackers are sitting ducks in pass coverage .
After a strong start to the season ( one that will have folks claiming they ’ re elite in the run-up to this game ) , the Packers finished 15th in defensive DVOA this season .
The 49ers ’ offense wasn ’ t clicking on all cylinders against Minnesota .
There are reasons for concern there .
But if Jimmy Garoppolo can avoid turning the ball over more than once , San Francisco ’ s offense — which finished with the second-most points in @ @ @ @ @ @ @ should roll over these Packers .
Again , better offense , better defense , and oh , yeah , a better coach ( more on that this week ) .
So long as the 49ers show up to Levi ’ s Stadium correct , they ’ ll be heading to Miami on the team jet .

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Less than two months ago, the Packers came to Santa Clara and were eviscerated by the 49ers, 37-8.
Next Sunday, Green Bay will make a return trip to Levi’s Stadium with a berth on the Super Bowl on the line.
I expect the second matchup to have a similar outcome.
Given the lopsided nature of these teams’ last showdown, the argument will no doubt be made throughout this week— for the sake of creating narrative and drama — that things have changed since that Week 12 contest.
But they really haven’t. At least not in any manner that would make the outcome dramatically different than the one in November.
We really don’t need to overthink this: Hubris is the only thing that stands between the 49ers and a trip to the Super Bowl.
The 49ers and Packers might have the same record this season, but these two teams are worlds apart. The 49ers’ 13-3 regular-season mark was battle-tested, while the case can be made that the Packers, who lack a marquee road win this season, were the worst 13-3 team in league history.
The 49ers are better at running the ball than the Packers. They’re better at throwing the ball than the Packers. They are better at stopping the run than the Packers and better at stopping the pass too. San Francisco’s special teams and coaching are better, too.
You might be picking up what I’m laying down, here.
That said, it’s hard to beat a team that you roundly outclassed once before a second time.
A full-contact sport like football requires unfettered commitment and unbridled energy. The 49ers could take a page out of the dynastic Golden State Warriors’ book and think they might be able to half-effort their way to a win. That would be a fatal mistake.
But if the 49ers show up at Levi’s Stadium with the same hunger and juice they showed against the Vikings Saturday, another win is in the cards. Another big win.
Now, you might be saying “Hey, Dieter, the Packers have a great quarterback Aaron Rodgers — anything can happen.”
Indeed, anything can happen — any given Sunday and all that — but I would update your scouting report.
Rodgers is unquestionably an all-time great and a future Hall for Fame player, but — much like Tom Brady in New England — he has looked nothing like his former self this season.
Don’t let Sunday’s game against a tired and depleted Seattle Seahawks defense fool you. Rodgers is no longer a transcendent player. His Pro Bowl selection at age 36 was one of reputation and voter inattentiveness.
Consider the fact that no one in the NFL threw the ball away more than Rodgers this year. In turn, he completed only 62 percent of his passes, 22nd in the NFL. His Total QBR (ESPN’s proprietary quarterback rating system) was on-par with Brady and rookie quarterbacks Kyler Murray and Daniel Jones. He had 10 games with a Total QBR under 50 in the regular season, the second-worst mark in the league (behind only Bears quarterback Mitchell Trubisky).
Yes, Rodgers made a great throw late in Sunday’s game against the Seahawks — a game-winning throw — but do not be fooled. We just went through a scenario like this.
Last week, the mental contortions that were made to validate Vikings quarterback Kirk Cousins were truly incredible to watch. Cousins had been a milquetoast quarterback for 16-plus games this season, but he made an outstanding throw late in the Vikings’ first-round win over the Saints, so apparently every throw that preceded it was deemed moot.
Almost as moot as the Vikings’ offense in Saturday’s game against the Niners…
The same gaslighting effort is coming with Rodgers this week, except it will be stronger because he was — once upon a time — a truly great quarterback.
What Rodgers did in the clutch Sunday night was no doubt impressive. For San Francisco’s sake, you’d hope it’s impressive enough to scare them a bit.
But context is important. The Seahawks defense was gassed and injured to high heavens — not to mention that their pass defense hasn’t been all that impressive for a while now (did you see what San Francisco did to them in Week 17?) Rodgers was operating in clean pockets for most of the contest, and yet he only attempted six passes that traveled further than 10 yards down the field. He had one “wow” throw in a contest of dinks and dunks.
That because the truth of the matter is that, these days, Rodgers is far closer to Cousins than he is to Russell Wilson, the quarterback he “outdueled” Sunday.
Cousins can only effectively operate in a clean pocket, same with Rodgers. Cousins doesn’t move around all that much. Neither does Rodgers. Cousins held onto the ball for an NFL-leading three seconds per throw. Rodgers holds the ball for 2.8 seconds per throw. Both are in offenses that require a potent run game to put points on the board and with questionable offensive lines in front of them.
This might come across as blasphemous, but the same truth from Saturday’s game against Minnesota applies to Sunday’s game against the Packers: if the 49ers’ defense can stop the run, the quarterback simply won’t be able to beat them.
On the flip side, the Vikings defense the 49ers just saw — the defense that the Niners ran all over — was markedly better than the one they’ll see from Green Bay on Sunday. Yes, the Packers have two excellent edge pass rushers in Preston and Za’Darius Smith, but their secondary is a mess and their linebackers are sitting ducks in pass coverage. After a strong start to the season (one that will have folks claiming they’re elite in the run-up to this game), the Packers finished 15th in defensive DVOA this season.
The 49ers’ offense wasn’t clicking on all cylinders against Minnesota. There are reasons for concern there. But if Jimmy Garoppolo can avoid turning the ball over more than once, San Francisco’s offense — which finished with the second-most points in the NFL this past regular season — should roll over these Packers.
Again, better offense, better defense, and oh, yeah, a better coach (more on that this week).
So long as the 49ers show up to Levi’s Stadium correct, they’ll be heading to Miami on the team jet.


mercurynews--2020-01-14--Football 2019: How all-area team chosen, early Top 5 for 2020

Bay Area Preps HQ prides itself on getting its all-area football team done and published during the holiday season .
But we ’ re a little late this time around .
Instead of hustling to honor the stars of 2019 , we put our end-of-year energy toward an all-decade team , which was posted on the Mercury News and East Bay Times websites Dec. 28 , along with offensive and defensive players of the decade .
Only two stars from this past season made the first team — one was our 2019 player of the year ( De La Salle @ @ @ @ @ @ @ other was Troy Franklin , a generational talent at wide receiver for Menlo-Atherton .
Recharged after the holiday season , we spent more than a week fine-tuning the 2019 team , doing all we could to make sure deserving players were recognized .
It posted Tuesday — with our all-Bay Area Preps HQ offensive and defensive teams .
The players of the year — stories about Garrett , offensive player of the year Jerry Johnson of Pittsburg and defensive player of the year Nusi Malani of Serra — published Monday .
The process @ @ @ @ @ @ @ was particularly challenging given that we added the Southern end of the Central Coast Section and much of the North Bay to the mix .
Last season , quarterbacks Jackson Pavitt of Cardinal Newman and Carl Richardson of Salinas would not have been eligible for the team .
This year we had to find slots for them , given their talent and the superb seasons that they delivered .
The competitive equity model that the Central Coast Section adopted for its 2019 playoffs and the California Interscholastic Federation uses to position teams for @ @ @ @ @ @ @ help the process , either .
The system now carves an easier championship path for teams that finish in the middle of the pack in league standings than teams that win league titles .
For the most part , we chose to honor players from the best teams , not teams that — through no fault of their own — took advantage of the system and went on deep playoff runs .
Wilcox ’ s Paul M. Rosa was the MVP of his league for the second consecutive season .
His team ’ @ @ @ @ @ @ @ , depriving him of an opportunity to add to an already impressive resume .
But he still made our first team .
Quarterback was the toughest position to choose , given the number of talented options and the seasons that they had .
We went with Johnson and De La Salle ’ s Dorian Hale on the first team .
Johnson led Pittsburg to a league championship and helped the Pirates sweep Liberty .
Hale has blossomed into a big-time threat for Northern California ’ s top program , as a runner and @ @ @ @ @ @ @ Butterfield — No .
1 in our preseason Fab Forty list of top players — on the second team , along with Pavitt , whose team ’ s only loss on the season was to Butterfield and Liberty .
All told , a few hundred players were recognized and no matter where they landed , they all share one thing in common : Well , we already knew that Mike Lefkow won our all-in-fun high school football prediction competition well before state championship weekend last month .
But he didn ’ t slow @ @ @ @ @ @ @ close the year , he finished 110-39 ( .738 winning percentage ) .
I went 7-4 on the final weekend to finish 97-52 ( .651 winning percentage ) .
Lefkow , Vytas Mazeika and I did a quick poll to come up with a way-too-early Top 5 for 2020 , which probably will change by the time the season rolls around .
Here they are :

Bay Area Preps HQ prides itself on getting its all-area football team done and published during the holiday season.
But we’re a little late this time around.
Instead of hustling to honor the stars of 2019, we put our end-of-year energy toward an all-decade team, which was posted on the Mercury News and East Bay Times websites Dec. 28, along with offensive and defensive players of the decade.
Only two stars from this past season made the first team — one was our 2019 player of the year (De La Salle’s Shamar Garrett) and the other was Troy Franklin, a generational talent at wide receiver for Menlo-Atherton.
Recharged after the holiday season, we spent more than a week fine-tuning the 2019 team, doing all we could to make sure deserving players were recognized.
It posted Tuesday — with our all-Bay Area Preps HQ offensive and defensive teams.
The players of the year — stories about Garrett, offensive player of the year Jerry Johnson of Pittsburg and defensive player of the year Nusi Malani of Serra — published Monday.
The process is never easy.
But this one was particularly challenging given that we added the Southern end of the Central Coast Section and much of the North Bay to the mix.
Last season, quarterbacks Jackson Pavitt of Cardinal Newman and Carl Richardson of Salinas would not have been eligible for the team.
This year we had to find slots for them, given their talent and the superb seasons that they delivered.
The competitive equity model that the Central Coast Section adopted for its 2019 playoffs and the California Interscholastic Federation uses to position teams for its state championship games didn’t help the process, either.
The system now carves an easier championship path for teams that finish in the middle of the pack in league standings than teams that win league titles.
For the most part, we chose to honor players from the best teams, not teams that — through no fault of their own — took advantage of the system and went on deep playoff runs.
Wilcox’s Paul M. Rosa was the MVP of his league for the second consecutive season. His team’s season ended after two playoff games, depriving him of an opportunity to add to an already impressive resume.
But he still made our first team.
Quarterback was the toughest position to choose, given the number of talented options and the seasons that they had.
We went with Johnson and De La Salle’s Dorian Hale on the first team.
Johnson led Pittsburg to a league championship and helped the Pirates sweep Liberty. Hale has blossomed into a big-time threat for Northern California’s top program, as a runner and a passer.
That meant putting Jay Butterfield — No. 1 in our preseason Fab Forty list of top players — on the second team, along with Pavitt, whose team’s only loss on the season was to Butterfield and Liberty.
All told, a few hundred players were recognized and no matter where they landed, they all share one thing in common:
They made the team.
Lefkow-Sabedra: Final standings
Well, we already knew that Mike Lefkow won our all-in-fun high school football prediction competition well before state championship weekend last month. But he didn’t slow down. With a 9-2 mark to close the year, he finished 110-39 (.738 winning percentage). I went 7-4 on the final weekend to finish 97-52 (.651 winning percentage).
Early Top 5 for 2020
Lefkow, Vytas Mazeika and I did a quick poll to come up with a way-too-early Top 5 for 2020, which probably will change by the time the season rolls around.
Here they are:
No. 1 De La Salle (15 points)
No. 2 Pittsburg (12)
No. 3 Menlo-Atherton (7)
No. 4 Serra (6)
No. 5 Clayton Valley Charter (2)
Also received voting points: Liberty 1, Valley Christian 1, St. Francis 1.


mercurynews--2020-01-14--Sunnyvale: Pedestrian killed after being hit by vehicle

SUNNYVALE — A pedestrian was killed by a vehicle near Bayshore Freeway in Sunnyvale Monday night , officials said .
@ @ @ @ @ a car traveling on North Fair Oaks Avenue near South Eden Avenue struck a man @ @ @ @ @ Sunnyvale Department of Public Safety Capt .
Dan Pistor .
The driver remained at the @ @ @ @ @ investigation , Pistor said .
Drugs or alcohol were not suspected as factors in the @ @ @ @ @ s identity will be released pending his formal identification by the Santa Clara County coroner @ @ @ @ @ of family .
More details about the incident were not immediately available .

SUNNYVALE — A 77-year-old man was killed by a vehicle Monday night near Bayshore Freeway in Sunnyvale, officials said.
Around 7:43 p.m., a car traveling northbound on Fair Oaks Avenue struck a man at the intersection of South Eden Avenue, said Sunnyvale Department of Public Safety Capt. Dan Pistor.
The Santa Clara County Medical Examiner-Coroner’s Office identified the man late Tuesday as Milton Earl Thorne of Sunnyvale.
The driver remained at the scene and cooperated with the investigation, Pistor said. Alcohol or drugs were not immediately considered to be factors in the crash.
Although there is a stop sign at the intersection, the intersection otherwise lacks lights or crosswalks, police said.
Staff writer Jason Green contributed to this report.


mercurynews--2020-01-14--Sponsored: Classic Blackhawk estate provides tranquility and privacy

A grand and spacious interior spills out onto an inviting outdoor space in this classic Blackhawk estate .
Bordering the Falls Golf Course and located at 5444 Blackhawk Drive , this home features a multitude of amenities for those seeking the privacy and tranquility of the gated Blackhawk Country Club .
A circular driveway and deep setback create a welcoming entry into the gated courtyard filled with slate tile , garden beds and a decorative fountain .
Double leaded-glass front doors open to the spacious foyer .
The home sits on almost a half-acre of level land and features more @ @ @ @ @ @ @ on two levels with five bedrooms , four full bathrooms and two powder rooms , including one accessible for the backyard .
Each bedroom has a luxurious en suite bathroom including the main-level master bedroom retreat and guest room .
One bedroom has been transformed into a fabulous home theater complete with more than a half-dozen reclining chairs , a movie screen that spans about 11 feet and a wet bar .
There is also an executive office that features a wall of brilliant cherry wood built-in cabinetry and shelving .
A gourmet @ @ @ @ @ @ @ and the adjacent family room creates a spectacular gathering space also warmed by a gas fireplace and custom built-in cabinetry .
The light-filled main level also features soaring two-story ceilings , plantation shutters , Hunter Douglas blinds , limestone and hardwood flooring .
Stately columns define the step-down living room that also has plush wall-to-wall carpeting , a soaring ceiling and a trio of clerestory .
A fireplace with a carved mantel and marble tile surround anchors one side while a wall of window and French doors frame the backyard and golf course @ @ @ @ @ @ @ front-courtyard facing windows , an elegant chandelier suspended from medallion molding and a convenient wine closet with a frosted glass door .
Granite counters , a breakfast bar , and a central island are complemented by custom cherry cabinetry , upper glass-faced cabinets and a full granite backsplash .
Viking Professional appliances include a six-burner range , additional oven , dishwasher and refrigerator in addition to GE Monogram refrigerator drawers .
The kitchen is open to a spacious family room and casual dining area , both offering French door access to the backyard @ @ @ @ @ @ @ patio with garden views from the master bedroom retreat .
Behind the double-door entry , the retreat features a gas fireplace with a spacious sitting room area .
There are three walk-in closets each outfitted with custom-designed built-in cabinetry , shelving and Lucite cabinet doors .
The master bathroom features the luxury of a jetted tub , steam shower and an oversize dual-sink vanity .
A guest bedroom suite is also on the main level and is currently filled with built-in workstations and cabinetry on one side .
Two additional bedrooms in addition @ @ @ @ @ @ @ the upper floor .
A spacious landing and catwalk with a decorative iron railing overlooks the family room below .
A spacious backyard offers lots of room to entertain with a backdrop of the golf course and hillsides .
A built-in barbecue is featured in addition to a pavilion and slate tile patios .
A sprawling lawn is bordered by lush garden beds and towering palms .
A decorative waterfall spills into an oversize jetted hot tub .
Additional features include two two-car garages with a side driveway entry , dual HVAC and @ @ @ @ @ @ @ is closest to Blackhawk ’ s East Gate and the Falls Clubhouse and golf course .
Located about 40 miles east of San Francisco , Blackhawk sits at the foot of Mount Diablo and sprawls over 9 square miles of an unincorporated area of Contra Costa County in the San Ramon Valley .
The Blackhawk Country Club , one of seven gated communities scattered along Blackhawk Road , features two 72-par championship golf courses , tennis courts , clubhouses and a state-of-the-art fitness center .
Custom homes sit on large , generous lots @ @ @ @ @ @ @ and features , fabulous resort-style amenities , and opportunities for the quintessential California indoor-outdoor living .
Open space and picturesque hillsides surround Blackhawk .
There is ultimate privacy and an ambience of tranquility yet this community is also conveniently located with easy access into San Francisco , Silicon Valley , major international airports , renowned shopping districts , and many restaurants in the charming downtowns of nearby Danville , historic Pleasanton , and the thriving new City Center in nearby San Ramon .
The San Ramon Valley is also known for its highly @ @ @ @ @ @ @ centers , and is close to the Livermore Valley and Napa Wine Country ’ s award-winning vineyards .
Price : $ 2,499,000 Where : 5444 Blackhawk Drive , Blackhawk Website : www.frazzanoteam.com Open house : Coming soon Listing agents : Compass .
The Frazzano Team .
Joe Frazzano , DRE # 00982431 , 925-890-0285 , Joe @ FrazzanoTeam.com and Alex Tse , 925-788-1432 , Alex @ FrazzanoTeam.com

A grand and spacious interior spills out onto an inviting outdoor space in this classic Blackhawk estate.
Bordering the Falls Golf Course and located at 5444 Blackhawk Drive, this home features a multitude of amenities for those seeking the privacy and tranquility of the gated Blackhawk Country Club. A circular driveway and deep setback create a welcoming entry into the gated courtyard filled with slate tile, garden beds and a decorative fountain. Double leaded-glass front doors open to the spacious foyer.
The home sits on almost a half-acre of level land and features more than 5,060 square feet of living space on two levels with five bedrooms, four full bathrooms and two powder rooms, including one accessible for the backyard.
Each bedroom has a luxurious en suite bathroom including the main-level master bedroom retreat and guest room. One bedroom has been transformed into a fabulous home theater complete with more than a half-dozen reclining chairs, a movie screen that spans about 11 feet and a wet bar. There is also an executive office that features a wall of brilliant cherry wood built-in cabinetry and shelving. A gourmet kitchen is filled with Viking Professional appliances and the adjacent family room creates a spectacular gathering space also warmed by a gas fireplace and custom built-in cabinetry.
The light-filled main level also features soaring two-story ceilings, plantation shutters, Hunter Douglas blinds, limestone and hardwood flooring.
Stately columns define the step-down living room that also has plush wall-to-wall carpeting, a soaring ceiling and a trio of clerestory. A fireplace with a carved mantel and marble tile surround anchors one side while a wall of window and French doors frame the backyard and golf course views.
The formal dining room has front-courtyard facing windows, an elegant chandelier suspended from medallion molding and a convenient wine closet with a frosted glass door.
Granite counters, a breakfast bar, and a central island are complemented by custom cherry cabinetry, upper glass-faced cabinets and a full granite backsplash. Viking Professional appliances include a six-burner range, additional oven, dishwasher and refrigerator in addition to GE Monogram refrigerator drawers. The kitchen is open to a spacious family room and casual dining area, both offering French door access to the backyard.
French doors also open onto a patio with garden views from the master bedroom retreat. Behind the double-door entry, the retreat features a gas fireplace with a spacious sitting room area.
There are three walk-in closets each outfitted with custom-designed built-in cabinetry, shelving and Lucite cabinet doors. The master bathroom features the luxury of a jetted tub, steam shower and an oversize dual-sink vanity.
A guest bedroom suite is also on the main level and is currently filled with built-in workstations and cabinetry on one side.
Two additional bedrooms in addition to the movie theater are located on the upper floor.
A spacious landing and catwalk with a decorative iron railing overlooks the family room below.
A spacious backyard offers lots of room to entertain with a backdrop of the golf course and hillsides. A built-in barbecue is featured in addition to a pavilion and slate tile patios. A sprawling lawn is bordered by lush garden beds and towering palms. A decorative waterfall spills into an oversize jetted hot tub.
Additional features include two two-car garages with a side driveway entry, dual HVAC and a gated side entry. The home is closest to Blackhawk’s East Gate and the Falls Clubhouse and golf course.
Located about 40 miles east of San Francisco, Blackhawk sits at the foot of Mount Diablo and sprawls over 9 square miles of an unincorporated area of Contra Costa County in the San Ramon Valley.
The Blackhawk Country Club, one of seven gated communities scattered along Blackhawk Road, features two 72-par championship golf courses, tennis courts, clubhouses and a state-of-the-art fitness center. Custom homes sit on large, generous lots and reflect a variety of architectural styles and features, fabulous resort-style amenities, and opportunities for the quintessential California indoor-outdoor living.
Open space and picturesque hillsides surround Blackhawk. There is ultimate privacy and an ambience of tranquility yet this community is also conveniently located with easy access into San Francisco, Silicon Valley, major international airports, renowned shopping districts, and many restaurants in the charming downtowns of nearby Danville, historic Pleasanton, and the thriving new City Center in nearby San Ramon. The San Ramon Valley is also known for its highly acclaimed public and private schools, equestrian centers, and is close to the Livermore Valley and Napa Wine Country’s award-winning vineyards.
Price: $2,499,000
Where: 5444 Blackhawk Drive, Blackhawk
Website: www.frazzanoteam.com
Open house: Coming soon
Listing agents: Compass. The Frazzano Team. Joe Frazzano, DRE# 00982431, 925-890-0285, Joe@FrazzanoTeam.com and Alex Tse, 925-788-1432, Alex@FrazzanoTeam.com


mercurynews--2020-01-14--Sponsored: Contemporary Islandia townhome in Alameda

Welcome to 1166 Island Drive , a spacious townhome with a convenient location .
This three-bedroom , two-and-a-half bathroom G model boasts an open living room with a wood-burning fireplace and dining area , and gets afternoon sunlight .
The spacious master bedroom suite includes a private bathroom , walk-in closet , a vaulted ceiling and gets afternoon sunlight .
The second and third bedrooms get morning sunlight .
The kitchen faces the family room and private backyard patio .
There is a convenient indoor laundry room located off of the family room .
The townhome comes with a spacious @ @ @ @ @ @ @ built-in storage cabinets .
The location is fantastic , close to street parking , walking/bike paths , parks , top schools , shopping center , bus lines and the San Francisco ferry .
HOA amenities include a clubhouse , on-site library , RV parking , swimming pool , tennis and basketball courts .
The monthly HOA dues are $ 425 and include water , limited earthquake insurance , hazard insurance , exterior and common grounds maintenance .
The property was built in 1970 and has approximately 1,766 square feet per public records .

Welcome to 1166 Island Drive, a spacious townhome with a convenient location.
This three-bedroom, two-and-a-half bathroom G model boasts an open living room with a wood-burning fireplace and dining area, and gets afternoon sunlight. The spacious master bedroom suite includes a private bathroom, walk-in closet, a vaulted ceiling and gets afternoon sunlight. The second and third bedrooms get morning sunlight. The kitchen faces the family room and private backyard patio. There is a convenient indoor laundry room located off of the family room. The townhome comes with a spacious two-car garage with a rollup door and built-in storage cabinets.
The location is fantastic, close to street parking, walking/bike paths, parks, top schools, shopping center, bus lines and the San Francisco ferry. HOA amenities include a clubhouse, on-site library, RV parking, swimming pool, tennis and basketball courts. The monthly HOA dues are $425 and include water, limited earthquake insurance, hazard insurance, exterior and common grounds maintenance. The property was built in 1970 and has approximately 1,766 square feet per public records.
Location: 1166 Island Drive, Alameda
Offered at: $749,000
Listing agent: Nancy Evans, DRE#01032733, CRS, Compass, 510-908-9023, nancyevans5456@comcast.net, NancySellsAlameda.com


mercurynews--2020-01-14--Girl dead, boy missing after sneaker wave pulls them from Oregon beach

A 7-year-old girl is dead and her 4-year-old brother missing after they were swept to sea with their father at an Oregon beach , police said .
Jeremy Stiles , 47 , of Portland , was walking Saturday afternoon with his children Lola and William when a sneaker wave surged onto the off-beach trail at Falcon Cove in Arch Cape , Oregon State Police said in a release .
Police who arrived on the scene found Stiles struggling to get out of the water , while his daughter was further out in the ocean .
An officer from the Manzanita @ @ @ @ @ @ @ girl back to shore , but she died at a hospital , according to the release .
The boy has not been found .
Stiles was recovering Monday from hypothermia , the family told TV station KATU .
A longtime friend of the Stileses said the couple had recently opened a coffeehouse near their home in Portland ’ s Montavilla neighborhood .
Lola was a first-grader at a school a block away , he said .
“ That whole family , they love their kids .
They love each other and they ’ @ @ @ @ @ @ @ told KOIN .
The family was on a weekend outing to Arch Cove , about 80 miles northwest of Portland .
The children ’ s mother , Jamie Stiles , and grandmother were shopping for dinner groceries when the accident occurred .
The Tillamook County Emergency Management had issued a high surf warning Saturday , saying wave heights could reach up to 30 feet .
The waves produced by the weekend ’ s king tides were remarkable even to longtime residents of the beach community .
“ I ’ ve lived here since @ @ @ @ @ @ @ seen such high water , ” resident Joanne Cornelius told the Oregonian .
She said she had been taking pictures of the surf near her house Saturday afternoon when a panicked woman asked her to call 911 for some people in the ocean .
The dispatcher told her they had received a call already , but that it had been dropped , probably because of the spotty reception in the remote area .

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A 7-year-old girl is dead and her 4-year-old brother missing after they were swept to sea with their father at an Oregon beach, police said.
Jeremy Stiles, 47, of Portland, was walking Saturday afternoon with his children Lola and William when a sneaker wave surged onto the off-beach trail at Falcon Cove in Arch Cape, Oregon State Police said in a release.
Police who arrived on the scene found Stiles struggling to get out of the water, while his daughter was further out in the ocean.
An officer from the Manzanita Police Department was able to bring the girl back to shore, but she died at a hospital, according to the release.
The boy has not been found.
Stiles was recovering Monday from hypothermia, the family told TV station KATU.
A longtime friend of the Stileses said the couple had recently opened a coffeehouse near their home in Portland’s Montavilla neighborhood. Lola was a first-grader at a school a block away, he said.
“That whole family, they love their kids. They love each other and they’re really tight,” Robb Radford told KOIN.
The family was on a weekend outing to Arch Cove, about 80 miles northwest of Portland. The children’s mother, Jamie Stiles, and grandmother were shopping for dinner groceries when the accident occurred.
The Tillamook County Emergency Management had issued a high surf warning Saturday, saying wave heights could reach up to 30 feet.
The waves produced by the weekend’s king tides were remarkable even to longtime residents of the beach community. “I’ve lived here since 1972, and I’ve never seen such high water,” resident Joanne Cornelius told the Oregonian.
She said she had been taking pictures of the surf near her house Saturday afternoon when a panicked woman asked her to call 911 for some people in the ocean. The dispatcher told her they had received a call already, but that it had been dropped, probably because of the spotty reception in the remote area.
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