naturalawakeningsmagazine--2020-05-21--Transformative Staycations: Finding Respite and Adventure Close to Home

Staycations—sticking close to home for new travel experiences—was a growing trend even before the COVID-19 pandemic turned it into a practical necessity for many of us .
Staycations reduce costs , minimize travel time and also lower our carbon footprint by eliminating international travel .
Happily , they don ’ t reduce the pure pleasure of finding new adventures , exploring untrammeled nature , seeing the familiar with fresh eyes and meeting people from all walks of life .
All of that is close at hand , and especially when compared to foreign jaunts , the price is right .
@ @ @ @ @ @ @ checking out state and regional parks , often overlooked gems offering scenic miles of trails for hiking , biking , birding , fishing , picnicking and other activities .
“ Whether mountains , prairies , rivers , forests in the country or heart of the city , there is always a state park waiting to welcome you , no matter what kind of recreation you enjoy , ” says Jason Clay , spokesperson with Colorado Parks and Wildlife .
In Colorado parks , people can , for example , river raft in the @ @ @ @ @ @ @ fish and hammock camp in Jackson Lake State Park ; and rock climb in Eldorado Canyon .
“ I did a getaway at a point in my life where I wanted some time alone , away from commitments , to figure out what my next chapter in life was going to be , ” says Paige Conner Totaro , of Alexandria , Virginia , the founder of Unquote Travel , a web-based tour agency focusing on small group , off-the-beaten-track adventures .
“ You can change your environment without going very far , @ @ @ @ @ @ @ way you think about things .
Little things like sleeping on the other side of the bed can help you shake up your brain.
” Local-led excursions are another way to see our home turf through a new lens .
Airbnb Experiences , offered virtually everywhere that Airbnb lists lodging , are one-of-a-kind tours and classes designed and hosted by locals with unique expertise .
Experiences run the gamut from neighborhood tours on foot or bikes with athletes to museum tours led by local artists or art historians .
Many include a hands-on @ @ @ @ @ @ @ mosaics in a community art space or cook a local delicacy from a family recipe .
Similar tours and experiences can be found on TripAdvisor ’ s Things To Do listings .
Withlocals , whose mission is “ to break down the barriers between travelers and locals worldwide , ” also offers foodie fun and off-beat adventures .
Kelly Kniewel stumbled onto tour guiding after experiencing burnout in her previous career in the beverage industry .
An Airbnb Experiences host , Kniewel now leads small group tours of Chicago , introducing locals and @ @ @ @ @ @ @ facets .
“ I ’ ve fallen in love with my city all over again doing these tours , ” says Kniewel , a self-proclaimed history geek .
She loves to take guests inside Art Deco and Beaux Arts buildings they may have passed before without realizing the gorgeous art and architecture that exists inside , such as the library-turned-cultural center , Chicago Cultural Center , boasting two impressive glass domes , one designed by Tiffany Glass .
Another favorite excursion is taking guests on a water taxi tour .
“ It ’ @ @ @ @ @ @ @ see Chicago .
The water , both the Chicago River and Lake Michigan , is so much a part of who we are as a city.
” During the limitations imposed during the COVID-19 period , Airbnb and other websites began offering experiences online , allowing people from all over the world to connect and make pastries with a Swedish baker , draw with a Mexican cartoonist , learn about apartheid from a South African or experience a day in the life of an American Olympic bobsledder .
Similar organizations that offer opportunities @ @ @ @ @ @ @ no-cost lodging ) include Servas International , established in 1949 , which stresses world peace and cultural exchange , and pre-interviews potential guests and hosts to ensure safety ; GlobalFreeloaders.com , a free registry for hosts and guests that do their own online screening and matching ; and Evergreen Club , in which hosts provide a bed-and-breakfast homestay for travelers over age 50 for $ 20 a night .
An exciting option for homeowners is HomeExchange , a $ 150-a-year service that allows people in far-flung places to switch homes , either directly @ @ @ @ @ @ @ they can truly live like locals .
John Fackenthal , of Rockville , Maryland , has hosted more than 100 couchsurfers from 29 countries , and loved every experience .
“ I had a big apartment in the heart of Washington , D.C. , when I first started hosting , but lived alone and felt a little isolated .
I wanted to bring back the youth hostel feel from travels in my younger days , where you ’ d hang out with fellow travelers and go hiking , share a meal or play @ @ @ @ @ @ @ It ’ s restored my faith in humanity .
I ’ ve encountered nothing but wonderful people , all with such different personalities and backgrounds.
” While the world may still be at the mercy of unfortunate circumstances this summer , travel is ultimately a state of mind .
By staying open , curious and present , there are always new encounters and discoveries underfoot very close to home .

Staycations—sticking close to home for new travel experiences—was a growing trend even before the COVID-19 pandemic turned it into a practical necessity for many of us. Staycations reduce costs, minimize travel time and also lower our carbon footprint by eliminating international travel. Happily, they don’t reduce the pure pleasure of finding new adventures, exploring untrammeled nature, seeing the familiar with fresh eyes and meeting people from all walks of life. All of that is close at hand, and especially when compared to foreign jaunts, the price is right.
A good place to start is by checking out state and regional parks, often overlooked gems offering scenic miles of trails for hiking, biking, birding, fishing, picnicking and other activities. “Whether mountains, prairies, rivers, forests in the country or heart of the city, there is always a state park waiting to welcome you, no matter what kind of recreation you enjoy,” says Jason Clay, spokesperson with Colorado Parks and Wildlife . In Colorado parks, people can, for example, river raft in the Arkansas Headwaters Recreation Area; boat, fish and hammock camp in Jackson Lake State Park; and rock climb in Eldorado Canyon.
Parks can be discovered and trail maps downloaded by visiting TrailLink , run by the Rails-to-Trails Conservancy. It provides searches for nearby trails using parameters such as distance, types of activity and wheelchair accessibility. Its smartphone TrailLink app is free to download and $30 per year for unlimited customized use.
State, local and regional parks across the country offer rich educational opportunities for kids and adults alike, including naturalist-guided activities, bird and botany walks, lessons in local history, ecology and geography, and more. Several states offer free admission to all state-run parks, including Hawaii, Tennessee and Illinois. State-by-state listings of fees and policies can be found at TripSavvy
Making a Quick Getaway
Weekend forays into natural and rustic settings can be ideal escape valves for people needing a simple, quick change of venue. Camping, of course, is always an option, but for those that want to be in nature in a more comfy fashion, using “cabin” as a search word works well in websites like Airbnb.com and TripAdvisor.com. The option of glamping —or glamorous camping—offers surprisingly luxurious stays outdoors in tents, pods and domes.
Getaway offers woodsy outposts in 10 locations equipped with “tiny house” cabins around the country designed for quick escapes from cities. “If you were at your desk in need of an escape, you could cut out early and be there by 6 p.m.,” says Vice President of Marketing Rachel Mansfield. The private experience, with no check-in desk or communal areas, enables it to continue operating safely during the pandemic. The cabins, designed to blend in with their natural surroundings, are equipped with food for purchase, stove, books, radio, firewood, fire pit and Adirondack chairs, as well as a map for local hikes and adventures.
“I did a getaway at a point in my life where I wanted some time alone, away from commitments, to figure out what my next chapter in life was going to be,” says Paige Conner Totaro, of Alexandria, Virginia, the founder of Unquote Travel , a web-based tour agency focusing on small group, off-the-beaten-track adventures. “You can change your environment without going very far, and that in turn can change the way you think about things. Little things like sleeping on the other side of the bed can help you shake up your brain.”
Local Attraction
Rawpixel.com; Iakov Filimonov; Iakov Filimonov/Shutterstock.com Local-led excursions are another way to see our home turf through a new lens. Airbnb Experiences, offered virtually everywhere that Airbnb lists lodging, are one-of-a-kind tours and classes designed and hosted by locals with unique expertise. Experiences run the gamut from neighborhood tours on foot or bikes with athletes to museum tours led by local artists or art historians. Many include a hands-on learning component, like how to make mosaics in a community art space or cook a local delicacy from a family recipe. Similar tours and experiences can be found on TripAdvisor ’s Things To Do listings. Withlocals , whose mission is “to break down the barriers between travelers and locals worldwide,” also offers foodie fun and off-beat adventures.
Kelly Kniewel stumbled onto tour guiding after experiencing burnout in her previous career in the beverage industry. An Airbnb Experiences host, Kniewel now leads small group tours of Chicago, introducing locals and visitors alike to many of its little-known facets. “I’ve fallen in love with my city all over again doing these tours,” says Kniewel, a self-proclaimed history geek.
She loves to take guests inside Art Deco and Beaux Arts buildings they may have passed before without realizing the gorgeous art and architecture that exists inside, such as the library-turned-cultural center, Chicago Cultural Center, boasting two impressive glass domes, one designed by Tiffany Glass. Another favorite excursion is taking guests on a water taxi tour. “It’s a cheap and unique way to see Chicago. The water, both the Chicago River and Lake Michigan, is so much a part of who we are as a city.”
During the limitations imposed during the COVID-19 period, Airbnb and other websites began offering experiences online, allowing people from all over the world to connect and make pastries with a Swedish baker, draw with a Mexican cartoonist, learn about apartheid from a South African or experience a day in the life of an American Olympic bobsledder.
Traveling the World Without Leaving Home
Hosting travelers can bring new meaning to a staycation, offering a rich opportunity for cross-cultural exchange without any exchange of currency. The popular CouchSurfing.com connects travelers with locals offering free use of a couch, air mattress or spare bedroom. Available in more than 200,000 cities worldwide, it has 14 million members and sponsors local language exchanges, dance classes, hikes and dinners, so there are opportunities to make new friends and have new experiences even without offering a place to sleep. (During COVID-19 restrictions, these activities were moved online.)
Similar organizations that offer opportunities for local hosting (including low- or no-cost lodging) include Servas International , established in 1949, which stresses world peace and cultural exchange, and pre-interviews potential guests and hosts to ensure safety; GlobalFreeloaders.com , a free registry for hosts and guests that do their own online screening and matching; and Evergreen Club , in which hosts provide a bed-and-breakfast homestay for travelers over age 50 for $20 a night. An exciting option for homeowners is HomeExchange , a $150-a-year service that allows people in far-flung places to switch homes, either directly or through a staggered point system so they can truly live like locals.
John Fackenthal, of Rockville, Maryland, has hosted more than 100 couchsurfers from 29 countries, and loved every experience. “I had a big apartment in the heart of Washington, D.C., when I first started hosting, but lived alone and felt a little isolated. I wanted to bring back the youth hostel feel from travels in my younger days, where you’d hang out with fellow travelers and go hiking, share a meal or play cards,” he says.
A web developer, he recalls such memorable guests as a carpenter in his 60s from the Pacific Northwest that helped him with fixer-upper projects, a pair of pro volleyball players from the Czech Republic and two young women from China that prepared him a massive traditional Chinese feast “with all four burners going,” he says.
A web developer, he recalls such memorable guests as a carpenter in his 60s from the Pacific Northwest that helped him with fixer-upper projects, a pair of pro volleyball players from the Czech Republic and two young women from China that prepared him a massive traditional Chinese feast “with all four burners going,” he says.
“It’s restored my faith in humanity. I’ve encountered nothing but wonderful people, all with such different personalities and backgrounds.”
Be a Weekend Farmer
Agrotourism, in which working farms open the barn doors to visitors for day or overnight trips, has the added advantage of supporting local agriculture. Agritourism World and Farm Stay USA provide listings for farm stays worldwide searchable by type, such as Christmas tree farm, vineyard, orchard, dude ranch or alpaca farm.
The 40-acre Taos Goji Farm and Eco-Lodge Retreat , in Taos, New Mexico, is one such venue. “My husband and I returned to the land nine years ago after many years working as professionals in stuffy offices. The farm has been developed for our family and others who wish to be close to nature and to live off of the land,” says co-owner Elizabeth vom Dorp.
The farm is open for paid guests, as well as to the volunteers known as “Wwoofers” that come through Worldwide Opportunities on Organic Farms to help raise goji berries, fruits, vegetables and free-range chickens. All cabins date from the early 1900s, including an old dairy barn converted into a duplex and five sheep herder cabins. The farm is surrounded by a national forest, so many guests visit to enjoy hiking, biking, fishing, rafting and ballooning. “Families with children love to come and pick berries, collect eggs and pet the animals. We have rescue alpacas, sheep, goats, chickens and turkeys,” says vom Dorp.
While the world may still be at the mercy of unfortunate circumstances this summer, travel is ultimately a state of mind. By staying open, curious and present, there are always new encounters and discoveries underfoot very close to home.


naturalawakeningsmagazine--2020-05-22--Power Up Your Brain: Six Ways to Boost Blood Flow

Our brain has many well-known structures like the amygdala that detects danger and the prefrontal cortex that enables planning , but we often take for granted the 400 miles of blood vessels that push through a liter of blood per minute , carrying in oxygen and nutrients , and porting out wastes .
“ Our brains are highly metabolic organs , so they require lots of nutrients and oxygen to function properly , and those can only get to our brain when we have good blood flow , ” says naturopathic physician Emilie Wilson , of the Synergy Wellness Center @ @ @ @ @ @ @ that blood flow is optimal , we feel energized and clear-headed ; when it ’ s low , we feel foggy and listless .
Low levels of cranial blood flow have been linked in brain imaging studies to strokes and dementia , as well as bipolar disorder , depression and suicidal tendencies .
The first imperative for healthy cranial blood flow is to make sure our blood pressure , blood sugar and cholesterol numbers are in a healthy range .
Health practitioners can help us address that , as well as the conditions @ @ @ @ @ @ @ hypothyroidism , diabetes , anemia , depression and smoking .
To boost brain blood flow , specific lifestyle strategies have proven to be highly effective : 1 .
Eat strategically , especially beets and chocolate .
Nitric oxide ( NO ) is made in the endothelium , the thin layer of cells that line blood vessels ; it relaxes the inner muscles of those vessels , maximizing blood flow .
“ The continuous formation of NO in the brain is essential to life , ” says prominent pharmacologist Louis Ignarro , Ph.D. , @ @ @ @ @ @ @ in 1998 for discovering that humans produce NO and that it lowers blood pressure and improves blood flow .
He advocates passing up meat for soy and fish protein , eating antioxidant-rich produce such as pomegranate , blueberries , spinach and kale , and consuming lots of nitrate-rich food like celery and leafy greens which are converted to NO in the body .
He especially recommends beets—one study reported that in juice form , it increases nitric oxide levels by 21 percent in 45 minutes—as well as dark chocolate .
In a Harvard @ @ @ @ @ @ @ cups of hot chocolate a day for 30 days had improved blood flow to the brain and better memory .
2 .
Take amino acid supplements .
“ Consuming supplements containing both L-arginine and L-citrulline are well-documented to boost the production of endothelium-derived NO , ” says Ignarro .
“ Adding antioxidants to the amino acid mix provides added benefit by increasing NO levels.
” He recommends pomegranate extract , cocoa flavonols and omega-3 supplements .
3 .
Move the body .
Fast walking , running , cycling , swimming , ball playing @ @ @ @ @ @ @ improve cranial blood flow , says Ignarro : “ Physical activity stimulates the production of NO in all arteries , including those in the brain.
” In one study , women over 60 that walked for 30 to 50 minutes three or four times a week increased ongoing cranial blood flow up to 15 percent .
Yoga exercises like downward dog and shoulder stands also raise blood flow in the head .
4 .
Play music .
Research using functional magnetic resonance imaging published in Scientific Reports found that blood flow in the @ @ @ @ @ @ @ they love , whether it ’ s Mozart or Eminem .
In a recent study , Weightless , a song written by the British group Macaroni Union along with sound therapists , reduced participants ’ anxiety levels by 65 percent and physiological resting rates by 35 percent .
6 .
Consider acupuncture and craniosacral therapy .
“ Acupuncture has been used for thousands of years to boost blood flow , and it can also relax tense muscles in the neck and head , which can impair blood flow more than we realize , @ @ @ @ @ @ @ the gentle , hands-on-head approach of craniosacral therapy : “ It can directly improve blood flow by removing restrictions , and it can also rebalance sympathetic and parasympathetic functions , which has beneficial effects on our nervous system and on blood flow .
”

Our brain has many well-known structures like the amygdala that detects danger and the prefrontal cortex that enables planning, but we often take for granted the 400 miles of blood vessels that push through a liter of blood per minute, carrying in oxygen and nutrients, and porting out wastes. “Our brains are highly metabolic organs, so they require lots of nutrients and oxygen to function properly, and those can only get to our brain when we have good blood flow,” says naturopathic physician Emilie Wilson, of the Synergy Wellness Center , in Prescott, Arizona.
When that blood flow is optimal, we feel energized and clear-headed; when it’s low, we feel foggy and listless. Low levels of cranial blood flow have been linked in brain imaging studies to strokes and dementia, as well as bipolar disorder, depression and suicidal tendencies. The first imperative for healthy cranial blood flow is to make sure our blood pressure, blood sugar and cholesterol numbers are in a healthy range. Health practitioners can help us address that, as well as the conditions linked to reduced blood flow—heart disease, hypothyroidism, diabetes, anemia, depression and smoking. To boost brain blood flow, specific lifestyle strategies have proven to be highly effective:
1. Eat strategically, especially beets and chocolate. Nitric oxide (NO) is made in the endothelium, the thin layer of cells that line blood vessels; it relaxes the inner muscles of those vessels, maximizing blood flow. “The continuous formation of NO in the brain is essential to life,” says prominent pharmacologist Louis Ignarro, Ph.D., who received the Nobel Prize in Science in 1998 for discovering that humans produce NO and that it lowers blood pressure and improves blood flow. He advocates passing up meat for soy and fish protein, eating antioxidant-rich produce such as pomegranate, blueberries, spinach and kale, and consuming lots of nitrate-rich food like celery and leafy greens which are converted to NO in the body. He especially recommends beets—one study reported that in juice form, it increases nitric oxide levels by 21 percent in 45 minutes—as well as dark chocolate. In a Harvard study, older people that drank two cups of hot chocolate a day for 30 days had improved blood flow to the brain and better memory.
2. Take amino acid supplements. “Consuming supplements containing both L-arginine and L-citrulline are well-documented to boost the production of endothelium-derived NO,” says Ignarro. “Adding antioxidants to the amino acid mix provides added benefit by increasing NO levels.” He recommends pomegranate extract, cocoa flavonols and omega-3 supplements.
3. Move the body. Fast walking, running, cycling, swimming, ball playing, weight lifting and yoga all help improve cranial blood flow, says Ignarro: “Physical activity stimulates the production of NO in all arteries, including those in the brain.” In one study, women over 60 that walked for 30 to 50 minutes three or four times a week increased ongoing cranial blood flow up to 15 percent. Yoga exercises like downward dog and shoulder stands also raise blood flow in the head.
4. Play music. Research using functional magnetic resonance imaging published in Scientific Reports found that blood flow in the brain increases when people listen to music they love, whether it’s Mozart or Eminem. In a recent study, Weightless, a song written by the British group Macaroni Union along with sound therapists, reduced participants’ anxiety levels by 65 percent and physiological resting rates by 35 percent.
5. Do a chanting meditation. Kirtan Kriya, a 12-minute daily meditation that includes chanting, finger movements and visualization, “has been researched for over 18 years and has documented benefits in increasing blood flow to the brain,” says Krystal Culler, senior Atlantic fellow with the Kirtan Kriya, a 12-minute daily meditation that includes chanting, finger movements and visualization, “has been researched for over 18 years and has documented benefits in increasing blood flow to the brain,” says Krystal Culler, senior Atlantic fellow with the Global Brain Health Institute , in San Francisco and Ireland. YouTube offers several versions, as does the Alzheimer’s Research and Prevention
6. Consider acupuncture and craniosacral therapy. “Acupuncture has been used for thousands of years to boost blood flow, and it can also relax tense muscles in the neck and head, which can impair blood flow more than we realize,” says Wilson. She also recommends the gentle, hands-on-head approach of craniosacral therapy: “It can directly improve blood flow by removing restrictions, and it can also rebalance sympathetic and parasympathetic functions, which has beneficial effects on our nervous system and on blood flow.”
Ronica O’Hara is a Denver-based health writer. Connect at [email protected].


naturalawakeningsmagazine--2020-05-22--Family Stories: Help Kids Cope During Tough Times

In these challenging times as our children struggle to cope with a swiftly changing world , one of the best things we can do is simply to let them know what strong stuff they come from .
Decades of research show that children that know their family ’ s stories—especially how their parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles and other forebears overcame adversity—have the ability to handle societal and personal trauma better .
“ Family stories help children feel safe , secure and grounded , ” says psychology professor Robyn Fivush , Ph.D. , director of the Family Narratives @ @ @ @ @ @ @ .
“ The stories provide a sense that they belong to something larger than themselves.
” In the midst of unsettling events , she says it ’ s especially important for children to know that the family has been through hard times before and persevered .
Emory research shows that children , teens and young adults that know more of their family ’ s narratives have a greater sense of control over their lives , more self-esteem , better grades , higher social competence , less anxiety and depression , and fewer behavior @ @ @ @ @ @ @ tested high in measures of family narratives proved to be more resilient and less stressed .
Family stories can be of loss— “ Once we had it all ” —or of triumph— “ We came up from nowhere ” —but the most powerful stories are those that show both the peaks and the valleys , the hilarious escapades and deep losses .
“ Even simply hearing what other people wish they could have done differently helps to offer children a broader perspective to current experiences , ” says Carrie Krawiec , a family @ @ @ @ @ @ @ Troy , Michigan .
Accounts of the deepest trauma also prove formative : Knowing how their great-grandparents survived the Holocaust gave young adults a sense of gratitude , pride , courage and a greater religious commitment , a University of Pennsylvania study found .
Stories unfold easily at holiday dinners and during long car rides ; even during an ordinary dinner , some kind of story— “ Guess what happened today at the store ?
” —occurs about every five minutes , Fivush ’ s research shows .
But summer vacation or days @ @ @ @ @ @ @ special opportunity for kids to dive deeper into their family background .
For example , they can write an essay about a grandparent or aunt , write and direct a play with siblings , make a scrapbook , read history or novels to study events that took place during a specific time period , write a song or story from the ancestor ’ s point of view , research and draw a family tree or create a mini-documentary based on an interview with an older relative .
This is the quiz used in @ @ @ @ @ @ @ that the 20 questions are only a starting point , and many more can be created .
Nor does getting the facts exactly right matter—those can easily be in dispute among family members .
“ It is the telling , the sharing and the listening that is more important than the story itself , ” she says .
• Do you know how your parents met ?
• Do you know where your mother grew up ?
• Do you know where your father grew up ?
• Do you know where some @ @ @ @ @ @ @ Do you know where some of your grandparents met ?
• Do you know where your parents were married ?
• Do you know what went on when you were being born ?
• Do you know the source of your name ?
• Do you know some things about what happened when your brothers or sisters were being born ?
• Do you know which person in your family you look most like ?
• Do you know which person in the family you act most like ?
• Do you know @ @ @ @ @ @ @ your parents experienced when they were younger ?
• Do you know some of the lessons that your parents learned from good or bad experiences ?
• Do you know some things that happened to your mom or dad when they were in school ?
• Do you know the national or ethnic background of your family ?
• Do you know some of the jobs that your parents had when they were young ?
• Do you know some awards that your parents received when they were young ?
• Do you @ @ @ @ @ @ @ your mom went to ?
• Do you know the names of the schools that your dad went to ?
• Do you know about a relative whose face “ froze ” in a grumpy position because he or she did not smile enough ?
• Read more about family narratives at Robyn Fivush ’ s Psychology Today blog

In these challenging times as our children struggle to cope with a swiftly changing world, one of the best things we can do is simply to let them know what strong stuff they come from. Decades of research show that children that know their family’s stories—especially how their parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles and other forebears overcame adversity—have the ability to handle societal and personal trauma better.
“Family stories help children feel safe, secure and grounded,” says psychology professor Robyn Fivush, Ph.D., director of the Family Narratives Lab at Emory University , in Atlanta. “The stories provide a sense that they belong to something larger than themselves.” In the midst of unsettling events, she says it’s especially important for children to know that the family has been through hard times before and persevered.
Emory research shows that children, teens and young adults that know more of their family’s narratives have a greater sense of control over their lives, more self-esteem, better grades, higher social competence, less anxiety and depression, and fewer behavior problems. After 9/11, children that tested high in measures of family narratives proved to be more resilient and less stressed.
Family stories can be of loss—“Once we had it all”—or of triumph—“We came up from nowhere”—but the most powerful stories are those that show both the peaks and the valleys, the hilarious escapades and deep losses. “Even simply hearing what other people wish they could have done differently helps to offer children a broader perspective to current experiences,” says Carrie Krawiec, a family therapist at Birmingham Maple Clinic , in Troy, Michigan. Accounts of the deepest trauma also prove formative: Knowing how their great-grandparents survived the Holocaust gave young adults a sense of gratitude, pride, courage and a greater religious commitment, a University of Pennsylvania study found.
Stories unfold easily at holiday dinners and during long car rides; even during an ordinary dinner, some kind of story—“Guess what happened today at the store?”—occurs about every five minutes, Fivush’s research shows. But summer vacation or days spent together inside a house provide a special opportunity for kids to dive deeper into their family background. For example, they can write an essay about a grandparent or aunt, write and direct a play with siblings, make a scrapbook, read history or novels to study events that took place during a specific time period, write a song or story from the ancestor’s point of view, research and draw a family tree or create a mini-documentary based on an interview with an older relative.
This is the quiz used in family narrative research, but Fivush cautions that the 20 questions are only a starting point, and many more can be created. Nor does getting the facts exactly right matter—those can easily be in dispute among family members. “It is the telling, the sharing and the listening that is more important than the story itself,” she says.
Do you know how your parents met? Do you know where your mother grew up? Do you know where your father grew up? Do you know where some of your grandparents grew up? Do you know where some of your grandparents met? Do you know where your parents were married? Do you know what went on when you were being born? Do you know the source of your name? Do you know some things about what happened when your brothers or sisters were being born? Do you know which person in your family you look most like? Do you know which person in the family you act most like? Do you know some of the illnesses and injuries that your parents experienced when they were younger? Do you know some of the lessons that your parents learned from good or bad experiences? Do you know some things that happened to your mom or dad when they were in school? Do you know the national or ethnic background of your family? Do you know some of the jobs that your parents had when they were young? Do you know some awards that your parents received when they were young? Do you know the names of the schools that your mom went to? Do you know the names of the schools that your dad went to? Do you know about a relative whose face “froze” in a grumpy position because he or she did not smile enough?
Ronica A. O’Hara is a Denver-based health writer. Connect at [email protected].
Getting Started with Family Narratives


naturalawakeningsmagazine--2020-05-22--Everyday Adventures: Taking to Vans and RVs for Life on the Road

Many Americans choose to travel in recreational vehicles ( RVs ) or well-equipped vans with all the comforts of home—no hotels , just the open road and a tank full of gas .
Cindy Jane is a Florida naturalist , vegan advocate , accomplished artist and wife to land surveyor Kevin Georgeson .
Now 50 years old , she ’ s had a dream since she was 18 to travel the country in a van , visiting state and national parks , hiking trails and spending quality time in nature .
She envisions setting up an easel and painting in @ @ @ @ @ @ @ about getting out of that social norm of always knowing what the next day is going to be like , doing the same thing every day .
I like a little bit of the unknown , the unexpected .
I want to see things .
I want adventure .
I want the freedom that comes with going , ” she says .
The couple purchased a 2018 Ford Transit van with low mileage and a little warranty left on it .
Together , they are customizing it to create a comfortable home away @ @ @ @ @ @ @ wanderlust .
Crafty and resourceful , they voraciously watch YouTube videos to learn the ins and outs of solar panels , electrical hookups , kitchen countertops , insulation and 1,000 other details that go into a successful buildout .
They ’ re taking their time to do it right after investing thousands of dollars already .
To document their progress and hopefully inspire others , they record videos on Jane ’ s smartphone and post them to her website , The couple purchased a 2018 Ford Transit van with low mileage and a @ @ @ @ @ @ @ , they are customizing it to create a comfortable home away from home to satisfy Jane ’ s wanderlust .
Crafty and resourceful , they voraciously watch YouTube videos to learn the ins and outs of solar panels , electrical hookups , kitchen countertops , insulation and 1,000 other details that go into a successful buildout .
They ’ re taking their time to do it right after investing thousands of dollars already .
To document their progress and hopefully inspire others , they record videos on Jane ’ s smartphone and post @ @ @ @ @ @ @ Nomad According to the Wheatleys , traveling and living in close quarters has its drawbacks .
Cleaning out portable toilets and taking showers at truck stops can be challenging , but for the avid explorers , these inconveniences were always eclipsed by jaw-dropping scenery and cultural immersion in new countries .
“ Because we had wheels and time , we got to see some cool stuff off the beaten track that most people that were visiting for a weekend or week never see , ” says Val .
Offering tips , tricks , @ @ @ @ @ @ @ many world-trotting experiences , the couple ’ s Offering tips , tricks , candid descriptions and inspiring photography of their many world-trotting experiences , the couple ’ s travel blog tallied more than 600,000 visitors last year .
Through online advertising and affiliate programs , they earned enough money for living and travel expenses .
“ The world actually isn ’ t a scary place at all .
People all over the world in every culture are friendly and welcoming , ” Nick says .
For those looking to connect with fellow travelers @ @ @ @ @ @ @ offer base camps , programming and social opportunities .
One such club is For those looking to connect with fellow travelers , there are numerous recreational clubs that offer base camps , programming and social opportunities .
One such club is Sisters on the Fly , an all-women outdoor adventure club founded in 1999 by Maurrie Sussman and her sister Rebecca Clarke with a penchant for small , vintage trailers that are restored and embellished by their owners .
With 9,000 active members and an organizer in each state , these resourceful and @ @ @ @ @ @ @ nationwide every year , including fly fishing , guided tours , kayaking , mountain climbing , biking and more .
“ It ’ s about being outdoors and meeting amazing women .
We love going into the national parks , taking back roads and visiting all the small towns , ” Sussman says .
Living in an RV or van full-time has become an attractive option for many people , including college kids looking for inexpensive housing or retirees on limited incomes .
“ I think more and more we ’ re seeing @ @ @ @ @ @ @ a bunch of possessions , ” says Jane .
“ Maybe that means working less and living more frugally , so you see a rise in minimalism and van life.
” For a wealth of information on vans and RVs as full-time options , as well as in-depth interviews with van lifers , visit YouTube channel CheapRVLiving .
Living in an RV or van full-time has become an attractive option for many people , including college kids looking for inexpensive housing or retirees on limited incomes .
“ I think more and more @ @ @ @ @ @ @ their time more than a bunch of possessions , ” says Jane .
“ Maybe that means working less and living more frugally , so you see a rise in minimalism and van life.
” For a wealth of information on vans and RVs as full-time options , as well as in-depth interviews with van lifers , visit Bob Wells

Many Americans choose to travel in recreational vehicles (RVs) or well-equipped vans with all the comforts of home—no hotels, just the open road and a tank full of gas. Cindy Jane is a Florida naturalist, vegan advocate, accomplished artist and wife to land surveyor Kevin Georgeson. Now 50 years old, she’s had a dream since she was 18 to travel the country in a van, visiting state and national parks, hiking trails and spending quality time in nature. She envisions setting up an easel and painting in inspiring settings. “It’s about getting out of that social norm of always knowing what the next day is going to be like, doing the same thing every day. I like a little bit of the unknown, the unexpected. I want to see things. I want adventure. I want the freedom that comes with going,” she says.
The couple purchased a 2018 Ford Transit van with low mileage and a little warranty left on it. Together, they are customizing it to create a comfortable home away from home to satisfy Jane’s wanderlust. Crafty and resourceful, they voraciously watch YouTube videos to learn the ins and outs of solar panels, electrical hookups, kitchen countertops, insulation and 1,000 other details that go into a successful buildout. They’re taking their time to do it right after investing thousands of dollars already. To document their progress and hopefully inspire others, they record videos on Jane’s smartphone and post them to her website,
The couple purchased a 2018 Ford Transit van with low mileage and a little warranty left on it. Together, they are customizing it to create a comfortable home away from home to satisfy Jane’s wanderlust. Crafty and resourceful, they voraciously watch YouTube videos to learn the ins and outs of solar panels, electrical hookups, kitchen countertops, insulation and 1,000 other details that go into a successful buildout. They’re taking their time to do it right after investing thousands of dollars already. To document their progress and hopefully inspire others, they record videos on Jane’s smartphone and post them to her website, Artful Vegan Nomad
Val and Nick Wheatley are veteran nomads, having traveled the world for almost four years in all kinds of rides, including the 1994 Ford Bronco they drove across the U.S. for six months. Camping outdoors was challenging, and they vowed never again to travel in a vehicle without a bed. They purchased a Ford Econovan to explore New Zealand and sold it three months later when they left. In Germany, where beautiful campgrounds and free public lots with inexpensive electric and water hookups are plentiful, a rented RV was the way to go. With experience, the couple has come to prefer converted vans or smaller RVs, thanks to their fuel savings and easier maneuverability in cities and on narrow country roads.
According to the Wheatleys, traveling and living in close quarters has its drawbacks. Cleaning out portable toilets and taking showers at truck stops can be challenging, but for the avid explorers, these inconveniences were always eclipsed by jaw-dropping scenery and cultural immersion in new countries. “Because we had wheels and time, we got to see some cool stuff off the beaten track that most people that were visiting for a weekend or week never see,” says Val.
Offering tips, tricks, candid descriptions and inspiring photography of their many world-trotting experiences, the couple’s Offering tips, tricks, candid descriptions and inspiring photography of their many world-trotting experiences, the couple’s travel blog tallied more than 600,000 visitors last year. Through online advertising and affiliate programs, they earned enough money for living and travel expenses. “The world actually isn’t a scary place at all. People all over the world in every culture are friendly and welcoming,” Nick says.
For those looking to connect with fellow travelers, there are numerous recreational clubs that offer base camps, programming and social opportunities. One such club is For those looking to connect with fellow travelers, there are numerous recreational clubs that offer base camps, programming and social opportunities. One such club is Sisters on the Fly , an all-women outdoor adventure club founded in 1999 by Maurrie Sussman and her sister Rebecca Clarke with a penchant for small, vintage trailers that are restored and embellished by their owners.
With 9,000 active members and an organizer in each state, these resourceful and festive ladies hold more than 1,000 events nationwide every year, including fly fishing, guided tours, kayaking, mountain climbing, biking and more. “It’s about being outdoors and meeting amazing women. We love going into the national parks, taking back roads and visiting all the small towns,” Sussman says.
Living in an RV or van full-time has become an attractive option for many people, including college kids looking for inexpensive housing or retirees on limited incomes. “I think more and more we’re seeing people who value their time more than a bunch of possessions,” says Jane. “Maybe that means working less and living more frugally, so you see a rise in minimalism and van life.” For a wealth of information on vans and RVs as full-time options, as well as in-depth interviews with van lifers, visit YouTube channel CheapRVLiving. Living in an RV or van full-time has become an attractive option for many people, including college kids looking for inexpensive housing or retirees on limited incomes. “I think more and more we’re seeing people who value their time more than a bunch of possessions,” says Jane. “Maybe that means working less and living more frugally, so you see a rise in minimalism and van life.” For a wealth of information on vans and RVs as full-time options, as well as in-depth interviews with van lifers, visit Bob Wells
Sandra Yeyati is a freelance writer. Reach her at [email protected].


naturalawakeningsmagazine--2020-05-22--Homebody Workouts: Getting Fit Without a Gym

When getting to the gym is not possible , there are plenty of options to explore for at-home workouts .
From finding fun ways to stay fit to getting loved ones involved , figuring out what works and committing to a few simple goals is a good start .
Although it may be hard to pull ourselves up from the couch during periods of adversity , sticking to an exercise program can help boost immunity and emotional resilience .
“ Not feeling like exercising is common during stressful times , but try to remember how good you feel afterward and @ @ @ @ @ @ @ why , ” says life coach Suzanne King , in Marlton , New Jersey .
Trainers agree it ’ s important to see working out and taking care of our health as an investment , and having a plan goes a long way .
“ You would never just brush off a business appointment if it was in your calendar and you knew you had to attend , ” says personal trainer Chris Wong , in Oakville , Ontario .
“ The simple act of putting it in your schedule makes it real @ @ @ @ @ @ @ Now you have structure.
” Stephanie Mansour , host of the PBS fitness and health show Step it up with Steph , concurs : “ Once I started viewing workouts as my own personal confidence-boosting time , a lightbulb went off in my head and I became addicted to this time with myself.
” The Chicago-based personal trainer recommends lightening up .
“ Find something fun .
Do something goofy like dancing around .
Schedule this in and instead of ‘ workout ’ , call it ‘ pump-up time for me ’ .
@ @ @ @ @ @ @ or walking every evening after dinner is a great way to get oxygen-infused aerobic time .
“ Use outdoor space to your advantage , ” says Wong .
“ I ’ ve taught boot camps at parks , and one game I like doing is Touch 20 Things .
Run around and touch 20 things at least 15 to 20 feet apart , but don ’ t touch the same thing twice .
He also suggests doing sprints or bear crawls for distance exercise and step-ups on park benches or large rocks .
@ @ @ @ @ @ @ , similar things can be done in your backyard .
Just have fun with it.
” Working out with a different rule set offers an invitation to add a new twist to a usual favorite .
“ I personally practice martial arts every day , but that can be done in a variety of ways , ” says Wong , pointing to gentle qigong , shadow boxing , breathing exercises , footwork drills and heavy bag training .
He recommends exercising every day , but limiting more intense workouts to three or four @ @ @ @ @ @ @ as walking and bicycling are a good daily choice , while high-intensity interval training workouts can be accomplished with minimal or no equipment .
There are a variety of methods with timing elements that can be used to get a good workout .
For example , with the As Many Rounds As Possible regimen , three exercises are done back-to-back for as many rounds as possible in a 10-to12-minute period .
Exploring free online classes on YouTube and other platforms opens up even more options , including yoga , Pilates and dance classes @ @ @ @ @ @ @ Zoom or Skype live in real time .
There are also mobile apps with workouts available for download .
Partners or family members can help each other to stay on a workout schedule .
“ You can set up a chart for you and your family members to put a star or checkmark once you ’ ve finished a workout .
Turn it into a competition , and whoever has the most stars at the end of a few weeks gets to pick the workout for the whole family to do , ” @ @ @ @ @ @ @ a pact to take care of the kids when it is the other ’ s turn to grab some fitness time .
Being motivated is easier with some self-love , King reminds us : “ You can begin something new by fully appreciating yourself with daily gratitude .
”

When getting to the gym is not possible, there are plenty of options to explore for at-home workouts. From finding fun ways to stay fit to getting loved ones involved, figuring out what works and committing to a few simple goals is a good start.
Although it may be hard to pull ourselves up from the couch during periods of adversity, sticking to an exercise program can help boost immunity and emotional resilience. “Not feeling like exercising is common during stressful times, but try to remember how good you feel afterward and the sense of accomplishment. Remember the why,” says life coach Suzanne King , in Marlton, New Jersey.
Begin With the Basics
Trainers agree it’s important to see working out and taking care of our health as an investment, and having a plan goes a long way. “You would never just brush off a business appointment if it was in your calendar and you knew you had to attend,” says personal trainer Chris Wong , in Oakville, Ontario. “The simple act of putting it in your schedule makes it real. Now you have a responsibility. Now you have structure.”
Stephanie Mansour, host of the PBS fitness and health show Step it up with Steph , concurs: “Once I started viewing workouts as my own personal confidence-boosting time, a lightbulb went off in my head and I became addicted to this time with myself.” The Chicago-based personal trainer recommends lightening up. “Find something fun. Do something goofy like dancing around. Schedule this in and instead of ‘workout’, call it ‘pump-up time for me’.”
Getting outside and hitting the trails or walking every evening after dinner is a great way to get oxygen-infused aerobic time. “Use outdoor space to your advantage,” says Wong. “I’ve taught boot camps at parks, and one game I like doing is Touch 20 Things. Run around and touch 20 things at least 15 to 20 feet apart, but don’t touch the same thing twice. He also suggests doing sprints or bear crawls for distance exercise and step-ups on park benches or large rocks. “If a park is not available, similar things can be done in your backyard. Just have fun with it.”
Exercising Outside the Box
Working out with a different rule set offers an invitation to add a new twist to a usual favorite. “I personally practice martial arts every day, but that can be done in a variety of ways,” says Wong, pointing to gentle qigong, shadow boxing, breathing exercises, footwork drills and heavy bag training.
He recommends exercising every day, but limiting more intense workouts to three or four times a week. Cardio exercises such as walking and bicycling are a good daily choice, while high-intensity interval training workouts can be accomplished with minimal or no equipment. There are a variety of methods with timing elements that can be used to get a good workout. For example, with the As Many Rounds As Possible regimen, three exercises are done back-to-back for as many rounds as possible in a 10-to12-minute period.
Exploring free online classes on YouTube and other platforms opens up even more options, including yoga, Pilates and dance classes. Many trainers offer virtual workouts over Zoom or Skype live in real time. There are also mobile apps with workouts available for download.
The Support Factor
Partners or family members can help each other to stay on a workout schedule. “You can set up a chart for you and your family members to put a star or checkmark once you’ve finished a workout. Turn it into a competition, and whoever has the most stars at the end of a few weeks gets to pick the workout for the whole family to do,” suggests Mansour. Partners can also make a pact to take care of the kids when it is the other’s turn to grab some fitness time.
Being motivated is easier with some self-love, King reminds us: “You can begin something new by fully appreciating yourself with daily gratitude.”


naturalawakeningsmagazine--2020-05-22--Feeding Happiness: Lifting Moods with Feel-Good Foods

Whether it ’ s a pandemic , a breakup or a busy day with the kids , heading to the kitchen for a carb fix or a pint of ice cream is a common knee-jerk response to stress .
It ’ s easy to get caught in a whirlpool of poor eating when our bodies need nutritional support more than ever .
Opting for healthier versions of favorite comfort foods is a doable compromise that can prevent endorphins from plummeting after the usual temporary spike .
“ With the right ingredients and recipes , we can satisfy our cravings for @ @ @ @ @ @ @ with healthier upgrades of our favorite junk foods , ” says Marlowe .
Eating to stay healthy during hard times can tickle the taste buds without a lot of invested time .
Marlowe ’ s go-to favorites like homemade banana ice cream or chocolate truffles not only take minutes to prepare , but fortify the brain .
For must-have salty favorites , she suggests opting for snack foods seasoned with unrefined or pink Himalayan salt , fresh guacamole , salsa , olives or pickles .
Filling a seaweed sushi wrap with avocado can @ @ @ @ @ @ @ For easy-exotic , Marlowe says , “ I always keep coconut milk and unsweetened curry paste on hand to whip up a red Thai curry , my favorite 15-minute dinner .
Simply add fresh or frozen vegetables and protein of choice and you have a satisfying , flavorful meal that is faster than delivery.
” Waddle ’ s healthy comfort foods include nuts of different flavors , dried fruits and baked Brussels sprouts with nitrite-free bacon , black pepper and a sprinkle of nutmeg .
“ The food you consider comfort food is @ @ @ @ @ @ @ ” she says .
“ When you start eating healthier food more often , it will become comfort food .
Just keep trying new things.
” The kitchen can be our greatest ally during any life-storm , but having a stress-free strategy is key , especially paying attention to emotional states .
“ Ask yourself , ‘ Is it head hunger or belly hunger ?
Above the neck or below the neck ?
’ If it ’ s the latter and that ’ s truly what is desired , don ’ t deny @ @ @ @ @ @ @ .
Savor the flavor , ” says Neily .
Marlowe recommends easy meal planning and maintaining an eating schedule .
“ This helps remove some of the stress and decision fatigue that comes with figuring out what to eat in the moment , especially with random ingredients in the fridge.
” Food shopping can be an instant junk food trap .
Waddle ’ s approach is a sure way to outsmart impulse buying based on habit .
She says , “ Start with the produce department first .
This fills your cart with @ @ @ @ @ @ @ full by the time you get to the snack aisle.
” Self-compassion can be one of the most important , yet overlooked considerations .
“ Regardless of what you choose to eat , be gentle with yourself , ” notes Waddle .
“ The guilt of eating poorly is more damaging than the food.
” Add cacao powder , dates and coconut to a blender .
( A bullet blender works well . )
Blend until a paste is formed , which should only take a few seconds .
Roll about a tablespoon @ @ @ @ @ @ @ .
Repeat .
Choose a topping , sprinkle it onto parchment paper and roll date ball in it to coat .
Add-Ins : choose as many as desired Peel bananas , break in half and put in a zip-top freezer bag .
Freeze for at least 4 hours or overnight .
Place all ingredients ( banana base plus the add-in ingredients of choice ) into a high-speed blender such as a Vitamix , and blend on high until soft-serve ice cream consistency is reached , which should be in about 30 to 60 @ @ @ @ @ @ @ more add-ins are needed and re-blend if desired .
Spoon out and serve .
Dopamine boosters for better mood and memory , and warding off neurodegenerative diseases : artichokes , ripe bananas , tahini , wheat germ , almond butter , leafy greens , lentils , chickpeas , black beans , papaya , red beets , apples , watermelon , blueberries and prunes .

Whether it’s a pandemic, a breakup or a busy day with the kids, heading to the kitchen for a carb fix or a pint of ice cream is a common knee-jerk response to stress. It’s easy to get caught in a whirlpool of poor eating when our bodies need nutritional support more than ever.
Sustained or chronic stress can reduce levels of dopamine and serotonin—neurotransmitters linked to feelings of both satiety and happiness. “When serotonin levels are normal, it leads to both emotional satisfaction and a sense of fullness after a meal,” says Certified Integrative Nutrition Health Coach Maria Marlowe , in New York City and Dubai. “Conversely, when serotonin levels are low, it can lead to depression and a tendency to reach for sweet and starchy foods.”
Avoiding Extremes
Stress-eating sparks only temporary physical and emotional fulfillment. “When your brain is in need of energy, it can mimic the symptoms of depression and anxiety,” notes Tara Waddle, holistic life coach at The Center of Balance , in Greeley, Colorado. “Finding healthier substitutes that are less processed can make a huge impact.”
Experts agree that concentrating on weight loss or super-strict diets during times of adversity might do more harm than good. “Focusing on the need to lose weight during crisis will only do two things—make you feel guilty if you’re not eating what you think you’re supposed to and potentially make you eat more out of guilt,” says Registered Dietitian Nutritionist Jennifer Neily , in Dallas.
Opting for healthier versions of favorite comfort foods is a doable compromise that can prevent endorphins from plummeting after the usual temporary spike. “With the right ingredients and recipes, we can satisfy our cravings for sweet, salt, creamy or crunchy with healthier upgrades of our favorite junk foods,” says Marlowe.
Friendly Fare
Eating to stay healthy during hard times can tickle the taste buds without a lot of invested time. Marlowe’s go-to favorites like homemade banana ice cream or chocolate truffles not only take minutes to prepare, but fortify the brain. For must-have salty favorites, she suggests opting for snack foods seasoned with unrefined or pink Himalayan salt, fresh guacamole, salsa, olives or pickles. Filling a seaweed sushi wrap with avocado can be a satisfying and easy snack.
For easy-exotic, Marlowe says, “I always keep coconut milk and unsweetened curry paste on hand to whip up a red Thai curry, my favorite 15-minute dinner. Simply add fresh or frozen vegetables and protein of choice and you have a satisfying, flavorful meal that is faster than delivery.”
Waddle’s healthy comfort foods include nuts of different flavors, dried fruits and baked Brussels sprouts with nitrite-free bacon, black pepper and a sprinkle of nutmeg. “The food you consider comfort food is comforting because it’s familiar,” she says. “When you start eating healthier food more often, it will become comfort food. Just keep trying new things.”
Keep it Simple
The kitchen can be our greatest ally during any life-storm, but having a stress-free strategy is key, especially paying attention to emotional states. “Ask yourself, ‘Is it head hunger or belly hunger? Above the neck or below the neck?’ If it’s the latter and that’s truly what is desired, don’t deny yourself, but choose with conscious understanding. Savor the flavor,” says Neily.
Marlowe recommends easy meal planning and maintaining an eating schedule. “This helps remove some of the stress and decision fatigue that comes with figuring out what to eat in the moment, especially with random ingredients in the fridge.” Food shopping can be an instant junk food trap. Waddle’s approach is a sure way to outsmart impulse buying based on habit. She says,“Start with the produce department first. This fills your cart with fresh foods and your cart will be full by the time you get to the snack aisle.”
Self-compassion can be one of the most important, yet overlooked considerations. “Regardless of what you choose to eat, be gentle with yourself,” notes Waddle. “The guilt of eating poorly is more damaging than the food.”
Marlaina Donato is an author and a composer.
SWEET RECIPES FOR HEALTHY SNACKING
Five-Minute Chocolate Truffles
photo courtesy of Maria Marlowe
Truffle
3 Tbsp cacao powder
1½ cups dates, pitted
3 Tbsp shredded coconut, unsweetened
Toppings (choose a few)
Cacao nibs
Cacao powder
Sesame seeds
Shredded coconut
Pistachios, crushed
Walnuts, crushed
Acai powder
Goji powder
Maqui powder
Pomegranate powder
Add cacao powder, dates and coconut to a blender. (A bullet blender works well.) Blend until a paste is formed, which should only take a few seconds. Roll about a tablespoon or so of paste into a ball. Repeat. Choose a topping, sprinkle it onto parchment paper and roll date ball in it to coat.
Banana Ice Cream
photo courtesy of Maria Marlowe 2 overripe bananas
¼ tsp vanilla extract
Add-Ins: choose as many as desired
2-3 tsp cacao powder
1 Tbsp almond butter
2-3 tsp carob powder
3-4 pitted dates
¼ tsp cinnamon
1 cup frozen strawberries
6 mint leaves
1 Tbsp coconut flakes (or coconut butter or shredded coconut)
1 Tbsp ginger
1 Tbsp almond butter or almonds
½-inch peeled ginger piece
Peel bananas, break in half and put in a zip-top freezer bag. Freeze for at least 4 hours or overnight. Place all ingredients (banana base plus the add-in ingredients of choice) into a high-speed blender such as a Vitamix, and blend on high until soft-serve ice cream consistency is reached, which should be in about 30 to 60 seconds.
Taste to determine whether any more add-ins are needed and re-blend if desired. Spoon out and serve.
Fast, Healthy Pasta
Deborah Lee Rossiter/Shutterstock.com Gluten-free bean and legume-based pastas provide more fiber and protein compared to traditional pasta, points out Marlowe. She suggests placing a steamer basket full of chopped veggies like broccoli, cauliflower and squash over boiling pasta water for a quick pasta primavera. Add some garlic sautéed in olive oil and a little salt and pepper.
Gluten-free bean and legume-based pastas provide more fiber and protein compared to traditional pasta, points out Marlowe. She suggests placing a steamer basket full of chopped veggies like broccoli, cauliflower and squash over boiling pasta water for a quick pasta primavera. Add some garlic sautéed in olive oil and a little salt and pepper.
Feel-Good Foods
sonchacha/Shutterstock.com Serotonin boosters for better mood and digestive harmony: kiwis, bananas, pineapples, plums, all types of berries, tomatoes, raw cacao nibs, 90 percent dark chocolate, chia seeds, pumpkin seeds, butternuts (related to walnuts), almonds, eggs, beans, oats, protein-rich foods, sea vegetables, avocados, Swiss chard, beets, green tea and spices like turmeric. kiwis, bananas, pineapples, plums, all types of berries, tomatoes, raw cacao nibs, 90 percent dark chocolate, chia seeds, pumpkin seeds, butternuts (related to walnuts), almonds, eggs, beans, oats, protein-rich foods, sea vegetables, avocados, Swiss chard, beets, green tea and spices like turmeric.
Dopamine boosters for better mood and memory, and warding off neurodegenerative diseases: artichokes, ripe bananas, tahini, wheat germ, almond butter, leafy greens, lentils, chickpeas, black beans, papaya, red beets, apples, watermelon, blueberries and prunes.


Fathers Know Best

Dads , lighten up .
Yes , all dads project their own fears and hopes on their children .
If Dad dreamed of becoming a first baseman for the Yankees , he ’ ll push Johnny into baseball , ignoring his son ’ s preference for woodworking .
If Dad harbored hopes of being the next Hemingway , he ’ ll praise Mary ’ s poetry , and maybe skip a few of her tedious soccer games .
Those are the facts , ma ’ am .
Dads have a habit of imposing their own success goals on their kids @ @ @ @ @ @ @ fatherhood to let kids willy-nilly develop their own talents and dreams .
Does that ruin the kids ?
Who knows ?
It happens in just about every family , so good luck finding a control group for the experiment .
There may be no hope for the kids , but how about the dads ?
What might happen if they notice this odd behavior and how might that lighten their own loads ?
Most of us dads , most of the time , initially take on the responsibility of fatherhood—income , protection , @ @ @ @ @ @ @ compromises with our pre-dad selves .
The sports car gets traded in for a minivan .
Playing guitar becomes a hobby , not a professional goal .
We sign on at the warehouse .
New dads around the country are making these changes every day , and mostly with alacrity .
It ’ s later , when the perfect infant becomes the complaining toddler or rejecting teenager , that the vexing notion arises that another life could have been lived .
This form of nostalgia—for what never came—is bitter .
The word “ @ @ @ @ @ @ @ from the Greek for “ the pain of going home ” .
But by seeing himself project his dreams on his children , a father can also see how he ’ s holding onto a suspect belief that another life would have been better .
With maturity , a dad can revisit his adolescent dreams ; not nostalgically , but with the wisdom that comes with age .
Did I really have a chance at the Yankees ?
Be real .
Weren ’ t there two guys in high school alone who had @ @ @ @ @ @ @ a father might even notice that no one in the family measures his worth in worldly achievements .
A dad is best remembered in his capacity for love , kindness , forgiveness , everyday strength and friendliness .
Your child may know you ’ re a master carpenter .
But what she remembers is that day when you gently showed her the right way to hold a hammer .

Dads, lighten up. Yes, all dads project their own fears and hopes on their children. If Dad dreamed of becoming a first baseman for the Yankees, he’ll push Johnny into baseball, ignoring his son’s preference for woodworking. If Dad harbored hopes of being the next Hemingway, he’ll praise Mary’s poetry, and maybe skip a few of her tedious soccer games.
Those are the facts, ma’am. Dads have a habit of imposing their own success goals on their kids. It’s not built into fatherhood to let kids willy-nilly develop their own talents and dreams. Does that ruin the kids? Who knows? It happens in just about every family, so good luck finding a control group for the experiment.
There may be no hope for the kids, but how about the dads? What might happen if they notice this odd behavior and how might that lighten their own loads?
Most of us dads, most of the time, initially take on the responsibility of fatherhood—income, protection, education—with drive and purpose. We make compromises with our pre-dad selves. The sports car gets traded in for a minivan. Playing guitar becomes a hobby, not a professional goal. We sign on at the warehouse. New dads around the country are making these changes every day, and mostly with alacrity.
It’s later, when the perfect infant becomes the complaining toddler or rejecting teenager, that the vexing notion arises that another life could have been lived. This form of nostalgia—for what never came—is bitter. The word “nostalgia”, after all, comes from the Greek for “the pain of going home”.
But by seeing himself project his dreams on his children, a father can also see how he’s holding onto a suspect belief that another life would have been better. With maturity, a dad can revisit his adolescent dreams; not nostalgically, but with the wisdom that comes with age. Did I really have a chance at the Yankees? Be real. Weren’t there two guys in high school alone who had more talent?
Asking these questions, a father might even notice that no one in the family measures his worth in worldly achievements. A dad is best remembered in his capacity for love, kindness, forgiveness, everyday strength and friendliness. Your child may know you’re a master carpenter. But what she remembers is that day when you gently showed her the right way to hold a hammer.
Neal Allen is a spiritual coach and author who shares seven children, step-children and grandchildren with his wife, writer Anne Lamott. His book on a new path to personal freedom will be released by Hierophant Publishers in spring 2021.


naturalawakeningsmagazine--2020-05-22--David Hamilton on Kindness in the Pandemic Age

Have you noticed an increase in kindness during the current pandemic emergency ?
I think so .
In the past , you said things like , “ Hello , how are you ?
” as a greeting .
But now , when people say it , they really mean it .
There ’ s a sense of genuine compassion that I think is coming out in everyone on a scale that I ’ ve never seen before .
We ’ re feeling empathy for people that are suffering , but also feeling empathy for each other , because we realize @ @ @ @ @ @ @ .
How do you explain this upsurge in kindness during social distancing and isolation ?
We are genetically wired for kindness .
The genes that produce the kindness hormone are some of the oldest in the human genome , like 500 million years old .
So , our natural state is to care , to be kind and compassionate .
But in life , we get caught up in everyday stresses and worries—financially , work-wise and in relationships—that often obscure that natural tendency to care .
When a lot of that stuff is @ @ @ @ @ @ @ sense of kindness and compassion come to the surface .
Do you see an opportunity for a shift in collective consciousness ?
Absolutely .
We ’ ve been called to unify , to recognize that we are part of the same human family .
There ’ s a global outpouring of compassion .
We ’ re transforming , becoming more aware of our own kindness and the needs of other people .
On another level , I saw a meme that said , “ It feels like the universe has sent us home @ @ @ @ @ @ @ we ’ ve done.
” There ’ s research that correlates an increase in viruses and parasites over the last couple of years to a loss in biodiversity due to human action , like knocking down rain forests and human-induced climate change .
Species extinctions are 1,000 to 10,000 times greater today than they ’ ve ever been in recorded history , except for 65 million years ago when an asteroid crashed into the Earth and wiped out the dinosaurs .
Parasites , viruses and bacteria have nowhere else to go , so @ @ @ @ @ @ @ bats to humans , for example .
We ’ re being called spiritually not only to be more compassionate and kind to each other , but also to recognize the damage we ’ re doing to the planet and to be more respectful of nature , the environment and animals .
What are the positive physical effects of kindness ?
Physiologically speaking , kindness is the opposite of stress .
Where feeling stressed can increase blood pressure , tense the nervous system and suppress the immune system , feelings induced by kindness reduce @ @ @ @ @ @ @ and elevate the immune system .
Are certain acts of kindness better than others ?
It doesn ’ t matter what you do .
What matters most is that you do it because you mean it ; you genuinely have a sense of empathy and want to help someone .
All of the physiological benefits of kindness come because the feelings induced by kindness generate what I call kindness hormones , the most important one being oxytocin , which is a female reproductive hormone that also plays a big role in cardiovascular health @ @ @ @ @ @ @ really make a difference in the world ?
Absolutely .
It ’ s been charted scientifically that if you do something kind for somebody , that person will be kind or kinder to five other people over the next day or two because of how you made them feel .
Those five people will be kind or kinder to five further people , which turns into 25 people , and each of those 25 will be kind to five people , which takes it to 125 people ’ s lives that can be @ @ @ @ @ @ @ ways three social steps away from you simply because of one tiny little thing you did .

The Little Book of Kindness, How Your Mind Can Heal Your Body and The Five Side Effects of Kindness. He holds a doctorate in organic chemistry and spent four years in the pharmaceutical industry developing drugs for treating cardiovascular disease and cancer. During clinical research trials, he noticed that a significant number of people experienced health improvements while on fake, or placebo, drugs. This inspired a career change more than 20 years ago, when he became a writer and public speaker teaching people how to understand and harness the mind-body connection to improve health. David Hamilton has authored 10 books, includingand. He holds a doctorate in organic chemistry and spent four years in the pharmaceutical industry developing drugs for treating cardiovascular disease and cancer. During clinical research trials, he noticed that a significant number of people experienced health improvements while on fake, or placebo, drugs. This inspired a career change more than 20 years ago, when he became a writer and public speaker teaching people how to understand and harness the mind-body connection to improve health.
Have you noticed an increase in kindness during the current pandemic emergency?
I think so. In the past, you said things like, “Hello, how are you?” as a greeting. But now, when people say it, they really mean it. There’s a sense of genuine compassion that I think is coming out in everyone on a scale that I’ve never seen before. We’re feeling empathy for people that are suffering, but also feeling empathy for each other, because we realize that everyone is in a similar place.
How do you explain this upsurge in kindness during social distancing and isolation?
We are genetically wired for kindness. The genes that produce the kindness hormone are some of the oldest in the human genome, like 500 million years old. So, our natural state is to care, to be kind and compassionate. But in life, we get caught up in everyday stresses and worries—financially, work-wise and in relationships—that often obscure that natural tendency to care. When a lot of that stuff is taken away, people’s natural sense of kindness and compassion come to the surface.
Do you see an opportunity for a shift in collective consciousness?
Absolutely. We’ve been called to unify, to recognize that we are part of the same human family. There’s a global outpouring of compassion. We’re transforming, becoming more aware of our own kindness and the needs of other people.
On another level, I saw a meme that said, “It feels like the universe has sent us home to our rooms to think about what we’ve done.” There’s research that correlates an increase in viruses and parasites over the last couple of years to a loss in biodiversity due to human action, like knocking down rain forests and human-induced climate change. Species extinctions are 1,000 to 10,000 times greater today than they’ve ever been in recorded history, except for 65 million years ago when an asteroid crashed into the Earth and wiped out the dinosaurs. Parasites, viruses and bacteria have nowhere else to go, so they’re jumping species, from bats to humans, for example. We’re being called spiritually not only to be more compassionate and kind to each other, but also to recognize the damage we’re doing to the planet and to be more respectful of nature, the environment and animals.
What are the positive physical effects of kindness?
Physiologically speaking, kindness is the opposite of stress. Where feeling stressed can increase blood pressure, tense the nervous system and suppress the immune system, feelings induced by kindness reduce blood pressure, calm the nervous system and elevate the immune system.
Are certain acts of kindness better than others?
It doesn’t matter what you do. What matters most is that you do it because you mean it; you genuinely have a sense of empathy and want to help someone. All of the physiological benefits of kindness come because the feelings induced by kindness generate what I call kindness hormones, the most important one being oxytocin, which is a female reproductive hormone that also plays a big role in cardiovascular health.
Can a small act of kindness really make a difference in the world?
Absolutely. It’s been charted scientifically that if you do something kind for somebody, that person will be kind or kinder to five other people over the next day or two because of how you made them feel. Those five people will be kind or kinder to five further people, which turns into 25 people, and each of those 25 will be kind to five people, which takes it to 125 people’s lives that can be changed and affected in small and large ways three social steps away from you simply because of one tiny little thing you did.
Sandra Yeyati is a freelance writer in Naples, Florida. Connect at [email protected].


naturalawakeningsmagazine--2020-05-21--Biking During the COVID-19 Crisis: Regular Tips Apply to Pedaling

During the coronavirus crisis , biking is especially recommended , as it provides exceptional aerobic and cardio exercise , relaxation and because it maintains social distancing .
Keeping in mind proper equipment , fitness , safety and other factors can make it even more fulfilling during this difficult period .
Choose the right bike .
Those designed for roads and pavement are generally lighter and have more gears than mountain bikes , which have more shock-absorbing features , plus more lower gears to help traverse inclined terrain .
Urban and commuting bikes feature a slightly more upright riding position that @ @ @ @ @ @ @ motorists .
Use a bike shop with mechanics that test and adjust the bikes they sell , including determining the proper seat height—which facilitates proper alignment of hips and a full rotation—and the ideal distance from the handlebars to the seat tube .
Back , knee or hip pain may develop if a cyclist has to stretch his or her legs to get to the pedals , according to the League of American Bicyclists .
A biker doesn ’ t get proper leg extension if the seat is too low .
The legs @ @ @ @ @ @ @ extended at the lowest point in pedaling .
Safety takes many forms .
Even well-marked bike lanes don ’ t guarantee safety , so use caution .
Some motorists are careless about entering bike lanes and don ’ t correctly stop at crosswalks or look behind before opening doors .
Keep at least five feet from the sides of cars to avoid being hit .
Don ’ t weave in and out of traffic , always don a helmet , signal turns and watch out for runners and walkers .
Use the stop @ @ @ @ @ @ @ to alert bikers that may be traveling behind .
Proper pedaling can help prevent strains .
In addition to ensuring they ’ re employing proper leg extension , it ’ s advised that bikers pedal a little faster in a lower gear ; ideally , 75 to 90 revolutions per minute , which is easier on the knees with less muscle fatigue than traveling slower in a higher gear .

During the coronavirus crisis, biking is especially recommended, as it provides exceptional aerobic and cardio exercise, relaxation and because it maintains social distancing. Keeping in mind proper equipment, fitness, safety and other factors can make it even more fulfilling during this difficult period.
Choose the right bike. Those designed for roads and pavement are generally lighter and have more gears than mountain bikes, which have more shock-absorbing features, plus more lower gears to help traverse inclined terrain. Urban and commuting bikes feature a slightly more upright riding position that allows better sightlines and improved visibility by motorists.
Use a bike shop with mechanics that test and adjust the bikes they sell, including determining the proper seat height—which facilitates proper alignment of hips and a full rotation—and the ideal distance from the handlebars to the seat tube. Back, knee or hip pain may develop if a cyclist has to stretch his or her legs to get to the pedals, according to the League of American Bicyclists . A biker doesn’t get proper leg extension if the seat is too low. The legs should be almost, but not totally extended at the lowest point in pedaling.
Safety takes many forms. Even well-marked bike lanes don’t guarantee safety, so use caution. Some motorists are careless about entering bike lanes and don’t correctly stop at crosswalks or look behind before opening doors. Keep at least five feet from the sides of cars to avoid being hit. Don’t weave in and out of traffic, always don a helmet, signal turns and watch out for runners and walkers. Use the stop signal (left arm extended downward) to alert bikers that may be traveling behind.
Proper pedaling can help prevent strains. In addition to ensuring they’re employing proper leg extension, it’s advised that bikers pedal a little faster in a lower gear; ideally, 75 to 90 revolutions per minute, which is easier on the knees with less muscle fatigue than traveling slower in a higher gear.


naturalawakeningsmagazine--2020-05-22--Soothing Separation: Helping Anxious Dogs to Cope

Separation anxiety is a common canine problem , diagnosed in as many as 40 percent of dogs seen by veterinary behavioral specialists .
When the dog is left alone , it may serenade the neighbors , soil the house or cause damage .
Stories abound of unstuffed couches , dug-up floors , destroyed window coverings and dog injury from chewing out of a crate or trying to escape through windows .
In an article on separation anxiety syndrome ( SAS ) in the Journal of American Veterinary Medicine , Stefanie Schwartz , DVM , cites several studies that agree on @ @ @ @ @ @ @ : history of traumatic separation , inexperience with being alone , excessive greetings and prolonged departures by owners , relocation and changes in routine or family structure .
Symptoms vary in scope and degree , but SAS is painful for both dog and parent .
Repeatedly returning home to complaints from neighbors or considerable damage can cause owners to surrender their dogs .
If a dog is acting out , an assessment is needed to ensure that what seems like SAS isn ’ t caused by underlying conditions .
Boredom , illness or @ @ @ @ @ @ @ and symptoms such as pacing or excessive salivating that mimic anxiety .
If SAS is diagnosed , owners must understand that dogs aren ’ t exacting revenge and should never be punished for behavior exhibited when they are terrified , advise veterinarians .
A 2018 study in the Journal of Veterinary Behavior suggests that petting a dog for one minute before leaving may make the dog calmer during separation .
Some dogs feel safest when left in a crate covered with a blanket .
The human attitude toward separation can be felt by @ @ @ @ @ @ @ some dogs simply need more help coping .
Changing the brain might be the way to go .
Calmer Canine is a device that sends targeted , pulsed , electromagnetic field ( tPEMF ) signals to the dog ’ s brain .
Unlike approaches like medications , supplements and cannabidiol ( CBD ) that have to be administered repeatedly as needed , “ the dog gets two , 15-minute treatments per day for four to six weeks , ” says veterinarian Judy Korman , at Assisi Animal Health , in New York City @ @ @ @ @ @ @ A 2019 pilot study of nine dogs that she conducted in cooperation with the North Carolina State University of Veterinary Medicine , which developed the device , showed that the tPEMF signals reduced anxiety and restored calm .
There is a physiological reason for engaging in walks guided by the dog ’ s nose .
“ The more the dog is able to take in scent , the more it triggers the seeking part of the brain , the more enriching life is for the dog and the more it calms them down @ @ @ @ @ @ @ behavior specialist at the Lake Mills Veterinary Clinic , in Wisconsin .
How a dog is fed can also have an impact .
Putting food in puzzle toys facilitates a brain exercise that improves confidence .
“ Dogs who spend part of their day working out puzzles are really engaging that opportunistic scavenger part of their biology , ” says Voiles .
Commonly , pet owners are turning to the hemp plant derivative CBD as a calming aid .
For those considering nutraceuticals , herbs and supplements , a holistic veterinarian can make @ @ @ @ @ @ @ relax some dogs , but a mild scent for humans could supersaturate a dog ’ s olfactory organ , preventing them from smelling what ’ s necessary .
Learning how to use essential oils safely around pets is critical .
But the pacifying scent of natural pheromones that mimic the comfort of nursing are hard to beat ; pheromone-based products in sprays , diffusers , wipes and collars can be found in natural-health stores and pet stores .
“ It ’ s effective for dogs who need to feel safe or when adjusting @ @ @ @ @ @ @ Voiles .

Separation anxiety is a common canine problem, diagnosed in as many as 40 percent of dogs seen by veterinary behavioral specialists. When the dog is left alone, it may serenade the neighbors, soil the house or cause damage. Stories abound of unstuffed couches, dug-up floors, destroyed window coverings and dog injury from chewing out of a crate or trying to escape through windows.
In an article on separation anxiety syndrome (SAS) in the Journal of American Veterinary Medicine, Stefanie Schwartz, DVM, cites several studies that agree on common risk factors for SAS in dogs: history of traumatic separation, inexperience with being alone, excessive greetings and prolonged departures by owners, relocation and changes in routine or family structure.
Symptoms vary in scope and degree, but SAS is painful for both dog and parent. Repeatedly returning home to complaints from neighbors or considerable damage can cause owners to surrender their dogs.
Get the Diagnosis
If a dog is acting out, an assessment is needed to ensure that what seems like SAS isn’t caused by underlying conditions. Boredom, illness or canine cognitive dysfunction could result in actions and symptoms such as pacing or excessive salivating that mimic anxiety. If SAS is diagnosed, owners must understand that dogs aren’t exacting revenge and should never be punished for behavior exhibited when they are terrified, advise veterinarians.
Natural Solutions
Human Tricks
A 2018 study in the Journal of Veterinary Behavior suggests that petting a dog for one minute before leaving may make the dog calmer during separation. Some dogs feel safest when left in a crate covered with a blanket. The human attitude toward separation can be felt by the dog, as well, but some dogs simply need more help coping.
Changing the brain might be the way to go. Calmer Canine is a device that sends targeted, pulsed, electromagnetic field (tPEMF) signals to the dog’s brain. Unlike approaches like medications, supplements and cannabidiol (CBD) that have to be administered repeatedly as needed, “the dog gets two, 15-minute treatments per day for four to six weeks,” says veterinarian Judy Korman, at Assisi Animal Health , in New York City and Santa Fe, New Mexico. A 2019 pilot study of nine dogs that she conducted in cooperation with the North Carolina State University of Veterinary Medicine, which developed the device, showed that the tPEMF signals reduced anxiety and restored calm.
Exercise
“I’ve tried medication and natural supplements, and have found that what works best for all three of my dogs is plenty of exercise. Long walks, especially in new locations with new smells, are a favorite,” says Kimberly Gauthier, a blogger at Keep the Tail Wagging and Dog Mom Style , in Marysville, Washington.
There is a physiological reason for engaging in walks guided by the dog’s nose. “The more the dog is able to take in scent, the more it triggers the seeking part of the brain, the more enriching life is for the dog and the more it calms them down,” says Mittsy Voiles, a behavior specialist at the Lake Mills Veterinary Clinic , in Wisconsin.
Food and Supplements
Good nutrition allows dogs to be more successful citizens. “If you make the baseline fundamentals good, it gives the dog the ability to think, process its environment and have less anxiety,” says holistic veterinarian Catherine Alinovi, at Healthy Pawsibilities , in Clearwater, Florida. Processed kibble with food coloring is doggie junk food. “ Kibble Quandary: A Fresh Look at Pet Food ” suggests healthier feeding options.
How a dog is fed can also have an impact. Putting food in puzzle toys facilitates a brain exercise that improves confidence. “Dogs who spend part of their day working out puzzles are really engaging that opportunistic scavenger part of their biology,” says Voiles.
Commonly, pet owners are turning to the hemp plant derivative CBD as a calming aid. For those considering nutraceuticals, herbs and supplements, a holistic veterinarian can make recommendations.
Accessories
Diffusing calming essential oils may relax some dogs, but a mild scent for humans could supersaturate a dog’s olfactory organ, preventing them from smelling what’s necessary. Learning how to use essential oils safely around pets is critical. But the pacifying scent of natural pheromones that mimic the comfort of nursing are hard to beat; pheromone-based products in sprays, diffusers, wipes and collars can be found in natural-health stores and pet stores. “It’s effective for dogs who need to feel safe or when adjusting to a new environment,” says Voiles.
ThunderShirts , special blankets and Dog TV are tried by many, but no one option works for every dog. “When people try things and don’t get improvement, they should seek a holistic veterinarian who can help figure out what is going on,” says Alinovi.
Julie Peterson writes about wellness and the environment. Reach out at [email protected].